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Why I Don’t Give My Toddler Coloring Books

Posted by Jean Van't Hul on November 10th, 2011 at 12:57 pm

Coloring Why I Dont Give My Toddler Coloring BooksI believe strongly in authentic art experiences for children, and despite some crazy crafting urges that overcome me this time of year (and that result in more adult-initiated, holiday-themed craft projects), I mostly enable my daughters to do plenty of process-oriented art.  I don’t want them to oh-so-carefully color in the lines of a drawing of Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs. I want them to draw and paint, collage and sculpt, to create just as they desire.

I don’t buy my toddler coloring books and here’s why:

  • Coloring books teach children to be passive about their art. Rather than drawing something themselves, they are coloring in adult-drawn images.
  • Coloring books teach toddlers to compare their art to an adult’s.
  • Coloring books set toddlers up for failure. Coloring inside the lines? How many toddlers can, or better question, should, do that?
  • Scribbling is linked to future literacy. The more toddlers scribble and draw, the easier it is for them to learn to write later. As toddlers scribble, they learn to make all the shapes necessary to write the alphabet. Coloring inside predetermined lines doesn’t allow this to happen.

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So what do I do instead? I celebrate the scribble. I provide blank paper and markers (or crayons, paints, pastels…) for my toddler to explore as she sees fit. And I’m careful about the way I talk about her art.

That’s not to say we don’t own any coloring books. My older daughter has been given a few over time and I don’t make a big deal out of it. She enjoys them for a few days then I put them away on a closet shelf (they are not missed, in case you are wondering) . Every once in a while—on a rainy day or when she is home sick from school—I get one out briefly for its novelty.

How about you? What do you think about coloring books? Do you use them wholeheartedly? Sometimes? Never?

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I love coloring books, but not activity books.

I don’t try to get her to color in the lines. She can color however she wants. But she loves to look at the pictures and she talks about what the pictures are doing. It’s another story to her, and on a page she’s allowed to color.

We do lots of coloring on blank pages too (or both sides of an old work document).

Christine commented on Nov 10 11 at 1:17 pm

Coloring inside the lines actually promotes literacy skills, too. Remember, strong fine motor skills and attention to detail makes for a strong writer, too. This is why it’s part of preschool and kindergarten curriculum.

Rael commented on Nov 10 11 at 2:34 pm

You can gain fine motor skills and attention to detail in other ways though. At my daughter’s school, they have a writing center where they can practice scribbling to strengthen pencil skills and attention to detail. But art at her school and in our home is about process. While I didn’t intentionally set out NOT to give my daughter coloring books, she doesn’t have any in our home. Grandparents have bought them for her, but she isn’t interested in them. She finds them rather boring and doesn’t understand what she is supposed to do with them. So they end up getting recycled.

Robin commented on Nov 10 11 at 3:50 pm

My one n half year old son loves to look at pictures in coloring books. Thou he is not fond of holding a pencil yet. Wats the correct age to offer color pencils to a child?

mariam adeel khan commented on Nov 10 11 at 3:53 pm

I have been trying to decide how to handle color books. My daughter receives them as gifts sometimes. I do not buy her coloring books, but I am not going to take a present away either. Then my very artistic friend said that she loved coloring books as a child, and she is still artistic. She said she even loved paint by numbers. Problem solved…I provide lots of materials for her to do art, and other people provide coloring books. She can have both and decide what she likes and how she would like to express herself.

Nicole commented on Nov 10 11 at 4:04 pm

We are always into open ended or process oriented art. It’s the art enthusiast and Montessori teacher in me :)

My girls get a new art journal monthly, its amazing to see the changes overtime. With it, they use artist quality pencils, colored pencils, crayons, oil pastels, chalk, glue, scraps, etc.

I agree with you 100%. We have coloring books, but they never get chosen.

