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Hospital Rejects Birth Plans
Want to have a doula or labor coach to assist at your birth? Interested in drafting a birth plan with your partner? Don’t have your baby at the Aspen Women’s Center in Provo, UT.
The center has posted a sign in their entryway that reads:
Because the Physicians at Aspen Women’s Center care about the quality of their patient’s deliveries and are very concerned about the welfare and health of your unborn child, we will not participate in a “Birth Contract”, a Doulah Assisted, or a Bradley Method delivery. For those patients who are interested in such methods, please notify the nurse so we may arrange transfer of your care.
Let’s try that again, shall we: You, the woman who is about to go through one of the most challenging, painful experiences of her life, had better not have any opinions about how you would like to be cared for during that ordeal. It’s imperative that you keep your personal support network out of the way too. We absolutely can’t have anyone in the room who might advocate on your behalf.
They sound like a cult, cutting women off from their loved ones, their professional support and their own intention and intuition. Sadly, they also sound like too much of mainstream medicine.
On the one hand, the honesty is refreshing. I’d have preferred a sign like this above the front desk to the runaround I got trying to have my baby at the so-called “birth center” nearby. A birth center that transfers over 50% of its patients to the attached hospital. As Naomi Wolf reveals in Misconceptions, many hospital-based birth centers are cozy fronts for labor and delivery departments. They’re used as marketing tools, not spaces for women to actually give birth to real babies.
At least the folks at Aspen tell it like it is: they don’t respect you, your own concern for your baby’s health, or your wishes about how you’ll be treated while you’re in labor. If you want that kind of risky care – the kind of risky care that reliably gets better outcomes for baby and mother – go elsewhere.
You know what to do, ladies of Provo, UT. The writing is on the wall: Notify the nurse so they may arrange for transfer of your care.
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Weekly Link Round-Up — ChildWild commented on Nov 21 09 at 10:38 amAmy commented on Nov 09 09 at 2:53 pmI’m not at all disturbed by this. This place is being up front about their approach to childbirth–which is a great thing, whether or not you agree with their approach.
PlumbLucky commented on Nov 09 09 at 3:05 pmI’m not disturbed because they actually are being upfront.
Last I checked too, my baby is definitely real. And I actually did give birth to him in a hospital, too.
jenny tries too hard commented on Nov 09 09 at 3:11 pmyeah, there’s really nothing wrong with this. Aspen is respecting its patients by giving them the tools they need to make informed decisions about care, and making their own informed (by many years of school and experience) decision perfectly clear.
Comstock commented on Nov 09 09 at 3:19 pmThis sign seems fine to me. They’re just being upfront about the way the run their practice. If people want something else, they have to go somewhere else to get it. I don’t see it as a sign of disrespect. Sounds like they see their practice as best care, as I’m sure birth-helpers of all kinds do about whatever form of birth they advocate.
baconsmom commented on Nov 09 09 at 3:19 pmBut they aren’t forcing anyone to give birth there – the sign says that they’ll transfer the patient upon request. How is that a cult? I agree with the other commenters – they’re providing information so the patients can make the best choices for themselves. This is the opposite of terrible.
LogicalMama commented on Nov 09 09 at 3:28 pmYes, they are being upfront but I still think that being concerned about the health and well-being of mother and child shouldn’t remove the option of a doula or the Bradley Method, both of which have shown successful for many births!!
I wouldn’t want to birth there but I used a doula and natural birth (not necessarily Bradley) so I wouldn’t have been welcome there anyway!
Laure68 commented on Nov 09 09 at 3:38 pmVery often, hospitals make these kinds of policies based on a poor previous experience. For example, maybe there was one particular case where a doula got in the way of the OB, there was a poor outcome, and the OB/hospital got sued. I don’t know for sure that this happened at Aspen, but I have seen cases where patients say they want things done a certain way, things go wrong, and the sue. The idea is that the doctor is the expert and should have stopped them from making the “wrong” decision.
