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Will Formula Recall Fuel Breastfeeding Wars?

Posted by paulabernstein on September 23rd, 2010 at 2:38 pm
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Yesterday, I posted about lactivists who are boycotting Old Navy because of a onesie that they say it promotes the formula agenda.

By and large, commenters agreed that the proposed boycott is ridiculous. But after news of a similac formula recall, already I’ve seen some anti-formula comments. I fear that the similac formula recall will create a backlash against moms who feed their babies formula and fuel the so-called “Breastfeeding Wars.”

Apparently, one midwife in Australia thinks that formula should be banned from supermarkets and that people should only be able to buy it by prescription.

“Formula like Similac has bugs in it. How can we ever trust formula completely ever again?” one woman commented on my post from yesterday.

Certainly, it’s going to be hard for Similac to renew customer trust. But I’d hate for moms who formula feed to feel guilty about the recall – as if they were somehow poisoning their baby. Similarly, I hope that lactivists don’t use the recall as an opportunity to lecture moms about why they shouldn’t use formula.

I’m pro-breastfeeding, but I want moms to have all the support they need however they choose to feed their baby.

What do you think?

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I’m very pro-breastfeeding, but my baby refuses to nurse whenever there is something more interesting going on, so I bottle feed if I need to feed him when we go out. I got sick of pumping around 8 months and started supplimenting with formula. Had planned to use Earth’s Best organic, but we were in a small town in the midwest and Similac was the only organic option. Since he liked it, we stuck with it. I’m so tired of this breastmilk vs. formula debate. I think it resonable that parents feeding their babies formula should expect it to be safe. I’m just thankful that the recall is for bugs in the formula and not a poison like melemine!

Sarah commented on Sep 23 10 at 3:24 pm

No war here. MY body.MY breasts. MY choice.

goddess commented on Sep 23 10 at 3:37 pm

Comments I have to say, in an ideal world, I would hope that all mothers who were able to breastfeed (which would essentially be every woman) would choose to give their baby what they need, which is breastmilk. I find the “choice” to give a baby inferior nutrition to be perplexing. I would love it if our society were redesigned so that parents had the support they needed to make good choices. I don’t want to judge anyone who chooses formula, but I do feel bad that they might have made a different choice if the circumstance were different and they felt like breastfeeding were a more attractive option in their lives.

Elena Margo Gould commented on Sep 23 10 at 4:28 pm

They ARE poisoning their babies — not so much outwardly but the effects of formula consumption are still under investigation. If you should see a video that involves creating formula, it’s all poisons. Actually full of poisons, like what you put in cleaners and things like that. How natural can that be? Just because our formula fed children are “smart” and “healthy” now — doesn’t mean that what they are getting now might not possibly (very well) make them sick in the future, whether it’s obesity and/or dementia when they are older.

We need to put our kids first and stop supplementing them with milk unless it’s the ONLY way to go.

Allison commented on Sep 23 10 at 4:33 pm

A formula recall shouldn’t make anyone feel like their posioning their child. At least, not anymore than a recall for eggs, spinach, Kellog’s breakfast cereal, or alfalfa sprouts should; all of those were recalled this summer too.

Bec commented on Sep 23 10 at 4:44 pm

Will the formula recall fuel the breastfeeding wars?

I don’t know but I know that Babble will. Babble’s constant stirring up of the so called “breastfeeding wars” is insulting to the 95% of us moms who are doing the best job we can with our kids and know that other moms, whether breastfeeding or formula feeding, are doing the same.

JJ commented on Sep 23 10 at 4:50 pm

I am a big advocate of breastfeeding and think that it is the normal and ideal way to feed a baby. HOWEVER, I was curious about the ingredients in formula because at one point someone told me there was corn syrup in it. A typical Similac formula has the following ingredients, none of which I find particularly egregious. Sure, breastmilk from mom is the best and that’s what my kid got, but I am not going to villify someone who gives something that is fine to their kid.

Ingredients:

Similac Advance formula with iron is made with the following ingredients: D Nonfat Milk, Lactose, High Oleic Safflower Oil, Soy Oil, Coconut Oil, Whey Protein Concentrate, Less than 2% of: C. Cohnii Oil, M. Alpina Oil, Potassium Citrate, Calcium Carbonate, Ascorbic Acid, Potassium Chloride, Choline Bitartrate, Magnesium Chloride, Choline Chloride, Ferrous Sulfate, Ascorbyl Palmitate, Taurine, M-Inositol, Alpha Tocopheryl Acetate, L-Carnitine, Mixed Tocopherols, Sodium Chloride, Zinc Sulfate, Niacinamide, Calcium Pantothenate, Cupric Sulfate, Vitamin A Palmitate, Thiamine Chloride Hydrochloride, Riboflavin, Pyridoxine Hydrochloride, Beta-Carotene, Folic Acid, Manganese Sulfate, Phylloquinone, Biotin, Sodium Selenate, Vitamin D3, Cyanocobalamin and Nucleotides (Adenosine5 -Monophosphate, Cytidine 5-Monophosphate, Disodium Guanosine 5-Monophosphate, Disodium Uridine 5-Monophosphate)

