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Michelle Duggar Pregnant with 20th Baby, and I Say Congrats!
The Duggar family announced on the Today Show this morning that Michelle is pregnant with baby number 20.
The big announcement comes just in time for the season finale of 19 Kids and Counting tonight on TLC, and the whole family appeared on the Today Show stage — including little Mackenzie and Michael, the Duggar’s two grandchildren. The sight of all of them together honestly warmed my heart. I think Michelle looks amazing. I have no idea the toll that having twenty children can have on a woman’s body, but she looks fantastic for age 45. Maybe it’s a fountain of youth?
Personally, I cringe when people comment about family size. Someone will always have an opinion that your one kid is not enough and my four kids are too many. Really, whose business is it anyway? I say congrats to the Duggars! Of course, they chose to put themselves under public scrutiny when they agreed to the reality television series about their family, but I don’t really get the haters. The Duggars appear to be a loving, stable, and responsible family.
While I probably won’t make good on my own saying of “what’s one more?” in our family of six, Michelle states in the Today Show video that their family motto is “there’s always room for one more.” I can understand what she is saying. And when asked if this is it (another question I find offensive), Michelle Duggar explains, “Well, I guess we’ll wait and see.”
All the Duggar children are known for having names that begin with the letter ‘J’: Joshua, Jana, John-David, Jill, Jessa, Jinger, Joseph, Josiah, Joy-Anna, Jedidiah, Jeremiah, Jason, James, Justin, Jackson, Johannah, Jennifer, Jordyn-Grace, and Josie.
Wonder what name they’ll come up with for this one? Any suggestions?
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Janelle commented on Nov 08 11 at 10:36 amI’m happy for them! I love their family and honestly don’t understand why so many people seem to hate the family.
I say Jacob or Janelle. (wink wink)
Janelle
Judi Dearmond commented on Nov 08 11 at 10:42 amIf it’s a boy, I think Jeffrey would be nice….A girl, Julie or Julianna!!
Desiree Fawn commented on Nov 08 11 at 10:42 amThey are always so happy :) I kinda love them
Not sure I could manage 20 myself, but all the power to them!
aisha commented on Nov 08 11 at 10:43 amI dont have a problem with all the kids they have. I love babies and want a couple kids. My problem is that i feel they dont wait long enough to focus on one baby before another pops out. Watching the show i see all the older kids watching the little alot. I dont think its fair for them. Josie was born with medical problems and needs the attention but now theres gonna be another child.. its sad to me.
Mary commented on Nov 08 11 at 10:44 amOk I like the family and think that they are awesome people, BUT after what happened to Michelle’s body with Josie I don’t think that it would be wise to potentially put another child at risk like that. Just my opinion.
Maria commented on Nov 08 11 at 10:44 amI thoroughly believe in freedom of choice. If they’re happy, no one else has the right to judge!
It’s hilarious that all their names begin with J!
Rhonda commented on Nov 08 11 at 10:51 amI love the Duggars and would love to some day meet them. It’s their choice and look forward to watching them and seeing if it’s a boy or girl. Michelle has a beautiful spirit and never complains. You can see and feel the love they all have for one another. I vote for “Jude” or “Jade”….
Norine commented on Nov 08 11 at 10:51 amI am absolutely elated for them! They are proof that a stable relationship can be managed no matter the situation! It really is nobody’s business how many children God sends them. They support them all, and ask no one for handouts! As a matter of fact, they help others! I have 9 children myself, and would love to have had more, but medical conditions made that irresponsible of us to try for more. I love each of my children, and the Duggars are my inspiration! Someday I hope to be able to meet them and get some real advice from them face to face. I believe everyone has something they can teach someone else. They are wonderful people, raising wonderful, caring, helpful children.
Charlene commented on Nov 08 11 at 10:58 amI love the Duggars. They are a beautiful loving family and I think they are not really asking for anyones approval. That said, why is her age never a factor in criticism? Her kids are beautifully taken care of so I would think the criticism of having “too many kids” would be a wash out. I am concerned because she is 45.