Jessie commented on Nov 10 11 at 4:38 pm

i completely agree with you, jean! thank you for sharing this important message and your wonderful reasoning.

jen @ paintcutpaste.com commented on Nov 10 11 at 5:08 pm

We don’t buy them but occasionally use them when they are given to us. I tend not to like the ones that are especially commercial (which are exactly the ones my kids tend to love) but I don’t mind things as much that are more scientific looking (drawings of actual bugs, leaves, etc.) (PS. love the monthly journal mentioned above, going to implement that with the older ones!)

molly commented on Nov 10 11 at 5:23 pm

I think that you need a bit of both but ultimately it’s about the choice of the child. They all have a creative talent it’s just a case of finding what floats their boat. Just as scribbling allows their freedom of expression and learning through experimentation to occur the fine motor skills that are strengthened through ‘neat’ colouring are also important. I love this book http://www.amazon.co.uk/Scribble-Book-Herv%C3%A9-Tullet/dp/1854377744/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1320968927&sr=8-1 it brings it all together and all ages can enjoy.

Zing Zing Tree (@ZingZingTree) commented on Nov 10 11 at 6:52 pm

My little sister wouldn’t colour in as a child “why would I? I can already see what it is” was her response! I think that says it all
We have colouring books, but don’t colour in the lines (my youngest is nearly 3) we also have joining dots, and pattern making and all manner of things. It’s part of a repetoire of arty things in this house. I have a chart with a number of black and white line drawings of Christmas baubles on my fridge, and for every 1/2lb I lose, I colour one in!

iPeach commented on Nov 10 11 at 6:59 pm

I own NONE in my Day care or home, what I have is Plain white paper, construction paper, crayons, markers, color pencils, paint, paint w/ glue, glitter, and so on. I’m against coloring book under the age 6.

Karen commented on Nov 11 11 at 8:07 am

We have lots of colouring in books and lots of blank paper, crayons, colour pencils and felt tip pens. My daughter gets to choose what she wants to use and she loves it. She loves her colouring in books and without prompting her tries to stay inside the lines. This promotes fine motor skills. Even when she has a plain piece of paper she asks me to draw her pictures so she can colour them in…. So no I don’t think colouring in books restricts her creativity in any way. We also have a huge box full of arts and crafts stuff to paint and glue and she has free access to this as well. I never tell her how to use the materials in there she has a very good imagination and has made some amazing pieces of art.

Elsabie commented on Nov 11 11 at 8:23 am

Coloring books are not Art at all. I don’t think it should ever be called “Art” Unfortunately some parents/teachers use coloring sheets as Art. When we are practicing our letters we don’t call it creative writing….it is just skill. I believe they can be used to promote the “craft” of coloring something in. As an art teacher, some of my students could draw wonderfully, but then when asked to add color to their art it was done poorly. Toddlers definitely benefit more from drawing and scribbling.

Melissa commented on Nov 11 11 at 5:28 pm

My daughter loves to draw and color outside the lines even on coloring books…=) BTW, where can i get that marker set shown above? thank you!!

Jenny commented on Nov 11 11 at 10:58 pm

We have coloring books, tucked in an out-of-the-way pile near the bookshelf (not with the art supplies, now that I think of it–I’ve always thought of them more as books, I guess). My kids approached them much the same as a previous commenter’s–they’re like story books that can be scribbled in. Never, ever have the words “color in the lines” left my mouth!! They can do whatever they want with them. I’ve been asked to read coloring books out loud, too. As toddlers/preschoolers, my kids like/d to look at the pictures. I think the caution would be if coloring books were the *only* “creative outlet” provided.

Think back to your post on TV–some people feel all TV is bad, but you walk a path of moderation. But exposing your kids to nothing but TV would be unsettling. I think coloring books fall into the same category.

amy @ kids in the studio commented on Nov 12 11 at 7:59 am

Thanks for all the great comments, everyone! I love hearing everyone’s thoughts and approaches to coloring books.

@Jenny The marker set is is one I made from a cookie tin and plaster of paris. The instructions are in MaryAnn Kohl’s book First Art. We’ve used these since my older daughter was little and they are a great way to help little kids put the markers back in the caps and also provide a nice stand for the markers.

