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‘Reborn’ Dolls: Why? No, Really. Why? [Warning: Not For the Easily Offended]
All babies are cute. Except for the ones who aren’t. Even the stork makes mistakes sometimes.
A website called Reborn Baby seems to have rather unintentionally captured just what’s ugly about some babies. The idea behind the dolls is to make them as lifelike as possible, but instead they are as peculiar as can be.
I’m not sure who the target audience is for the Reborn Babies (I don’t believe that some parents who’ve lost children use these dolls to grieve, as I can’t imagine cuddling what looks like a corpse to heal from the loss of a real baby), although clearly there is a market for them if they continue to be manufactured. If I hated my daughters I would give them these dolls, but I don’t so I wouldn’t let one pass through my front door under any circumstances.
Dolls are meant to be sweet and cuddly. As far as I’m concerned, owning a doll with “realistic human skin” and veins is something that should be reserved for Wes Craven films since they most closely resemble horror movie props.
Take a look and decide if you could let one of these fake babies exist in your home or if you would ever gift one to someone you know and actually like (keep in mind, by the way, that the dolls generally cost in excess of $1,000):
Source: Jezebel + ReBorn-Baby.com
Images: ReBorn-Baby.com
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Andrea commented on Aug 10 11 at 9:00 amI can’t be bothered to click through the entire gallery (hate this format), so I’m just going off the first one, which doesn’t seem so bad to me. At $1000, there is no way I would ever buy one, but in theory, I’m not opposed to my daughter having one. I prefer Raggedy Ann myself, but if she likes more “lifelike”, whatever.
As for grown adults purchasing these dolls for themselves, I imagine there is a lot of heartache behind the decision. Makes me feel sad for them.
Sharyn commented on Aug 10 11 at 9:10 amIs the entire line of dolls really caucasian?
adina commented on Aug 10 11 at 1:27 pm@Meredith: as a mother of a daughter who died at five weeks, I’m incredibly freaked out by the idea of a “reborn” doll–I would never want one.
That said, I know many grieving mothers of deceased babies and for many (if not an outright majority), these dolls are in fact deeply comforting.
Elita commented on Aug 10 11 at 1:59 pmSharyn, I looked through the site and all of the babies are Caucasian, but there was also one monkey baby. I have no words.
Michelle commented on Aug 10 11 at 7:13 pmI wouldn’t buy one; but I am also not going to judge those who have had their world ripped apart.
Meredith Carroll commented on Aug 10 11 at 7:23 pm@Adina — I’m so sorry for your loss. There are no words.
lam commented on Aug 10 11 at 7:28 pmI think the market for these dolls is among people who already collect dolls and like the realism of these things. Ew. Also, it’s an orangutan, which is an ape, not a monkey. Monkeys have tails, apes don’t.
Chris K commented on Aug 10 11 at 10:03 pmWow – amazingly real and TOTALLY disturbing, lol.
Violeta Gill commented on Aug 10 11 at 10:40 pmIf I was into freaky looking dolls it would bother me that there weren’t more diverse selection. Okay it still bothers me…..
Melanie commented on Aug 10 11 at 10:45 pmI looked at the first one and thought, “She’s crazy…this is cute!” Then I looked at the others…you’re right. Completely, without question. They are creepy!
Kellan commented on Aug 10 11 at 10:48 pmI didn’t like them when I first saw them on a TV program, and I don’t like them now. They’re still creepy, scary, weird, and downright disgusting. If anyone owns one, I don’t see how they can look at it without their skin crawling!
For those who have lost a real baby, I’m so sorry for your loss.
Know that I’m not judging those who have one of these things; I just don’t understand the attraction at all. They totally repel me. To each their own, I guess.
Brandy commented on Aug 10 11 at 11:09 pmomg these babies give me the chills..i wouldnt pay for that nor would i ever let my child have one..its just wrong..for those who lost a child im soo sorry for your loss..but ugh i just am speechless on how these dolls look
cindy commented on Aug 10 11 at 11:10 pmI love to collect dolls. Usually I like the vintage ones from when I was a child back from the early 70′s. I think these dolls are interesting and I think it would be neat to add one to my collection though I can’t afford the money for it. I think I will stick with the vintage older dolls I find at estate sales.