As others have said, I appreciate the hospital being so upfront.
abqmom commented on Nov 09 09 at 3:40 pmIt’s nice to think that people have options to just choose another hospital but are there actually other options? I know under my insurance plan I have the “choice” of one hospital unless I can pay out of pocket. What if it’s the county hospital? Where are they going to transfer the laboring mother to? is it close? is it affordable? I’m just curious if there is really a “choice”?
Laure68 commented on Nov 09 09 at 3:41 pmAlso, you have a link to a doula website, saying the doula-assisted birth has better outcomes. It may be true that there are better outcomes, but most of the studies looked at things like “C-section rate” or “epidural usage”. From a medical standpoint, thes are not true outcomes, A true outcome would be linked to baby/maternal health. (Two of the studies did look at Apgar scores, which is appropriate.) I’m not saying that doula-assisted births don’t have better outcomes, but by focusing on mid-points instead of end-points, it is difficult for a hospital to accept doulas as a benefit.
Knitty commented on Nov 09 09 at 3:55 pmThe hospital’s job is to deliver a healthy baby to a healthy mom, not give the mother her ideal birth experience. I see no problem with a hospital stating that explicitly and upfront.
Hillary commented on Nov 09 09 at 3:58 pmAbqmom has it right.
The real problem here is not the hospital choosing to turn these women away. They are a business. It is their right. At least they’re being upfront.
The problem is the illusion of “choice” in our health care system. The hospital is offering the woman a choice that might not exist. Maybe her OB only has privileges at that hospital. Or her insurance only will pay if she delivers at that hospital. Just because we call it a choice doesn’t mean it is one.
luckypenny commented on Nov 09 09 at 3:58 pmAre you kidding, Laura68?? C-section rate is MOST definitely a medical outcome- and I would also call it an “end-point”. Women in the good ol’ USA die at 4 times the rate after C-section than they do after vaginal birth. I think you MIGHT be able to say that is “linked to baby/maternal health”. Only hospitals that are more interested in money than patient health would say doulas do not improve “outcomes”.
Andrea commented on Nov 09 09 at 4:07 pmWhat I don’t understand is that a “Bradley Method” birth isn’t really a specific thing– it’s just a set of really normal strategies for handling pain when you don’t have an epidural. There’s not a specific unique thing you do like hypno birthing, you just do what you can with as little intervention as possible. It has more to do with education and practice. Does that mean that the hospital requires epidurals? Or bans other kinds of birth preparation?
Amy commented on Nov 09 09 at 4:10 pmActually, it looks like that’s just a OB practice, not a hospital. Am I wrong?
Ali commented on Nov 09 09 at 4:21 pmSounds like they have been sued over a prolonged Bradley birth that went wrong or a doula influencing a mother and the outcome was bad. Believe it or not but the majority of women in the world, even in the USA, want medical professionals to assist them during the birth event. The real cultists are the minority who find a sign like this outrageous.
Docs have a point commented on Nov 09 09 at 4:55 pmYour insistence that doula-assisted birth “reliably gets better outcomes” seems more cult-like then a hospital’s insistence on providing quality health care. Like Laure68 said, the hospital is both being upfront and protecting itself from frivolous lawsuits.
Jill commented on Nov 09 09 at 5:00 pm@Laure68 – There is a large body of research about the effectiveness of doulas. One blogging doctor recently compiled a list of studies.
http://hoydenabouttown.com/20091026.6897/obs-denying-doula-access-wheres-the-science1/@Ali – ” Believe it or not but the majority of women in the world, even in the USA, want medical professionals to assist them during the birth event.”
What kind of support do you think women receive from doctors and nurses during their labor?
Jill commented on Nov 09 09 at 5:03 pmThe winner of PhotoShop contest spoofing this sign:
http://www.theunnecesarean.com/blog/2009/11/9/and-the-winner-of-the-anti-doula-sign-photoshop-contest-is.html
soxmom commented on Nov 09 09 at 5:10 pm“The real cultists are the minority who find a sign like this outrageous.” Well said Ali!
