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Museum Says Member Cards Not Safe for Kids
A reader on ChildWild pointed out this week that Boston’s Museum of Science has a policy against letting kids have their own memberships, due to security concerns.
“Security concerns”? Whose security are they concerned about?
Is this another case of Stranger Danger paranoia, or are they worried that someone might pose as my kindergartner to sneak into the bumblebee dress-up corner?
Here’s the policy:
Can I put more names than just my own on a membership?
You can name up to 2 adults who reside in the same household on a membership. We do not put children’s names on membership cards for security reasons (in case the card gets lost or stolen). Adults living at separate addresses cannot be named on a single membership.
I have to assume its the looming shadow of Stranger Danger that has the Museum spooked. I’m disappointed by this. The Science Museum is a world-class museum, and a large part of their mission is to encourage exploration, curiosity and independence in their young visitors. I’d have thought they’d be above fear-mongering restrictions on children.
My five-year-old has a library card, which trust me she has left unattended on the floor of every library in the Greater Boston Area. It’s her prize possession, her little plastic proof that she can write her own name and check out books. Just like Mommy.
I don’t particularly need her to have her own Museum membership card, but I also can’t imagine how a museum membership could pose a threat to her. I have my own Museum of Science membership card in my hand. It has my name and street address on it. That’s it. No photo ID, no information about how old I am. I’m not seeing any case where the loss of this card could pose a special threat to my child, even if the person who found it was a total creep.
My commenter was distressed because of the pickle this policy puts him in as a divorced parent: his kids want to go to the museum; he and his ex-wife don’t want to buy two memberships. It turns out the museum folks have an unwritten policy that allows caregivers to bring children from member households, even if the adult whose name is on the card isn’t present. Fine.
That doesn’t explain what “security concerns” they have about their cards. Do they cause paper cuts? Or maybe they pose a choking hazard if eaten?
What do you think? Is this policy a reasonable precaution or institutionalized helicopter parenting?
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Sleep Training Success Linked to Parents' Attitudes | Strollerderby commented on Mar 02 10 at 12:40 pmLisaW commented on Feb 27 10 at 9:02 amReally its simple, believe it or not, some parents will simply drop children off and leave them for hours. I volunteered in a museum for many years, you would be amazed by the things I saw. Obviously there were issues with children misbehaving, these things are uncomfortable but relatively easy for the staff to handle. I was present when an 8 year old tripped and took a bad fall down the stairs. There was no parent present and concern that the child had seriously injured his foot. The child knew his mother’s cell phone number but there was no cell phone reception in most of the building. Staff members had to radio down to the main office and they called the mother. There was a long delay before we would contact the mother and she could arrive and pick up her child. There was also the heartbreaking of a hurt, scared little boy who was trying to be brave but wanted the comfort of his mom. If the child has a membership card and walks in on there own, it puts the staff in a very uncomfortable position. Can they refuse to admit a member? There are legal issues with allowing untended children in the museum. There is also the convenience issue for families and cost issue for museum. If each family member is given a card, should each card be shown when the family visits the museum? If each card must be shown, most parents will become annoyed at the thought of keeping track of the extra cards. If each card does not need to be shown, why should the museum issue the extra cards?
Andromeda commented on Feb 27 10 at 11:44 amLike, I’m sure, many parents in this area, I have a Museum of Science membership solely because I have a young child and it’s a good thing to do with her when the weather is bad. This means, of course, that the card has frequently been used by her and a caregiver without either of the listed adults on the card present — I’m glad that’s apparently within policy, but it has always seemed awkward to me. In a very real sense it’s *her* card, and I would like it if that could be reflected on the card.
I think the case above of children being left alone is a red herring — libraries both issue cards to young children, and generally have policies against young children being unattended. I don’t see why the museum couldn’t have analogous policies. (And as for extra cards, the MoS already issued two cards to us with our membership; I don’t know if that’s because it was a two-adult membership and you get n cards for an n-person thing, or if it’s just general policy to ship two cards. Regardless, both cards have both of our names.)
Jennifer commented on Feb 27 10 at 5:13 pmAndromeda said: “I think the case above of children being left alone is a red herring — libraries both issue cards to young children, and generally have policies against young children being unattended. ” You don’t need a library card to go in and hang out, so this is not really analogous. And as a former library employee it has been my experience that children are routinely dropped off by their parents for hours at a time, policy or no (and what is a library going to do if you violate that policy, anyway?). Rainy days were always the worst.
Sandro Hawke commented on Feb 28 10 at 11:52 amSpeaking as the reader who originally raised this issue with Sierra, it now occurs to me that maybe the security concern is just that kids don’t routinely carry photo ID. When an adult shows up with a card with some name on it, the staff can (in theory) ask to see ID that proves the name matches the face. But with kids’ names on cards, they can’t do that.
Our local YMCA issues photo IDs to kids to address that problem; we’ve even had (very cute) photo IDs for kids too young to talk. But it solves the caretaker problem, with relatively good protection against misuse of memberships.
Of course, there might be people using their own membership, without photo ID, who are somehow acting suspicious enough to be asked for ID, … and that would be a problem.
NY Phoenix commented on Apr 16 12 at 4:03 pmThe WCS (notably the bronx zoo) is the same way. You put the parents names and then 1 other adult who has permission to take your kids to the zoo and just the number of children under 12.
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