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Zahra Baker: Possibly Found, Parents Suspected

Posted by sierra on October 27th, 2010 at 6:15 pm
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Zahra Baker's prosthetic leg found in North Carolina woods

Police in North Carolina have found a prosthetic leg which may have belonged to Zahra Baker, the 10-year-old Australian girl who went missing in North Carolina a month ago.

Both the girl’s father and stepmother have been arrested on charges of writing bad checks. Those charges are unrelated to the girl’s disappearance, but it’s clear that the police suspect them of the kidnapping: they’ve repeatedly searched the family’s home and are also looking at a residence Zahra’s stepmother lived at three years ago.

Does this remind anyone else of the “dingoes ate my baby” case?

In that case, Australian mama Lindy Chamberlain claimed dingoes had stolen her sleeping baby from a tent while she was camping with her family. The media around the case was clearly biased against her, and the police suspected her story as well. Lindy went to prison for murdering her daughter.

Until a hiker found evidence that the baby had in fact been dragged to a dingo den. The convictions were overturned, but Lindy is still seeking to have the cause of death on her daughter’s death certificate amended.

There’s still hope Zahra will be found alive, though the odds of that dwindle as time passes.

In the meantime, let’s try to avoid rushing to judgment against her parents. Yes, their actions seem shifty. They threw out her mattress, delayed reporting her missing, planted a fake ransom note and relatives have claimed the stepmother was abusive.

But we can’t know yet what really happened. Sometimes, usually even, grieving parents are as innocent as they seem. From the sidelines, there’s not a lot that can be done but pray for a good outcome for that little girl, if prayer is your thing.

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41 Comments

I think we can safely say the leg is hers as there would not be to many of them just laying around in the bush.
That poor little girl to go through cancer and then this.

Anne commented on Oct 27 10 at 7:42 pm

I hope the others leaving comments will reconsider the value of personal attacks directed against someone who is simply suggesting that nobody rush to judgment.

Sierra, I find the comparison between this case (and its mountain of evidence) and the dingoes episode somewhat thin, but hey. Who knows. More improbable public press ‘convictions’ have been proven wrong in the past. They could have done a number of stupid/horrible things to the girl, including simply neglecting her to the point someone else took her, etc. etc.

Either way, poor Zahra :( I hope they do find her alive.

Cordelia commented on Oct 27 10 at 8:57 pm

I don’t believe you should have your children taken away from you, as “Melissa” said. However I know the parents are guilty and you should too, it’s just obvious.

wow commented on Oct 27 10 at 9:09 pm

OBVIOUSLY you didn’t read YOUR OWN (sic) comment. “…the dumbest thing anyone couldve said.” -clapclapclap – standing ovations.

HELLOOOOOOO?!

NOTHING wrong about pointing out, that EVERYTHING is possible.

Judging people based only on accusations (besides that simple-minded comment about his kids)… THIS is seriously dumb….

…so get yourself a copy of “Idiocracy”. watch it and then please rethink your reproduction-plans.

You could do the world a favor. Trust me.

@Mellisa commented on Oct 27 10 at 9:24 pm

Funny you should mention the “dingo took my baby” case, because VERY ironically Michael Chamberlain, who was the father of Azaria and husband of Lindy, has a nine year old daughter called ZAHRA!

morten commented on Oct 27 10 at 9:31 pm

I was trying to leave a similar comment on a facebook page for Zahra, (but the post wouldn’t stick and facebook took the page down). Everybody said Lindy Chamberlain was guilty. They critisized her lack of emotion, her clothing, her hairdo, her religion, her absolutely everything. And God help her the day the media got that photo of her smiling. Everybody KNEW Lindy was guilty of murdering Azaria and when she was found guilty, everybody said “I knew it, I told you so, bring back the death penalty”. She went to jail for years. Years that she couldn’t celebrate her kids birthdays with them, Christmas, Mothers Day etc. You can never be compensated for that. It took years for the truth to come out but by then, the damage to Lindy and her family was irrepairable. (For the record, I was about 8 at the time and lived in a perfect world where mothers didn’t their babies so I believed Lindy didn’t do it all along) .