Kristin Contreras commented on Aug 10 11 at 11:32 pmI’ve seen a program where some adult women push them around in doll carriages and basically treat them like real babies. I’m wondering if it might be a strange hobby for some that are unable to have children. Honestly, I can’t imagine how it could possibly be helpful for someone who has lost a child. A puppy would be more comforting I would think. I vote creepy but then again, I never played with dolls much as a child. I was more the stuffed animal type.
holly commented on Aug 10 11 at 11:33 pmWho Cares???? If you dont like them…dont buy one! Iam sure they have helped many parents who have lost a baby!!! To each their own, get a life!
Barb Elia commented on Aug 10 11 at 11:34 pmAbigail and Sonia are kind of cute. The rest will haunt my dreams I’m afraid. I’d love to know what the draw is – especially at $1,000.00.
Bam commented on Aug 10 11 at 11:39 pmI clicked thru. I wish I hadn’t. These things are terrifying.
Yvonne commented on Aug 10 11 at 11:42 pmI LOVE these dolls, but, everyone around me HATES them and are scared of them. I have seen a few cute ones but most of them are, ugly. The cute ones seem to cost more..LOL… My baby is 8 yrs old, and I would be totally crazy to have another one, now…So, I could use this for my, ” baby “, fix… ;) I am on a hunt for the Reborn Doll that captures my heart. For those dear mommies that have lost babies. They can have these dolls made to look very much like their lil’one. It has to bring comfort to be able to hold a baby that “looks” like your lil’one when you are grieving and healing… Reborn Dolls are not for everyone.. =)
jenny commented on Aug 10 11 at 11:43 pmHow the heck do they look so real I mean how did they make them so crazy weird
melissa reeves commented on Aug 10 11 at 11:56 pmgo to ebay , they are babies of all races and some are beautiful and some not so much
http://michigan-made.com/reborn-dolls/african-american-sleeping-baby-boy-reborn-doll/
melissa reeves commented on Aug 11 11 at 12:07 am
Kristen commented on Aug 11 11 at 12:18 amI think it would be kinda cool to have ones that look like my 3 children, when they were babies, because OMG they(my own babies) were soo cute :)
Lisa commented on Aug 11 11 at 1:08 amI did not think they were ugly at all, in fact I thought most were precious,, I would not pay a thousand dollars for one but they are so very life like and some of those newborn doll are like a big piece of rubber… I am not sure why some think they are ugly??
Summer commented on Aug 11 11 at 1:25 amI know a couple that was married for 10+ years and could not concieve. They tried many expensive procegers and no luck. They purchased a reborn and she loved it (we even used it as baby Jesus in the Christmas play one year.) it seemed to help. They asked to be added to the prayer list at church and less than a month later God answered our prayers!!! She was pregnant!!! :D now they have 3 beautiful little girls!!……… But my husband and I have been married for 3 years and no baby yet. We are trusting God because He always provides. I would never have one personally, but I think some of them are beautiful.
Diana commented on Aug 11 11 at 1:40 amI personally would get 1 of each for my 5 sons and age progression of each one from infant to adult so about 7 each and for myself and hubby as well.. if this is creepy to you then i guess photos are aswell? For many who lost a child this is a means to cope, they bond with the doll and then move on having a keepsake forever of there lost child, I have never known the pain of losing a child, and hopefully will never know that gut wrenching, rip out your heart feeling of a child lost dying before you just thinking about it makes me tear up inside. If this is so disturbing to you why buy your children any doll for that matter? Im surpised though there is not much variety only female caucasian dolls no males, nada…..I know one woman who lost her baby and shes still grieving and i have known her since childhood this would be a welcome to her. That child will never be replaced in these womans hearts let them be. these dolls are marketed for adults not children and if they are so what! everyones fine with the suckling breast dolls, the diaper change dolls, there childen dressing up like adults and posing seductively like bandeu and brooke shields…why is this so disturbing just lol. There are other dolls that are considered disturbing like the disability dolls or missing appendages its a way to heal and bond with something like yourself or to understand dont like it dont buy it out of site out of mind .
