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Stephen Baldwin Would Watch His Daughter Die

Posted by roger sinasohn on January 13th, 2010 at 1:03 pm

stephen baldwin crop Stephen Baldwin Would Watch His Daughter DieI’ve always felt that the number one job of a parent, especially in the first dozen years or so of their lives, is to keep the kids alive.  We don’t let them play in the middle of the street, we make sure they wear helmets, and we don’t let them eat laundry detergent (much).  We teach them to blow on their soup, how to climb a tree safely, and perhaps even how to defend themselves if necessary.  Everything we do is part and parcel of taking care of our kids and keeping them safe and secure and parents — good parents, anyway — take that charge very seriously.  So why would any parent sit by and watch their child die?


According to the actor Stephen Baldwin, he would do it for God.  On the British television show Celebrity Big Brother, Baldwin described a hypothetical situation wherein he and his family were on a public bus and someone with a machine gun came in and told his daughter to say that Jesus wasn’t real.  “If she turned to me,” the actor explained, “and said, ‘What do I do?’, I’d say, ‘What have I taught you to do?’”  He then went on to describe the results: “She’d say, ‘Jesus absolutely exists’, and I’d see her in heaven.”

Now, I’m not a famous actor nor have I ever felt the religious conviction that Baldwin apparently does, but if someone were threatening my kid and they asked me what to do, my response would be to tell them what they want to hear.  I guess if you believe completely and utterly in an afterlife (and believe you qualify), then giving up one’s earthly life is not a big deal.  But for me, when it comes to my kids, I’ll do everything and anything I need to keep them alive, healthy and happy as long as possible.

What would you do in Baldwin’s hypothetical situation?  Would you tell your child to betray their convictions and lie to stay alive or would you have them be a martyr for their beliefs?

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Parenting and Religion | Famecrawler commented on Jan 13 10 at 5:31 pm

Always stand up for what you believe in. I wouldn’t want my child to deny his Savior.

Jessica commented on Jan 13 10 at 1:25 pm

In the law, anything you say under an imminent threat of death is taken in context – it can’t be used to say you agreed to something. I would think that most human beings would apply this principle – and, maybe this is why I’m not religious, I’d sure as hell hope some entity charged as our protector and leader would believe the same thing. People know that what you say at gunpoint is what the gunner wants to hear – listeners wouldn’t take that as honest belief or truth, if you’re worried about spreading heresy. I feel sorry for people who believe that their is some power that wants them to die for such a stupid reason.

leahsmom commented on Jan 13 10 at 1:37 pm

Sick. Just sick.

GP commented on Jan 13 10 at 1:37 pm

I’m sorry, I’m trying to be open-minded and admire the strength of his convictions here, but there’s no way I can make this seem other than absolutely crazy.

diera commented on Jan 13 10 at 2:12 pm

of course you tell them what they want to hear and get yourself out of danger! they’re a psychotic murderer in your face with a machine gun — you are under no moral obligation to share your true feelings with them about ANY topic.

sara commented on Jan 13 10 at 2:25 pm

Lying to a crazy person to protect your life hardly puts you in God’s disfavor. Your faith is a personal matter, between you and God. I think Baldwin is evoking the early Christian era, where people did become martyrs for their faith. This hardly makes sense in today’s context. What a bizarre and sick hypothetical.

Leawood commented on Jan 13 10 at 2:28 pm

The question was also “Say that Jesus isn’t real” – poor choice of words as even a crazy gunman can look it up and find that historically of course Jesus was real. Semantics aside, telling your to say what he needs to say to stay alive, won’t put you on G-d’s bad side…letting your child die for something so ridiculous might though.

LolaLane commented on Jan 13 10 at 2:51 pm

telling your *kid* to say

LolaLane commented on Jan 13 10 at 2:52 pm

This is one of those hypothetical situations that some religious people I know mention and the root is they really want to die for their religious beliefs–it follows from the girl who was shot at Columbine and the story which gained traction (though it is probably not true) that one of the gunmen shot her because she said she believed in God. What I point out to the people I know is that when a crazed gunman holds points a gun on you, you have no way of knowing what answer they want to hear or what you should say to stay alive. And while it is all well and good to say “if this happened, I would do this” one cannot know what they really would do in a life or death situation unless they find themselves in that situation–for all anyone knows, Steven Baldwin would find reserves of courage he didn’t know he had and wrestle the gunman to the ground to protect his daughter or he may tell her to tell the crazy man what he wants to hear. This story doesn’t tell us that Steven Baldwin would let his daughter die for God, it tells us that Steven Baldwin believes he would and is fantasizing about martyrdom for his daughter. Which is disturbing.

alison commented on Jan 13 10 at 3:08 pm

Leawood says: poor choice of words as even a crazy gunman can look it up and find that historically of course Jesus was real.

