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Mother Jailed for Sending Kids to a Good School
An Ohio mother of two who was working toward her teaching degree has been convicted of a felony, sentenced to 10 days in jail (suspended from 5 years), fined thousands of dollars and placed on three years of probation. Why? Because she sent her kids to school in the wrong district.
Yes, she did this knowingly. Yes, it’s against the rules.
But a felony? Jail? Well, she was poor, black and on welfare so now it makes sense.
Kelley Williams-Bolar was sentenced by Judge Patricia Cosgrove last week and she began serving her jail sentence immediately. A jury deliberated for 7 hours and, in the end, found her guilty of two counts of tampering with court records after registering her two girls as living with her father when they actually lived with her.
Bolar’s father, Edward L. Williams, was charged with fourth-degree felony of grand theft for defrauding his local school system of educational services for Bolar-Williams’ two girls.
Felonies, people. Felonies!
Williams-Bolar is a resident in a housing project in Akron, Ohio. It’s not news when I tell you that the schools for kids who live in the housing projects were overcrowded, underfunded and performed below the nearby schools serving middle-class and mostly white students. Ohio isn’t even close to being a top education state.
Other parents have done this, which of course doesn’t make it right. The same district, Copley-Fairlawn, handled several dozen other residency cases. But Williams-Bolar was the only one to face an indictment — the only one to be sentenced to jail, according to Ohio.com.
Where I live, it’s often families in good enough schools getting into even better ones. Typically, when caught, students are shipped back to their neighborhood schools, maybe the parents are fined. But jail? Felonies? That was Judge Cosgrove’s special form of justice so that Williams-Bolar would be an example to other parents who might try this. Meanwhile, the fancy school she was ripping off concedes that really? Overall? It’s rare.
Let’s look at Williams-Bolar’s case through the lens of frustrated schools trying to get parents to be more involved in their kids’ education. Some want to grade parents. Others send them to jail for not caring enough. Turns out, if you care too much and do what plenty of rich-enough white people have done, you’re good. It’s understandable. Gotta do what’s best for the kids. But when a poor single mother does it — one who can’t afford legal good enough legal representation to get the charges dropped — there’s hell to pay. Or, well, the difference in what it cost to educate her kids at the nice schools vs. what it would have cost in their home district and PS: there’s a big difference. (And that’s still not fair!)
This story’s getting life all over Facebook and plenty of people are crying foul at charges of racism. Here’s what Dr. Boyce Watkins has to say on the Boyce Blog:
This case is a textbook example of everything that remains racially wrong with America’s educational, economic and criminal justice systems. Let’s start from the top: Had Ms. Williams-Bolar been white, she likely would never have been prosecuted for this crime in the first place (I’d love for them to show me a white woman in that area who’s gone to jail for the same crime). She also is statistically not as likely to be living in a housing project with the need to break an unjust law in order to create a better life for her daughters. Being black is also correlated with the fact that Williams-Bolar likely didn’t have the resources to hire the kinds of attorneys who could get her out of this mess (since the average black family’s wealth is roughly 1/10 that of white families). Finally, economic inequality is impactful here because that’s the reason that Williams-Bolar’s school district likely has fewer resources than the school she chose for her kids. In other words, black people have been historically robbed of our economic opportunities, leading to a two-tiered reality that we are then imprisoned for attempting to alleviate. That, my friends, is American Racism 101.
So now the better district no longer has to teach the kids from the struggling district. But everyone has to pay for Williams-Bolar court expenses, the fact that she won’t be able to pull herself into the middle class. Her kids, who had parental support and a motivated mother (and grandfather), who knows what will happen to them.
I hope some benevolent legal minds will get together and convince Williams-Bolar to fight her conviction and clear her name of felony charges. What happened to her is outrageous; it’s an embarrassment for anyone who believes in fair education.
The system is broken for millions of kids. Now it’s worse for two more.
Photo: Ohio.com
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Tweets that mention Mother Jailed for Sending Kids to a Good School | Strollerderby -- Topsy.com commented on Jan 25 11 at 5:41 pmGretchen Powers commented on Jan 25 11 at 5:15 pmI don’t even know what to say. This should in no way be a felony with any punishment like them paying back money or doing jail time. Really? They’re going to put this MOTHER who is in school in JAIL for a non-violent crime? Insane. Throw her kids back in their own school, if they must, but give this woman a break. America is all about gaming the system. What a shame!
jenny tries too hard commented on Jan 25 11 at 5:28 pmThis is disgusting. While lying on a government form is and should be a serious crime, this caring parent never should’ve been put in such a position. Another mark against the neighborhood model of public schools, I think.