I too have pleaded with people to stop making judgement until Zahra has been found and the truth has come out but was attacked for being “an Adam advocate”. Zahra Baker has beaten the odds twice already in her short life. She is a perfect example of why you should not give up hope. Thank you for your comments Sierra, I couldn’t agree more. I refuse to give up hope for Zahra.

Samantha commented on Oct 27 10 at 10:22 pm

I think the reason that people are reacting so strongly to this post is because there have already been many posts on Babble detailing the abuse Zahra reportedly suffered at the hands of her stepmother. I think Babble readers would be better served if Babble contributors read the blogs they write for before typing up a post and having it edited before publication. Also, it would save you from the inevitable embarrassment one generally feels as a result of publicly presenting an opinion without all the facts available. Obviously, we may all be wrong about Zahra’s stepmother and father, but given all the information presently available that seems unlikely and, subsequently, a post like the one seems really clumsy and mistaken and inspires a hostile response from some readers. I think the hostility is unproductive, but understandable as we have been hearing about the abuse people witnessed this girl suffering (abuse they didn’t speak up about until after she went missing) and it is offensive to suggest the stepmother and father are innocent from causing her pain and suffering, though, yes, obviously there is a chance they did not cause her disappearance. Please, in the future, do your research.

alison commented on Oct 27 10 at 10:26 pm

Are you serious???? No one has to jump to any conclusions. The facts are right in our faces and I am from Australia and to compare Lindy Chamberlain to this case is preposterous! Our media were atrocious in that case totally opposite to the manner of the police involved in Zahra’s case. It has been handled with the utmost integrity and only a blind fool needs more evidence to know what is what in this case.

Lo commented on Oct 27 10 at 11:19 pm

I’m sorry, as an Australian I resent the comment about Lindy Chamberlain! why does this case remind you of poor Azaria’s case, because poor Zahra and her father Australian?? PLEASE!
sadly I don’t think there is much hope for poor little Zahra, I hope that she is found safe and well but each day it seems less and less likely :( we are mortified by this case here in Australia.. an apology I think is in order!

Leigh commented on Oct 28 10 at 12:04 am

oh and FYI, from where I stand neither parent looks to be innocent! this story and the 911 call have been “fishy” from the outset and sadly I suspect that both parents are involved but heaven forbid the rest of the world should assume that all Australians are bad people on the back of the outcome of this case!!

Leigh commented on Oct 28 10 at 12:07 am

I JUST SIERRA BLACKS ARTICLE, SIERRA WHAT PLANET ARE YOU FROM, DUMMY? IS THIS YOUR FIRST WRITING JOB? I BET YOU ARE SCRAPPING YOUR MONEY TOGETHER NOW FOR ZAHRAS PARENTS BAIL. R U MAKING ROOM IN YOUR HOUSE FOR THEM? YOU HAVE WRITTEN ONE OF THE DUMBEST ARTICLES THAT I HAVE READ IN A LONG TIME. I ACTUALLY THOUGHT YOU WERE JOKING WHEN YOU WROTE THIS ARTICLE. OBVIOUSLY, YOU DO NOT HAVE COMMON SENSE. YOU ARE THE TYPE OF WOMAN WHO WOULD SEE A MAN RAPE A CHILD AND SAY THAT HE NEEDS A SECOND CHANCE. DUMMY

jennifer from ny commented on Oct 28 10 at 12:10 am

You are getting desperate to try and link stories based on the fact she is Australian. She has gone missing in your country. RIP beautiful Zahra it was a priviledge being your nurse years ago.

