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I Don’t Want My Daughters to Wear “Super Skinny” Jeans

Posted by paulabernstein on July 20th, 2010 at 2:50 pm

skinny jeans 228x300 I Dont Want My Daughters to Wear Super Skinny JeansIt’s not that I don’t like the way they look. In fact, they’re pretty cute. I’m just turned off by the idea of marketing “skinny” jeans to little girls. I realize that the term refers to the style (slim-fit pants with a snug fit through the legs and a small leg opening) rather than the body type (since they’re made in all sizes). But still, I don’t want my girls thinking that “skinny” is a positive attribute.

Maybe it’s just a coincidence, but when I googled “skinny jeans,” an ad for an anorexia treatment center popped up.

I’m not sure if it’s possible to raise girls without any sort of hang-ups about food and their bodies. I’m doing my best to teach my daughters body acceptance — whatever size they are.

As an adolescence, I was average weight, but developed the warped idea that I was fat. I’m not going to blame my issues entirely on the media, but certainly, advertising played a role in creating my “thin” ideal.

There’s no way I can entirely shield my daughters from the media. Instead, I do my best to educate them about images they see in magazines, billboards and on TV.

For instance, when Jesse, my 8-year-old daughter recently remarked on an ad for Old Navy’s “Super Skinny” jeans,  I told her, “Skinny generally means too thin. It’s better to be healthy and strong.” I’m fine buying her the jeans as long as they didn’t have “Super Skinny” embroidered into the waistband.

I’m not the only one who feels this way.

Blogger Mom Finds recently posed the question, “Do Super Skinny Girls’ Jeans Encourage Eating Disorders?” Again, it’s not the style that disturbs her. It’s the “Super Skinny” label. She writes:

I get that super skinny references the style of the jeans, but you can’t help but wonder what little girls will think every time they slip these jeans on.

Now don’t get me wrong-I love skinny jeans, especially on little girls because they can pull them off. But should we be calling them something else for impressionable young girls who already have enough pressure to be thin?

Clearly, Mom Finds doesn’t have a huge problem with the jeans since she sells them on her site. I do like her suggestion that they should be called “Super Cute” rather than “Super Skinny.”
 
What do you think? Is the “Super Skinny” label inappropriate for young girls?

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Skinny Jeans and Metallic Leggings... for Babies? | Strollerderby commented on Aug 16 10 at 5:01 pm

People are getting worked up over what a style of jeans are named? Really?

Linda commented on Jul 20 10 at 2:57 pm

If they were called Fat Jeans, I bet they wouldn’t sell as well! The term “skinny” is being used to promote them — perhaps suggesting (not so subtly) that they’ll make whoever wears them look skinny.

paulabernstein commented on Jul 20 10 at 2:59 pm

This thought never occurred to me before reading this entry, but I suppose calling them “skinny jeans” assumes that you have to be skinny to fit into them.

Stephanie commented on Jul 20 10 at 3:10 pm

Eating disorders are incredibly complicated diseases. Focusing on jeans (made by Old Navy, which you shouldn’t buy anyway because their stuff is basically disposable) can distract from the more complicated issues at work: interpersonal, psychological and biological ones. Social pressures are a very small piece of the puzzle (in terms of social pressure, a more fruitful effort would be to pay attention to your daughter’s friends and how they talk about food and weight). Also, I think that disparaging “skinny” is just as dangerous as disparaging “fat.” You can be skinny and healthy, and many girls can’t help but be skinny. I would imagine it would be best not to obsess about size, in either direction.

laura commented on Jul 20 10 at 3:14 pm

I totally agree that it’s best not to obsess about size. I never said I disparage against fat. I also agree that eating disorders are very complicated. I’m certainly not saying that these jeans are going to cause an eating disorder, but I do think using “skinny” to promote cool jeans sends a strong message that skinny is cool. I try to focus on healthy rather than any body type.

paulabernstein commented on Jul 20 10 at 3:18 pm

I don’t like the “skinny-is-good” label, either…but I especially hate how these things look like denim body-paint. Yuck.

jenny tries too hard commented on Jul 20 10 at 3:21 pm

Skinny jeans makes everyone look fat!

JEssica commented on Jul 20 10 at 3:27 pm

Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can kill. When I was in 5th grade many moons ago, Calvin Klein jeans were all the rage. If you couldn’t fit into the ‘slim fit’ sizes, it was a huge disgrace. These issues have only gotten worse. I think it’s dangerous to market anything as skinny–to girls, teens, and women. Our daughters should be able to grow up and love their bodies no matter their size.

Susan B-K commented on Jul 20 10 at 4:05 pm

It’s the responsibility of the parents to ensure their daughters grow up with healthy philosophies about weight and food. Can we really expect an entire industry to rename a known style of clothing? And what would be the purpose? Am I really supposed to worry that my very healthy size 7/9 teen is going be harmed by a style of jeans that fit her perfectly fine? Hell, they sell skinny jeans at Layne Bryant anyway. Seems like a non-story to me.