Diera commented on Jan 25 11 at 5:28 pmI could see a (smallish) fine for this, but definitely not jail, that’s ridiculous, and it is completely unfair to charge and jail one person if this is a widespread issue. Although I will say that in my state, I was once sent a letter threatening me with a Class D felony – for not returning my library books on time. I had taken out six or seven hard covers, which meant that the total purchase price was more than $100, and they were more than 8 weeks late which meant I was ‘stealing’ them, and in my state stealing more than $100 from the state is a felony, albeit a minor one. I returned the books and all was well, but it may be some similar calculation that is forcing this to be a felony. I’m not sure how she’s going to return the knowledge her kids have ‘stolen’ though! And doesn’t her original school district save the same amount of money they cost the new school district?
Gretchen Powers commented on Jan 25 11 at 5:35 pm“And doesn’t her original school district save the same amount of money they cost the new school district?”
No! That’s probably what the gripe is…the poor “stealing” from the rich : (
Jill commented on Jan 25 11 at 5:51 pmThe girls father does live and pay taxes in the other district, even if his daughters don’t live with him. These two parents were cooperating to do what was best for their kids, and who did it hurt? No one until the gov’t stepped in. UGH!
Jill commented on Jan 25 11 at 6:01 pmSorry, it was the girls’ grandfather, not father.
Gretchen Powers commented on Jan 25 11 at 6:03 pmSTILL! That oughta count for something that the GRANDFATHER lived there…ugh.
goddess commented on Jan 25 11 at 6:22 pmIt deosn’t. I live there [in Ohio]. Children must go to the school in the district where the custodial parent lives. Our schools in Ohio are greatly funded by property taxes. If you don’t live here and pay taxes (or rent where the taxes are paid) you cannot attend the school in that district, unless they offer a tuition-based attendance option. That’s the rules., m’am.
We moved to a different county to gain access to better services within the county-based MR/DD agency and also to place our other son in a good school system/. We pay taxes in that school district and it would not be right for children form other districts to attend those schools when we pass levy after levy for our own children.
While I think jail is an overkill, fining her the cost of educating that student in that district is just. That would be a little over $10,200 iun our district.
goddess commented on Jan 25 11 at 6:29 pmIf she wouldn’t have given the grandfather guardianship, they could have legally attended those schools, BTW.
goddess commented on Jan 25 11 at 6:30 pmShould have said: “If she WOULD HAVE given….”
Patricia commented on Jan 25 11 at 6:30 pmYet another example of how very flawed the public school system is in America. Most parents want their children in “good” schools, but the decision rests with a line on a map. Allowing schools to compete for students is the answer. Bad schools will either up their ante or fail. And their students will either benefit from increased performance, or a transfer. Yes, it is sad that a woman was penalized for fraud. However, if you do not like the system, work to change it rather than defraud it. It’s that simple.
Sci30 commented on Jan 25 11 at 6:30 pmOh please. This woman knew what she was doing. If she was smart enough to go to college to become a teacher, she was smart enough to know she was sending her kids to the school illegally. Why didn’t she and her kids just live with her father, go to school and work and have her kids attend the school legitimately. That would be a mother doing the best for her kids. In the end, would anyone want a woman who commits fraud to be teaching their children?
Ashley commented on Jan 25 11 at 6:38 pmA felony and JAIL?! Seriously?? Who the hell do I write the strongly-worded, outraged letter to?
goddess commented on Jan 25 11 at 6:47 pmDo you really want a person who defrauds your community to teach your kids anyway?
BTW- the $30,500 for 2 kids’ tuition for 2 years is cheap. Ours would be over $1K.
k.west commented on Jan 25 11 at 6:57 pmthis is just wrong. a mother who simply wanted better for her children.
Gretchen Powers commented on Jan 25 11 at 6:58 pmHow bout they institute the parent grading policy here, then, all the middle-class lazies who are too important to be “judged,” who said they’d pull their kids out of school if a school did this, would free up some space for the kids of parents who really care? I know we have to respect the rule of law, however, the judgment is just too harsh in this case. The system is set up so that rich, privileged people can game the system with lawyers and paper tricks and we all know this. Any outrage at this woman seems really hypocritical to me.
Tara commented on Jan 25 11 at 7:05 pmIt’s a felony. The law is the law. There should be no exceptions. My mother lives in the highest taxed area in Pennsylvania. She paid close go $15000 in property taxes alone. Yet none of her children used the public school system. Numerous families rent property here for the purpose of using the school district, yet do not actually live here.
What has been the result, the public schools now have classrooms over 30 students each. So what was once the best school district in the area is losing it’s excellence. It is unfair to use an address so your child can benefit.