Gretchen Powers commented on Sep 23 10 at 5:00 pm

If it were really 100% about our “choices” that would be one thing. But too many women who want to BF don’t really have a choice. They have to return to workplaces (usually after little or no maternity leave, and because many families can’t survive without this income) and they are given no time or place to pump. How does badgering these women about their “choices” help them? But it’s much easier to call it a “war” and blame women for their “choices” than to think about tackling the much bigger problem, right? The real war should be on the extreme anti-family policies of our country.

michelle commented on Sep 23 10 at 5:56 pm

Elena- it’s no big deal- I just didn’t want my body and breasts used in for that function. End of story.
Allsion., I am willing to vntiure that the choice I made to vaccinate my oldest son had more impact on him than the formula vs breastfeeeding. The vaccine DID kill him.
I’m also willing to guess that the place place I chose to raise the kids, the emphasis I put on their educations, the morals and lessons I imparted will have a far greater and lasting impact than the milk they drank for the first 12 months.

goddess commented on Sep 23 10 at 6:09 pm

JJ,I’m not sure how Babble is stirring up the so-called breastfeeding wars by discussing the issue here. I’m advocating for support and understanding on both “sides” of the issue. But it’s hard not to take offense when someone likens formula to poison. I agree that most moms are doing the best they can and judging them isn’t helpful or productive.

paulabernstein commented on Sep 23 10 at 7:00 pm

Elena – well written! Your final sentence summarizes the thoughts that have been going through my head since I was flamed by a pro-formula person the other day. I too wish that breastfeeding was the norm in our society and that everyone felt that it was the natural & normal thing to do and were supported by others to feel that way. Again, no judgement, just observation here: I feel as though formula moms are so quick to get defensive and complain about the dirty looks they get or comments about how they should be nursing. While I’m sure this does happen occasionally, I can tell you from experience as a mom who has been in both worlds that no one has ever looked at me twice when I whip out a bottle, nor have I ever gotten a negative comment, nor have I ever been asked to bottle feed my baby in the bathroom, nor have I been kicked out of an establishment for bottle feeding. Whereas at least one of these things has happened nearly every time I nurse in public. I know where I come from in the midwest, the majority of people do not support nursing and even if they do, they think it should be done in private or with extreme discression (covered up, etc). Reading the message boards on the Star Tribune website regarding a public nursing story made me want to weep. If people want to feed their babies formula, I’m fine with it. I suppliment with it myself. I just long for a day when more women feel as though nursing is a viable option for them.

Sarah commented on Sep 23 10 at 7:54 pm

Sarah, as you point out, it does make a difference where you live. I got a lot of negative comments when I fed my baby with a bottle when we lived in the East Village of Manhattan. I even had strangers come up to me and ask me if I was breastfeeding! But, I agree that there should be more support for breastfeeding moms — especiallly with regard to being able to pump at work and to nurse in public. It is sad that everyone says that “breast is best” and yet moms who nurse in public in some places are treated as if they are doing something disgusting. So I’m all for support for BFing moms and formula feeding moms. I just want us all to get along. Let’s do what’s best for us and then support other’s choices — and end this so-called “war.”

paulabernstein commented on Sep 23 10 at 8:01 pm

I live in the suburbs of DC where people are generally smart and polite, so we don’t really say shit about what other people do (not out loud to their faces anyway). It’s never happened to me and I BFd anytime anywhere.

Gretchen Powers commented on Sep 23 10 at 8:13 pm

Gretchen, here’s another dimention to the “people who are ‘allowed’ to BF in public with no issue” vs. “people who are glared at, ridiculed, told to cover up, what have you” front: I am plus sized. I’ve talked to other mamas about this at great length and many feel, as I do, that larger mamas (or small mamas with very large breasts) seem to be the target of “gross! cover that up” attitudes more than thinner moms. And I’m not even talking about boobs hanging out all over the place. I’m talking about even when it comes to “discrete” nursing. You opinion?

Paula, Definately think where you live is a big factor. I am fortunate to know live in a very liberal East Coast city where nursing isn’t an issue. However, bottle feeding hasn’t been either. Well said about supporting other people’s choices!

Sarah commented on Sep 23 10 at 9:48 pm

My opinion (only since you asked) is that all women of any size should feel free to feed their babies however they need to wherever they need to, and anyone who doesn’t like it can look away and keep their mouths shut. People need to grow up. It makes me angry to think of someone giving a woman a hard time for this.

Gretchen Powers commented on Sep 23 10 at 10:08 pm

I like that opinion!