Jean Van't Hul commented on Nov 12 11 at 10:47 am

@Jenny btw, here’s a post I did about the marker holders: http://artfulparent.typepad.com/artfulparent/2010/10/marker-holder-love.html

Jean Van't Hul commented on Nov 12 11 at 10:47 am

Jean, I follow your blog, Artful Parent, loyally. Thanks for sharing this! Yes, I wholeheartedly agree. Have you read “Young at Art” by Susan Striker. That’s where I first read about the “anti-coloring book” philosophy. I loved every page in that book. I think every parent and teacher should read Striker’s book.

Carla Reed commented on Nov 12 11 at 10:07 pm

Anyone use anti-coloring books. I remember them as a kid and we learned about them in art for elem teachers in college. Tara gomi, author of everyone poops, has a couple and my 4 and 2 yr olds (and myself) enjoy them?

katie commented on Nov 13 11 at 8:29 am

My children use coloring books but I don’t make them color in the lines, instead I praise their use of colors and dark and light lines and the shapes they used. But I’d have to agree, my children enjoy a sketch book or sheet of blank paper to a coloring book any day.

Jennifer Begay commented on Nov 13 11 at 9:29 am

A book we have that from time to time we use is called something near The Anti-Coloring Book. It has open-ended pages that are half done but just enough to encourage a child’s creativity to come out. Just a thought…check it out.

Crystal commented on Nov 13 11 at 7:15 pm

I haven’t heard this theory since I was taking my Early Childhood Education 15 years ago… when we were told it wasn’t valid. ALOT of creative people had coloring books as children. Many kids enjoy them. I see no reason to withhold them from my kids.

Canuckmom commented on Nov 13 11 at 11:20 pm

Seriously people…NO coloring books??!! My daughter loves coloring books and I did as well when I was a child. This is a topic that is being over analyzed….

Nursemom commented on Nov 14 11 at 7:21 am

My 3 year old does both. She always has. She loves coloring in books AND creating her own art. I’m not going to keep either one from her. What I think is important is allowing them to do what the want. If they don’t like one or the other, that’s fine. She’s always known how to hold a pencil correctly (it came perfectly natural for her). She’s gotten to the point that she’s able to distinctly draw flowers, people, houses and just the other day, she obviously drew Spiderman for her friend’s birthday. She’s incredibility creative with her art, songs that she makes up, stories she tells and dances she creates. I’m couldn’t be prouder as an artist myself.

Heather commented on Nov 14 11 at 8:32 am

I love coloring books, as does my daughter. We love coloring together. She is five now and loves drawing her own pictures and writing letters. I think these books stir her imagination because they often have a story. We also talk real vs pretend because she can use whatever colors she wants. I think this article is over thinking art and kids a bit.

Mindy commented on Nov 14 11 at 9:11 am

I think you’re overthinking it. Relax, have fun, it all works out in the end. Getting stressed over COLOURING BOOKS??? Really?

Bella commented on Nov 14 11 at 9:27 am

My younger Brother and I bathed together untill he pooped in the tub with me in it…. That was the last straw lol

abby commented on Nov 14 11 at 9:29 am

My daughter LOVES coloring books. She will sometimes trace what the pictures are in the coloring book so she can re color what she did in the book. Which is interesting to watch because I have seen a MAJOR improvement in not only her art work, but her writing. Her letters look more mature and she is only 6 years old. My son on the other hand doesn’t color in coloring books, but HE LOVES to look at the ones that my daughter colored in because of the bright colors that she has used. With my son…he is currently being tested and evaluated for Autism, because he has all the signs of Autism. He doesn’t like the way crayons and markers feel in his hand so he doesn’t color with them, instead he colors with pencils or pens, but still I think coloring books are used as a learning tool for children…it sets goals for them and what can be their future if they choose to use coloring books, just like my daughter does. She is currently attending a Montessori school and when she comes home she looks forward to writing more and when she thinks that she messed up she pulls out her paper and starts to trace over what characters are in her coloring book…again…a learning tool. She is USING her coloring books as a tool to better her writing. She has the ability to better her skills just by using something as simple as a coloring book….and we have TONS in the house…we like to keep our options open for our children who are the most open-minded children I have ever met.

