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’80s Movies That I Loved Then But Now? They’re Awful.
Recently, I was hanging out with my hubs watching TV after our kids went to bed. A movie was coming on cable that I hadn’t seen since I was teenager. We got all excited and sat down to watch with eager anticipation.
That lasted about fifteen minutes.
This was not the movie I remembered. Oh no. This was something else. It was sort of… horrifying. I had watched this movie a hundred times as a young person. So had all my friends. This movie helped form our wormy, little adolescent brains. No wonder we’re all bunch of grown-up idiots now. This movie was awful! Had it always been awful or was it just seeing it now, through the lens of being a mom and an adult.
This wasn’t the first time this had happened. In fact, it’s happening more and more. Here are some examples of movies, even ones that I still really like, that seem totally different now that I’m an adult.
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26 Comments
yahoudi commented on Nov 22 11 at 8:06 amMoral of the story: And so they shall all survive the Twilight saga intact.
autoclave commented on Nov 22 11 at 10:17 amWow, I am a child of the eighties and haven’t watched a single one of these. Now I’m glad I didn’t!
SusanP commented on Nov 22 11 at 10:59 amLOL! I loved and watched most of these too…. and I had what I thought were pretty strict parents! I did have a lot of older siblings so a lot filtered down through them. When I watch them now I cannot fathom letting my kids watch them. I think one of the main differences between then and now is that 1) my parents didn’t watch them with us and 2) I would never ask my parents questions about what things meant, or what was happening, etc. My kids though … I guess since I encourage curiosity and questions for all topics, they’d be all over me about them.
Some more to add ..
Airplane (I remember my brother and I rewinding the part where the S$IT hits the fan over, and over, and over… and laughing hysterically).
Revenge of the Nerds
Caddyshack – oh my …. how did this one slip past my parents!
Ferris Bueller’s Day Off (This one I still love since I grew up in Chicago. I did take my kids to the Art Institute this summer when we were in town visiting and had them pose in front of the Seurat)
Kate commented on Nov 22 11 at 12:50 pmIt is ok to grow up.
AmyRenee commented on Nov 22 11 at 2:50 pmI didn’t see Grease until I was an adult, and I was not impressed. At the end of the day, the message seems like “be a slut and everyone will like you” – not a message I think is good for young girls.
Another movie that seemed good at the time but horrible now – (not an 80s movie but 90s) – Reality Bites. At the time, it seemed so “deep” to pick Ethan Hawke over the other guy with a job. But now they look like such pathetic whiners to me. And seriously, you dumped the guy with a good job for the bum that sleeps on your couch and has no ambitions in life? Wow, definitely a movie that didn’t age well.
tripletmom commented on Nov 22 11 at 5:34 pmOMG I loved all these movies… Particularly Top Gun and Dirty Dancing, when Top Gun came out all the kisses I had ever watched, either on TV or the movies, were closed mouthed, and then I saw Top Gun and it was like wow so THIS is what happens.
Amy commented on Nov 22 11 at 8:47 pmThis list is ridiculous. Fast Times, Pretty in Pink, The Breakfast Club and Sixteen Candles? These movies are still classics and always will be. Fast Times was NOT meant to be a comedy. Duh. You either have lost all sight of what it was like to be a teenager or you’re just a grumpy old person. Either way, I feel sorry for you. I am almost 40 and I still happily watch any of the four I listed. I love how people are interpreting these movies into having these deep messages. They are what they are. I didn’t become a slut by watching Grease. Give me a break.
Lauren commented on Nov 22 11 at 8:51 pmnailed it on the head (as usual). But I still love them!
JD @ Momagement commented on Nov 22 11 at 8:59 pmThis is awesome. I wrote a paper in college that was in part about Heathers. No, seriously. I did. It was critical, but still, I loved that movie. OY.
Can’t Buy Me Love is still fabulous, I have to say. That is when my crush on Patrick Dempsey began. *Sigh*
Monica commented on Nov 22 11 at 9:05 pmIm surprised you didn’t mention in Dirty Dancing the botched abortion that Penny got that almost cost her her life! Definitely not child appropriate.
StacyH commented on Nov 22 11 at 9:05 pmStill love Flash Dance, Can’t Buy Me Love and 16 Candles. The rest … eh I used to love the Breakfast Club and Pretty in Pink (when I was a whiney teenager and for the record that dress she wore sucked in the 80s too) but other than that I didn’t like them that much.
One you’re missing that was an early 90s was Before Sunrise – another Ethan Hawke and it’s just these two people walking around Paris, before sunrise. I used to feel like it was this profound brainy movie about how two people connect and I tried to watch it again recently and I was. so. bored. Think of the hours I wasted as a kid watching that!