Jennifer commented on Nov 09 09 at 5:14 pmI took the childbirth prep class my OB offered, and the nurse who taught it told us not to write birth plans, because even though the hospital where I delivered dedicated one nurse for every patient per shift (Hi Julie!), “No nurse has the obligation to memorize your twelve-page manifesto.” If you can’t be bother to discuss with your doctor what kind of experience you’d like to have, don’t show up at the last minute with a book and a third party.
What’s off-putting about this sign is the odd specificity of it. No birth contract, but can you tell your doctor you won’t accept pre-emptive episiotomy? No doula, but can your mom come? No Bradley, but can you use Lamaze? Know what I mean? It seems to me that their guidelines ought to be discussed between patient and doctor well ahead of the due date. That they put this sign on the wall tells me they aren’t communicating well with their patients.
Alison commented on Nov 09 09 at 5:34 pmHow many people show up with a birth plan while in labor? Almost everyone I know who had a hospital birth had a lot of time to discuss options with their doctor and the birth plans were on file with the hospital for over a month in advance. It helped the hospital to pair the mothers with like minded L&D nurses (I’m pretty sure it was no accident that my nurse was extremely pro-natural, drug free child-birth). What distresses me about this sign is that it seems like they are uninterested in their patients’ desires with regard to childbirth. By saying “no birth plans” they cut off the mother’s opportunity to articulate, in writing, that she refuses the administration of cytotec or a routine episiotomy or that she would like a c-section employed as a last resort, which sounds like a way to avoid lawsuits for when they go against the mother’s wishes and things go wrong.
Heather commented on Nov 09 09 at 5:40 pmDid Naomi Wolf really say that? That seems rather paranoid, doesn’t it? I had a perfect unmedicated midwife birth at a hospital, but I have no issue with any other kind of birth experience and I think birthing plans that are more than one sentence long are absurd.
Laure68 commented on Nov 09 09 at 6:27 pmAlison – the problem is that, medically speaking, most often the doctor does actually know what will produce the best medical outcome. (Not 100% of the time of course, but most of the time.) They are trained to decide these things. What women do know is what will make them more comfortable/happy. However, it is less likely that someone will sue because they did not get the ideal experience even if mom and baby are healthy. If something goes wrong that affects the health of mom/baby, that is where a lawsuit is more likely.
Personally, I would prefer a world where we could make our choices (with the proper information from professional sources) and then take responsibility for them.
ann05 commented on Nov 09 09 at 7:34 pmThere was a whole article in the NY Times this weekend about how doctors often make choices for all patients based on one or two outstanding experiences and that by being given a protocol to follow (and not just their “guts” or “experiences”) patient outcomes actually improve. Doctors know a lot, but medicine isn’t just a science, and they don’t know everything (they are people). I am surprised at the sheer number of people happy to check their brains at the door and entirely hand over their lives and feelings to a doctor because of the MD attached to their names.
Laure68 commented on Nov 09 09 at 8:16 pmann05 – I can’t agree with the comment that people “check their brains at the door” when they listen to a doctor. We are living in a society where we have little value for education and expertise, and believe anyone who goes to Google University knows just as much as a true professional. Some people don’t like to admit that someone might possibly know more than they do. This idea seems to be most widespread in medicine. People think they are smart for not listening to someone with an MD, but are happy to listen to a random blogger with no medical training.
I’m not saying that you shouldn’t have opinions about how to give birth, but I would advise getting an OB/Midwife you trust and discuss your options with them. (Of course, I understand there are people who do not have the options that some of us have. However, I do know people who do have plenty of options who think they know more about medicine than doctors.)
In any case, could you provide a link to the NY Times article?
ann05 commented on Nov 09 09 at 8:51 pmLaure68, obviously I don’t meant that all people do. I was referring more to the comments on this thread, which seem to imply that if you have an opinion on your medical care you’re an idiot. And I have to say, there have been times when my doctor has not been right about things (particularly related to nutrition and breast feeding). She was going off of old research that didn’t dovetail with the most current recommendations in nutrition and medical journals (I’m citing peer reviewed journals, not web based). For the most part she’s right, and a good doctor, but she’s not infallible. At any rate, here is the link to the article: http://www.nytimes.com/2009/11/08/magazine/08Healthcare-t.html?_r=1&ref=magazine.