Michelle commented on Nov 14 11 at 10:13 am

I love this post, I actually wrote a post similar to this a few months ago on my personal blog when my son asked me why his preschool teacher tells him he has to color inside the lines: http://practicingparenting.blogspot.com/2011/09/inside-lines.html

Stephanie F. commented on Nov 14 11 at 10:22 am

OK… This is Dumbest thing I have ever Read.. Coloring is a part of childhood. I have about 20 or so coloring books and my 2 boys, 5 year old and 2 year old Love coloring.. My 5 year old colors everyday in school. They also have access to blank paper, construction paper, and other are supplies, they just don’t color in books they used everything including a white board.. Coloring in coloring books has always been one of my favorite pastimes since I was a kid.. There is 100% nothing wrong with coloring. Quit over thinking something so simple as a toddler coloring!!!

Amy McKay commented on Nov 14 11 at 12:09 pm

I buy my child coloring books and i will continue to do so. One of the most fun things we do together is art. Weather its painting, making puppets, greeting cards for family members or coloring in color books.
I’m having a hard time understand why a parent wouldn’t allow or want their child to have something as simple and fun as a color book.
If your child is creative, then you know they are creative and a coloring book isnt going to hinder that. At the most what it could do is help your young child practice holding a writing or coloring utensil and help them gain control and steadiness with it while they try to color inside the lines. It will also allow them to be creative in the colors they choose and to see how those colors work together in a finished composition.

Caitie commented on Nov 14 11 at 12:14 pm

You really seem to over analyze things. You make things too complicated when it comes too kids. Coloring books are just fine. My kids love coloring pictures of things they are familiar with like a dog or a bus. Kids can still be creative with a coloring book. They can color it any color they want, and scribble outside the lines. I think a coloring book gives the kids a pictures of something they can be proud of. my kids love showing me the dog they colored (scribbled). People need to relax more. Not everything out there for kids is bad. Especially a harmless coloring book. Your kids will still be just as creative coloring a dog picture then if they scribbled freehand. Scribbling a coloring book is really no different then scribbling a plank page.

Corey M commented on Nov 14 11 at 1:15 pm

Umm yeah, I’m going to agree with Nursemom and Heather. You people are waaaaaaaaaaay over-analyzing something so benign in childhood. I LOVED coloring books as a child, and I also had a blank pad of paper and drew on that as well. I STILL love to color, sheesh! I’m going to give coloring books to my child and let him/her color with Mommy!

Robin B. commented on Nov 14 11 at 2:26 pm

I am a child care center director and toddler teacher and LOVE open ended art opportunites and we say all the time “it’s the process, not the product.” However, my children have and love coloring books! I love the comments above where the children feel like they can color the story books. I also completely agree with the comment that attention to detail is important in further writing and drawing skills. However a pre K or older might be capable of coloring inside the lines but a toddler never will, even if you ask them to! They just aren’t capable. Children develop from the middle out and the top down. That means their arm movements (scribbling) develop long before their finger movements (fine motor/detailed writing). So basically if you are giving a child a picture to color, whatever. But if you are asking them/expecting them to color tidy it’s very unrealistic and inappropriate. Nothing wrong with having a picture to scribble on top of!

Jennifer commented on Nov 14 11 at 6:19 pm

I learned something new from this! I have seen children have meltdowns because they could not “make the book picture pretty.” A friend of mine has a child that will rip out pages from her coloring book if they aren’t perfect and throw them away.

Tara commented on Nov 14 11 at 8:07 pm

i give my 25 month old color books plain paper what ever is abole to be colored on and she does her own thing on the page, sometimes she colors some then other times she draws her own shapes on the page, she isnt told to stay in the lines! i like to let her brain run wild!!!!!!!!!

nichola commented on Nov 14 11 at 8:09 pm

If you DON’T allow something isn’t that a form of structure in and of itself. Personally, I’d like to give my child different forms of art, whether it be abstract, free form or the classic coloring book. By not having coloring books aren’t you just teaching one form of structure rather than allowing your child’s thought process and reasoning skills gravitate towards a talent and skill they may have as well as work on other types of skills: motor and literacy.