Jenn Letak commented on Nov 22 11 at 9:23 pmI tried to share this with my daughter (6) too, somehow I was thinking of all the singing and dancing. I turned it on at the end “You’re the one that I want”.. and then had to explain why everyone was smoking, then quickly turned it off… I would like to add that she does love Xanadu, which is even more awful then it was back then!
Lora commented on Nov 22 11 at 9:38 pmOMG. Amen. You summed it up perfectly!! :D
…except Footloose. I know it’s quite dated and hokey, but I still get that “feel good” feeling after I watch it. ;)
Hollie commented on Nov 22 11 at 10:09 pmLoved all of these movies! I have no idea what my parents were thinking letting me watch them (and watch them and watch them) though! I’m 29 so I wasn’t very old when I first saw them and they are part of my childhood. I also made the same mistake with a couple of these and let my daughter watch them with me(for about 20 minutes)! LOL! Never again!
Kbm commented on Nov 22 11 at 10:27 pmI’m amazed these movies are all being mocked. Look at all the crap on regular tv kids and teens watch now.
jenny tries too hard commented on Nov 22 11 at 10:37 pmBut, Kate, when you grow up, your heart dies.
April commented on Nov 22 11 at 11:26 pmI had a reality check the first time I watched “Revenge of the Nerds” as a bonafide adult. I was in SHOCK–I saw that movie when I was 10! Lord, oh Lord. But I also laughed my ass off. :)
Rikkashaye commented on Nov 23 11 at 12:41 amWow, almost every one of these was on my constant rotation list when my folks were away. I always thought Ducky was the dreamboat and I associated more with Ally Sheedy’s character in “The Breakfast Club” than any other. I also secretly wished my schools were as cool as the ones in the movies. I’m sooooo happy though that my girls will miss “Twilight” and fully intend to indoctrinate them into “Labyrinth”, “The Dark Crystal” and “The Neverending Story” that also shaped my tweenhood.
Heather commented on Nov 23 11 at 2:22 am“The Chronicles of Narnia”. “The Secret of NiMh”, and “Watership Down” were not really written as children’s books, but young adult books. I remember reading all three of these in Junior High School.
“The Wizard of Oz” and “The Return to Oz” (plus all of the other Oz books, and there are several!) were not children’s or young adult books at all. “The Wizard of Oz” in particular was a political satire/period piece. The ‘flying monkeys’, for example, represent the Pinkerton Detective Agency. Some colleges and universities teach a whole class on the symbolism incorporated in the story.
On the subject of period pieces that were an accurate representation of the time-frame in which they were written, “The Adventures of Mark Twain” and “The Song of the South” are exactly that. Historically accurate but not politically correct in today’s environment. The same could be said about “Little House on the Prairie” and the rest of the books by Laura Ingalls Wilder, which have been banned in some schools because of how non-PC they are. “The Song of the South” is so non-PC that you can’t even buy it here, you have to get it from overseas.
I guess the point of my mini-rant here is: you’re looking at these movies/stories with an adult’s experience perspective. With “Grease”, back then, you were probably thinking that it was cool that she could wear heels and get the hot guy. Now you look at it and think: “OMG! How could she be smoking and acting like a slut?!?!?” It’s still the same movie, you’ve just changed your point of view.
Helen Spencer commented on Nov 23 11 at 6:49 amI remember queuing around the block to see Grease when I was 12 years old. It was SOOOO rude, but it went completely over my head. I LOVED it and I still do. I think the hormones added to the excitement back then.
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laci duke commented on Nov 23 11 at 7:09 amLOL these are too funny. I was born in 1980 so most of these movies I haven’t seen but the few that I have, I still love them!! Grease, Can’t Buy Me Love, & Dirty Dancing were some of my favorites. The movie I’d ad to the list is Adventures in Babysitting!
Stacey commented on Nov 23 11 at 8:06 amLighten up! They are still hilarious movies. Maybe you shouldn’t be showing them to your children until they are old enough to understand their humor. Take them for what they are/were. We’ve become a society where we’re afraid to offend anyone. When did we lose our sense of humor?!
JOANN commented on Nov 23 11 at 9:43 amI still love Pretty in Pink, Can’t Buy Me Love, Sixteen Candles, and I also just bought Dirty Dancing on blue ray :)
Martha commented on Nov 23 11 at 10:04 amYou left out “St. Elmo’s Fire…” I was so pissed when I got to college and that is NOT what life was like…
Kara commented on Nov 23 11 at 11:53 amOh, I still love these movies!!! I’ve watched all of these movies a zillion times. I think it’s fun watching them as an adult because I understand and/or see things that I didn’t as a teen and I’ll say”Oh, now I get it!”. But I have to agree with you about Dirty Dancing and drag queens! LOL
BMommy commented on Nov 25 11 at 2:16 pmI till love these movies, you are over analizing them. Movies are just entertainment.
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