Sarah commented on Sep 23 10 at 10:22 pm

All the nipple Nazis can kiss my wide behind. I am so glad you have the luxury to pump/feed at any hour of the day, or that your milk flows like water out of a tap. Some of us don’t make enough milk and have to supplement with formula, which then messes with the baby, because they get a taste for one and won’t eat the other. And some of us have to go back to work after 6 weeks of maternity leave, and even though some states stipulate we have to be given a space to pump, that doesn’t mean we have the time or are even given ample time. So come off you high horses and just cut it with the holier than though crap. If you see me feeding my baby a bottle in public I dare you to come up and say something.

MT commented on Sep 23 10 at 11:00 pm

Here’s a thought…there are countries where bugs (of all kinds!) is a staple in their diet. Here’s another thought…all these boxes of “Tainted” formula will go in the garbage, while third world countries have babies who are starving to death, who would give anything for some bug laiden formula. What a waste.

ECH commented on Sep 24 10 at 9:18 am

I find it profoundly unhelpful to style what is essentially a question of personal compromises to make your family work (that we all strike in parenting on one issue or another) and the stray coments of some jerky busy-bodies as a culture war between moms. In fact, I refuse to say whether I breastfeed or bottle or both. Women shouldn’t be tearing each other down for making different personal choices or for being passionate about this issue. Let’s be real, it is not other moms who are making it hard to be a good parent–it is antiquated and anti-family work policies, lack of high quality affordable childcare, and myriad societal pressures. I am as tired of people hurling epithets like “nipple Nazis” and “lactivists” as I am sick of people handing out unsolicited parenting advice about breastfeeding (or any other issue).

Micky commented on Sep 24 10 at 10:11 am

oh dear….

Gretchen Powers commented on Sep 24 10 at 10:32 am

Micky, I don’t have a problem with the term “lactivist.” I don’t think it’s a pejorative term. They’re lactation activists. Nothing wrong with that. But I have serious problems with the term “nipple Nazis” or “breastfeeding Nazis.” It’s offensive on so many levels (most of all, comparing pro-breastfeeding activists with those who killed six million Jews). No comparison! It belittles the breastfeeding cause and downplays the atrocities of the Holocaust.

paulabernstein commented on Sep 24 10 at 11:06 am

I think MTs comment is a perfect example of the defensiveness Sarah was talking about. Nipple nazis? Seriously? Not ONE comment here is judging anyone for formula feeding. I think formula is needed mostly because mothers are forced to go back to work or choose to work during their childrens’ infancies. I do believe that there are also mothers who have problems with nursing, but it seems odd to me that half of all women seem to be unable to produce enough milk. I think that might be a false perception born out of a lack of support and education from the medical community. For example, it takes a couple of days sometimes more for most mothers’ milk to come in, and doctors seem really quick to advise supplementing instead of assuring new moms that colostrum is all their babies need for those first few days. I don’t think mothers should be made to feel bad for their choices, but I do think they should get all the information they need to make those choices.

Manjari commented on Sep 24 10 at 11:09 am

I agree with Micky and even think that somehow these little hen battles are just a way to keep people from actually doing something productive about rights for women and decent human rights in general in this country.

My “oh dear” comment was about sending tainted products to poor people who eat bugs anyway…

Gretchen Powers commented on Sep 24 10 at 12:09 pm

“The real war should be on the extreme anti-family policies of our country.” YES!!! Thank you Michelle. Very well put.

And Manjari – excellent point about the medical community. A mother with questions really should find either a lactation consultant (such as La Leche League) or a trusted friend who has breastfed a lot to get some real support, and not a so-called expert who sabotages a mama’s efforts because none of their expertise includes breastfeeding support.

Elena Margo Gould commented on Sep 24 10 at 12:15 pm

ECH, I don’t think sending the “tainted” milk to 3rd world countries would help because most of the issues with “tainted” milk over there is not the formula but access to clean water.

JEssica commented on Sep 24 10 at 1:23 pm

Now they’re breastfeeding “wars”? ::eye roll:: And people who use to term “Nazi” to describe movements not leading to the murder of million of innocent people are assholes. You may not intend to be an asshole, but when you say that, you become one. If you want other people to respect you and your views, cut it out because you’re term is as offensive as an outright racial slur. Finally, there is no point in discussing breastfeeding on any part of Babble. In my opinion, many of formula feeders are so defensive that they can’t be reached via this particular forum.

Linda commented on Sep 24 10 at 3:21 pm

Hmmm… let’s see, so all the breast-feeding crazies are going to breast-feed their children through the kids’ entire life, to make sure that the child at any point ever does not eat anything that could be potentially recalled??
With the various pre and post birth actual abuse problems facing kids, we want to fight over the formula, — brilliant!
And of course, you have to love how people think they have a right to other people’s breasts, and can dictate how they should be used.

nchan commented on Sep 25 10 at 4:25 pm

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As a mother who breast fed her children for well over a year I have to say that it is a personal decision that no one can make for you. My sister in law chose not to nurse and I was supportive of that decision. Even when so many of her so called breast feeding friends( they nursed their babies for no more than a month) were on her case about not nursing. I made the right decision for my children just as my sister in law made the right decision for hers. Respect is key.

Vicky commented on Sep 28 10 at 10:01 pm

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