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Pumping at Work Can Deter Breastfeeding Mothers

Posted by bethanysanders on July 20th, 2010 at 10:29 am

4593029418 6962fa43fc b Pumping at Work Can Deter Breastfeeding MothersMaternity leave in the U.S. is notoriously short — six weeks for most, three months FMLA if you’re lucky.  Some parents manage to cobble together more, but it often comes with such a financial sacrifice that many breastfeeding moms find themselves back in the workplace before they’re ready to stop breastfeeding their babies.

Like breastfeeding, pumping is different for every woman.  For some, it comes fairly naturally.  For others — myself included — it’s awkward and uncomfortable.  I would rather nurse a baby for an hour than pump for five minutes.   Nursing moms returning to work have to hook up to a pump at least three times a day, a process made far more difficult when companies aren’t sensitive to breastfeeding mother’s needs.

In a column at Huffington Post, Katrina Alcorn says that it’s time for a peaceful revolution.  If we aren’t going to extend maternity leave, then we need to make it easier for working mothers to continue to nurse their babies by making pumping at work less tiresome and humiliating.

Alcorn shares the story of Jackie, mother to a five-month-old baby and employee at a well respected non-profit.  Jackie’s choices of private rooms for pumping included the restroom, a converted closet with a sliding door that did not close all the way, or a conference room across the street in another building that was often booked by presenters.  So she took matters into her own hands:

When it was time to pump, Jackie rigged up her new curtain and pulled it tightly across the opening of her cubicle. Then she taped up a sign written in thick, black marker that said, ‘Please do not disturb. Privacy Please.’ She draped a blue fabric sarong from Bali over the top of the cubicle so people couldn’t peer down, then put on a Bebe au Lait nursing cover over her shirt. She turned on a portable fan she’d brought from home to disguise the moaning of the pump. She pulled her regular bra down around her waist, hooked on a hands-free pumping halter, wedged the plastic pump funnels in place, readjusted the nursing cover, and snapped on the machine.

“I could hear people walk by and say, ‘Where’s Jackie?’
“‘I’m in here,’ I’d say. ‘I’m busy!’”

Jackie gave up on breastfeeding four weeks later.  It’s not hard to see why. It’s important to note that Jackie — who also received complaints about the “bodily fluids” stored in the fridge (her bottled breast milk) — worked for a company who claimed to be family-friendly.

I’ve known mothers who have pumped in company restrooms, their cars, in supply closets, and — in the case of a teacher friend — the principal’s office.  Some women have to pump in a different location every day, because there’s not one consistently private room in their workplace.

What do you think — are these accommodations fair enough, as some commenters at Huffington Post would have us believe?Or is it time, as Alcorn writes, to consider the multiple health benefits of breastfeeding for mom and baby and to start a peaceful revolution for better conditions for nursing mothers?

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[...] Pumping at work can be a real drag — especially when there’s no time or appropriate place to do it, so this could be a huge shift in the right direction. The new law specifies that employees must have “a place, other than a bathroom, that is shielded from view and free from intrusion from co-workers and the public, which may be used by an employee to express breast milk.” [...]

Working Mothers Get Time to Breastfeed | Strollerderby commented on Jul 28 10 at 1:45 pm

First, there need to be laws in place so that when a woman wants to pump she can rely on the laws to back her up. Next it comes down to the woman to be somewhat of a leader in demanding a personal space for pumping. Some women feel too awkward to demand this even after there are laws in their state providing this. If things are ever going to change women need to be more pro-active and less embarrassed about pumping. It doesn’t need to be time away from working if one brings some reading with them (and therefore it doesn’t look like time away from working). However honestly, 6 weeks is to early to go back. I went back at 2.5 months or about 10 weeks and it was very hard. At 6 weeks the baby hasn’t even “woken up” yet. 3 months is probably a good compromise or of course 6 months is better.But regardless, laws need to be in place for pumping, even for women that would choose to go back to work earlier.

wohm commented on Jul 20 10 at 11:00 am

I believe the new health-care law mandates a non-bathroom private area to be available for women to pump. (My work was considering putting a lock on a conference room, but I told them I was going to quit soon anyway and not to bother. We have a 1-stall locker room upstairs that no one uses, and that was what I was using to pump in )

Sarah commented on Jul 20 10 at 11:06 am

I am pumping at work as we speak (with a hands-free bra, of course) and it hasn’t been too bad yet. Of course, it doesn’t hurt that I have easy let-down, have my own office, belong to a union, and am pretty assertive and know the law. The recently passed health care reform act actually states that employers with 50 or more employees are required to give nursing mothers who request it sufficient time to pump as well as a place to pump for the first year of the child’s life. This is what I reminded the HR drone who initially gave me a hard time about pumping at work.