Linda commented on Jul 20 10 at 5:00 pm

I totally agree that it’s the responsibility of the parents, however so many moms have body issues and insecurities, that we should work on ourselves (collective ourselves, not anyone in specific) first so that our traits and worries don’t rub off on our daughters. I’ve started working on changing how I feel about my own negative self image. And, I hope by the time my daughter is old enough, she will feel good about herself, too. The cycle starts with us.

TC commented on Jul 20 10 at 6:07 pm

It is amazing that, after all these years, jeans have to be so tight for girls. I remember in the 80′s, before jeans were stretchy, girls used to lay down on bed in order to get their jeans up, and my friend used a pair of pliers to pull the zipper up because that was the only way she could do it, they were so tight. You couldn’t even breathe! I can’t believe we did these things to ourselves. I remember I thought I was so fat in those jeans. Now I look back on pictures from those days and I was actually kind of too thin. Like others have said, I wish we could break free from these negative self images.

Laure68 commented on Jul 20 10 at 7:05 pm

All I can think of when I see these jeans are “uh, yeast infections much?”

Mistress_Scorpio commented on Jul 20 10 at 9:12 pm

My daughter has several pair of these and they are a specific style. They are not any tighter than a normal pair of jeans. They are just made to hug the entire leg (including the calf), instead of just the top portion.

Linda commented on Jul 21 10 at 1:02 am

I have a pair of skinny jeans and I really like them. M_S, they are not any tighter at the top than other jeans, only they don’t get looser after the knee. They also tend to be stretchy so they are pretty comfortable (somewhere between jeans and leggings). I never thought about the name before, but it’s an interesting point. What would a better name be for that style? Maybe “narrow cut” instead of bootcut?

Manjari commented on Jul 21 10 at 9:48 am

This is the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard.

Em commented on Jul 21 10 at 10:36 am

Hi, Em. Stick around a while. I promise you will find something that you’ll think is stupider.

bob commented on Jul 21 10 at 11:20 am

I sure hope so. ;)

Em commented on Jul 21 10 at 11:55 am

These days shouldn’t we be worried that our children are too fat rather than too skinny? I mean really which is the greater risk for people when half of all kids are so chubby?

MB commented on Jul 21 10 at 4:58 pm

Thanks for the clarification Manjari and Linda. My only exposure to these jeans is a neighbor’s daughter who wears them so redonkulously tight that she can’t even sit properly. She just looks uncomfortable. Can’t be too much of a hypocrite about it… back in my day we had similar jeans, just in acid-wash. Wonder if stirrup pants will make a comeback too.

Mistress_Scorpio commented on Jul 22 10 at 6:48 am

Guys… Skinny Jeans can hurt you but only if you grow out of them and are determained to try and fit into them…. ok well its not offence because there called skinny jeans because of the legs the legs are like tight and like leggings unlike regular jeans it doesnt matter if your a little over wieght or skinny… if they dont fit me i go out and buy some more super skinny means the legs are tighter :)

Ashley commented on Jul 30 10 at 10:08 am

Honestly, this whole article is an over reaction. It’s a style. I’m sorry that you found a deeper meaning in the name than is actually there, but they make these jeans in every size, and it’s the cut they are referring to. I like the comment someone made about how you should be more worried about children being over weight. A lot of people attack the thin because of this overall increase in weight, and the disgusting thing is that we are graded on a curve. You are never a healthy weight. You are an average weight. And as the average inclines, so will the recommended healthy weight. There was a time when people were just naturally very thin, and it was never unhealthy, it was just how things are. And now people look at those thin people with disgust.

Then there’s how when people are overweight, they try and live by the whole “it doesn’t matter what you look like, be comfortable with yourself.” And that is a beautiful idea, but people hide behind it. The reality is, if you are overweight, you may be healthy now, but you won’t always be. You are increasing your chances for dozens of diseases, and by telling kids that they shouldn’t care if they are overweight, you are raising them to not think they need to change anything to be healthy. It may not be the most psychologically pleasing way to do it, but if it saves you a heart attack…It balances out nicely.

It’s not kids being too thin that you have to worry about. With a good chunk of the world being way overweight, I think you have more concerning matters. Teach them to be healthy.

Kella commented on Aug 17 11 at 9:45 pm

Skinny jeans look good on all kinds of people. I work with young teens and these jeans are very popular. I see girls of all shapes and sizes wearing them proudly. I’m not saying that there aren’t body image problems out there. Quite the contrary, body image is one of my areas of specialization. I guess I find encouragement from the large number of girls who are proud of their shape even if it’s not the “ideal.” However, I do wish they would stop eating chips, soda and junk food for lunch… but that’s a whole other situation…

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