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Mom Gives Kidney To Son, Gets Fired! Where Are Our Ethics In Modern Society?
Most moms would do anything for their child, including donating an organ without even thinking twice. That’s certainly what Claudia Rendon did when she had the chance to help her son Alex, who was suffering from kidney failure.
She saved her son’s life.
But she was also fired from her job at Aviation Institute of Maintenance in Philadelphia for taking a leave of absence to recuperate from the surgery.
Rendon filed papers to take leave and was initially told by a manager that her job would be waiting for her when she came back, only to have the same manager request that she sign a letter a few minutes later, which stated that her job was not guaranteed upon her return.
“They said, ‘If you don’t sign this letter, you are abandoning your job and quitting,’” Rendon told ABCNews.com. “I said, ‘I am not abandoning my job. I am saving my son’s life.’”
A few days before her official return to work, Rendon visited her office, despite severe back pain, and learned that her job had been filled and she was fired. “If they would have told me to come back that day, I would have done it,” she said.
In addition, Rendon’s mother recently died and her father was diagnosed with leukemia:
“Everything was coming down all at once. I felt like the best thing that happened to me this whole entire year was that God gave me the blessing of being able to give my son the kidney. I would do it all over again. No questions asked.”
This story illustrates one of the weaker forms of the human conditions in our often compassionless society. There was no need for the school (which Rendon’s ailing son Alex attended!) to fire Rendon. I don’t care how busy they were, they could have hired a temp. Of course, it might have meant more work for the manager. But I have been a manager and the one thing that you need to do is support your team…in every way possible. On a purely human level, how can you possibly work with someone day in and day out and not be sensitive to a mother whose son would die without the operation, and who has a father diagnosed with cancer, and a mother that just passed away? It’s incomprehensible.
Our society has many evils, but greed accounts for the majority of the problems. I have worked in so-called family-friendly corporations that have sneakily fired new mothers and elderly workers. It’s not uncommon, unfortunately, but it is completely unnecessary. Witnessing it firsthand, I resolved to never again work for a corrupt company that didn’t value its people. As a whole, we need to stop valuing money over people. If we did, our country probably wouldn’t be in the financial mess we are in right now.
I sincerely hope Rendon contacts the Department of Labor and gets justice. If more people who are wrongfully (and in many cases, illegally) treated by their employers report them, the companies will be essentially forced to act appropriately.
Our kids are back in school and all across the country, they are being taught to be respectful, share, and help one another. It’s just a shame that those values disappear as adults in many cases, and it’s a disgrace when a company blindly turns their back on one of their own, not to mention to a mother in need.
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Bunnytwenty commented on Sep 14 11 at 1:28 pmThanks for publicizing this story, but I’d make one correction: these are not “our” ethics. These are the ethics of corporations and of capitalism. I don’t know a single person who would condone what this company did, and I don’t think even the vilest troll on here would, either. Let’s place the blame for corporate greed, avarice, and cruelty on the perpetrators, not on all of society. And I hope she sues their butts off.
Danielle Sullivan commented on Sep 14 11 at 1:52 pm@BunnyTwenty You’re right, it’s not everyone who condones this behavior,and corporate America is definitely a prime culprit. Yet more and more it seems that many tolerate it. I don’t blame all of society but I can’t help but feel that so many individuals (many who I have known) chose greed over integrity on a broad scale. It is becoming too commonplace.
Anon commented on Sep 14 11 at 2:07 pmYou can’t really blame “corporate America” though…there was a person, a real human person, or a group of people, involved in making this decision. So blame that person or team. Those specific people. They are total assholes!
Bunnytwenty commented on Sep 14 11 at 2:49 pmAnon – companies need to engage in behavior like this to compete in a capitalist society. One company behaves horribly in order to cut a few corners, then everyone else has to do it too or get out-competed and eventually go out of business. This is not a few bad apples acting like jerks – this is a system that sacrifices human beings on the altar of profit.
Anon commented on Sep 14 11 at 2:59 pmI disagree. They do not “need to engage in behavior like this to compete in a capitalist society.” Companies are like people because companies are made of people. Some are good, some are bad. What other system would you propose?
Bunnytwenty commented on Sep 14 11 at 4:53 pmWell, a system that doesn’t require companies to behave like this in order to compete would be nice. Again: if this corporation didn’t fire this woman for needing some time off, then it would be losing money and would fall behind another company that was willing to be more cutthroat. Compassionate companies go broke, and only the meanest win.
Anon commented on Sep 14 11 at 4:58 pmProve it. You don’t know this. I am not privvy to why, exactly, this company did this, but given the information provided I have to assume they were just jerks. I have worked for a few places where the leadership was compassionate and made decisions that while not profit-maximizing to the extreme were acceptable and “good enough”, while compassionate. In many cases, it would cost MORE to train a new person, give them benes plus COBRA the other old person, etc. etc. etc. than to either make her colleagues be a “team” and suck up the extra work, or hire a temp. Don’t give the people in charge of this company a pass by blaming “the system.”
Mistress_Scorpio commented on Sep 14 11 at 7:38 pmIt’s the individuals AND the system. How many stories of the little guy getting shafted does one have to read before it stops being anecdotal?
michelle commented on Sep 14 11 at 9:29 pmI agree with Anon. People make up corporations — they do not exist in a vacuum. And if these corporations were really so concerned with being competitive, they wouldn’t be racing to pay CEOs and other top management more and more millions of dollars, even though it’s been shown that there is no connection between paying more and attracting better “talent.”
bob commented on Sep 15 11 at 9:11 amThe core problem, it seem to me, is that the corporate system puts profit above all and — considers that its primary virtue. This creates incentives for the people that comprise the corporations to make inhuman decisions.
Anon commented on Sep 15 11 at 9:17 amI don’t think there is one “simple answer” because not all companies are the same. I think it’s easy to cry out “It’s capitalism!” or “It’s the corporations!” but what does that really mean? And, again, what’s the alternative. The most effective action for people who really give a shit about this woman’s case would probably be a dual tack of A) her suing and B) the masses haranguing the shit out of this organization: news media beating the drum, current users of their services pulling out/boycotting, etc.
Bunnytwenty commented on Sep 15 11 at 9:41 am“How many stories of the little guy getting shafted does one have to read before it stops being anecdotal?”
Hear, hear.
The fact of the matter is, we have a pretty cut-and-dried situation here: regular average person, normal Mom, does what any mom would do and saves her son’s life at great expense to her own health.
The company does what any company would do, and fires her.
This is not “society’s” morals. Regular people like you and I would do what she did, and would not do what the company did.
jenny tries too hard commented on Sep 15 11 at 11:52 amHow many stories do you have to hear before it’s not anecdotal?
Well, how many stories of companies doing the “right” thing do you have to hear before that’s not anecdotal? Except…you usually don’t hear those stories, because they aren’t, um, news. They happen more often than not.
Now, how often would similar problems happen if we didn’t have capitalism and people couldn’t *choose* which people/companies to support, and didn’t have a similarly profit-driven press to publicize these cases?
No system is perfect, unless it’s full of perfect people.
Anon commented on Sep 15 11 at 12:20 pmExactly, @ Jenny…
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