Bean's Mom commented on Jul 20 10 at 11:26 am

My workplace provided a converted utility closet with a desk and outlet as a specifically designated lactation room. While I was glad I didn’t have to pump in the bathroom, pumping at work still sucks. Your schedule is inflexible, you’re mysteriously unavailable frequently throughout the day, and the people you work with start to get irritated at you. I have a slow letdown and after a lot of work when my son was a newborn, my supply is barely adequate. I had to pump 3 times at work plus once after he went to bed for 20 minutes each time to get enough for the next day. Plus, lugging all your crap (the pumping crap, and the crap you bring to try to get some work done while you’re pumping) gets super tiresome. I know it doesn’t have to be an either/or game – but I would much rather see lobbying efforts going towards making truly family-friendly workplaces rather than pumping-friendly workplaces. I’d like to see: maternity leave that is longer and paid; telecommuting options specifically designated for new mothers; and tax incentives to create on-site daycares for employers above a certain size so mothers can nurse instead of pump.

Sarah commented on Jul 20 10 at 11:44 am

Mine wasn’t too bad…I pumped at work for nearly 10 months (I stopped a month before the babe’s first birthday because I did indeed have THAT much of a frozen stash in the deep freeze…used the last of the frozen stuff when he was 16 months old.) I made no bones about what I was going to do, and had the luxury of a wireless laptop to prove any whiners (heh, the smokers no less) wrong that I was taking too many breaks and they shouldn’t be paid. Funny, I was able to pump hands-free and continue working. We had an upstairs lockeroom/restroom that was taken offline (the water to everything but the sink was disconnected and it was officially not to be used as a restroom by the owner) and a small fridge and old recliner moved there for my use.

PlumbLucky commented on Jul 20 10 at 11:52 am

had a full lactation room (as per CA law) but completely unsupportive boss (female, mother). I ended up pumping for four months and getting a review that said my disappearances made it “appear that I didn’t want to be there”. Went on my permanent record.

g8grl commented on Jul 20 10 at 1:46 pm

I completely agree! I am pumping right now in a stinky mildewed locker room that belongs to the company next door and have been for 9 months. I have a really hard time with let down so people walking in on me doesn’t help. I also think it’s important to recognize how hard employers make it to find time to pump. for me in particular my superiors keep my schedule packed so sometimes I have no chice but to miss a scheduled pumping time.

rach commented on Jul 20 10 at 3:01 pm

@g8grl – things were exactly the same at my work. We had a lactation room and an official “policy” to allow women time to pump, but if a woman actually decided to use this time they would be viewed as uncommitted employees. And this was usually from the female executives. I was in management at the time, and it was usually just me and a few men who stood up for these women, but we usually got some major eye rolls. The thing is, we had a ton of employees who spent half the day BS-ing, and nobody cared because people could at least see them around the office. It was all about face-time, which you lose when you take pumping breaks, even if you are doing as much (or more) work than everyone else.

I think we need a cultural shift where work performed and results become more important than face time. This would allow other family-friendly options, like telecommuting and flex-time. I think this would be good for everyone, even employees without kids. In addition, the company could benefit by focusing on results which should result in more profit.

Laure68 commented on Jul 20 10 at 5:27 pm

I forgot to add – this attitude at my work is one of the main reasons I decided to quit and stay home with my son. Basically, I would need to work be at the office for so many hours that I would not see him during the week at all. I was fortunate I could do this, but it would have been nice if it was not all-or-nothing.

Laure68 commented on Jul 20 10 at 5:29 pm

Wow, I guess I’m lucky. I had a very supportive company, very supportive boss, and was able to use my laptop and pump at the same time. I can’t complain.

TC commented on Jul 20 10 at 6:03 pm

I pumped for 10 mos. I didn’t have much supply built up, but I had an older pump from my sister and it died. My LO was already getting mostly formula at daycare. What I don’t understand (and maybe it’s because no one talks about it) is why part-time nursing isn’t advertised more. I still nursed evenings and weekends. When I was away my LO got formula. It helped save money and gave her some breastmilk.

sharma commented on Jul 20 10 at 7:30 pm

I guess I have been extremely lucky in the month I have been back to work I have had support from my department manager and coworkers when it comes to pumping. In an 8 hour workday I am only pumping once though. It saddens me how breastfeeding is so looked down upon if you aren’t a stay at home parent by so many companies. Using my break time to go into the locked office that my manager set up for doesn’t cause anyone else any problems, I am here, I do my work and I have a bag that the milk goes in so no one has to see it. I think that pumping at work and nursing in public(although my daughter had latch issues so I have exclusively pumped for her 3 months) shouldn’t be questioned,why badger a mom for wanting what is best for her baby?

sarah commented on Jul 21 10 at 8:44 am

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