GP commented on Nov 09 09 at 9:34 pmUtah sucks…Mormon fascists…honestly! I can’t believe the comments here…sheep.
bettywu commented on Nov 09 09 at 9:35 pmAnn05, it’s probably the same number of people who ‘check their brains at the door’ when the firefighters come to put out a fire at their homes. (because they don’t actually have training in putting out fires…or in medicine) I’ve read a lot of things on the internet about fires, though…
In an emergency, I don’t want my doctor polling me on just how I feel about saving my baby or my life. I didn’t want an episiotomy ideally, but my son was aspirating meconium and his vitals were tanking. I really am glad my OB didn’t stop everything and consult with me in great detail on my feelings about the integrity of my hoo ha.
Monkey commented on Nov 09 09 at 9:58 pmThis doesn’t bother me. Frankly, whether or not you agree with the clinic, it is their right to set their business practices and, frankly, if I wanted to have a doula assisted birth or do the Bradley method, I’d want to know up front that the people providing my care weren’t comfortable with that. I would want to be in a place where my choices were supported.
Also, in what way are people not allowed to have their loved ones? It doesn’t say anything about that, unless your “love one” is your doula.
ann05 commented on Nov 09 09 at 10:00 pmbettywu, your analogy is so faulty it’s laughable. At any rate, I’m glad you’re happy with your care, truly, I am. However it’s worth noting the US spends more money on mother’s health than any other “developed” nation and still has the highest maternal death rate http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/8326845.stm. Pardon me if I’m not ready to blindly trust my doctor with every thing they tell me. I also am confused why people think “peer reviewed medical journal” equates to “WebMD.” If a fire man screws up, I lose my house. If a doctor makes a faulty call based on poor science and their own anecdotal experience (and it happens), I lose my life or my child’s. At the end of the day, I’d like to have done enough research to know I can trust the bulk of what my doctor tells me. And I know that somebody who posts a sign saying they don’t care what I think is not somebody I’d trust.
Laure68 commented on Nov 09 09 at 10:35 pmann05 – thanks for the response and the link. I have only read the first page so far, but it looks like it argues for reevaluating existing treatments using evidence-based medicine, which I completely agree with. The more that standards are set based on science, the better off medicine will be. (As the article says, new treatments undergo rigorous testing before being implemented, but we should continually evaluate treatments once they are available.)
Laure68 commented on Nov 09 09 at 10:39 pmI do want to add that a big reason we have a high maternal death rate is because so many women are lacking insurance and get poor to non-existent pre-natal care. When the numbers are divided within our country, inner-cities and the rural south have the worst outcomes, and affluent areas have the best.
cyn-diego commented on Nov 10 09 at 12:42 amSounds like they just don’t want to deal with “uppity women”… that’s Utah for you. I’m a little sad that the Bradley method people got mentioned… What about hypnobirthers? We’re subversive and threatening too, dammit!
FYI — I had a drug-free, midwife and husband-assisted birth (in a hospital birth center, but a good one — UCSD). It doesn’t always work out for everyone, but it’s worth shooting for (and preparing for) — I had no complications, a healthy baby and was up and showered and dressed and recovering happily later the same day. No drugs = an easier recovery! Also the preparation I did gave me more confidence and calmness approaching my due date.
cyn-diego commented on Nov 10 09 at 12:53 amAs for birth plans, I think the trick is to a) find a place basically compatible with your plan, and then b) keep it to a simple one-page document that makes the doctors/nurses feel *appreciated* instead of pre-empted. We wrote something on ours like “Thank you — we appreciate your care and expertise…this is the sort of birth we’re hoping for”, not a bunch of “don’t do this! don’t do that!” After all, they all mean well. We also put some basic important info on it so it was useful to them and not just bossy. I would think that knowing where your patients are coming from could only help a practitioner…
Sierra Black commented on Nov 10 09 at 2:00 amThere are a lot of good comments here. I think the thing I found appalling was that they printed this on a sign over their reception desk. It seems like a very aggressive gesture, and a very black-and-white mindset: anything outside the mainstream is de facto a problem.
