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Army Wives Spoilers: Which Army Wife Gets the Bad News Next Week?
Were you as frustrated as I was to watch the latest Army Wives episode only to have it end on such a cliffhanger? From the previews, I really thought we would find out tonight which of the Army Wives lost her husband. Or her son.
Based on the clues in the previews, we can make our best guess as to which of the Army Wives will be crying the hardest during the funeral next week.
The officer who comes to do the notification is a Major. According to military protocol, that officer must be of equal or higher rank than the solider who has been killed. That leaves Trevor, Chase, or Jeremy. The soldiers carrying the casket are all enlisted men, meaning that it cannot be one of the officers, still leaving us with Trevor, Jeremy, or Chase.
Though, you can find all sorts of speculation, like what color pantyhose the women are wearing and that it must be Denise who is handed the flag at the funeral, so it must be Jeremy.
Which of the Army Wives do you think will lose a family member?
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tami commented on Mar 21 11 at 12:17 amWow! That was some serious research done. I was gussing jeremy but I didn’t get into all the research! Well done!
prichelle moore commented on Mar 21 11 at 1:16 amMy guess is that its Chase, Its too good to be true that Chase is quiting Delta and coming home. Now the police officer has a chance at Chase’s wife.
Lindsey commented on Mar 21 11 at 1:36 amIt would have to be Jeremy due to the fact that if it were not than an army wife would be leaving the show cuz she would not be allowed to live on base anymore. Plus Denise seemed to be the most upset when she was home and slid down the door crying.
Natalie Gaddy commented on Mar 21 11 at 1:42 amI’m thinking Chase. Meranda is already living off base. Two, Chase was in three episodies of Brother’s and Sister’s in January. Meranda could date and marry another army guy in the future. What would Trever’s wife do? I would think the show needs a wedding at the end of the season?
A fan commented on Mar 21 11 at 2:04 amVery valid points and I also thought there was major foreshadowing with Jeremy during the show. BUT military protocal would never send a Notification Team to another persons house which would make it General Holden, if the show is accurate.
Sarah Evans commented on Mar 21 11 at 10:26 amThis show isn’t very accurate so I don’t think they thought of all of that. If you think about it, none of these women would be apart of the same FRG unless it is a bn FRG which typically happens during deployment from my experience. I think it is frank because they haven’t really touched the issue of soldiers that die over seas before seeing their new born…
Fanatic commented on Mar 21 11 at 10:41 amMy guess is Jeremy or Trevor.
Jeremy because of his whole pending marriage, I just had a bad feeling about it when he was on the phone, he seemed so distracted about everything else and only concentrating on his fiancee and his wedding.
Trevor because why else would they have Finn’s Dad back in Roxy’s life ?It can’t be Chase, because that wouldn’t be dramatic enough, I don’t think Chase has really been a big enough part of the show to have something bad happen to him.
Michael or Frank – it can’t be them, because I would just die !!! Especially if it were Frank – I love Frank !!
JAMIE commented on Mar 21 11 at 11:14 amAccording to the seating arrangements at the funeral Roxy and TJ are sitting too far down for it to be Trevors funeral. It has to be Jeremy or Frank because of where Denise and Claudia Joy are sitting.
If the Army knows for a fact where the wife is they will make the notification where they have to.
Armywive4life commented on Mar 21 11 at 11:57 amI have to agree with A Fan, If my recollection of the protocol serves me correctly, Notifiers do not come to anyone’s else home but your own..that is fact. Also viewing the previews for next week, Emmalyn is next to Claudia Joy crying which leads me to believe that its Gen. Michael Holden…well it is just a t.v show and they have been known to bring back the dead on occasions..so we will see.
TANYA commented on Mar 21 11 at 12:49 pmIT WILL HAVE TO BE EITHER JEREMY, FRANK, OR MICHAEL. IN THE FRAME OF THE LADIES AT THE FUNERAL, ROXIE ONLY HAS ONE OF HER CHILDREN WITH HER AND MIRANDA IS ALONE WITH NONE OF HER CHILDREN.
Kim commented on Mar 21 11 at 12:52 pmI was guessing Chase or Jeremy too…….Pamela is already living off base so Chase dying does not effect her having to leave the post. If it’s Jeremy then Denise continues to be an army wife. Besides you can see in a quick clip from the previews that Claudia Joy is walking beside Denise a little ahead of the others, so my best guess is Jeremy. Really aggravated about having to wait again to find out.
LOVE Army Wives commented on Mar 21 11 at 12:57 pmI think it’s Jeremy. Seating has to be Frank Denise Claudia Joy and Emmalyn. The person next to Denise has two bars on the sleeve, has to be Frank. Emmalyn was never close to Trevor or Chase, so she would not come home for them. But Jeremy, She is close to him!
