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Is ‘Where the Wild Things Are’ For Kids?
“Where the Wild Things Are” is probably one of the most hyped films of the year. I had reservations going in, but I was pleasantly surprised.
By almost any measure, this is a very well made movie. The visuals are terrific, the creatures look about as real as they can, and the kid who plays Max (real name Max Records, believe it or not) does a great job.
But is it a children’s movie?
It depends on the kid. There are parts that get a little scary — some baring of teeth by the monsters, some collapsing of structures that Max is inside. And the monsters are so neurotic, they make Telly from Sesame Street look like Elmo. So there are a few emotional meltdowns that could be frightening to little kids, or even slightly larger kids.
At the show I attended (note: I paid for the tickets, this wasn’t a critics’ screening) three or four children left because they were scared. But that was a very small percentage of the kids that were in attendance.
As for the movie, I’m not sure yet what I think of it. On the one hand it was subtle, on the other hand it hit you like a ton of bricks. Since it is an adaptation of a really short book, director Spike Jonze and co-screenwriter Dave Eggers added some stuff (the neurotic monsters, a semi-dysfunctional family for Max) that didn’t bother me as much as I thought it would. The trailer is far more precious than the film itself; this is not a movie that believes that childhood is always wonderful, sometimes being a kid sucks.
Overall the movie is as much about how it feels as it is about what the characters say or do. There is a lot of feeling on screen, which is probably why very young kids won’t be bothered by some of the sequences. Since these moments aren’t designed to be frightening the way that, say, the scene where squirrels eat a little girl alive in Tim Burton’s “Charlie and the Chocolate Factory” is, they can be more easily digested or even ignored. My youngest son said that his favorite part was when Max, the King of the Wild Things, says “Let the wild rumpus start!” So that’s what he took from it.
There is some emotional complexity here, and I’d like to see the film again in order to analyze certain scenes that I found interesting. (Plus there was a fair amount of little kid chatter that caused me to miss a couple of lines.) This is a movie that will likely turn up in the type of college classes that make parents wonder what the hell they are paying for (think “Classic Films Of 2009″), but at least it should inspire some lively discussion.
Bottom line: “Where the Wild Things Are” is worth seeing in a theater (assuming you can afford it — movie tickets, at least in Manhattan, have become insanely expensive), and you can probably feel OK taking your children. The more nervous your child is, the more concerned you should be. That’s not a pejorative, it’s a caveat. Nothing wrong with having a nervous kid. It happens. But if they get scared easily, consider that fact before you buy them a ticket.
Anyone out there who has seen “Where The Wild Things Are”, let us know what you thought of the film. And what your kids thought of it, if you took them to see it.
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Morning News - Ford Posts Profit | Strollerderby commented on Nov 02 09 at 10:36 amjeannesager commented on Oct 17 09 at 8:31 pmHaven’t seen it yet – although when it finally comes to my backwater town, I plan on the in-theater ticket splurge . . . and on bringing my daughter. I’m actually glad to hear you say it admits sometimes being a kid sucks, because I always felt that was part of the book: facing the sucky parts and coming out better on the other side (and knowing mom will leave a hot meal behind for you).
heather commented on Oct 17 09 at 8:32 pmComments the ‘wild things’ are not monsters.
Brett Singer commented on Oct 17 09 at 9:27 pm“the ‘wild things’ are not monsters.”
they’re not? Creatures, perhaps?
Jessie Backe commented on Oct 17 09 at 10:13 pmMy father in law has never “babysat” for my 3.5 year old alone, and yesterday was his maiden voyage. For their first time alone together, he decided to take my boy to see this movie. In IMAX. I was apprehensive, since I didn’t know what to expect, as it was opening day and I hadn’t heard many reviews. Plus I thought if it was scary, how much scarier would it be on the biggest screen there is? But he seemed to like it, was not scared, and enjoyed the fact that the kid was Max, since that is his middle name. I agree with Brett that it probably depends on the kid. I also meet them at the theater, and I saw kids younger than 3 coming out of it, and no one looked traumatized. I can’t speak for their nightmares later, though!