I have yet to see a doctor or hospital that will honor a birth plan or allow a doula to interfere in an emergency situation. I’ve seen home birth midwives unhesitatingly cut an episiotomy and coach a woman through timed pushes to get a distressed baby out in a hurry. No one wants personal preference to override good medical care.
But for the majority of women who have a normal, healthy-but-agonizing labor and delivery, good labor support can help them avoid a cascade of interventions that come with their own complications.
When I had my second baby, my husband and I drew up a birth plan. I don’t recall if we even gave it to the midwives, but it was a great tool for us to clarify what we did and did not want from that experience, and it helped us communicate better with each other and our midwives.
PlumbLucky commented on Nov 10 09 at 7:44 amThe more I think about it, the more I wonder if this isn’t a response due to a very specific problem and the hospital is doing this to cover their own arseki. Hey Alison – one of my college friends is an OB and has said you would be shocked how many women show up in labor with a tome for a birth plan full of “do this! do not do that!” that try to dictate the experience they have.
GP commented on Nov 10 09 at 8:10 ambe wary of any woman who can’t call a vagina a vagina and insists on calling it a “hoo ha” or any other silly, self-loathing name
Rosana commented on Nov 10 09 at 8:54 amHopefully if you OB works there, they will tell you ahead of time about this policy because they sign will not be of any use if you see it after you have reached 5cm :) On the other hand, I kind of understand the hospital, God knows how many times they have had situations in which a woman wanted to go by her birth plan religiously and not allowed doctors to do their job. In my case, I would not like to give birth there but I’ll make sure I discuss my adversion to Pitocin and Epidurals with my doctor way before labor.
Ellen commented on Nov 10 09 at 11:46 amThe Aspen Women’s Center is an OB-GYN practice, not a hospital. Presumably that gives their clients plenty of time to vote with their feet before it comes time to give birth.
(I’m pretty appalled by the commenters here who think that not submitting to the American obstetrics, and its non-evidence-based approach to birth, makes you a radical cultist. You folks clearly have a lot of reading to do. I recommend starting with Henci Goer’s Obstetric Myths Vs. Research Realities, or her slightly more layperson-focused The Thinking Woman’s Guide to a Better Birth.)
Leanne commented on Nov 10 09 at 12:06 pmAre we really refreshed by this facility’s honesty about their misogyny? When you walk into a hospital , you do not become an object, you remain a thinking, feeling person who is supposed to have a say in the non-emergent health care they receive. This sign is laughable and shows the hospital’s ridiculous ignorance. Laughable!
GP commented on Nov 10 09 at 12:52 pmcheck THIS out!
bettywu commented on Nov 10 09 at 1:39 pmAh, GP. Completely impervious to humor as always. VAGINA VAGINA VAGINA!! feel better?
E commented on Nov 10 09 at 3:51 pmGosh, I’d be wary of the quality of a hospital that has so many grammatical and spelling mistakes in one little sign, not to mention the uninformed and controlling, not to say last-minute, aspects of it.
GP commented on Nov 10 09 at 4:23 pmTouché, E!
Again, glad I had a home birth and extra-glad I don’t live in Utah!
LC commented on Nov 10 09 at 10:14 pmI am going to agree with Sierra that the placement and style seem extremely aggressive. I also think it is very likely in response to a specific incident or incidents, though. It’s too weirdly specific to be otherwise, as Jennifer pointed out.
I am actually in favor of the honesty, and only hope the region is one where people who want to go to another hospital will actually be covered by insurance.
Magnoliama commented on Nov 10 09 at 10:33 pmI think those of you suggesting that this is about controlling uppity women are right on the money (pun intended). I regularly thank my lucky stars that I live in a community with real birth options and wonderful midwives. I’m also glad for home birth, birth centers and women-friendly providers.
