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Cam Newton, His Father and His Fate

Posted by john cave osborne on November 15th, 2010 at 9:55 am
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Newton is head and shoulders above the rest.

Auburn University quarterback Cam Newton is the most electrifying player in college football. The junior signal caller has thrown for over 2,000 yards and connected on 21 touchdown passes. When he’s not carving up opponents through the air, he’s doing so on the ground. He’s rushed for 17 touchdowns and nearly 1,300 yards.

His number-two-ranked Auburn Tigers are in the hunt for a national championship. Most consider Newton to be the frontrunner for the Heisman Trophy. But recently, all of these undeniable facts have taken a backseat to a story that’s unfolding off the field.

To better understand that story, it’s important to know Newton’s backstory. His college career began in Florida where he was the understudy to Heisman Trophy winner, Tim Tebow. While at Florida, Newton ran into some off-the-field trouble for purchasing a laptop that had been stolen. It’s important to note that he was cleared of any wrongdoing in the matter. Still, he decided to transfer from the school once Tebow announced that he would return for his senior season. After playing a year of junior college ball, Newton was considered to be the top quarterback prospect in the nation. Countless teams wanted him, but he ultimately chose Auburn.

Since his first game, he’s drawn national attention with his phenomenal play. But earlier this month, the media began to focus on something else that’s proven to be phenomenal—the sordid details behind Newton’s recruitment. The story is a complicated one, as well as one which seems to change by the hour. But at the center of it stand two men. A former Mississippi State football player named Kenny Rogers, and Cam’s father, Cecil.

Kenny Rogers recently told ESPN radio that Cecil Newton, a pastor, first contacted Rogers in 2008 when they discussed the possibility of Cam playing for Mississippi State. It was then that Cecil Newton told Rogers that his son’s recruitment was “not gonna be free this time.” On November 27, 2009, the two men met with a couple of MSU coaches in the lobby of a Starkville, MS hotel. According to Rogers, Cecil brought up the topic of money, but the MSU coaches were quick to tell the athlete’s father that they weren’t willing to engage in any such conversation.

When asked how much money Cam’s dad wanted in return for a commitment from his son, Rogers answered “anywhere between $100,000 and $180,000.” Rogers said that he knew nothing about Cam’s recruitment with Auburn or any other school, and added that he did not know why the quarterback ended up selecting Auburn. He also said that he did not know whether or not Cam knew his dad was trying to arrange a “pay for play” scenario. Rogers made it clear that the only involvement he had had with the Newtons pertained to Mississippi State.

This past weekend, Atlanta’s WSB-TV reported that a “source close to the situation” told one of their reporters that Cecil Newton “has admitted having conversations with an ex-Mississippi State University player about the possibility of under-the-table money if Cam Newton signed to play football at Mississippi State.” This admission contradicts earlier denials issued by the pastor. According to the source, Cam’s dad stressed that neither Cam, Cam’s mother nor Auburn University knew anything about the situation.

Now officials from Auburn, Mississippi Sate, the Southeastern Conference, the NCAA and even the FBI are trying to sort everything out. It’s quite possible that they will uncover a recruiting violation which would disqualify Newton from participating in this year’s season. If that’s the case, any game in which he’s played this year would be forfeited. And if that ends up happening, his magical season will have been for naught.

The entire story is a sad one that exposes the underbelly of college athletics. While I’m not naive enough to be shocked by such unscrupulous dealings, I am dismayed that this particular account prominently features a player’s parent. The only role any parent should ever play in such a scenario is the one of fiduciary advisor to help his or her child steer clear of such a money-grubbing opportunist, not the role of the money-grubbing opportunist, himself. But if Cecil Newton’s involvement is even close to what it appears to be, his role was just that.

What parents like Mr. Newton don’t realize is that their pathological involvement in the affairs of their children usually has the opposite affect of the one which they had intended. It usually becomes a detriment to the child’s pursuit, as well as to the child. In trying to improve upon the child’s future, they actually endanger it.

Like most parents who fall prey to such behavior, Cecil Newton probably lives vicariously through his son to an unhealthy degree, likely to the point where he feels somewhat responsible for Cam’s success, hence his sense of monetary entitlement. If his involvement is what it appears to be, it’s very possible that Cecil has cost his son one of the most coveted trophies in all of sports as well as a shot at a national championship.

But it’s not just Cam his alleged behavior has affected. It’s also Cam’s teammates, Auburn University, the football-crazed state of Alabama, and an entire nation of adoring fans.

