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Cops Pepper Spray Second Grader in Colorado

Posted by meredith carroll on April 5th, 2011 at 9:55 am
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Pepper spray isn't how you'd normally think a second grader would need to be subdued

When my kid has a temper tantrum, I prefer to handle it myself. Of course my kid is 2 and rarely with anyone but me, so I’m usually the only one to handle it.

When she starts school, it’ll be up to her teachers to handle any errant behavior, and I trust that they’ll do it in an appropriate manner. And if my kid’s tantrum were to turn violent, I would expect they should do what they need to do to keep themselves and the other students safe.

That’s what happened in the case of an 8-year-old second grader named Aidan in Lakewood, Co. Only the teachers felt they couldn’t even keep themselves safe from Aidan, so they called the police. And the police decided that Aidan needed a good dose of pepper spray.

A police report states he “was climbing the cart and spitting at teachers. He also broke wood trim off the walls and was trying to stab teachers with it.”

“I wanted to make something sharp if they came out because I was so mad at them,” Aidan said, according to 9 News in Denver. “I was going to try to whack them with it.”

The report also says Aidan “was holding what looked like a sharpened one foot stick and he screamed, ‘Get away from me you f—ers.’”

The police ordered him to drop the stick, and when he refused, they sprayed him with pepper spray twice and then handcuffed him after he dropped the wood. He was treated on the scene for some irritation to his face.

Aidan’s mom says she doesn’t believe the events unfolded as have been reported, that police were called to the school twice before to deal with her son and in both cases, they were able to calm him down without resorting to pepper spray and handcuffs.

“I’m sure what he was doing wasn’t right, but he’s 8 years old,” she said. “They walked in, asked him to drop the stick, and then sprayed him with the spray… I think it’s excessive.”

A spokesman for the police defended their decision, calling it “the safest option considering the circumstances. “

Aidan, who has admitted to anger management issues, has since been placed on a “mental health hold” and was transferred to a school for children with behavioral issues. His mom says he has not been diagnosed with any mental illness, nor is he on any medication.

What strikes me is that police have been called to the school twice before to deal with a second grader and his mom is acting as if this is seemingly routine? Lakewood isn’t some big, bad city where the cops are trigger-happy. I mean, I doubt any teacher relishes calling the cops and that any cop is eager to pepper spray an 8-year-old.

I feel for Aidan and his mom, but the more she’s in what appears to be denial about her son’s behavior, the bigger disservice she’s doing him, and the more likely he is to be subdued by things like pepper spray and handcuffs.

Do you think it’s ever OK to pepper spray a second grader?

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18 Comments

No, the police should never have pepper sprayed a child. What a bunch of lazy a##holes. There are trained to be able to physically subdue people and they should have been able to do so with a child. Give me a break! I understand the child was out of control but the police should have been able to handle this a little better in my opinion.

Stacy commented on Apr 05 11 at 10:06 am

My oldest daughter is a first grader and currently, either my husband or myself are volunteering at the school every day of the week. We are usually only there for 30-45 minutes each day. There are a few kids in her class that are absolutely horrible. Uncontrollable behavior. One of the boys has in the last several weeks been attacking the girls. Thankfully, my daughter has not been one of them. He is jumping at them, sometimes getting them to the ground and hitting them and scratching them. Two of the girls had scratches and welts from elbow to wrist. He is otherwise a sweet little boy. He craves affection and attention and cries to the point of hyperventalating if he doesn’t get what he wants. He is in his 4th classroom of the year.

I absolutely am horrified at the thought of pepper spray being used on a child. And knowing the way that things are in so many schools, where teachers and administration are legally not allowed to discuss anything, I bet this boy has caused a lot of trouble. The other times when the police were called, it wasn’t just that they were called. I’m willing to bet that the teacher and principal had 5 or more steps in which they tried to correct his behavior and diffuse the situation. I hope that the police really did use their best judgement in this case and that their actions were because they felt there was no other way to protect the others around the boy.

