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They Say – Pulling Out Is The Same As A Condom

Posted by brettsinger on July 21st, 2009 at 4:00 pm

200px condom rolled 150x150 They Say   Pulling Out Is The Same As A CondomAccording to the June issue of Contraception magazine, there isn’t that much difference between the “withdrawl method” of birth control and using a condom. Withdrawl is “almost as effective as the male condom — at least when it comes to pregnancy prevention.”

I won’t get into the various hair splitting that the researchers offer. Basically, they claim that there is statistically very little difference between the two methods of birth control.

I call bullshit. Why? I’m not a doctor, but it defies common sense that wrapping your jammy in a plastic container has the same effect as not doing so. Besides, before the full release occurs, there is… drippage. You know what I mean. And the condom can catch that drippage. Maybe there’s not much potency in said drippage, but why take that chance?

The authors of the article say that “the intention was not to advocate withdrawal, but to advocate talking about it.” Personally, I don’t think anyone, especially guys, need an excuse to avoid using condoms. Even if its only 1 percent more effective, that’s enough to wear the glove. They call it Planned Parenthood for a reason.

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Woman Sent Away From Hospital Forced To Give Birth At Home | Strollerderby commented on Jul 24 09 at 1:30 pm

[...] and, well, men we just don’t buy it. Our friends over at our less-slutty sister site Babble agree: The authors of the article say that “the intention was not to advocate withdrawal, but to [...]

The Curious Case of the Condom vs. the Pull-Out Method | Scanner commented on Jul 24 09 at 3:07 pm

I’ve got 2 kids who say it doesn’t work. ;)

I’d hate to think of people reading this and forgetting about the fact that condoms prevent things other than pregnancy- withdrawal’s not going to prevent the spread of disease.

Mrs Embers commented on Jul 21 09 at 4:35 pm

Totally agreed, Brett. I’m sorry, but I just don’t believe “I’ll pull out in time, baby” affords the same protection as using a condom. And using it PROPERLY.

Mistress_Scorpio commented on Jul 21 09 at 4:38 pm

“Even if its only 1 percent more effective, that’s enough to wear the glove.”

Apparently you’ve never gotten you’re freak on in the raw…
Rawnoob

asdfghjkl commented on Jul 21 09 at 4:57 pm

LOL! That’s funny. I have 5 children. 1 conceived with pull out method, 1 conceived with condoms, and 3 were planned. I think maybe pull out WITH a condom may be a good idea? LOL.

TK commented on Jul 21 09 at 5:17 pm

well the only reason condoms don’t work is… people put them on wrong, that and the occasional manufacturers mistake (exceedingly uncommon) what they’re saying is that pulling out early is only as effective as condoms because retards use condoms wrong, if they didn’t pulling out would be LESS effective…and oh yeah STD’s.

truth commented on Jul 21 09 at 5:22 pm

Pulling out is the same as a condom in the same way that “protected” is almost exactly like “pregnant.”

Knitty commented on Jul 21 09 at 5:38 pm

there’s a magazine dedicated to contraception?!? who reads this??!!

hails commented on Jul 21 09 at 6:16 pm

I guess some out there have never heard of a science journal…

Mistress_Scorpio commented on Jul 21 09 at 6:39 pm

i’m a professional sexuality educator with some comments on this.
1. while it is scary to open up the withdrawal method as a reliable means, an educator’s responsibility is to be honest. this is what differentiates us from ideologues who think they know better.
2. for withdrawal to be effective, there must not have been an ejaculation recently and the man has to have very consistent, reliable timing- a difficult trait to master and the reason it ever fails.
3. withdrawal is only suggested for monogamous, STI-free partners as it does nothing to protect against spreading infection.
4. i’m delighted condom use is the norm, ecstatic even. this does not mean, however, that we stop being scientists and wanting to know the truth.

timaree commented on Jul 21 09 at 7:24 pm

timaree, I was thinking about making a similar comment, about responsibility to report test data. If the data from this study shows that withdrawal is as effective as condom use, then they are obliged to report this. They can’t just hold it back (no pun intended) because they don’t like the results.

I haven’t looked through the entire study yet, but it does to be based on surveys of a relatively small group of people, which might indicate that the data is not that reliable. (Although it would be pretty much impossible to perform a double-blind study on this!) A lot of studies reported in the media are done like this, though. They also do state in the study that withdrawal is not effective against the spread of STD’s.

Laure68 commented on Jul 21 09 at 7:55 pm

A guy wrote that study.

Ali commented on Jul 21 09 at 9:07 pm

I know this may be TMI, but I’ve only used condoms for the past 11 years with my husband. Twice we tried to get pregnant (stopped using condoms) and twice I got pregnant within a month. I would never rely on the pull-out method to keep me from getting pregnant.

Barb commented on Jul 21 09 at 9:08 pm

Ali – LOL! Surprisingly, the study was written by 4 women.

Laure68 commented on Jul 21 09 at 9:25 pm

My husband and I used the pull out method as our form of birth control. I was on birth control and then started having problems that we both decided were not worth the trouble and the cost. Besides, we are obviously in a committed relationship. When we finally decided to have kids it happened for us within a month.

Shana commented on Jul 21 09 at 10:52 pm

There’s a reason why it’s known as “pull and pray.”

ChrissyDS commented on Jul 22 09 at 12:53 am

I find condoms to be a pain in the a** because they interrupt the process and don’t feel as good. Birth control pills reduce my sexual drive, so what’s the point? So yes, I think it’s important to be honest about the effectiveness of birth control methods so you can make an educated decision that takes into account the pros and cons, the cons often being decreased pleasure.