Cam Newton only has one regular season game left. It’s against Auburn’s instate rival, Alabama, in an annual matchup known simply as the Iron Bowl. If you get the chance to see him play (assuming he’s allowed), I hope you’ll watch. Because there’s something different about Cam. From his on-the-field leadership, to his poise under pressure, to his unparalleled athletic ability. He regularly makes the spectacular look routine.

And while doing so, he’s usually wearing a wide grin. It’s an infectious and magical one that stretches from ear-to-ear—a true million-dollar smile, to be sure.

Only his dad tried to sell it for 180,000 bucks. And in so doing, he’s taken away some of its magic. And no one should have ever taken that from the kid. Especially his dad.

Photo: AP

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Student Sues School District for Turning Blind Eye to Bullying commented on Dec 09 10 at 11:59 am

What “undeniable facts” ?

postre_baja commented on Nov 15 10 at 10:51 am

@postre_baja—these:
his team is in the hunt for a title
he’s thrown for over 2,000 yards and connected on 21 touchdown passes.
he’s rushed for 17 touchdowns and nearly 1,300 yards.
he’s considered by most to be the frontrunner for the Heisman Trophy.

thanks for reading.

John Cave Osborne commented on Nov 15 10 at 10:55 am

John Osborne, If you believe that Cam’s dad did this on his own without the knowledge of Cam or his mother, you are more of an idiot and YOU are part of the “underbelly of college football” as you put it because YOU will believe EVERYTHING they say and let them off scott free! Good Job! You gotta luv how you call out the “underbelly of college football” but you are the one who is promoting it by your blind belief! Good Job! Oh, by the way, I have a bridge in Brooklyn, NY to sell you. Wanna buy? I own it. Really, I own it. Don’t you believe me?????

salmos633 commented on Nov 15 10 at 11:01 am

@salmos633—I’ll pass on the bridge. B/c I’m with you. I’d bet my life that Cam and his mom both knew about it. Which IMHO only makes the following point I made even stronger: The only role any parent should ever play in such a scenario is the one of fiduciary advisor to help his or her child steer clear of such money-grubbing opportunists, not the role of the money-grubbing opportunist, himself.

I’m with you, Samos633.

John Cave Osborne commented on Nov 15 10 at 11:07 am

how are you so sure cam knew about it….his dad may have been trying to get himself money and knew that cam and his wife would not agree with the way he was doing this….

lwalker3129 commented on Nov 15 10 at 11:41 am

I watch college football and frankly I don’t care if this player tried to receive monetary payment for playing with a particular team. I only care if he actually received monetary payment.

JEssica commented on Nov 15 10 at 12:07 pm

To @salmos633. It is irrelevant to JCO’s point as to whether Cam himself or his mother was complicit or not in the request/demand for money from Mississippi State. Not only as the player’s father, but as a pastor he should have put himself above the fray. If the idea behind asking for the money came from the son, then the father should have acted as a father should and told him that it would be unacceptable to make such a request. The player is undeniably talented and there is little doubt in my mind that he knew what the father was doing. The only thing that matters is that a father failed his son. The most unfortunate thing about this whole situation is that neither will really have to learn from it. If things do fall out for him and his eligibility is affected he will no doubt go pro and be drafted in 2011. Then he will receive all they hoped for from Mississippi State and more from an NFL team with the small exception of having a shot at a Heisman.

PJ Mullen commented on Nov 15 10 at 1:03 pm

I agree John–Cam Newton is incredibly talented, and his father is a moron (if this is all true, of course). What I don’t understand is why all of this is coming out now instead of months ago? Why didn’t this Mississippi State player step up until now? Why didn’t the Mississippi State coaches say something before the season started if they really felt that something unethical had gone on? ….or maybe they didn’t care at first, because this kind of garbage probably happens all the time, but now Auburn is undefeated and Newton is a demigod. It’s wrong that Newton’s dad did this, but I still wanna know why MSU waited until now to say something.

JBoogie commented on Nov 15 10 at 1:08 pm

@lwalker Though I did say “I’d bet my life,” I must confess, I’m not certain Cam knew about it. But there are reports of recruiters who allege that Cam told them he was going to AU b/c the money was just too much, or something along those lines. But the point of my story gets muddled when we start w/ the “who said what” routine.

My point is the following: if the allegations are true, Cam’s dad, like so many parents who meddle to much in their children’s affairs, has done his child a great disservice. A GOOD parent shields his or her child FROM such scenarios. A BAD parent exploits his or her child THROUGH such scenarios.

