Strollerderby

They Say: Bottlefeeding May Put Moms in Mourning

Posted by bethanysanders on August 28th, 2009 at 4:36 pm

519624 milk  They Say: Bottlefeeding May Put Moms in MourningAn evolutionary psychologist is taking on post partum depression with an interesting — yet morbid — new theory.  University of Albany researcher Gordon Gallup says that — from an evolutionary standpoint, anyway — choosing bottle over breast is tantamount to sending your body a biological telegram that your baby has died.

Here’s how he explains his theory:  After polling 50 moms who had recently given birth, the team discovered that bottle feeding moms had higher scores on the Edinburgh Postnatal Depression Scale.  And those same bottle feeding mothers also spent more time holding their babies than the breastfeeding mothers did.  Gallup interpreted this as an act of a desperate, mourning mother that

…parallels findings among nonhuman primates where in response to the death of an infant, mothers of some species have been known to tenaciously hold, cling to, and carry their infants for prolonged periods after they die.

(In fact, a separate, much larger study has already shown that breastfed babies are held more than bottlefed babies.)

Basically, way back before wet nurses or infant formula, the absence of a suckling infant would indicate a loss of the child.  Gallup believes that women’s bodies still interpret this loss, even though logic tells them their babies are alive and thriving.  This could explain the higher incidence in this study of post partum depression among bottle feeding mothers.

But there are gaps in Gallup’s theory.  Did his study account for things like family history, hormone imbalances, or the baby’s health and behavior (like colic or not sleeping)?  Or — as fellow Strollerderby blogger Jeanne Sager pointed out to me — that maybe they’re so bombarded with the “breast is best” ideal that they feel overwhelming guilt every time they make their baby’s bottle and that puts them at risk for depression?

Look:  We all know breast is best.  We know it, we understand it, but that doesn’t mean that every mother can (or even wants) to do it.  If Gallup is on the right track and his research helps moms with depression, then bravo.  But this feels to me like another way to unfairly clobber moms with the message that if they’re bottle feeding their baby, they’re doing something terribly wrong — for their babies and for themselves.

What do you think of Gallup’s finding?  Has he done enough research to back it up?

 They Say: Bottlefeeding May Put Moms in Mourning

Go Back To Strollerderby

0 Comments

I’m always fine with the arguments about such things til I read the “or even wants to” bit. If someone CAN’T BF, fine, that’s sad, nobody should be made to feel bad. It’s like an illness or handicap. But to just “not want to”? Then I think that’s kind of doing the baby a disservice right from the get go. If someone can’t even do THAT, I mean, what other things are they just not going to want to do for their kid. It’s part of being a mother, if you CAN.

GP commented on Aug 28 09 at 5:52 pm

None of us casual readers can tell if the guy “did enough research” but the theory certainly makes sense, and there may be additional causes that would be related to NOT breastfeeding, like the lack of oxytocin, and other reparations the body goes through that are aided by BFing.

GP commented on Aug 28 09 at 5:54 pm

A study of 50 people? That’s a really small sample size. No, he didn’t do enough research.

Robyn commented on Aug 28 09 at 6:01 pm

I have heard anecdotally from some women who had cesareans without much or any labor that they felt that their bodies registered their baby’s birth as a death. They weren’t deranged or hyperbolic, they were just trying to understand what happened. I think it makes sense as an evolutionary biology theory (which is what it is) but isn’t quite up to snuff for implementing changes to public policy or modern parenting customs. But I doubt that is the scientist’s goal.

Larissa commented on Aug 28 09 at 7:21 pm

Hahaha! How stupid. I held my bottle fed kids as much as the breastfed ones. I had to hold them to feed them for petes sake. What a bunch of hooey. People have used wet nurses for centuries. We are not monkeys, our brains, which signal to our bodies how to react, know our baby is not dead.

Ali commented on Aug 28 09 at 8:54 pm

I really hope breastfeeding advocates don’t latch on to this study.

Mistress_Scorpio commented on Aug 28 09 at 10:34 pm

Mistress Scorpio – Your choice of words made me titter. ;-)

ceecee commented on Aug 29 09 at 9:59 am

This is the most ridicolous thing I have ever heard.

Kelly commented on Nov 24 09 at 11:17 am

One positive – breastfeeding could be encouraged during pre-natal care for those mothers who have risk factors for ppd. It’s not a cure-all, but I know that it definitely helped me from sliding in to ppd after a traumatic birth and experiencing depression during pregnancy.

Heather M commented on Apr 30 10 at 2:20 pm

taxonomically, humans being just another kind of monkey, the root of the theory makes sense. as to wet nurses, they are rare, because it’s mostly rich or royalty that have had them for those centuries, so any changes would be seen only in ‘old money’ or royal families, not in the rest of the population. also… the brain is not disconnected from the body, there are so many chemicals produced outside of the brain that affect the brain, with concrete evidence, that scoffing about this is stupid.

jim dorey commented on Sep 21 10 at 1:14 pm

Add your take:

Note: Babble is a supportive, diverse community. We encourage a range of opinions,
but any unduly hostile comments will be removed.


Comments are delayed up to 15 minutes

Most Popular on Facebook

Best of Babble.com


  • Joslyn Gray
  • Amber Doty
  • Julianna Miner
  • Monica Bielanko
  • Sierra Black
  • Meredith Carroll
  • Carolyn Castiglia
  • Sunny Chanel
  • Madeline Holler
  • Wendy Michaels
  • Rebecca Odes
  • Danielle Smith
  • Danielle Sullivan
  • Katherine Stone
  • Disney Online Moms & Family Portfolio

    The Walt Disney Company supports Babble as a platform dedicated to honest, engaged, informed, intelligent and open conversation about parenting. However, the opinions expressed on this site are those of individual parents/writers and do not reflect the views of Disney. In addition, content provided on this site is for entertainment or informational purposes only and should not be construed as medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or safety advice. Click here for additional information. Privacy Policy | Terms of Service

    More in Strollerderby (50 of 10535 articles)