I would also like to pose a question about birth options. Why is it wrong for doulas to count decreased rates of interventions and c-sections in their favor? The medical establishment may not see major abdominal surgery as a poor outcome, but many women do. Why aren’t the recipients of care allowed to participate in how their experiences are defined?
Tim commented on Nov 10 09 at 11:04 pmAndrea raises a really good point: a “Bradley method” birth isn’t a uniform procedure, it’s more of an attitude about what kind of approach you’re going to take to your birth. If your partner accompanies you to the birth, and you have agreed in advance not to accept (say) an epidural, pitocin or continuous fetal monitoring, but you just don’t tell the doctors you’re practicing a “Bradley birth”, then they won’t know until you get to the delivery room. It’s sort of like a policy that is designed to make sure that everyone is as ill-prepared as possible.
WLB commented on Nov 11 09 at 12:11 amI would not like to see a law that said birth centers must agree to all requests by mothers. That would obviously be a slippery slope. If you say that birth centers must agree to all reasonable requests, that might be more plausible. But then presumably this policy is not arbitrary, so the Women’s Center must believe that Bradley method people or doulas are not reasonable, for some medical or practical reason. I wonder if you would be upset to see a sign in a Bradley method birth center that said, “This clinic does not participate in births that use anesthetics or [insert some other standard Western birth procedure that the alternative method was set up to fight against]. If you want anesthetics, we will help you find another clinic.”
mbwest commented on Nov 11 09 at 1:53 amComments
I’m just finishing up my training as a Bradley instructor, I’ve had five children without drugs, and this story is just amazing. No wonder the US continues to fall lower and lower among the countries of the world in maternal/infant birth safety. We’re number 30, according to the most recent stats. Bradley is a copyrighted series of 12 classes, always the same, lots of info and empowerment, just trying to make sure moms know that having a baby is like preparing for an Olympic event, they need to practice relaxing, eat very well, and learn enough about this natural process to take responsibility like an adult. You’d think Utahans would love a method that emphasizes family bonds and fathers coaching their wives as a team. What are these folks so afraid of? Sounds like fear of uppity parents to me. I’m emailing the folks at the Bradley Academy to make sure they know about this. They don’t let anyone use their name without their consent…
mbwest commented on Nov 11 09 at 1:54 amComments
Oh, and the Bradley Academy keeps stats on all Bradley births. They have the numbers to support their safety record. You can’t get any safer.
Sara A. commented on Nov 11 09 at 9:24 amYou know, people get to make decisions about how they will be treated when they are DYING. This is not at all controversial (except among Republicans trying to make political hay out of it). People have the option to accept or reject treatment at all other points in life, pretty much. Except when giving birth, of course. That would be ridiculous. *snort* Also, it’s perfectly reasonable to have a policy that birth plans must be discussed and presented some rational number of weeks ahead of time, instead of just rejecting them out of hand.
Carolyn commented on Nov 11 09 at 11:40 amwhile I have a set of strong (and adverse) reactions to the sign at this Utah Hospital, what I think this points to is not just about birth but about lack of choice in healthcare in general. Sadly, my experience suggests that this lack of choice is particularly pronounced when it comes to issues having to do with women’s bodies and women’s health.
Laure68 commented on Nov 11 09 at 12:31 pmMagnoliama – I certainly do not object to doulas collecting data on C-section rates, but then they should say “doula-assisted birth results in fewer C-sections”, not that it results in better outcomes. What if there were fewer C-sections, but more serious injury/death? (Before anyone get mad, I’m not saying this would be the result. But by only collecting C-section/epidural rates, you do not get the end picture.) I have to question why the majority of these “studies” only look at intervention rates and not at final outcomes.