I don’t see the big deal with coloring books. I do see that if you don’t use them, why waste the paper. I’m also a big proponent of allowing my children to draw, color and cut up junk mail. Why waste paper? Another way to recycle.

Heather B commented on Nov 14 11 at 8:11 pm

Yawn.

Teresa commented on Nov 14 11 at 8:12 pm

Wow.. you parents have wayyy to much time on your hands if your analyzing toddlers and coloring books!! You mean to tell me you dont want your child to have Whinnie the Pooh Coloring Books? or the Princess’s? There is nothing wrong with children coloring in coloring books.. Good Lord, what next?

Lori commented on Nov 14 11 at 8:53 pm

I think she put too much thought into this. Coloring books only set a child “up for failure” if the parent tries to direct, over analyze and manipulate their child in a coloring project. My kids LOVE coloring books. Coloring books have neat things like color by number, dot to dot and mazes, which helps children follow direction and rules and helps kids with their hand eye coordination. My kids have activity books, coloring books and good ole construction paper. There is a time for everything, rule following and self expression. I think when it comes to something as fun as coloring, parents should not put limits on their child. If my children want a coloring book with Thomas the Train or Princesses on them, I say let them have it. There are much bigger parenting issues to worry about than allowing or not allowing their kids to color in a coloring book! Come on!

Denae commented on Nov 14 11 at 8:54 pm

I do both. My daughter loves to color, draw, paint. She has the option of both and chooses both. I never talk about coloring in the lines. She chooses the color and often adds stickers, etc. I think coloring books are good for offering some structure, when needed. It is necessary to color in the lines eventually in coloring books and in life.

Karen DeCorleto commented on Nov 14 11 at 9:00 pm

I can see where you are coming from, and I do agree that too many times kids are told/taught to ‘color in the lines’…and it used to drive me crazy, whenever I’d hear an adult suggesting that my child needed to learn to do so, before he did learn- in his own time, which I thought was telling and so good. We didn’t ‘push’ his coloring in the lines, just every once in a while early on showed him a few times how it was done. I never wanted/want him to feel that he HAD to do it, so after those first times, I stopped even doing that. But, I don’t agree with all that you use as your argument against kids having coloring books. My son, for instance, has had many coloring books, and learned to write EARLIER than the typical child, and very well, I might add. And, furthermore, he taught himself a good deal of that writing. He also is very, very artistic- he even went through a phase for more than a couple of years of drawing constantly on the side of our freezer (which, most people might not like, but we were ‘cool’ (no pun intended) about it, especially since it was done with washable crayons. He is now turning 6 years old, tomorrow, and one of his very favorite hobbies (although he does it so often, I hesitate to even call it a hobby!) is drawing/painting. He draws extremely well, by the way- better than I do. And, I absolutely loved coloring in coloring books as a child, myself, was and am quite creative/artistic in many ways- and love that my child enjoys his coloring books. He actually is sporadic about coloring in the books, and draws more than he does color, though, compared to what I did as a child. I STILL love coloring in coloring books, and know many adults that say that they do, too!

Christie F commented on Nov 14 11 at 9:08 pm

Oh my. I agree wholeheartedly with encouraging kids to be creative and not feel as though they have to conform to anothers style. But really!?!?! This is a bit much. Just like many other “play based learning articles” this article seems to subtly make one feel as though coloring books make children less intelligent. I wonder if those that have such judgements against any form of academic learning are really doing this in their child’s best interest or if they are doing for their own interests instead. I think balance is the key….
coloring books AND blank paper :-)