Aja commented on Nov 08 11 at 11:05 amI love that family the define what family means if she wants six more thats their buisiness and the name julissa is pretty Or jacori for a boy
carolmccomber commented on Nov 08 11 at 11:05 amchildren are a gift from God and if he chose to give them another gift who are we to say anything about it. I just pray everything goes well with her health and the baby’s.
Kelly commented on Nov 08 11 at 11:06 amI really can’t believe this. ummm… what if everyone had 20 kids? There is no way they can give enough attention to each child.
Cora Seery commented on Nov 08 11 at 11:11 amI love to watch their show and the lives all onfold it is very inspiring too see how they handle their children. I have had a daycare in my home for over 30 years,and I love children, it has been my life to care for them. God Bless you on your new up coming baby I was hoping you was not going to stop at 19.I have 6 grandchildren of my own one is a brand new baby girl, my oldest daughter and son-in law used all T names for their children.
Cora Seery
Lic. Home Group Childcare Provider
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Rocky coulter commented on Nov 08 11 at 11:12 amWhoa! Keep it in ur pants, or cut it off.
Marieke commented on Nov 08 11 at 11:14 amI always feel conflicted about this. Is it necessary to have 20 children when there are more than 500,000 in foster care? Why not give a home to a child that is already here?
caitlynramsey commented on Nov 08 11 at 11:15 amI love that they want their family to grow but after their last daughter having so many health issues, I don’t think its fair to the new baby because its highly likely this child will have health problems as well which just isn’t fair.. and the health problems are because of how many children they’ve had (at least from the information ive gathered)
Jessica commented on Nov 08 11 at 11:15 amI definitely love the Duggars and I am very happy for them. The only thing that concerns me is that Michelle has had so many complications with her last pregnancy, resulting in a preemie with health issues. I just worry that she will have medical issues this time around, as well. I hope everyone is healthy. God Bless!
Taz commented on Nov 08 11 at 11:23 amif “there’s always room for one more” at your house you should try fostering children that are difficult to place. i totally have opinions about super-size families. i think it’s a little insane. i know i can’t stop anyone from exceeding 2 kids, but if i could i would. you know, cause of population and the toll that all of these extra people take on the earth.
jolene commented on Nov 08 11 at 11:33 amJolene is a beautiful J name for a girl and for a boy Jeffrey
Tonya commented on Nov 08 11 at 11:34 amLOVE the Duggars…..they have such sweet children and teach them such good morals. Would LOVE to see a little Jacob or Jaura…..wish them well and a smooth pregnancy and delivery and YES Michelle YOU LOOK AWESOME for having delivered 19 children. GOD BLESS
jolene commented on Nov 08 11 at 11:35 amTaz I agree many children need homes maybe try that and get a hysterectomy
Tiffany Eckel commented on Nov 08 11 at 11:42 amCongers to the Michelle on your 20th baby.I love wacthing the Duggars.It is no nobadys deal on how many babys she and husband have.Good for her husband.I wish Michelle ,husband luck.God bless them
Carol Olmstead commented on Nov 08 11 at 12:02 pmEveryone has the right to their own parenting styles and to the number of children they want to have. I am just not certain that it is medically wise to have a twentieth child when Michelle had so many complications with her last pregnancy. The poor little baby was born prematurely with a lot of problems too. I wouldn’t want to go through that again if I were them. I have experience with that and after one time with it I was certain that it was the last time even though it was just my second baby. We can all pray it does not happen for them again. She is a 45 year old woman who is in great health but after all she has 19 kids, why push it? Good luck to them and God bless.
goddess commented on Nov 08 11 at 12:27 pmPerhaps they do not want to foster or adopt. As long as they can afford them without government assistance, I’m cool. Besides- her body, her choice.
