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‘Scream Rooms?’ In School? Really?
You could argue my 3-year-old’s room becomes a scream room every night at around 6:30. That’s when she usually requires a time out if she’s still awake. She’s the worst part of herself after a certain time of day and if we don’t get her to bed, she needs to cool off.
However, just because we let her scream it out in her room (although sometimes she actually sits quietly and reads) during time outs doesn’t mean we’d be OK if her school put her in an actual room designated for kids to scream. That seems more like a mental institution than a learning institution.
And yet a school in Middletown, Conn., has designated a “scream room” where students are sent to calm down, according to HLN.
Farm Hill Elementary School has a small, windowless room where they send special needs kids for some solitary confinement. Some parents are understandably upset, arguing it’s “distracting,” “disturbing” and possibly “traumatizing.”
The school has received several complaints, and so now they’re saying the rooms will only be used for kids in Individualized Education Plans. And the room will now be one with padded walls and glass so they can be observed from the outside. As if that somehow makes it better?
Is it just me, or would you rather keep your kid home in the safety of his or her room to scream rather than send them to what seems like a mental institution in school? A school’s scream room kind of makes me want to scream.
What do you think of “scream rooms” in school?
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littlefrogs commented on Jan 16 12 at 4:29 pmAnd how precisely would you recommend that a school handle a child who screams for hours? It is not rare to have children who are either severely autistic or emotionally disabled or other serious impairments to lose complete control of themselves and to rage.. sometimes for hours. Schools do their best to make adjustments in the environment to help kids like this stay in control as much as possible but they still lose it.
In my son’s school, there was a young lady who would scream and rage in another classroom. She was very young (Kindergarten) and when she lost it, she would be removed from the classroom to rage in the hallways. She wasn’t allowed to move very far and she just screamed, beating at the walls. But she was still pretty small… if her behavior isn’t modified as she gets older, this will be far harder to maintain with a larger child.
I have taught in a school where a six year old repeatedly brought the ENTIRE school to a stop through her rages (these are so far beyond temper tantrums).
Would you like a child who loses it and screams for hours to be allowed to do so in your child’s classroom? Would you like them to be allowed to fling chairs and other items around the room when they rage? Would you like them to be allowed to throw themselves at walls, windows or furniture? To get a hold of sharp objects?
Schools can’t medicate a child acting like this. We can’t sedate them or give them a valium. We can’t use restraints. So what precisely would you have them do with a child who has lost control of themselves, who won’t regain it any time soon, who is disrupting the learning of everyone else and is potentially a danger to themselves?
Shandeigh commented on Jan 16 12 at 4:39 pmI don’t how I feel about it… I would hope it’s only used as a last resort… and I can see how in some cases it would be a good thing… but I can also see it being abused by lazy teachers.
littlefrogs commented on Jan 16 12 at 4:55 pmShandeigh,
I cannot imagine that a scream room would be in place in any school that did not have children with severe disabilities requiring placement in a self-contained classroom. Frankly, any child who rages like this would be unable to function in a mainstream classroom.
Sara commented on Jan 16 12 at 9:04 pmI’ve taught kids that have needed to be contained because they’re out of control. A specially designed room makes a lot more sense to me than using the nurses office or calling the parents and telling them to come get their child every day. As long as it’s used correctly (so the child can calm down) I don’t see the problem. It seems much better to me than a child needing to be physically restrained.
goddess commented on Jan 16 12 at 9:13 pmSome kids need a more specialized environment than the local elementary.
tms commented on Jan 18 12 at 7:16 pmIt’s called seclusionary time out, and there is a right way and a wrong way to do it. This is determined by the child’s team of teachers and therapists. The teachers using it must be trained, and there are rules about how it is done. Most importantly, if it has to be done over and over, it is NOT working! This is not a long-term solution! If it is not done correctly, this can (and has, in many, many cases in Connecticut and I’m sure everywhere else) severely traumatize special needs children, yes they may be loud, but they are still children who need to be cared for, not locked in a room until we can figure out what to do next. Children have died from improper seclusion.
The worst part is, most districts have these rooms, but no one paid any attention until this district started putting mainstream children in them. Special needs children don’t deserve the same concern, apparently. Oh well, at least people are starting to learn about what goes on in our schools behind closed doors.
Special Ed Teacher commented on Jan 25 12 at 10:53 pmAs a special Education teacher, and one who also dealt with children on behavior improvement plans, these rooms are actually the BEST thing that could happen in an out of control situation. What are we to do when we are about to be attacked by a child who is stronger than we are. What are we to do after we clear the classroom of the other students for their safety while the one who is out of control is throwing chairs, desks, scissors, and anything else they can grab? Just stand there, and let them possibly hurt themselves and us too? Oh wait… we have been hurt… over and over. BUT, we chose this profession. Because we DO love these kids and want to help them. Helping them does not mean letting them abuse us. These rooms provide the child a safe, quiet space, in which to calm down… they are not being stared at, they aren’t being exposed to noises that may make things worse, they aren’t in a dangerous situation, and if they wish to hit and kick the walls… well, they have pads on them, they won’t get hurt… kick and hit those walls, and get all of that anger out. As long as the child is being observed through the window, and is NOT left in there for a long period of time, and as long as the person putting the child in, allows the child to walk out on his or her own after they have calmed down, these rooms are not a horrible thing.
carrieg commented on Jan 25 12 at 10:56 pmThank you, Littlefrogs. I couldn’t have said it better. In the olden days, kids who acted like this and needed seclusionary time outs woudn’t be in regular classroom settings in the first place. Sadly, many of them were removed from their homes and put in mental institutions or attended schools targeted for their specific, special needs. Today’s schools are more integrated, and are now dealing with all types of behaviors they’ve never seen before. When used appropriately, this type of setting can be the best option for students with special needs.
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