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Date Night at IKEA? Really?
The recession is affecting how we do things in lots of ways – and one of them appears to be date night. According to this New York Times piece, people are actually using the free childcare at nearby IKEA stores to pull off some time alone.
I thnk this is a little cheesy – I mean, date night at IKEA? And the idea that some parents use it solely to take a break from their kids and buy nothing is really irritating. If I made the 45-minute drive to IKEA in order to shop but the Smaland was full with kids whose parents were just kicking back and enjoying the free Wi-Fi in the café, I’d be pretty irked at having to wait.
But I was surprised by the negativity from the commenters in the piece. It’s not like parents are using it as their sole source of daycare – the store limits it to an hour or hour and half and parents aren’t allowed to leave the store. But anyone who’s tried to shop, especially for something boring like furniture, with small kids knows how wonderful it is to be able to drop them off somewhere and weigh the merits of this couch or that one in peace.
I would even argue that in this recession, where businesses really need to attract customers, more places should offer this service. I would gladly pay a few bucks to drop my kids off at a supervised play area at the grocery store or, dare I hope, shoe shopping, and would go to the places that offer such a thing over the places that don’t. Even our fancy local fabric store has a play area for small kids, although it’s not supervised, which is still a huge improvement over the booorrrinng excursions I remember with my mom, paging through pattern books and being glared at by old ladies.
We’ve been able to maintain a halfway decent workout routine for a year now because our Y has free childcare, and yes, some days I go when I don’t feel like it because I need a break from my kiddos for a bit. Places that want to attract families would do well to do more of this. IKEA, after all, has a huge kids furniture and toy area, offers baby food in its café, and has family restrooms bigger than my living room complete with changing tables. It’s just a natural progression to let kids have a place to play safely while their parents shop. What do you think — would you use this kind of thing, and would you ever use it for other than its intended purpose, like having a date night at the cafe?
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me commented on Jun 16 09 at 3:06 pmI use Ikea ALL the time without buying. (Ok – we always buy lunch.) Ikea is smart and knows that for the two times I don’t buy – the other 3 times I will. The kid loves it, I read a magazine in the cafe, or I’ve – gasp – caught up on work. The parents whining about it and worrying about the dirty ball pit need to chill out.
I remember the glorious 70′s where my parents dropped me off at an unsupervised play pit in a store with no gate, no pagers, no bathroom just a few filthy plastic climb-on toys and lead-toy filled vending machines and we loved it!
Brett Singer commented on Jun 16 09 at 4:01 pmI’m embarrassed to admit that this doesn’t seem like such a bad idea to me.
ChiLaura commented on Jun 16 09 at 9:18 pmI’d do it. I’d probably feel guilty and buy some knock-off Tupperware for $1.50 or something, but it sounds great to me.
Marj commented on Jun 16 09 at 11:20 pmI think it sounds like a great idea.
PlumbLucky commented on Jun 17 09 at 7:29 amAs long as we were willing to spend some money (which does seem to happen whenever we go to Ikea) it would be a great idea for us. Granted, we’re more homebody geeks than clubmeister jammers, but still.
schadenfreudette commented on Jun 17 09 at 8:52 amWhen I was a newly divorced mother, this saved my sanity on several ocassions. Having an hour to myself, even if it was just to window shop, was glorious.
Manjari commented on Jun 17 09 at 12:30 pmI would definitely do that. Even if we don’t need to buy any home stuff, we’d probably get food.
Sheri commented on Jun 17 09 at 3:14 pmSounds like a great idea to me. Who doesn’t love IKEA????
Brett Singer commented on Jun 17 09 at 5:08 pmI can’t say I love IKEA. But I do love free childcare.
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