I long suspected that withdrawal methods were more effective than what word of mouth would have you believe. When you look at the straight numbers, it just doesn’t differ much from condoms. Withdrawal method is what my husband and I have been using in our five year marriage. The only two times I got pregnant was when I deliberately decided to stop using it. I suspect that withdrawal method is often discouraged because it doesn’t protect against STDs, but that was not an issue that applied to us.

Bean's Mom commented on Jul 22 09 at 6:21 am

I love it when some blogger without a science background encounters scientific research bolstered with statistical analyses and simply decides “bullshit.” It’s no different than denial of evolution or climate change: data and statistics be damned, this doesn’t fit with my naive understanding of the world so I’ll deny it.

Scientist commented on Jul 22 09 at 6:41 am

I agree with Scientist. I’ve seen this study on several blogs, and all have mocked the idea that any sex without a wrapper equals instant pregnancy. I have to point out that people do experience different concerns and needs when it comes to pregnancy prevention. I myself had a terrible reaction to the pill- a (thankfully) non-cancerous, but very disfiguring tumor when I was 19. Due to the way my body interacts with the added hormones, I run a VERY high chance of having more tumors if I ever take birth control again. I am also allergic to latex, which can sometimes be a big problem. So having an alternative method and more information is a great thing for someone in a committed, longterm relationship like myself. Otherwise, I’m looking at an IUD…

ParisChick commented on Jul 22 09 at 8:08 am

To the scientists in the thread: I agree that there’s a responsibility to report data, but there’s also a responsibility on behalf of the media (bloggers like Brett included) to point out flaws in data!

jeannesager commented on Jul 22 09 at 10:18 am

Whatever, “Scientist.” Maybe the rest of us would take your work more seriously if you didn’t change your collective minds every few years or depending on who is paying you, hmmm?

Knitty commented on Jul 22 09 at 10:23 am

Jeanneasager: I understand your point but I don’t see Brett pointing out any legitimate flaws about the study in his post. All he said is that the results of the study defy his own common sense understanding, which is interesting but in itself is ot a good reason for dismissing data.

Knitty: What the hell? What an ignorant statement! Don’t you realize that scientific researchers are supposed to disclose any affiliations and funding precisely so that their level of objectivity can be taken into consideration? Those few scientists who don’t are breaking a serious ethical code, but are you going to dismiss the whole process of scientific investigation just because of a few bad people? Do you have a better system for gathering knowledge about the word? Or are you just anti-science and like to use the excuse of “well, they are getting their money from somebody” to dismiss any evidence that doesn’t fit the way you like to see the world?

Bean's mom commented on Jul 22 09 at 11:01 am

I don’t dismiss the entire process of scientific investigation, no, but the realm of health-related “research” is especially suspect. Just look at the last 20 years: fat is bad for you! No, wait, it’s the carbs that are gonna kill ya. Being super-thin will extend your life! No, actually, we totally messed up the evidence and that’s not true, being “overweight” is actually better if you wind up on the operating table. Salt, death in a shaker! No, actually, not so, our bad. Okay then, eggs! Death in a shell! Well, except when the study is funded by the agriculture department, then they are the healthiest thing on your plate. I could go on and on and ON: exposure to sun, alcohol consumption, how much exercise we need, what medications are safe for pregnant mothers… are you really so stunned and outraged that many of us have just stopped listening?

Knitty commented on Jul 22 09 at 11:21 am

As someone who has been involved in many clinical trials, I can completely understand Knitty’s frustration. The issue is that of lot of these “studies” that are reported in the media are done retrospectively – that is, they look at past information, and often survey people to get this information. This is a notoriously poor way of reaching a conclusion for many reasons, including the fact that people can have poor memory recall, not be honest, and this is not a way to get a randomized population. (Meaning that the groups self-sort themselves – maybe a person who practices withdrawal is a different age than a person who uses condoms, which affects how many people will get pregnant in a year, etc.) A true clinical study needs to be randomized, and should be double-blind – meaning neither the doctor nor the patient knows which medication, device, etc. they are getting. This is obviously impossible in the condom/withdrawal scenario.

And you talk about medications that are safe for pregnant mothers. Since it is unethical to perform a true clinical trial on pregnant women, this is something we will never know for sure.

The biggest problem with this is that when true, rigorous clinical trial is performed, people doubt the results because of all these “studies” we constantly read about that give conflicting information. Science is not 100%, but when performed rigorously will give a result that is much more reliable.

Laure68 commented on Jul 22 09 at 3:06 pm

Hey Truth, Um, welcome to 2009, where using the word “retard(s)” is frowned upon…although many Strollerderby writers don’t seem to mind it’s use either.

The condom thing??? I got pregnant using the pill and a condom (correctly I might add). I’m guessing that the more protection the better, but that’s just me.

Sheri commented on Jul 22 09 at 4:48 pm

I was under the impression that pre-ejaculate could contain more than enough sperm to cause pregnancy. Which would equate condoms to pulling out, only if one had sex without a condom, then pulled out and put one on right before ejaculation. I mean, I get the statistics are what they are quoting, but it does seem like if you’re going to use these you might point out that this is only true because condoms aren’t always used correctly. Correctly used, I’m sure the statistics wouldn’t be so close. Also, one might want to point out that pulling out doesn’t protect against any STDs.

Marj commented on Jul 23 09 at 4:52 pm

I pull out & I have no kids. :-D

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