Elizabeth commented on Oct 28 10 at 1:17 am

everyone deserves an opinion, except u. U ignorant dumbass

will bailey commented on Oct 28 10 at 1:45 am

you are an ifiot comparing this to the dingo stealing the baby…,typical of fools reporting garbage for headlines. Adam wanted to leave the stupid USA but coyuldn’t afford to leave. Elisa is a horrid creature that deserves the death penalty. Zahra would still be here today if Adam could have come home…stick your dingo stole my baby crap right where it fits..

zahras cousin commented on Oct 28 10 at 6:06 am

The poor excuse they have on this missing girl (the dad and step mom) is a pathetic story to come up with. Do these people really think they will not be caught? A little innocent girl is gone. The cowards should at least admitt their crime and take it as it comes… do they not owe the little girl that much… Horrible people. The little girl was so brave and should of been embraces with more love than she got.. These sick people deserve the death penalty. Shame on them. Sad story. May they be arrested on murder one soon.

sherry commented on Oct 28 10 at 6:40 am

Okay, what am I missing that should make me think this is just like the “dingoes” case – all I’m coming up with here are that they’re both Australian families.

Also, the fact of the matter is that when horrible things happen to children, it’s nearly always at the hands of someone they were close to. So the arguement that parents are pretty much never the culprits is crazy.

I’m always blown away by the lack of basic logic in Strollerderby posts. Honestly, it’s the only reason I keep reading (which really makes no sense, but there it is.)

Em commented on Oct 28 10 at 8:04 am

I do see where the the writer is getting the comparison with the dingo incident. I think what she means is that at the time that incident occurred, the whole story sounded ridiculous and made up by parents who everyone figured killed the child. The good thing is that the truth did finally come out, and the woman is out of prison. She can’t get back the time with her family that she lost, but at least she won’t spend the rest of her life in prison.

The current story with Zahra can be likened to that incident. The stories Adam and Elisa are telling sound ridiculous, and everyone believes that Adam or Elisa (or both) were involved in her death. If you listen to the 911 call that Mr Baker made, he is just too nonchalant considering his child is missing. He sounds so calm and collected; he doesn’t sound worried in the least. At one point he even laughs and says he rarely sees his daughter because she’s at that age where she is “brooding.” I don’t think there’s anything to laugh about when your child is missing.

Whether Adam wanted to go to Australia or not is of no relevance. If he knew that Elisa was abusing Zahra, it’s easy enough to call police and get yourself and your daughter out of that situation. Even if he didn’t kill the little girl, he’s just as much to blame for letting all these things go on right under his nose and not doing a damn thing about it. I also fault family members who felt like something was going on, and didn’t tell anyone who could help such as DSS. If someone had spoken up, there’s a good chance this little girl might still be alive.

JS commented on Oct 28 10 at 9:11 am

Who in their right mind would not be thinking they are guilty? If your child were missing and you were in hopes of them being returned what would be the reasoning to throw away her bed? Why would you write a fake ransom note knowing it would throw away precious time looking for what really happened to your child if you weren’t guilty yourself? Why would you wait so long to report a child missing? Sorry, but I’m not buying that they are somehow innocent amidst all of that. These parents, rather – vile creatures – are guilty. They have been trying to cover their behinds, and poorly I might add. RIP Zahra, I’m so sorry you didn’t get a chance to enjoy your life after overcoming such illness. May the full truth come out & justice be swiftly served.

Duh commented on Oct 28 10 at 9:21 am

A pack of dingoes just ate a blogger!

bob commented on Oct 28 10 at 9:53 am

Two things I’ve learned from these comments:

1. Analogies are a tough concept for many readers here.

2. There are some seriously oversensitive Australians on Strollerderby.

IrishCream commented on Oct 28 10 at 10:19 am

Wow, and here I foolishly believed that in the US you were INNOCENT until proved guilty. Hmm.. apparently everyone here who commented already has ALL the facts and evidence and can decide whether these people are innocent or guilty. Surprising, since I bet none of the folks here are investigating the case as a law inforcement official, nor do you have all the facts. But then who needs facts really, especially when you have hearsay and circumstantial evidence.