Jeefer commented on Aug 11 11 at 2:07 amAs beautiful as my son is, he’d be the best model for one of these! lol. Most of the ones I’ve seen are just creepy :P
MARY commented on Aug 11 11 at 2:37 amPersonally some of the dolls are creepy looking Marnie is the cutest and being a parent thats experienced the loss of a child I would definetly buy one because my daughter was only 15 months old when she passed away in 09 so its still pretty fresh and everyday that goes by I wish that she was still here and I could hold her again and I feel like this is how most parents feel that have experienced it so for them it may bring more closure its taken me everything to wake up and move on everyday without her and feel like a doll that looks like her and feels like her would bother me in a way because I know its not real but with it looking just like her it would help in a way also. However I think that 1000+ dollars for a doll is kinda crazy maybe one day Ill get 1 :)
Connie Williams commented on Aug 11 11 at 5:31 amAs a Labor nurse who has seen many, many babies in my career, to me these babies aren’t really ugly at all, just lifelike! In fact, they are cuter than most newborns in reality actually are!
Melissa commented on Aug 11 11 at 6:53 amYikes, the 1st one is cute & the most real looking. The others seem like they are doubles for horror flicks, eeekkk. I personally wouldn’t want one, God chooses life & death for everyone; if you don’t believe, I’m sorry for your final outcome.
Melissa commented on Aug 11 11 at 6:55 amYikes, the 1st one is cute & the most real looking. The others seem like they are doubles for horror flicks, eeekkk. I personally wouldn’t want one, God chooses life & death for everyone; if you don’t believe, I’m sorry for your final outcome. As for buying one for my step-daughter, no way! She already got a baby alive for a b-day gift! They are bad enough – what with peeing water into a diaper that costs as much to replace as real human infant diapers? Ok I’ll go now, lol
Kat commented on Aug 11 11 at 8:26 amEveryone has their own way of grieving and while there were a couple that looked totally real, I wouldnt buy one.
carol steagall commented on Aug 11 11 at 10:16 amALL I CAN SAY IS PEOPLE ARE SICK AND WILL DO ANYTHING FOR A BUCK
Pat Whiting commented on Aug 11 11 at 10:39 amI think if you don’t like them that’s fine you don’t have to own one, many people collect these reborns and have fun showing them off, I make these dolls and can tell you they take many hours of work to produce with lots of different crafts used, we all have our own favorite things to enjoy so please be a bit understanding to us reborners.
Reborner commented on Aug 11 11 at 11:23 amA closed mind is a lonely one. Jealous, much? I am sure you could have a talent in another way, use your energy on finding it. It’s reached rock bottom when you kick those that are already down by criticising those that have lost children & find the comfort in a reborn. Shame on you. And pity of course. Being a thoughtful person, here’s me hoping you find some happiness in your life, sometime soon….
Laura Shadley commented on Aug 11 11 at 4:14 pmI really do not see a problem>? I think they are wonderful. Everyone deals with life different and having a doll may help those comfort who lost their child for some reason. I think it is a lot of money but its up to those who wanna spend.
Ruby commented on Aug 11 11 at 4:15 pmI think they’re beautiful and obviously for doll collectors and not for a kid to play with.
Ruby commented on Aug 11 11 at 4:20 pmALSO after looking at the actual site selling them, I see how they would be GREAT for film. So much more realistic and less distracting than some dummy baby. And not so easy to use a real life baby all the time.