My mother who is in her late 80s who never used the system at all still pays for those abusing the system. Jail is just. And please do not make this a race issue. My parents were both bright up in poverty yet found ways to support themselves and PAY for a proper education. Race and economic backgrounds should no longer be used as the blanket crutch
goddess commented on Jan 25 11 at 7:08 pm$41K- typo
goddess commented on Jan 25 11 at 7:11 pmNope Gretch- since I’m a taxpayer/employer I get a voice. No usurping/judging my private parenting choices and no leaving unless I get my $10K pus PER child in my hand to homeschool them myself.
I did however, originally state that I felt the jail sentence was overboard. So chillax a bit ;-)
No outrage here- but agreement that she does indeed need to be held to accountability for defrauding the system and breaking the law. If you lived here, you’d see it for the problem it has become. People play the system and cry when they get caught.
goddess commented on Jan 25 11 at 7:18 pmCause WHY on EARTH would I keep paying 63% of my property taxes to educate NON-residents and take my kids out of our schools? Stop smoking that stuff Gretchen, ROFLMAO.
Gretchen Powers commented on Jan 25 11 at 7:33 pmI’m just being a smart ass/dumb ass… : ) I get your side, too…
goddess commented on Jan 25 11 at 7:36 pmAhhhhhh-
Kiesha commented on Jan 25 11 at 8:33 pmthis is an OUTRAGE, is there a petition to sign??????????????
Linda, the original one commented on Jan 25 11 at 10:42 pmIMO, this is a ridiculous overreaction to something that, while somewhat sketchy, happens every day. I completely undertsand why the mother did this if schools in her own neighborhood were that bad. The fact that schools so bad that residents would do anything tio get their kids out of them exist, is the TRUE crime.
Mistress_Scorpio commented on Jan 25 11 at 11:14 pmIt is instructive to see the viewpoint of people who are perfectly comfortable with the system as it is, as long as the advantages continue to be theirs.
THIS IS RIDICULOUS commented on Jan 26 11 at 1:33 amTHIS IS JUST PATHETIC!!!!! HOW LOW IS AMERICA GETTING NOW!!! JUST AN OUTRAGE!! THIS MAKES ME MADDER THAN HELL!!!! IT’S A CRIME TO WANT TO HAVE YOUR CHILD GET A GOOD EDUCATION!?!?!?! RICH PPL WHO HAVE BETTER SCHOOLS ARE THE ONLY ONES COMPLAINING ABOUT HER CHILD GOING THERE!!! THAT DISGUSTED ME!!! HOW CAN YOU PEOPLE SAY THAT IS A BAD THING TO WANT THE BEST FOR YOUR CHILD.. SCHOOL ZONES ARE TO MAKE SURE RICHER PRIVELIGED KIDS HAVE BETTER SCHOOLS THAN POOR ONES>> WHAT A DISGRACE IN AMERICA!!!! A PURE SHAME!!!
goddess commented on Jan 26 11 at 7:22 amOr they actually worked to get where they are today @@
I started at 18 with nothing- a twin bed, and table with 2 chairs that were someone’s scrap. Live din a disadvantaged neighborhood with the crappiest school system- Cleveland’ after de-seg for 7 years. Worked in a factory, as DH worked in a machine shop. We saved til we could get married. Notice: no babies yet. Worked til we got a down payment for a home. Still no babies. Once we had babies, worked harder til we could move to a place with better schools before they needed them.
We didn’t play the system and I hold those around me accoutnable to those standards as well.
goddess commented on Jan 26 11 at 7:23 amBut it is instructive to see that some think certain people are incapable of doing the same, and are entitled, heck ENCOURAGED to have what is not legally theirs.
Tara commented on Jan 26 11 at 7:44 amI am so tired of the issue of race and privilege being used as the catalyst for the “desperate” and “heroic” misdeeds of ones who choose to break the law. As goddess stated it’s up to each individual to decide their path. By using deception what in essence is that teaching her young children. They will have to continue this cycle of lying because of the mothers actions.
It is not brave- it is simply against the law. My parents worked 3 jobs each to work themselves out of poverty. It took close the 15 years for them to afford to move out the city, but they did with honest perseverance. They had children at the time, but never once did they feel that we should be used as accessories to a crime in order to better our lives. Once we did move to a better community we benefited from their hard work and every one of us, went on to college and then graduate school.
Life is not handed to you, she should have waited until she got her degree, then a good job and then moved her children, for now all her children will know is that cheating is the only way to get what you want out of life. Our society has become an entitled one. Education is not a right it’s a priviledge that must be earned.
Sorry for the typos am feeding my child as I vent.
Tara commented on Jan 26 11 at 7:46 amFurthermore, love the title, by your account though it should read ” white rich people do not want poverty stricken blacks in their neighborhoods no matter what the law is”. Just say it like you see it instead of being provocative.