John Cave Osborne commented on Nov 15 10 at 1:21 pm

Dear JCO,

Please see ESPN’s most recent “30 for 30″ on Marcus Dupree as it is germane to your topic. The only thing that an 18-20 year old kid wants on the field is to win. Social rewards accrue rapidly and the money follows shortly there after (in Cam’s case, next year).

G-money

G-money commented on Nov 15 10 at 2:14 pm

Comments It seems to me that Cam Newton’s father has an extradorindary amount of control over his son, someone whom he looks up to. And that’s a great thing. However, if these alleged reports are true, what no doubt his father thought was best for his son or perhaps best for himself, has probably cost him “the best collegiate football player in the country” the Heisman. So pastor, “what does it profit a man to gain the world and lose his soul.” But there’s a story to be learned from all of this, your children’s destiny is not in your hands, but let them find their own way and make their own mistakes. Sure, be there to offer them advice, but let it be sound advice and that advice and guidance with nurtures them with taking resonsiblity for their own actions and being accountable and being morally and ethically able to stand up for what is right. I only wish the best for this young man. Maybe not the Heisman, but I hope he keeps his eyes on a bigger prize and still “he rise”.

clewis commented on Nov 15 10 at 3:35 pm

@clewis—Well said. I’m a huge fan of Cam, and I hope everything works out for him, too. I’m hoping Auburn can show evidence which would seemingly prove that Cam was in the dark on all of this. That said, I have a feeling that we’ll hear a whole lot more about this between now and the Iron Bowl, but no matter what, I believe that the words you wrote were accurate and wise. Thanks for your comment.

John Cave Osborne commented on Nov 15 10 at 3:37 pm

i really dislike when parents try to live vicariously through their children. i see it all the time around here, and it’s only been the recreational and high school level. i’m hoping that a talented young man, who seems to love playing football, can be cleared of having prior knowledge to his dad asking for ‘pay for play’. i was watching a fictional show about cheerleading, and they deal w this very topic. the son refused to play on the team, because he didn’t want to be involved in the ‘pay for play’. his father started taking money again, but it was because the dad had lost his job and couldn’t pay bills. now i’m not sure if this is the case, but even if it were, that would be no reason to not play, or live your life for that matter, with true integrity. i’m just surprised that a pastor, a person who tries to promote doing good in the world, would do this. but i guess everyone has their price.

ciara commented on Nov 15 10 at 6:14 pm

@ciara—Right on. Let me make this clear—I love Cam Newton. He’s one of my favorite college football players of all time. As to whether or not he’s involved? Assuming his dad’s alleged confession is accurate, it’d be borderline miraculous for Cam to have not been involved. I mean if that’s who’s in your corner, how are you not exposed to it. I hope he wasn’t, though. I hope he’s cleared, but only if he deserves to be cleared. The whole thing is a tragedy.

John Cave Osborne commented on Nov 15 10 at 6:37 pm

I’m glad Auburn may have to forfeit its wins this season. Just like they did when they went undefeated under T.Bowden. Probation: a tradition on the plains.

the muskrat commented on Nov 15 10 at 8:30 pm

john…you are right if it is true then it is very sad that a father would do such a thing to his son…he is messing up his sons whole life by doing this….i dont think cam if he didnt know about it should be the one punished though but that will probably be the way it goes on….I love auburn and have been a very big fan all my life and really hope we dont have to forfeit all these games all these boys have worked so hard for this year…it has been a very remarkable season so far sucks that this can all betaken away for something cecil newton could have done….

lwalker3129 commented on Nov 15 10 at 8:39 pm

@the muskrat—spoken like a true bama fan!

@lwalker—i’m a TN fan (tough coupla years) and a big SEC fan in general. i honestly hope that it comes out that Cam knew nothing and that AU did their due diligence and can prove they had compelling evidence which suggest Cam was in the dark. i’d hate to see this magical season go up in smoke. i’ll be rooting for AU in the iron bowl. GL to your team. they’ve been the story of the entire year and i’ve enjoyed watching them.

John Cave Osborne commented on Nov 15 10 at 8:50 pm

DIV I football these days is basically just the NFL farm system. That’s a little sad because college football has always had it’s own feel and charm. Unfortunately, all you ever hear is how such and such player is going to make it at the “next level” or where so and so will go in the upcoming draft. It’s sad. But, people like Cam Newton and his dad are products of that hype and the media. College football is a huge money maker for everybody except the athletes who get used and thrown out. In a way I don’t blame Cam’s dad for doing what he apparently did. But, also I feel bad because it contributes to the already downward slide of the sport.

Keith Wilcox commented on Nov 16 10 at 10:30 am

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