One big issue is that, currently, there are no criteria for what a doula is. Midwives have to pass rigorous standards to get a license. Anyone can call themselves a doula. I believe strongly in regulation. (I come from the medical device field.) Anytime there is low to non-existent regulation, then you really do not know what you are getting.
jane commented on Nov 11 09 at 12:39 pmIn any other case, would you–sans medical license—try and dictate every step of what the doctors did? Also, perhaps it is worth mentioning this is Utah, not San Francisco or somewhere else exactly known for their openness.
The sign is clear and makes sense and is probably for the best.
Lorraine commented on Nov 11 09 at 12:59 pmOh, please. It’s a hospital, not a damn spa. At least the place is telling you up front what they will and won’t do. And birth plans get laughed at in hospitals, by the way. They need to follow protocol and protect themselves as well. If you don’t like it, give birth in your own damn bed.
GP commented on Nov 11 09 at 1:37 pm@Lorraine—Giving birth in my own damn bed is exactly what I did. And the things you cite are exactly why. And doulas *do* have certification standards. Sure, anyone can call themselves anything. We’ve heard of people with botched plastic surgeries who were operated on by fakers with no license. However, there is a DONA certification program for doulas, and a smart woman would do well to look into the credentials of whomever she chooses to attend her birth.
Giving birth naturally on ones own terms is a very empowering experience and I believe that many would have women just shut up and do what they’re told, just to get that baby out, and rob them of this experience. And, sadly, many women are willing to give it up.
phoenix commented on Nov 11 09 at 4:00 pmI, like GP, gave birth in my own damn bed (or, actually, on my own damn floor) twice. I never had a birth plan, or an OB. I’ve learned from comments above that I’m a cultist for believing several studies that Doula assisted births have better outcomes. (I consider a better outcome one with a healthy mother and child. I consider them healthier if they’re not recovering from surgery or drugs after the birth.) I’ve been called a cultist and worse before, so it doesn’t shock or sadden me. What does sadden me is the knee-jerk belief that OB’s know best how to handle a normal healthy birth. That’s simply not their job. Their job is to handle emergencies and major complications and in those instances I’m damn glad they’re there. Pregnancy, however, is not a disease, and in the absence of complications, really shouldn’t be treated as such. Midwives and doulas are trained to assist in normal pregnancies and births and they tend to excel at it, in part by respecting the women they care for.
Aspen Women’s Center is at least being upfront. I hope the women of Provo, Utah do, in fact, have a choice in their care and can go elsewhere for a “better” outcome.
Laure68 commented on Nov 11 09 at 4:01 pmThe difference is that it is illegal to impersonate a surgeon if you are not actually a surgeon. It is perfectly legal to call yourself a doula even if you do not have the certification. Yes, a smart woman would find this out, but many people don’t understand that these kinds of practitioners don’t follow the same rules as MD’s, RN’s, CNM’s, etc.
Again, personally I wish we could all have the choice of birth we want. (That ranges from all-natural homebirth to demanding an epidural. I don’t include C-sections because of the cost, but if someone is willing to pay for it themselves, I won’t get in their way.) For most hospitals, the issue is fear of legal action.
Also, don’t forget that many of these women who are “willing to give it up” don’t care about the actual experience. For some, this experience is important, and they should be able to have the one they want. I know women who had to beg for an epidural, while the nurse tried to convince them to go natural. To me this is just as bad.
Jennifer commented on Nov 11 09 at 5:30 pmAlison: “How many people show up with a birth plan while in labor?” According to the nurse I learned this from, it doesn’t matter when you give it to them since most women get whoever is on duty that day, so there is no point to anyone reading it until you show up. And honestly, who else in the world is expected to start their workday by memorizing a list?
Laure68: “Also, don’t forget that many of these women who are “willing to give it up” don’t care about the actual experience.” I wish more people realized this. You know how fetal heart monitors increase the cesarean rate when 99.9999% of babies don’t need it? My kid was the statistical outlier, and the heart monitor and the cut-happy doctor who delivered him saved his life. I don’t give a ripe wet fart about anything other than the fact that I have a child to take care of rather than a tombstone to tend. And I find among my friends – even those who had easy deliveries – most of us desired a certain experience but figured taking the kid home was the most important thing. That doesn’t mean I don’t care what the doctors and nurses do, but not everyone who doesn’t experience a Magical Birth is a traumatized victim of the obstetric industry.