Gretchen Powers commented on Jan 26 11 at 8:13 amOne things that occurred to me, if you want to talk about “fairness” though, is that, OK, your schools are funded by your PROPERTY taxes. I just have ONE child, say using 10K of resources. Someone else has 3 kids using 30K of resources. We’re paying the same (assuming our homes are generally the same size). THAT is not fair. I noticed, too, that in my school system parents actually get discounts on things like after school programs for their second, third, etc. children. That is certainly not “fair”. Those children are not using any fewer resources. I won’t even go into the fact that folks get tax breaks for all these kids. I really think, in the age we’re in of dwindling resources and serious environmental issues, we need to rethink the benefits given to people for having so many children. In this case, this woman’s dad was paying the taxes…not letter of the law, here, but, still. I am a “pull yourself up by your bootstraps” kind of girl, myself, GODDESS, on my own at 18, no help w college from parents, waitressed through it all, but I do recognize that just by being born into a home where my parents, even if not rich, cared enough to nurture me, and even if, though not rich, not violent or scary, I didn’t have to dodge bullets and drug dealers going to school each day…well, I actually DID have some pretty remarkable advantages compared to folks living in many parts of cities or in projects…and, just the fact that I have white skin gets me passes others don’t get. It’s ugly but it’s true.
goddess commented on Jan 26 11 at 8:41 amShe could have moved back with her father legally, but claimed she wanted to be independent. On Section 8 government-funded housing.
jenny tries too hard commented on Jan 26 11 at 8:50 amGP, depending on your state it’s even weirder, either less fair or more fair depending on your perspective.. I would contend that because you do want your daughter to have an educated peer group, and you will benefit down the road from your neighbors’ larger families being educated, it’s more or less fair that you all contribute the same amount to taxes and still only get *immediate* benefits based on how many children you have in public school. It evens out in the end, more or less. But consider Texas. We have the Robin Hood law for our schools, which means that all the government funding for public schools goes into a pot and gets divided evenly, so if a kid in Ghetto High wanted to come to my “better” neighborhood high school, he couldn’t, and it wouldn’t even be a question of where his parents’ property taxes go. My neighborhood school is only “better” because it has more involved parents and a safer surrounding community, but even if the Ghetto High students parents are the involved, bake sale type, they can’t send their son. Neighborhood schools are just inherently unfair.
jenny tries too hard commented on Jan 26 11 at 9:01 amOh and the discounts on second and third children in district-sponsored extras, like Saturday art classes or whatever are just marketing 101. The families with multiple children are unlikely to enroll even one of their kids if it’s too expensive. Without the discounts, it’s likely that the classes would end up being too small to justify the funding, which, again, hurts your daughter or other only children.
Plus I imagine that the district-offered activities are especially hoping to get children whose parents would have trouble affording private activites, so discounts on the second and third child make sense just in a community perspective, as do means-tested scholarships.
Manjari commented on Jan 26 11 at 9:06 amThat judge is just effed up. The sentencing is way over the top, and frankly it’s cruel. Sure this mom broke the rules, but it’s understandable under the circumstances. The problem is that some schools are so awful that caring parents will do whatever they can to keep their kids out of them. The issue that needs to be addressed is the massive discrepancies in quality of education from district to district. It bothers me that people are comfortable with the idea that poor kids deserve unsafe, terrible schools because their parents supposedly didn’t “pull themselves up by their bootstraps.”
Gretchen Powers commented on Jan 26 11 at 9:07 amWell, it’s not something that I am going to carry a torch griping about…me paying “more” relative to others. It was just to make the point that, yeah, we ALL pay for things that aren’t “ours” somewhere along the line in this world, so why the angst about this woman. Another POV, though, about the cutting out breaks for multiple children is that it might serve to disincentivize overpopulation if fewer benefits/breaks were given to people having more kids. Other than “neighborhood” schools, I don’t know what alternative you’d propose, though? People being shipped to other neighborhoods? That proved to be a huge failure. I don’t like school buses. I purposely live in a place where my kid can walk to school. I guess we need to face the fact that you can’t FORCE equality, but you can help set up conditions to foster it? And, a mom who is hustling for her kids, in a non-violent way, should not face any kind of severe penalty.
Gretchen Powers commented on Jan 26 11 at 9:11 amI’m not talking about discounts for art classes and Saturday stuff, I am talking about for before and after school care for working parents…not really an “elective” kind of thing for most…
jenny tries too hard commented on Jan 26 11 at 9:26 amDude, do you know of any childcare that doesn’t offer discounts for siblings? That’s just a matter of course.
As far as an alternative to neighborhood schools, I feel like a broken record, but, vouchers! And city-wide open enrollment for public schools, transportation vouchers for disadvantaged kids, but really any system that allows the parents to make the decision for the kids without it being tied to neighborhood. You could still choose to send your daughter to a school in your neighborhood, but you wouldn’t *have* to, is the idea.
