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VIDEO: Mom Takes Kid For a Drag

Posted by jeannesager on August 5th, 2009 at 9:33 am

dragging kid 300x240 VIDEO: Mom Takes Kid For a DragIt’s been three months since a mother was arrested for child abuse, but suddenly a video of her literally dragging her kid on a leash through a Verizon Wireless store has gone viral.

And people are still trying to defend her!

Take a gander at the video:

OK, this was not a cranky child kicking and screaming being dragged by a mom by the arm. We’ve all been there.

This woman wasn’t A. watching what happened with her child (did you see near the end, where she almost slammed his head into the wall as she rounded the corner) and B. a frustrated mom at the end of her rope desperately to avoid a scene in a busy store.

That’s the defense being thrown up – that this child was naughty, and mom was just trying to get him out of there. Also popular is the “I understand” defense from parents who think frustration is a good excuse.

I’m not big on parents who leash kids to begin with, and it’s a prejudice that pre-dates my own parenting. I was walking out of a mall restaurant once, only to have a child on a leash dart out in front of me. Knowing I’d fall, I erred on the side of caution, twisting my body so that my back jarred against the hard mall floor. The child landed on top of me, unharmed. And what did I earn for my sore hip? Angry parents who blamed me for walking into their leash instead of themselves for letting their kid run six feet in front of them on a wire at calf-height.

Leashes are godsends for parents in certain situations – single parents going to an airport with all their bags, plus their child’s. Parents taking a small child into a big city for the first time. Parents who know to keep a – for lack of a better phrase – tight rein on their kid.

But leashes beg for abuse – the parents who think they no longer have to watch what their child is doing because the leash acts as a babysitter. Parents who would drag their child around a store.

The mom was arrested for felony child abuse. Her child suffered injuries to his neck. Would you defend her?

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[...] being dragged by a mom by the arm. We’ve all been there,” writes Jeanne Sager for Babble’s StrollerDerby blog. “This woman wasn’t A. watching what happened with her child (did you see near the end, [...]

Mum Drags her Child through a departmental store on a leash commented on Aug 08 09 at 2:21 pm

This was undoubtedly abuse — or blatant laziness that led to abuse. Either way, I’m glad to read she was arrested.

Lorraine commented on Aug 05 09 at 10:50 am

I don’t know how anyone could defend this.

Manjari commented on Aug 05 09 at 12:30 pm

Defending her is like saying to an abusive husband, It’s ok to hit when you get frustrated. Absolutely ridiculous. I’m glad she was caught.

Erin commented on Aug 05 09 at 2:10 pm

Leashing kids is a terrrible thing that a human can do his/her child. For gods sake, they are not animals, they are intelligent human beings. I think leashes should be banned forever. I am from Turkey, and I can only image seeing this kind of attitude to humans in a country who has history in slavery or may be followed by Germany. If US can pass this law that means they have reached civilization.

ayca commented on Aug 14 09 at 1:07 am

Yikes! If you really don’t want to be out with your kid, hire a babysitter.

Cher commented on Aug 29 09 at 2:21 pm

OMG what a video. That kid looks like he is in so much pain, NOT. Yes it looks bad, but was you there?? Probably not. So how can you judge what is going on? You can’t so keep your mouth shut about someone else’s business. Where did you get the info that the child had a injuries to his neck? I didn’t see anything about that anywhere but here? If you was there then was the child laughing or crying? My son had to wear night-splints which is a bar between his feet attached to his shoes. I would take and hold him upside down by that bar and he loved it, I guess you would consider that some sort of child abuse today. Seems to me that you are a little upset for not watching where you was going and and tripping over someones child leash. I never leashed my kids, only because that idea never crossed my mind at the time. Not to mention my children knew better to get to far if dad was around, mom was another story of course. I have a grand-daughter that I would leash in a second and do. That child can out run an athlete and I am not that young anymore. Not to mention she does not listen very well..
You sound like one of those people that would call the police if I was to spank my child in front of you in public. Well guess what I did that plenty of times and you know my kids love me and are all grown now and appreciate the way we raised them.
Think about this,”Don’t believe anything you hear and only about half of what you see”, people especially the media tell you what they want you to hear and edit what they want you to see. So unless you was there and know for sure what you know don’t judge. The world would be a better place.

Ed commented on Sep 22 09 at 9:46 am

Comments I had two kids and I agree fully with Ed. 17 seconds of video does not tell the whole story and you are all making judgements based on very little information. A leash on an active child in a mall setting is for their safety, not for the parents convenience.

Debby commented on Sep 22 09 at 3:47 pm

not child abuse! the kid wanted to be dragged, it’s a game he likes to play at home on the hardwood floors. you all need to get a grip! this a felony??? ridiculous! I feel sorry for this mom.

jennifer commented on Sep 22 09 at 4:10 pm

Like this article, thank you to share

Michael Jordan Shoes commented on Sep 29 09 at 2:15 am

ed, debbie, and jennifer- First off, no child so be so undisciplined that he/she needs a leash, when my child was “too young to behave himself”, I would hire a babysitter to watch him. Second off, that lady is NOT taking her kid “for a ride”. She is obviously upset and/or frustrated. Third off, under no circumstances would you have to drag your child through a store. That’s blatant abuse. If he’s misbehaving the least you could do is CARRY him out or something. “17 seconds” of video can actually tell a lot. There is no excuse for these “17 seconds” of abuse. Kudos to everyone who contributed to this lady getting what was coming to her.

Susie commented on Sep 11 10 at 9:56 pm

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