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They Say: Parents Buck the Trend With Names – Sort Of

Posted by jeannesager on October 15th, 2009 at 10:30 am

babynamepromo 300x115 They Say: Parents Buck the Trend With Names   Sort OfA study that attempts to explain why baby name popularity waxes and wanes would seem on the surface to be common sense: once a name becomes popular, no one wants it anymore.

It would explain, then, why names go out of fashion. But how do they become the hot ticket to begin with if we’re all so trendy shy?

The study in the journal Topics in Cognitive Science posits parents want the new hot name (sound familiar?), and they cast aside the names on their way out. Still confused? Me too.

Maybe this will help. According to a report in USA Today, the researchers explained, “Parents in the United States are increasingly sensitive to the change in frequency of a name in recent time, such that names that are gaining in popularity are seen as more desirable than those that have fallen in popularity in the recent past.”

They compare it to the stock market. I’d prefer to think in fashion terms – when a name is “so last season,” nobody wants it. But if a name is just taking off, who wouldn’t want to be kicking it in those kicks?

Which way did you go?

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15 Comments

I search the Pottery Barn Kids catalog for names to avoid…

Dad commented on Oct 15 09 at 1:05 pm

We went with what we feel are “classic” first names (Elijah, Gideon and Lukas–alternative spelling as it’s a family name) and “off-beat” middle names (Harrison, Hendrix and Hawkeye, respectively). I think “Elijah” and “Harrison” though, are the only names that ever make it into the top 100 lists.

snarky mama commented on Oct 15 09 at 1:27 pm

Our daughter’s very popular name is actually her great-grandmother’s name…so we have an excuse. We are not merely following the zeitgeist. We are actually chagrined at the name’s popularity, of course. But, it’s a lovely name, just the same.

GP commented on Oct 15 09 at 6:41 pm

My son is James. Classic, simple, and while it ranks high, we’ve never met another James under ten.

coolteamblt commented on Oct 15 09 at 6:56 pm

We went with vintage names for ours. Spencer (middle name Aaron) was popular in the 90′s but not quite as popular now. Truman (middle name Alexander) is barely on the top 1000. Annabel (middle name Vivian) is sort of popular, but not nearly so as Isabel, and we chose the less popular spelling.

Snarky Mama, I like your names! Were you honoring certain icons of the ’60′s and ’70′s with the middle names?

Blacksheep commented on Oct 15 09 at 8:07 pm

My much younger sister has a trendy name, and I’ve noticed in trying to speak different languages with her, it doesn’t translate. You get this beautiful stream of Spanish or French and then you have to pause to say her very American name. It really breaks it up, which sucks because she has a great aptitude and flawless accent otherwise. With that in mind, I gave my kids names I like that have a version in just about every language. If you name your son some translation of John James Alexander Peter Paul Charles or Mark, he’s pretty solid. The same names for girls seem to be Mary Susan Christina Anne and Margaret. Imagine “me llamo Cayden” “te quiero, Madison” etc.

jenny tries too hard commented on Oct 15 09 at 9:27 pm

our Ava passes that test…except international folks think its spelled Eva

mumc commented on Oct 15 09 at 9:35 pm

Oooh, the first two yeah. But before the third was a twinkle in the eye, in a moment of loving drunkenness, I agreed to let my husband pick the next baby’s name. Hawkeye is actually one of DHs favorite comic book characters, not a M*A*S*H reference.

snarky mama commented on Oct 15 09 at 11:16 pm

We gave our son a name I’ve always liked. I thought it was unusual, and I had no idea that it would become such a popular name. We’re kind of bummed that it’s so common now. He’s probably going to have other kids in his class with the same name.

Manjari commented on Oct 16 09 at 9:31 am

@ jenny – I actually hate that, to be honest. I had a French teacher who insisted on changing students names to be more francophone and it was a little appalling. For example, Craig should not become Craigoire, because that’s not a name in any language. Call the child by their name, period. (to turn your example around, do you anglophonize Spanish names? Juan becomes John, just because you’re speaking English?) Maybe that’s just me, though. Every Olympics it annoys me that we don’t call nations what they call themselves, but use an English (or French, or whathaveyou) name instead. Why do we say Germany when they say Deutschland?

Bec commented on Oct 16 09 at 10:14 am

In choosing our son’s name, we went first and foremost with a name we both loved (which narrowed the field quite a bit!). We also considered our cultural heritage and whether or not the name would be easily pronounced in other languages without being altered. As a bonus our son’s name, Luca, is also a lot of fun to say :) I know of a few others (friends of friends of friends) but haven’t met any in person. We have met a few Lukes and a Lucas, but that’s OK with us–we like that his name is a slight twist on a familiar classic.

yesplease commented on Oct 16 09 at 11:04 am

hmmmm…come to think of it, I do adapt my first name (Anna) to the language I’m speaking, but since that is primarily Spanish, it isn’t much of switch from Ann-uh to AH-nu. My brothers, Marcus and Thomas always were Marcos and Tomas (toe-MOSS) with relatives who spoke Spanish, too, and I never thought of it as changing the name. But, we grew up in an area where most people are bilingual, so it just never was much of an issue, I guess. But try introducing little Jaydyn around, and it’s a little stickier.

jenny tries too hard commented on Oct 16 09 at 11:35 am

in response to pronouncing names in other languages, I really do love and enjoy my name. However, I speak english, french and I now live in germany. Trust me, 95% of all germans and french can NOT pronounce it. lol I’ve just learned to respond to ‘headda’ (germans) or ‘azay’ (french)

heather commented on Oct 16 09 at 5:11 pm

We went with old classic names – Simon & Malcolm. I’m not much interested in what is popular, nor am I interested in changing the spelling of pretty much anything.

Marj commented on Oct 18 09 at 4:07 pm

My husband and I went completely away from the popular name lists you see (old or otherwise) Our son’s first name is Zandrall (we call him Zan for short). His first middle name is Aiko, (it means little loved one in Japanese). Now going back to the conventional his initials are Z.A.C.K. (I wanted to give him choices on what to go by once he was old enough to choose)

Marquietta commented on Nov 07 11 at 1:35 am

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