As far as the “overpopulation” we’re way off topic now, but I have to say that the US does NOT have a problem with too many people having babies. We have a rate of about 2.2 kids per woman. We don’t want it to go any lower; as it is we’re looking at Social Security and pensions and scratching our heads because we’re having fewer workers supporting more retirees. In other countries, like Spain, they’re actually paying people to have kids. If we have anything approaching an “overpopulation” problem (and we don’t) it’s because adults are living too long, not because families are having three and occasionally more children.
Gretchen Powers commented on Jan 26 11 at 9:34 amI can see some benefits of the voucher idea, but I lean more to the side thinking that people should work on their communities as a WHOLE, schools being part of the community. We shouldn’t segment our children from civic life and comparmentalize everything. To the population this: There are all different kinds of views and theories on population, and you’re right, that’s off topic, sorry I brought that up. But I do think it’s a potential problem, and there are plenty of experts/scholars who would agree.
jenny tries too hard commented on Jan 26 11 at 9:53 amOne of the theories behind vouchers is that when schools have to compete, they will improve, so it might not be a vouchers-or-improve-the-schools choice. Plus, a few generations of better-educated, safer kids could do wonders for poor and minority communities, so getting most of the kids out of a bad neighborhood’s school could still be a long-term investment for the community as a whole. People choose neighborhoods for all sorts of reasons, after all. When a parent doesn’t have to either pay totally out of pocket for private schools or move to the “good” neighborhood when their kid starts kindergarten, more professionals and other educated people may choose to live in and serve the communities that are diverse, urbane, and, yeah, disadvantaged.
goddess commented on Jan 26 11 at 10:40 amI might say that the dollars aren’t the only factor. Cleveland city schools get over $3K MORE a year per student than our ‘burban school district.
JEssica commented on Jan 26 11 at 11:09 amThe funny thing is when she goes to jail for this her kids will probably end up in the grandfather’s care and end up going to the same school anyway.
candace seaton commented on Jan 26 11 at 11:32 amAs a convicted felon she will never be allowed anywhere near kids so her teaching career has ended before it ever began, thus depriving her of a decent living for ever…essentially a life sentence. I think a Presidential pardon is due.
Mistress_Scorpio commented on Jan 26 11 at 11:53 amThe fact is we know nothing of the complex circumstances that would drive this mother to take her child out of the bad school and put them into the better school. Again, I hear a lot of quoting what “the rules” are with no examination as to how those rules may disadvantage children in the long or short term. “All she had to do was” and “If she had just” are easy judgements to make if you are unaware of her circumstances, and I’d say those making such pronouncements are pretty blissful in their ignorance.
My family put me in a better school in my grandmother’s district rather than send me to a bad school. So maybe I take this a little more personally. Also absent from debate is why this particular mother was singled out for jail time as opposed to the several dozen fellow offenders. If the judge was trying to send a message, she sent it loud and clear.
ChiLaura commented on Jan 26 11 at 11:56 amCrazy. Jail time seems ridiculous. I think that the embarrassment, the fine, and the punishment of sending her kids back to their own school should be enough. Why ask why we have overcrowded jails when the answer is so obvious? And I’m going to go out on a limb and say that this has more to do with socioeconomics than race (I’m assuming court-appointed lawyer?).
I am sympathetic to Goddess, for sure. Rules are rules. Everyone needs to follow. I’m wondering why this mother couldn’t have moved in with her father? Or gamed the system in some other way that was “legit” (guardianship, letting the girls live with her dad at least part time?) so that this wouldn’t happen? Play it smart, lady. I don’t oppose a little bit of trickery here and there. =)
Mistress_Scorpio commented on Jan 26 11 at 1:37 pmMaybe that mother was divorced and didn’t want to risk a custody dispute by moving in with her father or designating him guardian. It’s just as easy for me to think up plausible scenarios for why she didn’t do what everyone so obviously believes she should have done as it is for others to come up with plausible reasons why her punishment was not about race.
goddess commented on Jan 26 11 at 1:38 pmNo, not ignorant, but not believing the end justifies the means, or that the sense of entitlement equals empowerment, Mistress Scorp.
And if your family sent you to another district against the law, I guess that explains your stance on this quite well.
goddess commented on Jan 26 11 at 1:40 pmIf that’s so Mistress Scorp, then I guess those things took priority and she should have used her own school system.
Mistress_Scorpio commented on Jan 26 11 at 1:49 pmGoddess, I was placed under my grandmother’s guardianship, therefore what explains my stance now? Further, what explains your comfort with the system as is? Desperate to get her children out of a bad situation equals entitlement in your eyes? Yeah, I’m going to go with your relative ignorance, because the alternative is pretty disgusting to fathom.