Matriarchal Terrorism commented on Aug 11 11 at 4:24 pmI can see where these dolls would be used in a clinical therapeutic situation, and that is probably why the cost is so extreme. I don’t find their looks that distasteful. Many times proper attachment and bonding does not occur with mother and child because of the “Gerber” baby expectation, life has become a reality show.
betty belong commented on Aug 11 11 at 4:30 pmI haven’t paid that much, but I do own quite a few. My favorite is my silicone baby Sophia. She was 175.00 and worth every penny. The more realistic the better. I’ve always loved dolls and have been collecting since I was a child. I don’t have a void that needs to be filled. It’s a passion. Just like people who enjoy fine china, or flowers, I enjoy realistic dolls. I don’t treat them as babies, just a knick knack!
Cie commented on Aug 11 11 at 4:37 pm” I can’t imagine cuddling what looks like a corpse to heal from the loss of a real baby”
Wow–a little compassion, maybe. Not everyone thinks/feels the way you do. The devastation that someone who has lost a baby feels is beyond comprehension. I feared that I would lose my son when he was first born because of certain complications. Had that happened I don’t know what would have become of me. I have had something of a traumatic past and I have certain psychological issues, and although I do recognize and live in material reality, during certain very traumatic times in my life those boundaries have become blurred. I remember on one occasion I lost a very beloved kitten and I found a plush kitten toy that looked like him to remember him by.
I am glad that your experiences in life lead you to have such coldly “sane” views on things. Not everyone is wired that way.
Also, these dolls don’t look “ugly” to me, though I would not pay $1000 for them. Perhaps that is the purpose of the dolls–to challenge our narrow concepts of beauty. I once babysat for a baby whom everyone thought was ugly. I didn’t see him as ugly. I saw him as a baby.
nikki commented on Aug 11 11 at 4:41 pmCreepy! Do they give u a coffin to display them in as well? They absolutely look like corpses. Terrible!
anniet commented on Aug 11 11 at 4:46 pmThat first one looks like it has FAS. Look how wide set the eyes are. Ew.
mary altice commented on Aug 11 11 at 4:46 pmi have lost babies and children whats wrong with these dolls for those on here saying the are upset cause they lost babies and how these look well then do not buy them they are dolls people and very pretty sweet dools to sit in your house to collect or what ever for a child or grandchild. i would buy them for my grand daughter if i i had the money for them but for these women on here creeped out cause they look so real and they lost babies sorry but God took back his blessing for a reason just cause i lost babies and children does not mean they should stop making things that look real they are cute i would buy them yea it makes me think of the babies i lost but i have been also blessed and you should not take it out on a doll God blessed her with this talent and she should use it love the dolls if i had the money i would buy one of everyone there was and buy them for my granddaughters help teach them to take care of a baby. although dolls do not cry half the night and they do not need changed but do not take it out on the creater of the dolls cause of losing a baby not her fault like i said God has given her a blessing of talent and she is useing it to make a lot of people happyand for those who just lost a child why in the hell would you get on this site and look at them you inflicted pain on your self although i do hope God ives you comfert for losing your child but as for the dolls they are really cool love them
Aleigha commented on Aug 11 11 at 4:51 pmI would never own something like this.. though I do have children of my own… I do however, know someone that purchased a “reborn doll” on ebay, spent a few hundred dollars on it. I don’t know why she bought the darn thing, it was ugly, and she already had a baby boy, she did lose a child at one point.. but she had another, and still had to buy one of these ugly dolls.. I totally don’t get it. I know that some people collect them, having hundreds of them around their house.
I ran into a lady one time that was holding what looked to be a baby.. the next time I saw her she had a different baby.. a “reborn baby”.. come to find out she was one of these collectors, never had kids of her own, so she would dress them up and take them with her everywhere as though it was alive…. gross..
