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Children’s Author Kicked Off Flight For Dropping The F Bomb

Posted by monica bielanko on June 15th, 2011 at 2:31 pm
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Robert Sayegh may sue.

I may not be the most objective person in the world when it comes to cursing.

Because I love it.

I curse all the time. Of course, I try not to do it loudly in public or in front of children, and that may be one New Yorker’s mistake.

Robert Sayegh had a layover Sunday afternoon on his way home from attending a cousin’s wedding in Kansas City.  The 37-year-old TV producer and children’s book author said he and other passengers on Atlantic Southeast Airlines Flight 5136 (operated by Delta) to Newark, N.J had boarded the plane and were waiting at the gate for nearly an hour.

In an interview with Dadwagon.com, Sayegh explains what went down.

“We had been sitting on the runway for 45 minutes waiting for them to fix an overhead compartment that wasn’t staying closed. So I kind of just said out loud more to myself and the guy sitting next to me, “What the f#@# is taking so long?”

I’ve done that on several occasions while flying. Like, probably said that exact sentence. Who hasn’t? I mean, isn’t “What the f#@* is taking so long” some kind of flying mantra these days? And honestly? I don’t see the big fu@#ing deal. But American Airlines apparently thinks it’s a very big deal. According to Yahoo, the plane, operated by Delta, eventually taxied to the runway, but soon returned, where airport police boarded the plane and Sayegh was escorted off.

What? It’s not like Sayegh stood up and started ranting and raving. In fact, the children’s author contends barely anyone heard him. As he tells Dadwagon.com, “Just one flight attendant right behind me. So when I was being escorted off, I saw people looking like “what happened, what’s going on?” My actions did not warrant being escorted off the plane by police. And when I asked the police and the representative from Delta to please go ask everyone around me if I was a disturbance, she came back and said, ‘Well, he might have over-reacted.’”

Ya think?

You’re telling me one flight attendant’s sensibilities were offended over the F bomb? C’mon! Considering how horrible flying is these days, what with baggage fees, endless delays and the fact that seats are jammed together like sardines, he’s got to hear worse than that every other flight.

Delta seems to agree. Sayegh said he was told only after he left the plane that he was removed for being “disruptive,” but airport police never filed a report and he was given a ticket for a later flight.  However, technically speaking, the airline can do whatever it wants.  As Yahoo reports:

Atlantic Southeast Airlines adheres to Delta’s contract of carriage for passengers, which says the airline may refuse to transport or may remove people “when the passenger’s conduct is disorderly, abusive or violent.” A passenger also can be removed if he or she “appears to be intoxicated or under the influence of drugs” or “attempts to interfere with any member of the flight crew in pursuit of his or her duties.”

Still, Sayegh is understandably outraged and may sue. “I’m really still thinking about it. I don’t think I am going to, but I’ve been surprised by how many people who aren’t like that are telling me to. I’m leaning towards not just because I don’t want to be known for that. Try to take the higher road.”

My two cents: take the higher road. Ride this wave of publicity for your children’s book and let it go.  Americans are way to damned litigious.

Here’s your plug, my good man. “The Secret Origin Of Mirrors,” is an educational book about how mirrors were created. Words within the book are highlighted and then defined so that the parents can teach their children. It should hit store shelves in August.

And no, there is no cursing in “The Secret Origin of Mirrors”. Even if “Go The F*@k To Sleep” is a bestseller, which, as Carolyn Castiglia learned in her exclusive interview with author Adam Mansbach, is now even being made into a live action film version.

What do y’all think. Did Sayegh deserve to escorted off the plane? Should he sue? Or was the airline right to yank him? What if your kid was sitting next to Sayegh and heard the F bomb? Does that change your tune?

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11 Comments

Nope. Unless he directly cursed AT a passenger or employee, I think it was a gross overreaction. And can I have people who listen to their MP3 players [loud enough for me to hear the individual words] spewing the F-bomb every 7th word escorted from public places too then?

goddess commented on Jun 15 11 at 2:47 pm

If I didn’t know better I would assume this was a joke. The fact that it’s not just makes it pathetic. I wasn’t aware that there is a profanity clause contingent with ticket purchasing.

DeathMetalMommy commented on Jun 15 11 at 3:23 pm

As a public school teacher I am constantly after my students about using language appropriate to the surroundings. Language on the construction site / barn / etc isn’t appropriate for a public place.

This is going to be something I’m showing my students tomorrow.

Thanks for this last day of school / first day of school lesson plan Mr Sayegh.

Dan Lemay commented on Jun 15 11 at 7:28 pm

We are a military family and spend a lot of time pursuing activities on base. Where there are groups of young soldiers (or Airmen, or Marines), there is profanity. Would I love to stand in line at the grocery store with my child without being serenaded by a chorus of F-bombs? Absolutely. Has my daughter heard that word and many others pretty much everywhere we go since she was born? You betcha. She knows which words “aren’t nice” and doesn’t repeat them. Hearing them on an airplane would be just another day – no big deal.

Heather commented on Jun 15 11 at 7:39 pm

Unfortunately, in our society money is what does the talking. I recommend he sue them to make a point for the rest of us. It’s getting crazy when you can’t use whatever words you desire to express yourself. Whether we like them or think they are “nice” or “polite” is immaterial. It’s called freedom of speech.

Kath Gilliam commented on Jun 15 11 at 10:44 pm

He got what he deserved.

tessa commented on Jun 15 11 at 11:20 pm

I’m not a fan of cursing, but I think this is way over the edge..

Sarah commented on Jun 17 11 at 4:33 pm

What ever happened to free speach? It’s not like the man was talking about bombs or terrorism, he used a curse word. I’d probably have been kicked off every flight I’ve ever been on if they’d done the same to me. Like he said, he didn’t yell it or anything, and most of the people on the plane had NO CLUE what had happened! Offending one person does not warrant “causing a disturbance.” No one would be allowed to speak on a plane if that was the case, since innocent statements can be offensive with or without curses in them!

heather commented on Jun 17 11 at 4:40 pm

I’m going to reiterate what Sarah (^) said.
“I’m not a fan of cursing, but I think this is way over the edge..”
My thoughts exactly. I think the flight attendant disrupted the flight (and probably made the other passengers edgier!) more than Sayegh did by having the author escorted off.

Lela commented on Jun 17 11 at 4:44 pm

I believe that the airlines should use their discretion if they suspect that a passenger my exhibit aggressive or hostile behavior in such a confined space as an airplane. How were they to know whether or not his hostility my snowball into a more uncomfortable display? On most flights, there are children on board. Parents should be able to fly with their children without having to subject them foul language. Perhaps that one unsavory comment would have been the the end of it. Better to remove such a person before you take off than have to endure that kind of language throughout an entire flight.

Antoinette commented on Jun 28 11 at 9:10 am

What if my kid had been sitting there and heard that? I would have asked the man to not swear in front of my child. He would probably apologize and stop, as mostbpeople do when I say this. Not a big deal. If I don’t want my kids to ever hear curse words I’ll keep them home or get a sound proof bubble.

Canuckmom commented on Aug 15 11 at 11:49 am

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