Mistress_Scorpio commented on Jan 26 11 at 1:54 pmSo this woman receives a punishment much more severe than several other residency cases and no one has anything to say about that? A felony conviction doesn’t only destroy her dreams of teaching, it pretty much destroys her ability to be gainfully employed in such a way that she can even support herself and her children. And what justifies that to you all? “Rules are rules?”
Gretchen Powers commented on Jan 26 11 at 2:09 pmNot “you all”…I think it’s complete BS…(and other commenters, too, said the punishment was too harsh). This point “A felony conviction doesn’t only destroy her dreams of teaching, it pretty much destroys her ability to be gainfully employed in such a way that she can even support herself and her children” is perhaps the worst part of it ALL. The judge should be ashamed! The judge is actually perpetuating the social problem here. I don’t think there should be any damages paid or time served at all. If they have to send her kids back to their own school, well then they have to, and that is sad. But she shouldn’t face all this other crap.
Madeline Holler commented on Jan 26 11 at 2:21 pmWhen we tell stories of us/our parents/our grandparents working hard to get out of poverty and send our parents/us/our children to better schools, it’s the same as saying poor people don’t work hard enough. It totally ignores the fact that you can work very hard in this country and still be poor. And that a consequence of poverty — so often as to be always — is your kids go to a shitty school while others — who presumably work oh, so much harder than poor people — get to send their kids to decent-to-good-to-excellent schools.
The fact that people (looking at you, Goddess) don’t want to share underscores how unfair and unequal the life of children is.
Laws (like school district boundaries) are man-made, not moral truths.
Madeline Holler commented on Jan 26 11 at 2:24 pmFor all of those who think a felony conviction was an outrage, go here for a link to a petition asking lawmakers and Patricia Cosgrove, the judge, to reduce the sentence on appeal.
goddess commented on Jan 26 11 at 2:31 pmYou can go with what you want, but I came up from the city of Cleveland and worked to get out of there. I’m not buying that her desperation justifies her breaking the law, falsifying documents. Yes, do so because she felt entitled to do so.
Her crime WAS a felony- something she should have considered before jeopardizing her future. Another bit of entitlement thinking. “My desperation justifies a felony.”
BGD commented on Jan 26 11 at 2:32 pmI just read through all of the news articles on this woman and her family. There is a lot more to this story than just getting caught sending her children to a better school district. Ms. Bolar and her father were caught up in some shady deals with housing, taxes, disability and a home foreclosure. What a mess for all involved. Her poor kids!
goddess commented on Jan 26 11 at 2:33 pmHey Mad– the inner city our suburb circles gets $3 GRAND MORE per student per year than our district. Am I asking for some of theirs? That’s BS.It isn’t all about the money you throw at it.
goddess commented on Jan 26 11 at 2:41 pmMis. Scorp.- the cases I am familiar with where people have been caught, they were required to payback the tuition and did not falsify legal documents. THAT is where this woman ran afoul- had she paid the tuition back when she was caught, she wouldn’t not have put herself in this position.
Mistress_Scorpio commented on Jan 26 11 at 3:04 pmMadeline, they reduced her sentence a freed her after a day. The prosecutor apparently took special interest in her case, employing private investigators and video surveillance. They got their pound of flesh, I suppose. No need to cost the taxpayers any more to jail her.
Gretchen Powers commented on Jan 26 11 at 3:05 pm“It isn’t all about the money you throw at it.” This is true!
JEssica commented on Jan 26 11 at 3:13 pmGoddess if they convicted other people alongside her I think people would have less issue with this event but that isn’t what the courts and law enforcement did instead the selectively applied a law to her and let many people off for the same crime. I don’t see how you can think this is fair or right. If you apply and enforce a law to one person you cannot decide to not apply and enforce the same law to other people.
Madeline Holler commented on Jan 26 11 at 3:30 pmM-S — Thanks for your interest and fighting the good fight! She actually served all but one day of the 10-day sentence. I’m going to update that.She was released this a.m.
Linda, the original one commented on Jan 26 11 at 3:55 pmGretchen, I’m going off your Bumbershhot comments and thinking you live in Seattle. If you’re in the SPD, I think you can actually choose schools within the district. At least that’s the way they used to do it. I oly ever hear terrible things about the SPD so I’m really glad we’re not in it.
I live to the north in a different district. You can also choose schools here, as long as their are spaces available. We also take out of district students on a space available basis.
Not Suprised commented on Jan 26 11 at 3:57 pmIt looks like no one here works in social services. This story is the norm not the exception. Wait until you find out about the mother’s who demand to have their children placed in special education so they can receive SSI checks. It’s all about getting as much as you can from the system. Sad but true.