DExtraordinaire commented on Nov 08 11 at 12:55 pmI personally love them and the values that they share with their children and the world. While I am shocked that they are having number 20, God has always provided for them and I am excited to hear if it’s a boy or girl and what the new J name is going to be.
Jayme commented on Nov 08 11 at 12:56 pmMy uterus hurts just saying 20 kids. I love their show, they seem to have a very lovely family, I hope for the sake of the 19 kids they already have that this pregnancy goes better than the last one. Seems like a big risk when you already have so many blessings.
Martha commented on Nov 08 11 at 12:57 pmFirst off I have to say, I believe every child is a blessing and gift from God. However, with all the complications of last time, aren’t they afraid of Michelle not making it or the baby having even more trouble? Medically her uterus must be tired…lol! I just can’t see where having 19 children to raise, she isn’t more concerned about being there for those already here. Of course, maybe she is, and I do wish them all the best. I just know I couldn’t take that chance with the 2 children I have not having a mother in order to birth a “possible” third (taking precautions to stop pregnancy and stay safe and healthy, not in any way terminating the pregnancy that occurs). Now that she is indeed expecting the 20th, I hope it all goes well. I just think it is more important to have a mother than another sibling.
Amy commented on Nov 08 11 at 1:13 pmJude. June.
Suzie commented on Nov 08 11 at 1:19 pmThey don’t raise these kids, their older daughters do. Do THEY have a choice? And when your kids need to schedule face time with you, that’s a problem.
Jackie commented on Nov 08 11 at 1:19 pmI’m happy for them because all babies are a joy but I am concerned about Michelle’s health and the health of that baby. 45 is getting up there in terms of childbirth and I hope her body can handle another pregnancy. I think they only believe in God’s will so while they make the choice to take the action, they don’t believe in preventing it in anyway…not even natural family planning. I’m not sure I understand that logic. If God didn’t want you to make choices for yourself then why is it OK for them to choose to continue to have sex?
Bunnytwenty commented on Nov 08 11 at 1:20 pmAt what point does having more babies become like hoarding cats?
Elaine commented on Nov 08 11 at 1:22 pmI’m not here to judge but personally just cannot even IMAGINE having that many kids, OHMYGAH. I mean OBVIOUSLY she has help from the other older children, but still.
Anyway, Jonah or Jaclyn are my name suggestions. :-)
April commented on Nov 08 11 at 1:27 pmI don’t say Congrats. I say they can have as many kids as they want as long as they can pay for them and care for them and everyone is healthy. BUT with the last baby that was born premature and weak, the doctor’s advised her to not have more kids. Once you have one premature baby they worry that you will have more. So they really should have stopped after the premature baby. They don’t need more. They were blessed to have so many healthy children and now they need to stop. What if the next baby turns out to be a super preemie with all kinds of disabilities? What if Michelle dies in childbirth? Women in the old days died young because of the constant childbirth. It takes a toll on your body. I just think they are being reckless at this point.
Liz Gossom commented on Nov 08 11 at 1:28 pmI don’t have a large family, per se, but we feel the sense of community they learn is more valuable than constant one on one attention from the parents. After all, community will serve them a lifetime, and parents are not going to last forever. I don’t think I want 20 kids, but I don’t judge them for their family.
J names – I didn’t see a Jesse up there – a friend of mine has a Janica, which I think is beautiful.
April commented on Nov 08 11 at 1:32 pmI wanted to add that I have twins that we had to get through infertility measures. The pregnancy almost killed me and them. It was risky because really my body was not meant for baby carrying. I had to take blood thinner injections daily and there was a big risk of me bleeding out if something happened to me because of that. High risk of miscarriage. But I wanted to be a mother, so I did it. I risked it and they were born premature but healthy. The doctors advised me that if I want more children it will be more of the same like last time. So NO WAY would I have more kids. It is not worth making my children motherless if I died in another pregnancy. It is not worth having another baby that might die so my children will know their sibling is dead. I love kids and I am happy with what we have. But even if I wanted another kid more than anything, I would not have one. Sometimes you have to think about what is right compared to what you want.