I guess the court of public opinion is all we really need these days. It makes me sad that someone posting their opinion, which espouses the tenants of what the US was founded on, is being attacked so viciously. Sierra, I apologize on their behalf. These attacks are completely inappropriate and should not happen in a civilized society.

KB commented on Oct 28 10 at 10:30 am

Um, I think I’ll just go ahead and rush to judgement. I have seen enough of these cases through the years and for the most part they’re pretty predictable. In this case, family has chronic money problems, dad marries some broad that he met on line, sweet kid with severe illnesses is resented by the stepmom, who has now convinced hubby to pik up and move a few times, eventually moving in with her dad. Stepmom finds it easier to do away with inconvenient kid rather than leaving or actually getting a job and helping out.
You watch—-I bet I’m pretty close to guessing what’s gone on here.

kim commented on Oct 28 10 at 10:43 am

@KDF wow.. a little hostility there? For someone you’ve never met and only know from a handful of blog posts? Sheesh.. I think it might be better for you to examine your own life and relationship with your children instead of attacking Sierra for her personal choices.

I mean really… “It’s kind of sickening to listen to her. If she wanted a real career, she could find one.” Did you really just say this? As if parenting isn’t a “career”? raising the next generation isn’t a “real career”?

And who are you to decide whether Sierra “works” or not, simply because she decided not to homeschool? Have you ever tried to homeschool your kids? Do you know how incredibly challenging and demanding it can be? Sheesh..

I gotta say the vitriol coming from these comments directed at Sierra seems completely at odds with what StrollerDerby is all about. If you haven’t read the mission statement, now might be a good time to go do that: http://www.babble.com/content/aboutus/missionstatement

KB commented on Oct 28 10 at 11:04 am

rushing to judgement is never a good idea, but let’s face it…it’s not the same as the dingbat dingo people. Evidence is being found here…who threw out the mattress and wrote the note? Hello?

dingo commented on Oct 28 10 at 12:02 pm

Comments The firts red flag in this case for me was the ransom note which turned out to be written by the stepmother. It breaks my heart to see video’s of this little girl so happy despite of what we now know about her homelife. Always a smile on her face. I do believe her parents are responsible for her demise. Just so sad.

jacqueline commented on Oct 28 10 at 12:19 pm

Comments One more thing. I may not agree with this bloggers opinion, but she is entitled to her opinion. She should be entitled to speak her mind without being flamed. It’s ok to agree to disagree.

jacqueline commented on Oct 28 10 at 12:26 pm

If Adam really wanted to go back to Australia why didn’t he report her and let her a$$ go to jail?? Also somebody came up with bail money to get him out of jail why didn’t that same person step forward and help him take his child back home where she was safe??? He is just as guilty as she is and they both should get the same treatment they put this child through……..Its a shame her life was taken due to some low life piece of sh*t!!!!

Julie commented on Oct 28 10 at 12:46 pm

@ Bob- I too think they are probably guilty as sin. But your post about the writer is borderline slander, and I hope you get sued. Wait, you gave the name “bob” to attack her… I am sure you provided a fake email too. Cowardly.

Hope commented on Oct 28 10 at 2:03 pm

@Hope – you mean KDF, NOT Bob, who has, as far as I know, never written anything slanderous about anyone on this board. He’s funny, not mean. If you look at your own comment, you will see your name appear UNDERNEATH the comment, not above. Please be more careful next time. Bob is one of the good guys!

Kikiriki commented on Oct 28 10 at 3:07 pm

CommentsI don’t think Adam or the Stepmom will be free for very long.
Would not be surprised if these two start pinning it on each other, and both of them hopefully will end up in prison for the rest of their natural lives.

jacqueline commented on Oct 28 10 at 4:14 pm

Comments
Doesn’t anyone see the connection between writing bad checks & ransom notes….DUH!!! It’s called money…anyway they could get it. Probably an after thought!!! Also last time Zahra was seen in public was at a furniture store. WHAT were they buying. A mattress 2 replace the one they would have to get rid of???

