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Should We Drop ‘Breast is Best’?
Breastfeeding advocates in the U.K. are asking doctors and midwives to quit saying “breast is best.” No, this isn’t the clandestine work of formula companies, rather, the work of an organization that hopes to change how people think about breastfeeding.
Leslie Backhouse, chair of the Breastfeeding Network, a campaign to promote breastfeeding, says “breast is best” sends a very wrong message. She told the BBC “We’ve got to knock breastfeeding off this pedestal.”
Wow. (What’s their goal again?)
Backhouse explains that by saying “breast is best,” it’s making the biological act special, rather than the accepted biological norm. She said breastfeeding is the only such biological norm that’s talked about as the exception rather than the rule.
Janet Fyle of the Royal College of Midwives agrees.
“It’s time to normalise breastfeeding and create the right conditions for mothers to breastfeed in comfort, wherever they go, whether that’s in a restaurant or a shop when they’re out and about,” she said.
Neither offered a better slogan, but maybe that’s the point. Breastfeeding shouldn’t need a slogan?
Do you think breast is best is outdated? Helpful? Oppressive? Breastfeeding could obviously use some normalization here in the U.S. Though Facebook, I got a front row seat to quite varied opinions about a woman in Oklahoma who was called out at a waterpark for breastfeeding her son on an island in the middle of a wave pool. One commenter said she didn’t want her tween son being exposed to breasts in such an open manner. Were all the other women at the waterpark were in burqas?
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Why Do Doctors Overprescribe Reflux Drugs | Strollerderby commented on Jun 22 10 at 6:34 pmMistress_Scorpio commented on Jun 22 10 at 6:55 pmThis has been in the works for a year. The point is to change the perception from “best” to simply the standard. Therefore, formula-feeding is sub-standard. Personally, I think it’s too late to move the goalposts on this one. Making it *possible* for more mothers to breastfeed will go a longer way to increasing breastfeeding rates than revamping the marketing of the practice.
James Akre commented on Jun 23 10 at 9:43 amNo, breast is not best. Instead, breastfeeding is normal, routine, commonplace, even ho-hum ordinary. By adopting this attitude we avoid implying that artificial feeding is the norm and that breastfeeding is somehow better than the norm. On the contrary, anything else is a deviation form the norm.
And, no, infant formula is not second-best. Obviously, the second-best option after breastfeeding is other human milk, whether expressed from a baby’s own mother, or from a healthy wet-nurse or a human-milk bank. And only as a last resort, when breast milk is unavailable, does infant formula become the least-bad nutritional alternative.
Fortunately, in an emergency, infant formula can sustain infants who do not have access to human milk. But no matter how appropriate formula is under such circumstances, feeding an inert paediatric fast-food based on the milk of an alien species nevertheless remains a deviation from the norm for the young of our species.
James Akre, Geneva, Switzerland
bob commented on Jun 23 10 at 11:53 amI for one advocate routine toplessness for all. Women should avoid implying that exposing a breast for any reason is a deviation from the norm. UNDRESSED IS BEST!
PlumbLucky commented on Jun 23 10 at 12:23 pm@bob – after busting out laughing, I thought “you know, I spend a decent amount of time in Canadian waters where it is perfectly legal for women to go topless. And its always the ones you don’t want to see who do.” And then I laugh some more. But you guys are all correct :-) When should “normal” suddenly because “best”? Not.
educated commented on Jun 23 10 at 12:50 pmThank you, James. Very well stated.
Lucky commented on Jun 23 10 at 1:41 pmI was surprised at all the “support” I got at the hospital about breastfeeding… nurses barging in on me to check his latch. Breastfeeding is normal in our family, so I never expected any trouble with it, and didn’t have any. Maybe I just got lucky.
anon commented on Jun 23 10 at 3:02 pmI, too, was surprised that it was even an issue. The midwifery practice I gave birth with had an “agreement” like their responsibility/patient responsibility, stuff like keeping in good health, etc. and one of the items was a mother’s commitment to breastfeed for a year. They also asked that we take a class (just a lunchtime thing) on breastfeeding basics. (Admittedly, this was cool and did provide good info.) And, of course, my doula was a certified LC, so I had her on hand, but didn’t really consider that I’d need help. It just seemed like people (and animals) have been doing this for thousands (millions?) of years, so how hard could it be. I was, like, whatever, of course…I never knew it was such an issue fraught with such drama til after I had my kid and learned about all this nonsense. That’s not to denigrate people who may have had issues, but I do wonder if the concern about issues is kind of self-prophesying/perpetuating. Breastfeeding just seemed like the normal thing to do, unless you had some kind of medical issue or something.