Sierra Black commented on Nov 11 09 at 11:09 pmI’m really loving all the discussion here. I’m a little surprised by how polarized many of us are between hospital and home birth approaches. I don’t think anyone wants to put the pleasure of the mother ahead of both mother’s and baby’s safety during childbirth.
Jennifer, I’m glad you and your son were able to get the emergency medical care you needed. Doctors and hospitals are one of the greatest blessings of the world when they’re needed. I’d planned to have my first child at home, but did not hesitate at all to go to the hospital when, after 30 hours of labor, the midwife said it was in my baby’s best interest to transport.
The problem I have with medical professionals who take the attitude written up on that sign is that they’re treating women, fundamentally, like wayward children. If something is actually the best thing for me and my baby, I can be educated about it and choose to do it. I don’t need to be blindly led by the Great Wise Doctors.
Jane commented on Nov 12 09 at 2:38 pmI find the sign really rude, but if that’s the way the doctors in the practice feel, they should let their patients know ASAP. I had to transfer in my seventh month, because hidden in their pregnancy handbook was a similar message. I wish they just stated it on the wall.
I do want to mention how many people seem to see a cause and effect between the US’s relatively high maternal and infant mortality rates and our fear of doulas and natural child birth. I see no connection. You have to remember that correlation does not equal causation. The high death rates is rather a socio-economic issue,a health care issue, and related to poor pre-natal care.
Sherry commented on Nov 13 09 at 4:25 pmI transferred hospitals at 36 weeks in order to be at a hospital that respected my preference for natural childbirth. Because I was receiving proper prenatal care, I was relatively certain that I had a low-risk pregnancy and would probably be fine going the natural route. I was actually kind of a show; residents were called in to see what a natural childbirth looks like, since their chances of seeing one were so small!
The hospital I left has one of the finest NICUs and doctors in the country, and I would have gladly stayed there if I’d had a high-risk pregnancy. I just didn’t prefer to medicalize a natural event. If the birth had turned out badly, I would have no one to blame but me, but these are choices we make.
Palliative care and birth care are very similar in that we hopefully get to decide what our values are and act accordingly. I want to birth as naturally and die as naturally as possible. If that effects my infant’s mortality rate or shortens my lifespan, that’s for me to weigh the options. You can’t equate quality-of-life and quality-of-outcomes. We’d all be a lot healthier if we were directed when and how to exercise; when and what to eat; and what medicines and supplements to consume. There are experts for all of these areas. But that doesn’t mean I’m willing to be governed by them.
Mary commented on Nov 21 09 at 11:41 pmMy initial reaction to this post was one of disbelief. That a hospital would be so upfront basically saying “if you come here we will force certain types of medical care upon you and you will have no say.” After reading through some comments a lot of good points were brought up. At least they are up front about it whereas a lot of other hospitals might in practice work against natural childbirth efforts while claiming they don’t. A good birth plan is to go into childbirth with an open mind. This hospital is admitting that they don’t and that can only be a disservice to laboring mothers.
Claire commented on Jan 19 10 at 7:52 pmThis article is very disturbing. Commercialism at its finest –you know they bombard you with lots of choices you no longer know what you really like – doula, OB, midwife, breathing partner, grunting assisted birth, name it. Sometimes less is more! I gave birth in the hospital twice – once natural, the twins through CS and I cannot stop and marvel how these doctors (Yes they don’t have MDs for nothing thank you very much) have handled my case and how they gave me enough information to come up with my (surprise surprise) OWN informed decision on how I’d go about my birthplan.
This article is so screwed and one-sided. All I heard is me me me, I want I want I want. You’re every physician’s nightmare patient. Boo.
Souris commented on Sep 21 10 at 1:27 pmClaire, You praise your doctor for letting you make your “OWN informed decision” in one sentence, and then excoriate women for wanting just that. Makes no sense.
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