Sarah commented on Apr 05 11 at 11:14 am

I don’t know what really happened but I assume the cop figured he couldn’t subdue the kid physically without facing any kind of liability for touching the child, so I guess he played it safe by not having to use force with the child but still being able to take him under custody.

I wonder if the child has not been diagnosed with any mental illness because the mom has not asked a doctor to screened the child for it. I see a lot of parents saying that they do not know what to do with their kids, in some situations, but it is because they are in denial and have not looked for the help they need.

Rosana commented on Apr 05 11 at 11:31 am

Why not? Would you prefer he be tasered? With his track record, he might as well get used to it now.

goddess commented on Apr 05 11 at 12:01 pm

@goddess–you said what I was thinking with the taser. yikes.

This boy obviously has problems and the mother/parent(s) are in serious denial. I am suspecting that this boy may have been abused and this is how he is acting out. He seems to be going to extremes to attempt to protect himself. A child from a calm, loving home most likely wouldn’t be wielding pointy sticks and screaming the f-word. I have an 8yo, and those words and actions aren’t even in the realm of possibilities in our home.

brsmommy commented on Apr 05 11 at 12:32 pm

Exactly- and I sure don’t think the other kids in the class are physically safe with him in the class.

goddess commented on Apr 05 11 at 12:38 pm

I would like to think that they could have found a better way – but some eight-year-olds are BIG. I just found a chart online that says that by nine, a boy has reached 75% of his adult height. I don’t know if that’s exactly true, but I do know there are some children in my son’s class (third grade) who are big enough that I could believe they could seriously hurt an adult if they were in a blind rage and armed with a sharp stick. I wouldn’t like to see a child of this age prosecuted for assault, because no matter what their size they haven’t achieved anything like adult decision making yet, but at the same time if this is a kid who has a history of violence and is big enough to really be difficult to subdue and is armed to some degree, using the pepper spray may have seemed like the safest route (especially considering the child himself might have been injured during the struggle).

Diera commented on Apr 05 11 at 12:54 pm

@Diera — I agree. Given that the cops have been called twice before about him and used no excessive force, I’m guessing they used their best judgment in this instance.

Meredith Carroll commented on Apr 05 11 at 12:57 pm

Its absolutely ridiculous that the cops could not subdue an 8 year old without pepper spray. No 8 year old is that big, that 2 or more cops cannot restrain him in a more humane way. I think it’s a bit unfair to assume this child is being abused when this could just as likely be a medical/psychological problem. Whatever the case, children are our most vulnerable members of society and need to be protected. To me it looks like the police treated the child like any other adult, criminal. Children are owed more care and protection.

Sophia's mom commented on Apr 05 11 at 4:52 pm

@Sophia’s Mom — All good points.

Meredith Carroll commented on Apr 05 11 at 4:53 pm

I brought up the possibility of abuse since the mother said her son had not been diagnosed with any mental illness and that he was not on any medication. And, yes–abnormal anger, rage and violence in children can result from abuse or from witnessing abuse.

http://www.aacap.org/cs/root/facts_for_families/understanding_violent_behavior_in_children_and_adolescents

If the son was tested for mental illness (especially bipolar disorder) or other possible problems (ADD, ADHD, LD) and nothing was found to support a diagnosis, then I would certainly look at the home situation for domestic violence and/or child abuse.

brsmommy commented on Apr 05 11 at 7:15 pm

@Sophia’s Mom: I don’t buy it. Some kids, like adults, just suck. They are mean, anti-social, antagonistic, aggressive a-hats. Their youth doesn’t get them a free pass..

goddess commented on Apr 06 11 at 8:18 am

@sophia’s Mom.
The kid was 82 pounds according to the reports.. with his violent tendencies and attacks on teachers… he would have been injured in a struggle with police.
In his raged state, with the cops trying to hold him down, he may have died from positional asphyxiation or excited delirium. No one has died from pepper spray and therefore was the best option available to police.