JAMIE commented on Mar 21 11 at 1:55 pmI know FOR A FACT that they will make a death notification at someone elses house if the next of kin is there. I know this through my training with the FRG grief counselors in the US Army. It’s a TV show though they are not always accurate and I could see them messing up the whole seating thing at the funeral.
clueless commented on Mar 21 11 at 3:02 pmIt is without a doubt Jeremy. Play the previews in slow motion and you can see that the person handed the flag at the funeral is Denise. That means the death is either Jeremy or Frank. But, you can also see that she is sitting next to a man in an officer’s uniform on one side and a woman on the other. So that’s Frank. If Frank died, it would be Jeremy and Jeremy is not an officer. So Jeremy died.
You can also see in the previews of the funeral what appears to be Frank walking behind the procession to the grave.
clueless commented on Mar 21 11 at 3:05 pmI should also add that you can only tell that it’s Denise who is handed the flag by watching two videos. No one video gives this information.
felicia commented on Mar 21 11 at 3:24 pmThe man who plays Chase is having twins with real life wife Mary Stuart Masterson, and was quoted in a recent interview as saying he would like more off camera time to be home with them, and there is a spinoff being filmed with Gabrielle Union ( the FBI agent) in which rumor has it will star “Pamela Moran” as well, so my guess is Chase….
krista commented on Mar 21 11 at 3:37 pmI doubt it’s general holden — he was the one reading/giving the eulogy they played at during the commercial that is persumably going to be read during the funeral on the show — go back and listen, it’s his voice.
clueless commented on Mar 21 11 at 4:26 pmChase may be getting less airtime, maybe he’ll even die later. But he is not the one who is buried in Episode 4 of Season 5.
Sad Fan commented on Mar 21 11 at 4:35 pmI believe it is Chase because the the scene last week when Pamela tried to call and he didn’t answer and then it showed them all leaving their cell phones behind. He hasn’t been on much so I figure he was getting ready to leave anyway. I hate to see anyone go, it is such an awesome show and all the characters just fit together so well!!
Jillybean commented on Mar 21 11 at 5:27 pmIt can’t be Chase. They wouldn’t give the flag to the ex-wife.
Emily commented on Mar 21 11 at 9:39 pmI think it is actually LTC Sherwood, because Denise is the one who gets handed the flag, and I understand that there is someone in uniform next to her, but the new blue uniform has the same pants for Officers and Enlisted!! If you play back in slow motion the previews for next week where they are walking behind the casket, it is Claudia Joy and Denise in the front! The next row is TJ, Roxy, Pamela, Emmalin, and to the farther right it appears like Jeremy in uniform and then behind him to the left it appears to be a female in uniform with Jeremy’s fiances look to it. Rowland and Joan are behind near Roxy and Pamela… So, that is what leads me to think it is LTC Sherwood, but the second person that I would have to say is Jeremy… And I hope it is neither~!!!! Grrrr…. Why did they have to leave it like they did!!! Frustrating!!
Jennifer commented on Mar 21 11 at 10:42 pmAll these points are valid. I saw Emmalyn at the funeral and immediately thought Gen. Holden – however, that would take Caludia Joy off the show entirely. And that would defeat the purpose of the show. The poster that said Emmalyn would come home for Jermey’s funeral has a good point – given that he dated Amanda and turned to Emmalyn after she died. I still think (and hope, only because I love all the other characters too much too see one go) that it is Chase. To JillyBean, yes, they would never give a flag to the ex-wife, but they would give it to his son (children).
Wiz commented on Mar 21 11 at 11:03 pmIt’s Jeremy, if u watch the preview the flag is given to Denise, Frank is sitting beside her. Pamela isn’t sitting by a man.
Jay commented on Mar 21 11 at 11:08 pmIf it was Jeremy wouldn’t Frank had call and told Pamela?
April commented on Mar 22 11 at 11:03 amAfter reading all the posts, I think it is Jeremy also. Keep in mind that Denise had to move in with CJ because her hot water heater broke and that is why the came to her house and besides Emmalyn will be there if it was Jeremy
Sharen commented on Mar 22 11 at 12:32 pmIt has to be Jeremy based on the simple fact that if it was a husband, one of the Army Wives would have to leave the show too.
Traci commented on Mar 22 11 at 12:47 pmI believe it is Chase. I read that the gal that plays Pamela (I cannot think of her name) spin off has been picked up by lifetime. It will follow her to Atlanta where she will be partners with Gabrielle Union.
Amber commented on Mar 22 11 at 1:29 pmI think its Jeremy. If its Chase, then where are his kids? They are obviously not in the promo. Pamela is sitting by Rox and Em…and Pam would not bring her kids to their dad’s funeral. I know Em would be at Jeremy’s funeral because they were friends….and he was distracted after getting that call from his fiancee’ about calling off the wedding. Makes sense. I think they want you to think its Chase….cause it makes the most sense…but Jeremy makes sense too. And they were talking about having a spin-off with Pam’s character, its not set in stone or anything. So who knows if thats really going to happen, its all talk right now. And just because the guy who plays Chase….Jeremy is having twins means nothing…he still has to put food on the table right? All these thoughts are messing with our brains. They want you to think one thing, and it be another. Just like we all thought we would know last week, and now we have to wait another week to see who died. Its going to be sad and make me cry either way.