Bobbie commented on Oct 28 10 at 4:18 pm

hmmmm…..rushing to judgement??? Three individual reports to the state regarding this poor girl being abused, step mom admits to writing fake ransom note, stepmom’s own daughter begs judge to keep her mother in jail. This woman lied to people about having brain cancer in order to get sympathy from people. You should be ashamed of yourself for writing such ignorance. As a mother, I proudly judge them. This child battled two types of cancer, and was murdered by the people that were supposed to be protecting her. This child was failed by everyone. Including you. Can’t know what really happened?! We know that a 10 year old girl was murdered…We know that her prosthetic leg was found…..We know that her mattress was discarded and replaced…..We know enough. Comparing this story to the Dingo Baby is ridiculous. What exactly would be the common thread?? Maybe you should reinvestigate that story. Zahra is the victim here, not the parents that are guaranteed to be responsible.

Anna commented on Oct 28 10 at 4:22 pm

Hopefully they are close to figuring this case out – I just heard there is a lot of activity going on at the house where they have been digging for two days. Camera trucks and reporters everywhere! I was starting to believe that something happened to Zahra because of some stupid deal that Adam and Elisa made with someone? A child prostitutoin deal or a drug deal gone bad? What if they can’t tell what really happened to Zahra because their association with the people that really took Zahra would be worse than reporting her missing and playing stupid. I can’t get over the fact that Adam was so cool and polite on the phone call to report his missing daughter. I can’t get over the fact that Elisa collected $10K from someone in London? but we don’t know for what?? Who knows what Elisa was into? and who she was making deals for Money with. She met Adam on line. I think Zahra got caught up in a deal gone bad for Elisa and Adam. When Adam called 911 – he repeatedly stated and assumed that ‘THEY’ took his daughter. Not just once but several times. If you have a child missing- do you call the police and say it appears ‘THEY’ took my child. or would you say ‘whoever’ took my child must have snuck in the house when we were occupied by the fire. I just hope they find Zahra soon and get Adam and Elisa behind bars where they belong. Adam also used the word ‘DRAMA’ to describe the events that took place the night before with the fire. They both know EXACTLY what happened and just maybe they can’t tell us what really happened because they were involved in selling children or drugs? for what they love most – MONEY. Hopefully time will tell! Also if you listen to the call – Adam says that his boss came over when he called him and his boss brought his daughter and son. I think Adam and Elisa either promised someone something? or owed someone something? and when whoever showed up to collect? they ended up taking Zahra? – Adam and Elisa spent the next 12 hours trying to fugure out how to cover up their connection?

Theorist commented on Oct 28 10 at 5:00 pm

Comments No. This does not remind me of the “dingoes ate my baby” story one bit. I see no similarity at all. But it does remind of what happened to Caylee Anthony–that is a more believable comparison. Thankfully, her mother is behind bars and it’s only a matter of time…

Your comparison makes me think you feel that Zahra’s parents are innocent–that they deserve some kind of sympathy. You suggest we try not to jump to the conclusion that they are the reason Zahra is gone. But let me ask you this Sierra. Have you heard the 911 calls made by Zahra’s father and stepmother? They’re absolutely appalling! You can hear the lies in their voices, and when you listen to those calls, weigh the evidence so far, and consider the entire sequence of events as they have occurred, how can you not know in your heart that those monsters have destroyed that beautiful, innocent little girl.

These “parents” have pretty much proven their guilt by their actions, and by what they have said to authorities. The only thing missing right now is the court case that will seal the deal. Yes, it is true in this country that a person is innocent until proven guilty. But that doesn’t mean the guilty party is any less guilty of a a crime before they are tried and convicted. They did what they did…those “parents” killed their precious daughter and did everything they could to cover it up and make it look like someone else. Why else would Eliza Baker write a phoney ransom note? Why else would they get rid of Zahra’s mattress? Why else would they delay calling the police? I can only hope that they both get what they have coming to them in the worst possible way.