jdk's mom commented on Nov 14 11 at 9:15 pm

That’s crazy to say that they compare their drawings to ours only to set themselves up for failure! This is truly an opinionated statement. That would mean children compare every aspect of life to ours and consider themselves less capable when it is the exact opposite (until they reach the age of trying to find themselves and that’s way past coloring books.) They observe us and learn by imitation and what we teach them. In their minds, as long as you encourage them, theirs looks better than ours! Children develop fine motor skills and better writing skills earlier on when practicing to color inside the lines and even tracing. Of course we don’t put them down when they go outside the lines, we say “That’s awesome how you added extra hair” or whatever it may be. Children feel so proud even at the age of two when they see that they drew all over that big dinosaur in the coloring book. A large variety of abstract arts is great, and that is what we create here at home the majority of the time. But if you sit back and watch, they are trying to draw circles and different shapes anyways. If you want to say they are letting themselves down, imagine how hard it is for them to try and think of how to draw a circle and how frustrated they can get if they can’t remember. So help them out sometimes and coloring books are just fine for that as well. They do in fact help develop various cognitive and fine motor skills.. So go for the gold on those $.99 jumbo coloring books :)

natalie commented on Nov 14 11 at 9:15 pm

I let my kids make the choice themselves they are 3 and 1 and know where to find paper, markers, crayons, chalk pens and dry erase crayons and they know where the plain paper, chalk board dry erase board and yes the coloring books are! the only thing not easily within their reach is the paint and glue and any possible choking hazards. They decided what to color and when. Sometimes she (3 yr old) picks coloring books she makes up silly stories to go with the pictures and colors cinderella bright red. sometimes she colors in the lines mostly not. At the end of the day I want my kids to use creative expression as they want not as I want them too. and yes scribbles teach them to write so does coloring in the lines. you can have both!

donna commented on Nov 14 11 at 10:34 pm

wow that’s reading a whole lot into a coloring page. so does that mean ur child doesn’t like the movies that most coloring books are based on? my lil girl loves coloring pages but there are NO rules saying even older kids have to color inside the lines. that’s something for a child to decide. i’ve never once found a set of instructions for a coloring book. (outside of the special markers some come with.) and if you think about it, they’ll have them for homework in school at some point. will you allow ur kid to fail just because you think their schoolwork is creatively stunting?

Christine commented on Nov 15 11 at 12:13 am

I’m with Teresa. What a waste of time. I hate that anyone would keep the fun of a coloring book from their child.

Courtney commented on Nov 15 11 at 8:32 am

You must be an exhausting person to be around. Seriously, you need a hobby besides hovering over your children.

Jackie commented on Nov 15 11 at 1:31 pm

Hmmm, if a child’s inability to imitate what only an adult is capable of doing is a “failure” then my daughter is constantly failing, all day long! Better not encourage her to sing, dance, count, recite the alphabet, ride a bike, swim, because she will “fail” at all of those things the first time she tries them too ;-)

Laura commented on Nov 15 11 at 8:16 pm

Thank you so much for this post! I just figured out why my four year old wants nothing to do with coloring books. Now I am going to be trying to introduce process oriented art to him.

Vegetable Gardener, Cook, Homesteader, Miser, Homeschool mama commented on Nov 16 11 at 11:20 am

When I was an older kid (8-12ish?) I loved to fill in the sections of a coloring page with really intricate patterns – all in one color. So I’d fill in the top of a tree in green fine-point pen but it was all a mass of fine spirals or stripes or dots or crosshatching, etc.. I LOVED it and it led to a style of doodling that I still do. My daughter has never been into coloring books, but she’s 9 now and has been enjoying filling whole pages with repeated patterns and I’ve been thinking of looking for some really generic coloring books and showing her what I used to do with them.

Wendi Gratz commented on Nov 19 11 at 5:23 pm

I would give my toddler a coloring book if I wasn’t afraid he would color in all of the Garfield and Far Side books in the house. When he has the understanding to tell his coloring books from the rest of the collection, he can have them. My middle child despised coloring, drawing, anything at all to do with crayons and markers. If a coloring book with a favorite character helped inspire him to put marker to paper, it was a good thing.

Just as coloring books are not right for every kid, they’re not wrong for every kid, either.

Heather commented on Dec 20 11 at 8:14 am

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