Rusty commented on Nov 08 11 at 2:07 pmBunnytwenty – love the cat hoarding comparison, lol.
It would be nice if the Duggars would stop reproducing. No matter how much recycling, reusing, etc that they do, they are still using up more than their fair share of the planet’s resources. I would like for there to be something left for my ONE child.
rhonda commented on Nov 08 11 at 2:39 pmI personally feel as though it’s their choice so long as they aren’t on public assistance. I feel like if you have multiple children you need to be able to provide them all the same opportunity. For me I couldn’t imagine giving twenty children enough of my time and attention or pay for college! I do feel as though the Duggar’s are taking it overboard especially given what happened with the last baby. At what point do you say the risk is not worth it?
DRo commented on Nov 08 11 at 2:55 pmYes, it is their right to have as many kids as they want. And it is my right to judge them as much as I want.
It just doesn’t make any sense and it seems frivolous to me. They are choosing to spend their time, energy, and resources on raising more bible thumpers, because they think it’s God’s will. I would prefer they spend their time and resources on helping others in need.
Kari commented on Nov 08 11 at 3:12 pmI am so glad I am not one of their kids. Think back to your kindergarten class with its 20-25 kids. Do you think every child was connected to the teacher? There is no way each of those kids gets the parental attention and bonding they need. Plus bearing 20 kids is just gross. Its a vag not a clown car.
linda commented on Nov 08 11 at 3:41 pmshe sure knows how to kindly answer offensive questions doesn’t she?
Manjari commented on Nov 08 11 at 3:50 pmI agree that it’s their choice, but I also think it’s insane. And I find the whole fundamentalist reasoning for it creepy. Completely agree with bunnytwenty in that it’s like hoarding cats.
puasamanda commented on Nov 08 11 at 4:29 pmI’ve enjoyed watching the Duggars over the years, and I say congratulations to them. Michelle’s body, Michelle’s choice. I do have some concerns because the last little one was premature – but ultimately, it is up to them. I’m sure they have the same concerns. Also, I just want to point out that their beliefs do not compel them to have 20 kids – their beliefs compel them to avoid all forms of birth control. It is a subtle difference, I suppose, but a difference nonetheless. I don’t share those beliefs, but I do respect their right to have them. I would tend to think that having 19 children would be its own birth control – but clearly, they don’t have a problem finding time to be intimate – lol :)
Rusty commented on Nov 08 11 at 4:30 pmIf each Duggar child has 20 kids of their own, the Duggars will have 400 grandchildren. If each grandchild has 20 kids, that will make 8,000 great grandchildren. Like some sort of virus, Duggars will spread slowly across the land, using up the planet’s resources, leaving nothing for the rest of us.
Char commented on Nov 08 11 at 5:04 pmI have no problem with the number of children they have. They are raised within the family and do not depend on government assistance. What bothers me is that the 19th was a micro preemie due to severe pre-eclampsia. I don’t think I could take the risk after such an ordeal. That was her body was of saying it was done. I do wish them luck and a healthy baby!
Linda, t.o.o. commented on Nov 08 11 at 5:34 pmI don’t like the educational neglect of the female children. They are being raised to be fundamentalist wives and baby makers and nothing more.
Jen commented on Nov 08 11 at 5:47 pmEvery time I hear about the Duggars, my brain involuntarily conjures up this image from my vet’s office:
http://www.spayusa.org/media/pdfs/Cats_Multiply_Pyramid.pdf
I can’t help it!
Heather commented on Nov 08 11 at 6:29 pmWow, shocked at how rude some people on here are. And yet if she had chosen 20 abortions would you all be cheering for her responsibility in not using the planet’s resources and preserving her body? I say that this is her and her husband’s decision, no one else!