MsC commented on Jun 23 10 at 3:47 pmBreastfeeding used to be the norm, but it hasn’t been the norm in the US for a generation or so. Now many new mothers weren’t breastfed themselves, haven’t seen others do it, etc. Not everyone instinctively knows or learned from family or friends how to deal with a lazy latch, cracked nipples, or whatever issues they might run into. And even some of us who were breastfed and have been around it end up having production issues (like me) or some other problem. And yes, women have been doing this for eons, but they’ve also probably been failing, having difficulties, and going to medicine women, moms, friends, or whoever for help for eons.
Jessica commented on Jun 23 10 at 9:58 pmYeah, I’m all for no campaign about breastfeeding, aside from “breastfeeding=normal.”
But I also think that nursing your kid in the middle of a man-made island at a water park is totally *ahem* over the top.
No Cones commented on Jun 23 10 at 10:32 pmComments
Hallelujah, James – well said!!! There is no reason any infant on this planet has to be fed anything other than human milk. 99% of women CAN breastfeed and for the very, very few who physically cannot produce milk, there should be breastmilk banks. It’s liquid gold. We just have to provide the support, and stop over-sexualizing the breast to the point where 16-year-olds are getting augmentation to fit some bizarre melon-looking ideal and people consider it lewd in public.
Rosana commented on Jun 24 10 at 8:55 amAlthough I agree that breastfeeding is a biological norm I can understand why the “breast is best” slogan was created. The purpose of marketing is to motivate the public to do something (buy, use, etc.) and with so many moms not knowing what to do, letting themselves drown in information, the marketing campaign just was trying to make it simple for them to decide what to do.
Mothers not always have all the support they need to breastfeed and at the same time, ignore the big commitment they are getting into. I remember making the decision to breastfeed half way thru my first pregnancy and read many experiences good and bad and had a good idea what to expect. I did not think it was going to be easy neither impossible so my LC at the birthcenter was so good that I did not need to talk to her after the birth of my second baby. However, many people will question me about my decision, telling me how incovenient it was and how I might not make enough milk for my baby or at work, they will ask me how long I have to pump and why, etc. My point is, first time moms should look for information about breastfeeding way before they have their babies and get a feeling of what to expect so they can stay firm on their decision.
tracy commented on Jun 24 10 at 9:58 amA mother can decide if she wants to breastfeed or not. I did not breastfeed any of my three children and they couldn’t be healthier. No allergies, ear infections, and somehow managed to be just as smart as every other kid in their classes. What are the benefits of breastfeeding again? I’m not seeing any difference among children.
msjmom commented on Jun 24 10 at 10:50 amReally, No Cones? No reason ANY infant on this planet has to be fed anything other than human milk??? Before you go around making sweeping statements like that, it would benefit you to stop and think for a second. Some babies can not have milk of ANY KIND, including human milk. My son has a rare disease called galactosemia (but he still counts as an infant on this planet, as per your comment above). Breastfeeding (or cow’s milk formula) would have killed him. He had to be placed on specialized formula, which, thankfully, exists for this reason.
Breastmilk is wonderful – I hope we can do everything to support every mom who needs help breastfeeding (and all moms, for that matter). But not every baby can have breastmilk.
avimom commented on Jun 24 10 at 12:58 pmComments
Tracy, I guarantee I spent alot less on food for my kids for their first two years, than you did. That’s one benefit. I also got to say to my hubby, “You get to change all the diapers, since I do all the feeding.” Another benefit. :)I’ve been saying for years that normalization of family-friendly, nursing friendly practices isn’t going to happen unless we moms of boys teach them to expect it from society when they’re adults. When we have a generation of dads saying, “This is what is needed” we’ll see a sea change in business practices. (Including workplace flexibility, formula marketing, hospital procedures, etc.)
cara commented on Jul 04 10 at 12:40 pmThe woman who was upset about her tween son seeing a breast should be the one “normalizing”. If the freaked mom were to give her son the idea that breasts and breast-feeding are normal and not taboo there wouldn’t be an issue. I think that’s one mom who has her own issues, and shouldn’t be putting them on someone else.
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