Brett Singer commented on Oct 17 09 at 10:20 pmIMAX – yikes. That kid’s a cool customer if he handled that one OK. Good for him.
heather commented on Oct 18 09 at 12:27 ammy point about the wild things not being monsters is based on the fact that the author of this piece used the word monster instead of wild things. i’ve heard/read other people do this also. the wild things are just max’s imaginary friends really. he is king of them after all, in his mind.
i just think the focus should be on them being wild, kind and yeah, maybe creatures. monsters is too negative of a connotation for what they are meant to be in the book, i think.
Brett Singer commented on Oct 18 09 at 12:29 amPoint taken. Part of the monster thing, for me, is that they look muppet-like in the movie, which makes sense since they were made by Henson Co. So for me it doesn’t have a negative connotation. But still, good point.
heather commented on Oct 18 09 at 12:39 amfrankly for myself, monster is not a negative connotation for me either; but for my young children it is. i will be going to see the movie for my own entertainment. my kids will not. i believe that imagination is the most important thing for young children, and as a well-read and loved story in our home, they are too young to have someone else add images to their perfectly good ones created in their own minds. just my 2 cents.
Comstock commented on Oct 18 09 at 7:37 amHahaha. Don’t call the wolfman a monster. He’s a wolfman. Let’s look to the dictionary: Monster – an imaginary creature that is typically large, ugly, and scary. Also, on the negative connotation point: Cookie Monster. Chill out.
Tia commented on Oct 18 09 at 11:01 amMaybe this makes me a ‘bad mommy’ but I took my two year old son who is too young to really get scary movie parts because he’s into monsters and loves the book. He was riveted the whole time. He did say ‘uh oh’ a couple times when the theatre got abnormally dark during a couple parts but mostly murmured about the monsters (“dem running mama; he’s going back to his mama?”)…so I loved it and would say that 4 and up would be a good age. they do say “hell” though! omg!
Leila commented on Oct 19 09 at 4:18 pmKids can get scared in any children’s movie, from Nemo (Shark and Mom dying scenes) to Shrek (dragon). Again, going to the movies should be an adventurous experience for families, we can never be sure if our kids will like the story or not. I love that the grandfather above took his 3.5 year old grandson to the IMAX version.
Brett Singer commented on Oct 19 09 at 4:23 pm“I love that the grandfather above took his 3.5 year old grandson to the IMAX version.” – sure. I wouldn’t do it, but I think IMAX is a bit intimidating no matter what the movie is. This actually might be less freaky since the movie is, for the most part, very gentle. Just my opinion, though – parents have to decide for themselves what their children can handle.
Brett Singer commented on Oct 19 09 at 4:24 pm@Tia – they said “hell”? Not that it’s a big deal, but I don’t remember that. When did they say it?
Lea R commented on Oct 19 09 at 8:51 pmGood review. I just read another really good blog post about that very question:
http://www.feastafterfamine.com/home/2009/10/17/art-imitates-life.html
My husband and I loved watching the long trailer at apple.com–it made me teary! We won’t be taking our five-year-old girl (much less the toddler) to see the movie, though. The creatures are pretty big and powerful, and I’m afraid she’d have nightmares. Seems like the kind of movie that will be re-released when she’s a bit older–we’ll take her then.
LDR
Mummyme commented on Oct 19 09 at 10:42 pmI saw the movie yesterday with my three kids (7,5 and 2) husband and mother and father in-law and everyone loved it!! It works on so many different levels that everyone takes away different things – my seven year old thought Max was the coolest kid ever. My five year old thought the ‘wild things’ were cute and acted like little kids sometimes. My two year old giggled and oo’d and aah’d. While the grown ups were amazed at the technology involved in the making of the film and the whole concept of translating a book of so few words into such an enormous and complex film! Awesome job Spike!!!!
GP commented on Oct 20 09 at 10:47 amI read on CNN about people bringing a 20 month old and him being bored. I know some posters here said they brought 2 year olds and they were “riveted” and all that, but honestly, I don’t think a kid that old really needs to be sitting around watching a movie for an hour and a half, or however long it is, and am very skeptical that they would even do it. Kids that age like to do different things and don’t have the attention span for plot development and all that. I don’t buy it…
A Dad commented on Oct 23 09 at 2:06 pmMy 3.5 yo will be going. I’m tired of the it’s “too scary” for a little one crap. Trophies for losers and the sheltering of kids from adventure, imagination and reality. This isn’t The Shining, The Exorcist or The Omen.
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