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Changing Your Family Name to Stand Out

Posted by madeline holler on February 1st, 2011 at 4:59 pm
baby bjorn swedish names Changing Your Family Name to Stand Out

Great style! Boring names.

I guess Sweden just isn’t good enough for some Swedes.

The Nordic country with the enviable maternity and paternity leave laws, national health care, great schools and awesome furniture showrooms also has a naming tradition that doesn’t sit well with some of its citizens. To a growing number of Karlssons, Ericssons and that most Swedish of Swedish names: Svensson, taking their father’s names is presumptuous, sexist and just plain boring.

So, a lot of these Swedes are making name changes, including making names up. (Pantzars, anyone?)

The New York Times reports that for the past three decades, more and more Swedes have plunked down the fee — now $297 — and applied to change their surnames. The number one reason, the Times writes, is that individuals want to stand out. But also, the notably gender-equal country is casting off some of the lasting evidence of more patriarchal times. From the NYT:

In most cases, couples adopt a new name for the same reasons the Wetterlunds did: to rebel against the hegemony of traditional Swedish surnames ending in “-son” — Johansson, Andersson and Karlsson being the most common. And it does not end there. Of the 100 most common names here, 42 end in “-son.”

Sweden abounds in names ending in “-son” because of an old Nordic practice, before hereditary surnames were introduced, of using the father’s first name, and the suffix “-son” for a son, or “-dotter” for a daughter.

So Lars, the son of Karl, was named Lars Karlsson; a daughter Lisbet became Lisbet Karlsdotter, though she would lose this at marriage. (The practice still exists in Iceland.)

Sometimes they look through family history and find the non-”son” name of a beloved great-grandmother (Wetterlund). Or they pick ones that sound exotic (Bovino). Or they just make stuff up (Pantzar!).

The government has to approve the names: Brands like Coke are forbidden as are the names of the Swedish royalty, actors and Obama.

Have you ever changed your name? Are you glad? Did you take someone else’s name or pick something else that you liked (or did you make one up?). I’m happy with my name, though that wasn’t always the case. I have been, and always will be, a loud talker, so it’s a good fit. Any Swedes out there looking to stand out? I’m willing to share.

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Why is it people who want to be special think the best way to do so is to have a special name or Look? Be special by living a special life. Love, care, help. Your name could be John Smith and you can be extraordinary, and you name could be cayliebermiyynnn vyteria and you could be utterly vapid and boring. A rose will smell just as sweet if it is called jane, and ragweed is still a weed if you call it an amazing sparkleflower.

marj commented on Feb 01 11 at 9:49 pm

Love your comment, Marj!

Manjari commented on Feb 01 11 at 11:10 pm

Marj! Totally. Totally!

Madeline Holler commented on Feb 01 11 at 11:36 pm

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