And they are raising responsible kids with no assistance from all of us, so more power to them. Many, many, many others cannot say the same.
They aren’t a kindergarten class of craziness, they are a family. They are parents that have a lot of love and devotion to their family. And I pray she has a safe pregnancy and delivery and a happy, healthy baby just as I do for all expecting mothers.
Jackie commented on Nov 08 11 at 6:43 pmWhile I think the Duggar family is great and Michelle seems like an amazing mother, I’m horrified that she would get pregnant again after what happened with Josie. The complications with having a premature baby was clearly traumatic for the entire family. Having another child at 45 is clearly risky business and there’s a very good chance they have another a premature, sick baby. I can’t believe they would put themselves in that situation. But its their choice. I think a very irresponsible choice.
christy commented on Nov 08 11 at 7:19 pmShe gives hope to all older women everywhere who are hoping to expand their families. Thanks for all the encouragement Michele!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Krista Page commented on Nov 08 11 at 7:34 pmI’m happy for them, they are hard working and have no finacial issues so why not be fruitful. I can’t imagine having that many kids however, if god is blessing them with a very large family then good for them. I want her secret i’m ready to get pregnant with baby number 2 but can’t seem to make it happen yet.
Valerie commented on Nov 08 11 at 7:51 pmMay God bless the Duggar family. I agree with Heather she says it all except I would like to add that I pray for Michelle and her baby.May God keep them safe and healthy during her pregnancy and even later in life.
yahoudi commented on Nov 08 11 at 8:58 pmI’d rather see the Duggars have 20 than another welfare recipient have another they can’t afford and the state must support.
yahoudi commented on Nov 08 11 at 8:59 pmRusty- maybe they use the resources more wisely than you.
DRo commented on Nov 08 11 at 9:49 pmIf the Duggars were atheists (or they kept their beliefs hidden) would they have this much support? No. People love them because of their “Christian values” and their apparent spreading of their Christianity through multiplication. Not because of their parenting style.
Joyce Rose commented on Nov 08 11 at 11:24 pmMore power to her, but who has to watch over all those little ones? It seems unfair to make sisters into “little mommies” to babysit cause it is evident she sure can’t handle the job herself alone.
Kelli commented on Nov 08 11 at 11:42 pmI really don’t have an opinion on how many kids they have, as I completely believe that is their decision only. I just wanted to add something for all those concerned because the last baby was a preemie. Just because she had one preemie (out of 19!) does not mean she will have another. I had very premature twins and was told I would be “high-risk” for any future pregnancies and would most likely deliver early. However, I had two more babies, two more pregnancies, and neither was early or high risk. Right on time, healthy, perfect babies. Doctors don’t know everything. And I’d think 18 healthy, normal pregnancies slightly outweighs one difficult, premature delivery.
goddess commented on Nov 09 11 at 7:23 amDro- I have NO Christian sympathies. But I believe it’s her choice and have no objection to them having as many as they can AFFORD to raise.
BTW- about the preemie thing- are all of you people prepared to insert yourselves into the decision of each and every woman who has had a preemie and rag on her for taking the risk?
Suzie commented on Nov 09 11 at 8:20 amI think the level of parenting goes down for each kid someone has, probably after 2 or 3. Sorry, if you have this many kids you’re just not really parenting them. It’s not humanly possible. It’s disgusting to me.
Rusty commented on Nov 09 11 at 8:34 amyahoudi – unless they are breathing less air or drinking less water than my one child, then no.
Victoria commented on Nov 09 11 at 8:48 amActually, having as many children as possible is part of the Duggar family’s Christian beliefs. They are the poster children for the “Quiverfull” movement, which draws its name from a passage in the bible about filling your quiver full of God’s arrows. The goals is to have as many children as possible. Do a google search and you can find out more about this. I, personally, think that the Duggars need to begin experiencing the reality of life when multiple children have birth defects. That is, and let’s be honest, what they are courting here. If they evade this fate, through good luck or God, then that sends a message to a lot of people about fertility and childrearing. My own belief is that children take time and that having more and more children seldom makes you a better parent — although it can make you a better manager. These parents are good managers. They parent primarily by proxy, because they have their older children swoop in to accomplish the details. Want a child dressed? Have his older buddy do it.