Jennifer commented on Aug 11 11 at 4:52 pmI wouldn’t knock anyone that owns one especially after loosing a child. People grieve in different ways. I can personally say that I wouldn’t want one though, even though I’ve had a miscarriage. To me it would be a solid reminder of something horrible that I already have trouble getting past. It’d also be hard to explain to my other kids and the little bunny we have on the way now why we have a baby who doesn’t move. I agree it would be nice to have diversity though
Debra commented on Aug 11 11 at 4:55 pmFirst off, I am so sorry for the woman on here that have lost their baby/newborn. I lost my 1st baby by miscarriage, but in my heart I knew God took my baby for a reason. But, I would never pay 1k for this doll or any other life-like doll to replace my child. IMO, I feel that, If you are replacing your “real” baby that may have passed on, (or you have miscarried) by a doll that looks like a real baby, is wrong. If your spouse passed away would you go out and buy a real life looking full grown man/woman? I think the makers of these dolls are finding a fast way to make a lot of money off parents that have lost their baby, and it makes me sick that the makers of these dolls take advantage of mostly woman that have a void in their life’s due to the loss of their baby, who are in a deep depression, and grieving over the loss of their newborn.
Agnes commented on Aug 11 11 at 5:20 pmWell, besides the fact that these dolls really are creepy, and I can’t imagine my children playing with one and then leaving it on the floor: I would be scared every time I would see it laying on the floor or in a strange position or head down in a toy basket.
Apart of that, my son was born super cute: he was a boyish boy from the beginning and from the day 2 of his life he was cute (he still is 2,5 years later). But my daughter was a slight preemie and she wasn’t born that “finished”. She got prettier quickly and continues this way (7 mo) but if I should replicate her as a doll I would never pick the newborn phase.
Donata Hulette commented on Aug 11 11 at 6:27 pmI think there absolutely beautiful, i love all babies of all kinds, there not ugly at all. I would love to have all the dolls. Now that said, I would never pay $1.000 for any doll, but i would spend money to adopt a child like the dolls made. Children are worth all the money in the world n more. My heart goes out to those wonderful children.
Mrs. Wonder commented on Aug 11 11 at 6:36 pmI wouldn’t judge someone for getting one if they’d had a loss. However, I’d never get one. They’re crazy gifted for making them so lifelike, but that’s why I can’t handle them either.
audrey commented on Aug 11 11 at 7:36 pmit is my own personal opinion that these dolls just look like realistic babies…people, nobody’s baby was born looking like babydolls on a wal-mart shelf. they have been floating in amniotic fluid for 9 months. babies are discolored, wrinkled and look like little old people when they are born. but beautiful none-the-less. saying you wouldn’t bring one of these dolls into your home for your child to see would be like saying you wouldn’t bring your new baby home to see their older sibling for at least 3-4 weeks till it looks “perfect”. i can see people wanting to buy these in the image of their babies who have passed. and i can see people buying these in the image of their children who are living. can’t say i would want to pay 1,000 bucks for one tho.
kris commented on Aug 12 11 at 12:30 pmthis is sick and desturbing i lost a child and this kinda crap pisses me off these should not be marketed!
rachael commented on Aug 15 11 at 6:25 amhi, i have had 9 live children and have had 1 still born and 3 misscarrages and i found not only having my children around me but also all my reborned dolls i was able to grieve much more easily than if i never had them. i didnt have any of my dolls or other children when i had my stillborn and it wad a sad moment for all involved. but having the dolls actually helped us to laugh and cry and gave us a little realistic doll to cuddle and cry too. we are now happily gettin on with our lives and collecting reborns. were all happy !!!!!!!!!!!! and if anyone says they dont help some people to grieve, thatll be their little secret, wont it..
April commented on Jan 16 12 at 3:42 amI feel for those who have lost babies and cant even begin to imagine the pain but…these dolls are SO CREEPY looking!!! But hey I am not judging..just my opinion.
Skiley commented on Jan 16 12 at 5:08 pmI think they are adorable! How many Mom’s wish that they could keep their sweet newborn’s NEWBORN!…Besides a Picture, I think a little doll that looked just like one of my babies when they were born? I would cherish that!
NC commented on Feb 27 12 at 10:12 amfor the record, african american babies are born looking caucasian…..
Jetsfan15 commented on Apr 08 12 at 7:12 pmScary.
Susan commented on May 09 12 at 5:41 pmI don’t see why it would make someone’s skin crawl; it’s just a doll. However, to treat it like a real baby is a little creepy. I would like to see one in person just because I’m curious.
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