When I read mediocre writing such as yours I usually just close the page and move on. But your topic is one that is close to my heart so I felt compelled to comment. I don’t know if you get paid for this, or if this is simply a blog post, but I would suggest a writing class.

Shawn Marie Hardy commented on Oct 28 10 at 6:28 pm

What is wrong with everyone? Leave Sierra alone! It’s fine to disagree with her opinion, but there is just NO need for personal attacks. WTF?

Manjari commented on Oct 28 10 at 8:25 pm

@ Shawn Marie Hardy.. “This does not remind me of the “dingoes ate my baby” story one bit. I see no similarity at all.”

The similarity between the two is not about the circumstances of what happened to the children in each case. It’s about the court of public opinion, ie: you, passing judgment on these people before you know what happened. I agree the circumstantial evidence that we here from the outside of this investigation is quite damning. But that’s not the point! They very well may have done all of those things to Zahra, but a witch hunt in the media doesn’t really make anything better. Lindy Chamberlain was convicted of a crime she did not commit long before she step foot in a court room. In my mind, that’s the point that Sierra was trying to make (sorry if I”m putting words in your mouth). That all these comments and media attention have already found Zahra’s parents guilty, lock-stock and barrel, without so much of a wink at our judicial system. Speculate all you want that’s fine, but outright stating they are guilty without them receiving any kind of due process is a witch hunt, regardless of whether they are or aren’t found guilty in the end.

KB commented on Oct 28 10 at 11:42 pm

I don’t find much similarity between the cases, personally. Perhaps later, if someone besides the parents is convicted of the crime, there might be a parallel. Right now, that doesn’t look likely, really. I sometimes disagree with Sierra, however, that doesn’t make her a bad writer. I think her writing is generally some of the better writing on Strollerderby and I complain about the quality of the writing on here a lot. Complaints about content should be separate from complaints about writing, I think.

Linda commented on Oct 29 10 at 1:28 pm

I didn’t find this post all that offensive. but what i DO find offensive is the latest turn by SD towards salacious “news”. I read SD to get thoughtful views on parenting issues. But lately I feel like I’ve been reading the NY Post. What’s going on?

msmallomar commented on Oct 29 10 at 1:33 pm

@KB espouse your own words and DO NOT apologize on my behalf or any other Australian. The right to free speech is ours as much as Sierra’s. Our “dingo” case is not even comparable. Neither Lindy nor Michael ever beat their children, wrote fake ransom notes or decided a 10 yr old was just a moody teen- that’s a contradiction in terms btw- and therefore might just be missing because she might want a day off life. Australia treated the Chamberlains appallingly with expert witnesses even getting DNA wrong so kindly get your own facts straight before sermonizing about others.

Lo commented on Oct 30 10 at 2:31 am

I would like to clarify a badly written comment. The contradiction in terms that I was alluding to was that Adam Baker stated Zahra was at that age of moody teens and they were used to her just remaining on her room. My point was she is 10 yrs old not a teenager and in no way did I mean she may have run away.

For those interested Adam Baker took care of Zahra from the age of 8 mths when her mother left and had no further contact with her. Baker moved to Townsville to live with his parents where his mother looked after Zahra while he worked.
There is no record of him being anything other than a loving father and that can be checked as the community got to know them well when Zahra contracted cancer and fund raising was held for her needs.
It all seems to have turned when he became involved with Elisa online and then married her and moved to the USA. It needs to be remembered tho that altho Baker’s family appear wonderful people he is an adult who has made his own choices in the past few years and must now take responsibility for his criminal actions and the treatment of Zahra. I feel great sympathy for Zahra and her biological extended family. They don’t deserve any of this.

Lo commented on Oct 30 10 at 4:01 am

Did my 10/29 early-sfternoon comment get deleted for some reason?? There seems to be 5+ fewer comments on this thread than there were on Friday.

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