Linda, the original one commented on Jan 26 11 at 4:07 pmAlso, some of you (Goddess, ahem) are just repulsively awful when it comes to this topic. Just, ugh.
Gretchen Powers commented on Jan 26 11 at 4:21 pmHey Linda…no, I wish! Just go there from time to time because I know some folks there and it’s such a fun place.
I disagreed with alot of what Goddess said, however, I don’t think we should get too down on someone for wanting to be protective of their own, which is really what’s driving her comments, I believer. I think that often, the closer to the bottom many white people started, the more they feel, “hey, we did A, B and C and ‘made it’ so, so can others….” and I have tendencies to think that way, too, while at the same time recognizing that some folks in power STILL will let white people get away with things that brown people can’t, and that some people in power make assumptions about the motives of brown people. At this point in my life I have become, thankfully, soooo removed from any kind of hardship that it’s easier for me to “take pity” and feel benevolent toward Williams-Bolar, but I still understand how others, who may have had to work harder along the way, or are still struggling, would be less so. Anyway, I think way back Goddess did acknowledge that the felony charge was a little much. So we ALL agree this woman got a bad deal from the court and its just a matter of degree of how much less we each feel she should have got….
Gretchen Powers commented on Jan 26 11 at 4:23 pmYeah…and as far as Seattle goes, that might be an interesting study in how class rather than race operates. I mean, there are no black people in Seattle, anyway, are there? ; )
randomsomeone commented on Jan 26 11 at 4:33 pmThis wasn’t a race issuse. Grow up people. This was an issue of laws being on the books that allows the goverenment to decide where your children get an education. Homeschool parents have been jailed on mulitple occasions because they wanted to provide their children with a better education. When a homeschool family sends their children to a school the government doesn’t approve of they get accused of child abuse! First, get the poor woman out of jail so she can get on with her education and get her kids into schools she knows will give them an education. Second, change the laws so that it reflects the rights of a parent to send their children to the school they believe is best for their children!
AIMSTER commented on Jan 26 11 at 4:35 pmThis story had me until I read ‘could have lived with her father’ and ‘section 8′. Black, white, purple, who cares. This is socio-economic. And you know what else? I’m a little pi$$ed that being black is naturally the reason she can’t afford a lawyer, since the average black income is less than the average white income. What does that have to do with her? And who says the average white person can afford a lawyer either? Grr. Hey everybody: If you don’t like the average, then don’t BE the average!
Mistress_Scorpio commented on Jan 26 11 at 4:54 pm@Madeline: sorry for getting the deets backward on that. I’d say the felony conviction will screw her more in the long term than the jail sentence.
Madeline Holler commented on Jan 26 11 at 5:00 pmThey way it was written was ambiguous, M-S: “she served all but one day”
The felony is definitely the issue but jail? Humiliating, over-the-top, unjust.
Here’s another update: she got out of jail today but also, the judge? She’s getting defensive and says the prosecutors wouldn’t budge re: felony, despite repeated attempts to do a plea agreement or lower the charges.
Ohyeah commented on Jan 26 11 at 6:57 pmWhite People: Oh racism is over since Obama is president.
White People: Black People are way more racist.White People are still racist. Alot of White People voted for McCain, he almost won.
No one White was jailed for being at a black school. These incidents aren’t surprising. There are places STILL where Black People can’t go because of White People. They are an evil race. At least Majority. They have more evilness in their race than any others and that’s a fact.
Manjari commented on Jan 26 11 at 7:07 pm“Laws (like school district boundaries) are man-made, not moral truths.”
Agreed, Madeline!!
Mistress_Scorpio commented on Jan 26 11 at 7:56 pm@Madeline: another update from Change.org…
“Kelley Williams-Bolar’s father, called to clarify that her decision to enroll her children in the suburban district had nothing to do with the academic quality of the school and was because of safety issues. Williams-Bolar’s house had been broken into and she’d had to file 12 different police reports due to crime in the area, he said. Enrolling the children in the district where her father lived was a safety-based decision, and Williams wants to dispel any rumors that it was based on academics.”
Madeline Holler commented on Jan 26 11 at 9:32 pmThanks for the update, M-S. Interesting. So much to say about our culture in that little nugget right there.
Linda, the original one commented on Jan 26 11 at 10:49 pmI can’t tell if you’re kidding or not, but of course there are black people in Seattle. What the…?
Gretchen Powers commented on Jan 27 11 at 8:26 amI’m kind of kidding….but it’s pretty white. My friend out there who is Puerto Rican always complains about how white it is.
swp commented on Jan 27 11 at 9:27 amOHYEAH….. You are so ignorant! I live here in Richmond, VA and let me tell you about racism. It goes BOTH ways.