Eh, actually not. The historicity of Jesus is very much an open question. The biblical accounts were all written hundreds of years after the fact, and the most convincing independent contemporary corroborating account show signs of having been doctored.

The general consensus seems to be that there probably was a historical Jesus of Nazareth, but I would certainly not say “of course” Jesus was real. It’s not really clear at all.

It’s nice to see “moderate theists” condemning Baldwin’s sick fantasy, I suppose, but let me ask you, how do you KNOW that it would be immoral to tell your daughter this, and that God would be understanding? It certainly doesn’t say anything like this in any scripture I am aware of! Seems to me the way you “know” that it would be wrong to send your daughter to her death over a few words is because you have an innate sense of morality. Which raises the question, why believe in this crap to begin with? It seems to me superfluous at best (you already know in your heart what is right without God), and possibly even dangerous (while we applaud your moderation, it’s just a hop-skip-and-jump to Baldwin-level fanatacism… why not avoid this risk altogether and, you know, approach your life RATIONALLY?)

James Sweet commented on Jan 13 10 at 3:28 pm

Just to confirm a fact Alison mentions, that story about “Cassie said yes” from Columbine is false. See Dave Cullen’s book for how this story got going and what the facts really are. On the topic: When crazy sticks a gun in your face, you don’t know what crazy will do; it’s only after the fact that anyone can guess what the right course of action was. Think of the people on the first three planes on 9/11 who sat quietly in their seats because we all thought that’s what you do when the crazy hijacks your plane. Who’s to say to a confident admission of faith isn’t the right call to make? Only in hindsight would you know for sure. So this gets a kind of meh from me, the non-believer.

Jennifer commented on Jan 13 10 at 6:11 pm

You never know what you will do in a life threatening situation. At gun point most people’s survival instinct will kick in and they will do absolutly anything possible to live. This includes things that, normally, they would think they were incapable of. If, for example, a man has a gun to your head, you will do all number of sexually depraved things in order to preserve your life. Most people would even kill another human being if it comes down to a choice between them and you. Them exception is that, usually, people will give their lives to protect a child or someone they love.

Ri-chan commented on Jan 13 10 at 9:45 pm

James, that wasn’t me, that was Lola Lane – but I’m taking her side in this, Jesue did exist, and the proof isn’t just in the Bible as you suggested. Historians have indeed confirmed his existence (the human existence, anyway) just as they can identify that Julius Caesar and Jesus’ diciples existed.
I’d back off the major theological questions, however. We all come from a diffrent place spiritually speaking on this thread and to call any stance into question is to take the black and white approach, as Baldwin did. Spirituality is personal and subjective.

Leawood commented on Jan 14 10 at 8:11 am

I think saying “historians have indeed confirmed his existence,” is inaccurate. JS sounds correct to me when he says “the general consensus seems to be that there probably was” a Jesus, but physical evidence is undoubtedly absent, as are contemporary writings. I also think the lack of assurance in Jesus’ existence, let alone his divinity, is something to consider when discussing a person who would rather see his child die than see her say (at the point of a gun) that a possibly-imaginary person wasn’t real.

Comstock commented on Jan 14 10 at 10:02 am

This man is evil. How can anyone state that they would happily see their offspring die? Blind faith in the name of organised religion is a very dangerous thing and this is another lie in the name of God, in real life, if the scenerio actually occured, i am sure he would not foresake his daughter. Besides, is God not to be all-forgiving?

Bob commented on Jan 14 10 at 6:23 pm

There are causes and beliefs and faiths which are worth dying for. In fact, Martin Luther King once said “A man who won’t die for something isn’t fit to live”. While I don’t relish the thought of watching my child die and may not react like Stephen Baldwin, I will teach my child to stand up for his convictions, whatever they may turn out to be.

Andrea commented on Jan 15 10 at 6:12 am

he’s become a total evangevilist ex-druggie fruitcake. but it goes to show how just downhill ive become, since he did agree to have my cover of personal jesus as his own walk-in music on the very first BB episode :( if he was THAT strong in his beliefs surely he would have walked off? it IS a song about Jesus, but its ME covering it, hence taking the p*ss. i need to make a good album soon-not made one of those since 2000! ;)

marilyn manson commented on Jan 20 10 at 6:05 pm

My kids are pretty much agnostics and you couldn’t MAKE them say otherwise, LOL.

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