Rusty commented on Nov 09 11 at 9:13 amI’d like to apologize for my last comment. Thinking about the Duggars gets me all riled up and I was being a smarta**. The simple point I am trying to make is this – The Duggars are being irresponsible and selfish by continuing to have more children at a time when overpopulation is a serious problem for this planet. That’s it.
Cathy commented on Nov 09 11 at 9:59 amI think that it is their issue if they want as many children as possible. As for the “Christian” topic…. does it matter what or if you follow a religion or just live your live a a good person is that not what matters in life!!!
Would the nasty people say these things to their faces?
Debra Barnaby commented on Nov 09 11 at 10:54 amCongrats to them..It’s there life to do what they want. Seems to me they are doing a good job raising respectful offspring. Jacob for a boy; Janine for a girl.
kelly commented on Nov 09 11 at 12:52 pmI say congrats to them too. It’s nice to read something where the poor family isn’t criticized for having another baby. I think they’re doing a way better job raising their kids than a lot of other people. :)
Sanriobaby =^.^= commented on Nov 09 11 at 12:59 pmIf they want to have 50 kids, that’s on them. They are able to finacially support thier kids w/o gov’t assistance and thier children seem nice, well behaved, kind, and happy. But I am concerened for this new baby, simply b/c Josie was born so early and with so many medical problems, that it does seem crazy for Michelle to put herself at risk again for a dangerous pregnancy. Hopefully, Michelle will have a uneventful and boring pregnancy and give birth to a happy and healthy baby.
the original Sarah commented on Nov 09 11 at 2:15 pmI support their decision in that it is a part of their religious beliefs. It seems that there are a lot of people who are unaware that this is why they choose to have so many kids. However, I don’t think the public at large is as pro-Duggar as this article’s commenters would have you believe. It looks to me as though there are a lot of non-Strollerderby readers who came here just to chime in their support for the Duggars.
Gina commented on Nov 09 11 at 3:26 pmI think about the population & resources problems that this planet is having & how irresponsible it is when you think globally. I understand that people have instinctual urges to reproduce because we are all warm-blooded mammals. But when you think about the exponential growth of population, these people are big contributors to that phenomenon. Besides looking at the bigger picture, I think having 20 kids is a tragedy because their children must suffer from attachment & neglect (on some scale emotionally) issues. It’s only to be expected. How would your current children feel if you keep having children to this extreme? I think they would feel that they aren’t enough.
DRo commented on Nov 09 11 at 9:40 pmNo it doesn’t matter what or if you have religion. My point is: I think their popularity would be significantly lower if they weren’t in-your-face Christians. I think many of the people who rush to defend them wouldn’t do that if the family were raising 20 atheists. All else (parenting styles) being equal. I think people’s opinions are being colored by the fact that they are conservative Christians.
Rebecca Hardin commented on Nov 10 11 at 2:22 pmIt IS someone else’s business how many children people choose to have, even if we can’t legislate behavior we should be trying to influence it—for having fewer, not more, children. Overpopulation of our planet continues unabated, along with the consumption of resources this represents. If you care not whether we have sufficient food, water, open space, other animal life and some semblance of peace and serenity, OK fine, keep making babies until we’re all done in. If you do care, get a grip! Start raising the consciousness out there and consider the consequences of world population. It took 20,000 years to get from the first humans on record to 1 billion and 50 to 2 billion. We’re at 12 billion and counting.
Stephanie commented on Nov 10 11 at 6:05 pmFirst of all- Keri— Best. Comment. Ever.
And I agree with The Original Sarah, it appears the readership of Babble suddenly skewed to the right.
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