In regards to your comments about white people being an evil race: Have you watched any documentary that involves Rwanda, Dafur, or Liberia?
Evil is not a white/ black/ color issue. Yes, there still is racism and evil all across this world.
We are reminded of that almost nightly with the mainstream media. Haven’t you heard Chris Matthews spewing his vile? (“If you are not for Obamacare then you are a racist!”~ bullshit)
Not one white is being jailed for being at a “black” school? You’re right! who would want to send their child to a crappy school where the PARENTS don’t care, the TEACHERS don’t care nor do the STUDENTS.
Do you think all whites go to these great schools? What about the Po-dunk backwoods counties too poor to properly educate due to lack of funds.
Your anger shouldn’t be addressed towards “white” people, maybe you should hold members of the black community accountable for not trying hard enough.
Oh wait, they would be acting too “white” if they did that, wouldn’t they?
Yvonne commented on Jan 27 11 at 1:20 pmOK, regarding the tax issue: THE GRANDFATHER PAYS TAXES, so their school is “payed for” already, so QUIT WITH THE TAX ARGUMENT ALREADY! Also, the undesired school in her district SAVES MONEY (spending it on someone else’s education), so no loss there either. This mom simply broke a rule–she gets called out, fined, then goes on her merry way (or that’s what should have happened). It’s foolish to make a bigger deal out of this than the system already has. Just shameful! There are many more vile crimes out there that truly evil people are getting away with.
the breeze commented on Jan 27 11 at 2:23 pm@swp none of your ancestors were used for free labor for 400 years and were still poor. America owes every descendant of slavery at least the best education. To have families that have been poor since slavery is only Americas fault. The best schools should be in those areas with the best teachers, that is what a repentant entity would do, guess America is not repentant for its sins! what a shocker!
Gretchen Powers commented on Jan 27 11 at 5:04 pmwoah…I missed OHYEAH’s comment before (Or maybe just blew by it because it’s so riduculous) but SWP has a point, too, about the race thing and Rwanda, Dafur, or Liberia! I think what that shows is when people are ground down into abject poverty and desperation, they do desperate shit…no matter what their color
Linda, the original one commented on Jan 27 11 at 10:33 pmI can longer makes heads or tails of this thread.
sally commented on Jan 29 11 at 11:13 amWe have run across this with our son’s friends, past and present. We know of at least two families that currently attends our son’s school but does not live within the school boundaries. The first friend uses her mother’s address. And another uses another friend’s address. Since they are close friends of my son I don’t really want to be the one that ‘blows the whistle’ on them. We also ran across other families in previous years that were outside the boundaries as well. How did we know? Simple, one word, “playdate”. One of the friends even had a near close call. But the principal simply stated that unless she showed proof of residency within ‘x’ amount of time her kids would need to go to their own home school. He did not threaten to send her to jail (that I know of). Only that her kids would have to be removed from the school.
On the one hand, I don’t really fault the families for wanting a better education for their children. But on the other hand, I do pay property taxes because of where we live.
Unfortunately, its a case of the schools cannot accept every single student out there just due to size restraints. Thus the reason why there’s the boundaries in the first place.
However, I think putting the mom in jail seems to be excessive. If anything has to be done, just simply having the children removed from the school is enough.
Cindy commented on Jan 30 11 at 2:41 pmHow dare people let this happen? They want parents to be more involve in their children school. And when they do they get in trouble. She should only have been told to put her kids in the right school or go and lived with her father so the kids could legally go to that school. And I’m proud that she was trying to improve herself and trying to give her girls a good education. I would probably do the same. They should give her a break. I can not believe it should be a felony or any thing else. Because it now will follow her for the rest of her life. And it will hurt her when it is time to get a job. Because people don’t won’t to hire a felony. Even if it is a stupid one. So people should stand up for her. AND GET IT OFF HER RECORD. So that she can still keep on bettering herself and for the children. AND BY THE WAY WHAT KIND OF MESSAGES IS THIS SENDING FOR PEOPLE ON WELFARE? That they don’t have a chance to improve them self if not giving a chance to improve and show their children that they can live a better life if they want one.
George commented on Jan 30 11 at 11:29 pmYOU DONT HAVE EQUALITY OF OPPORTUNITY, YOU WILL GET EQUALITY OF RESULTS…AFFIRMATIVE ACTION…END OF STORY..AND IF YOU DONT HAVE AA YOU WILL GET TOP 10% OF ALL SCHOOLS INCLUDING GHETTO SCHOOLS ADMITTED INTO TOP COLLEGES, IE., TEXAS..THE RESULT IS THE SAME…EQUALITY OF RESULTS!! AND AN UNQUALIFIED BLACK WILL GET AHEAD OF YOU. IT IS HAPPENING IN TEXAS WITH THE 10% FORMULA!!
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