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Is Your Child An Orchid or a Dandelion?

Posted by sierra on November 19th, 2009 at 2:30 pm

oncidium 08may06 225x300 Is Your Child An Orchid or a Dandelion?Most kids grow like dandelions. They bloom everywhere, growing up sturdy and strong in the most desolate neighborhoods or the ritziest.

Others seem to come into the world fragile. They’re sensitive kids who are prone trouble, but also brilliance. The kind who grow up to poets or addicts or both.

In the new issue of Atlantic Monthly, David Dobbs outlines the “orchid hypothesis,” an emerging genetic theory that offers some insight into how, and why, our genetic differences shape how we grow and who we become.Geneticists have understood for some time that particular gene variants predispose some kids to traits like ADHD, depression and bipolar disorder. Having the high-risk variant of a gene doesn’t doom a kid to ADHD or depression, it just makes it more likely. It seems that parenting, and the environment a child is parented in, makes the difference.

The standard model for this can be called the “vulnerability hypothesis”, and it focuses on identifying which genes make children more vulnerable to mental health and behavioral problems.

The emerging “orchid hypothesis” turns that model around by showing that the same genetic variants that make kids more vulnerable also poise them for spectacular achievement under the right conditions. Kids with high-risk “orchid” genes are proving to be more resilient, focused and creative than their hardy “dandelion” peers, if they are treated like orchids – raised under exactly the right conditions.

What this genetic insight offers, as Dobbs puts it, is an explanation of why genetic variations for pesky stuff like depression have not only survived 50,000 years of natural selection, but have become increasingly widespread.

If these genes were only a liability, they should have been “bred out” long ago. The orchid hypothesis suggests that these traits are vital to our growth as a species because under the right conditions, they burst out into creative, innovative genius.

For parents, this suggests that we can make a profound difference in the lives of our sensitive children by carefully shaping their environments to help them succeed.

So for those of you, like me, who read the opening paragraphs of that Atlantic article and thought, “Predisposition to emotional turbulence, aggression and distraction? That’s my kid!”: no pressure. You’re kids will be not just fine, but great. As long as you raise them perfectly. If they happen to develop any of those risky traits, you can just lie awake at night knowing it’s all your fault.

Just kidding. I wasn’t lying awake last night thinking that. NO.

In all seriousness you shouldn’t be either, though I’m sure some talk show pundit will try to frame it that way. The real takeaway here is that genetics is interesting, and – no real shock – good parenting helps kids grow up to have happier lives than crappy abusive parenting. I didn’t need a genetic test to tell me that.

Photo: Zack Grossbart

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2 Comments

Thanks for posting this. I hadn’t seen the article previously and it is giving me a lot of food for thought.

Rebecca Weger commented on Nov 20 09 at 12:39 pm

Comments: I suggest that people read the article for themselves, as this review distorts, or at the least oversimplifies, the research covered in David Dobb’s piece, “The Science of Success.” For years, research has identified a “vulnerability” model; gene variants that increase susceptibility to depression, anxiety, ADHD and other problems. Because this research was being conducted by mental- illness researcher they overlook the upside of these gene variants “With a bad environment and poor parenting, (children with these gene variants) can end up depressed, drug-addicted, or in jail—but with the right environment and good parenting, they can grow up to be society’s most creative, successful, and happy people,” not only successful, but the most successful people. READ THE ARTICLE.

Theodore A. Hoppe commented on Dec 13 09 at 11:01 pm

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