Pepper spray is much more humane than physical force or a taser.

Get off your high horse about age.. he made a choice to try and kill teachers.. he needs to be dealt with quickly and efficiently with no injury to himself or others. That’s exactly what happened. He has issues but that does not prevent the police from doing their job. That’s what pepper spray is used for.

@ Sophia’s Mom.. you sound like the kid’s mother.. full of denial and willing to blame society.

Common Sense commented on Apr 06 11 at 9:33 am

Have you ever seen a cop have to physically subdue someone who is fighting and raging? Eight-years old or eighteen years old, the rules for physically subduing someone don’t change. It usually requires grabbing and twisting arms into breakable positions and sometimes headlocks. This kid could have ended up with a broken arm or collarbone if he got manhandled by trained police officers, not to mention the bruising he would have received. And if this kid really was suffering abuse at home, can you imagine the kind of emotional and mental damage being physically thrown around by a cop would have caused? How would anyone expect him to tell the truth about his homelife after that? Who could he trust? Pepper spray sounds really bad, sure, but it sounds like it was the best option to get this kid to calm down and back under control. And let me just say that if my son was in class with this stick-wielding, cursing, wrecking ball of a child I would totally expect the cops to do whatever it took to keep my son safe. No exceptions. And then I would camp out at the school until I could guarantee my son was never ever ever ever ever ever going to be around that kid again.

JBoogie commented on Apr 06 11 at 10:24 am

@Common Sense, the boy weighing 82 pounds, was that in the original article that was linked? Or somewhere else? I missed it. I’m not doubting it, I have seen kids that are bigger than that as well, but I am curious about his size.

My daughter’s teacher is on the petite side, but I have a friend who is a 5th grade teacher and she is only 4″11′ and rather thin. She is tiny in comparison to her students, and there are plenty of younger kids that are a lot bigger.

There were kids who misbehaved and pulled pranks when I was growing up, but to me it seems like there are a lot of students whose behavior is beyond what I ever had imagined.

Sarah commented on Apr 06 11 at 2:43 pm

So sad all around… seems to me like yet another indictment of the way we deal with mental health problems in this country (whether abused at home or dealing with a physiological issue, things should not have gotten to this point!)
Anyone know, for example, the number of a help-line for parents who ARE trying to get out of denial and do something about their kids? Neither did I — the best I can find by googling is:
– state- and city-specific services, eg for Texas:
“If you or your child needs help, please contact your pediatrician or physician, your local community mental health center (search by county, city, or zip code at http://webds.dshs.state.tx.us/mhservices/default.asp?strMHA=1), or call the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at 1-800-273-TALK.”
– plus these hotlines by NAMI:
“Kid Help – Children and adolescents in crisis will receive immediate help. Referrals to shelters, mental health services, sexual abuse treatment, substance abuse, family counseling, residential care, adoption/foster care, etc. 1-800-543-7283″
and
“The Information HelpLine is an information and referral service which can be reached by calling 1 (800) 950-NAMI (6264), Monday through Friday, 10 am- 6 pm, Eastern time. You may also e-mail us at info@nami.org.”

cyn-diego commented on Apr 07 11 at 12:37 am

Let’s be clear: this incident was undoubtedly the result of well-meaning teachers, school staff and police left with no good choices — the REAL problem is the number of children who suffer mental and behavioral problems without help — and in some cases parents who pass on their mental/behavioral problems down the generations through abuse. If we argue about the pepper spray and the size of the kid, we’re totally missing the point, and missing the opportunity to solve the problem.

cyn-diego commented on Apr 07 11 at 12:42 am

I have an 8 year old boy myself. I know how other problem kids are in school. In this particular case, I would say as long as the school and the police has followed all the protocols, procedure (spend a reasonable amount of time to calm him down with appropriate words and warning), then if the situation still remain hostile, I would agree that pepper spray might be the next best option.

New Jersey commented on Apr 07 11 at 2:21 pm

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