Amber commented on Mar 22 11 at 1:30 pmI meant Pam WOULD bring her kids to his funeral.
Barb commented on Mar 22 11 at 3:22 pmI think that it’s Chase.. Would make for a better story line?
my guess is... commented on Mar 22 11 at 6:10 pmit’s Chase–I checked the internet movie database and his tenure unlike the other husbands is listed ending in 2010. also, the children wouldn’t be sitting in the back with pamela, they would be up front with Chase’s family — i.e. mother and father considering they are divorced.
DANIELLE BERKLEY commented on Mar 22 11 at 6:26 pmK, HERE IS MY GUESS BASED UPON really close look at the preview- when ther are all walking together following the casket- its holdens wife to the far right -infront of everyone! ……. just saing!
DANIELLE BERKLEY commented on Mar 22 11 at 6:36 pmthis is a preview for not NEXT week but 2 after- so…chase is still in it!!!!!
Claudia Joy is haunted by the memory of Amanda; Pamela and Chase try to set a good example for their children; Roxy considers adding another business; Roland questions his abilities as a psychiatrist.
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my guess is... commented on Mar 22 11 at 7:32 pmcorrection…they’ve now updated his date to 2011 so who knows! LOL
2 Cents commented on Mar 22 11 at 10:59 pmI’m not even interested in the funeral line up or what clothes they had on etc. If it were Chase, why aren’t his children with Pamela? Although alot state he’s in a later episode…well he still could be dead and be in a later epsiode, like if someone was remembering him. But, still don’t think it’s Chase. If it were Trevor, again why is Phinn not with Roxie? But, they try and throw you by easing Whitt in the picture. Still, don’t think it’s him tho. I don’t think it’s Frank either because and I’m not 100% sure but sounds alot like his voice saying “ready, aim, fire” Which brings point IF that’s Frank’s voice, he wouldn’t say that if it were his own son dead. Surely, they’d get someone else to do that. Not sure where that leaves me but Michael. Not positive it’s him either. Again, they’re easing Professor/Lawyer in to fool ya. We’ll know soon!
My guess is 2 commented on Mar 22 11 at 11:51 pmIt’s probably Jeremy because of the whole thing about Claudia Joy and her new boss sharing a moment about losing a child and how it never leaves you. I thought that was totally random, but it could have been setting us up for Denise to lose Jeremy. And then blame his girlfriend for upsetting him.
Jamie commented on Mar 23 11 at 12:06 amSince the black car appears to be arriving at the Holden’s house, it would need to be General Holden or Jeremy. They would not go to the Holden home to deliver the death to the other wives. The military would not be aware a wedding shower was taken place and all the wives were at the Holdens home. Taking into an acct. the military info shared by others, That an enlisted or major was delivering the info, this would leave Jeremy. Assuming Denise lives next door to the Holdens.
Caitlin commented on Mar 23 11 at 7:49 amIf it says “Claudia Joy is haunted by the memory of Amanda,” this says to me that it’s Jeremy because his death at such a young age would not only remind her of her loss of Amanda, but Jeremy was Amanda’s first love so that would trigger that as well.
I DON’T WANT TO LOSE ANY OF THE MEN. :(
Jessica commented on Mar 23 11 at 5:52 pmMy thought is if it were Jeremy or Frank, either one of them would have been at the funeral but with that being said, if you listen to the guy giving the gun salute order, it sounds an awful lot like Frank, also, why wouldn’t they show the guys face ya know?
But, in the book it is Jeremy that dies so, I do think that it is him.
Maureen commented on Mar 24 11 at 5:15 pmI’m assuming it’s probably Jeremy at this point, and Denise will have her (would have been) daughter in law to lean onto for support, while Frank is still away.
Tara commented on Mar 24 11 at 8:56 pmI don’t think its going to be any of the main men. Do any of the wives have other family members in the Army? I think it will be a family member of one of the wives.
kristin commented on Mar 25 11 at 2:32 ami think it is Trever or Jeremy im going to cry on sunday
Magilly96 commented on Mar 25 11 at 11:38 amI think having denise and cj both have children killed and be best friends is a little much.
Kathy commented on Mar 26 11 at 1:22 pmone clip shows Claudia Joy’s daughter at the ceremony. it is just a brief glimpse though.
Caitlin commented on Mar 26 11 at 9:27 pmGod I hope it’s not Chase…I’ve been pulling for them to get back together forever now. :(
Julia commented on Mar 26 11 at 11:45 pmIt’s Chase. I remember reading last season that this season he’d only be on for a few eps, and was going to be on an arc on Brothers & Sisters. Plus Pamela’s already living off base, she’s supposed to be doing that spin-off with Gabrielle Union if it’s a go, and what better story than an x who’s trying to rekindle just as he’s killed in the line?
As for realism, this show has never had it (mad bomber at the Hump Bar?), so I wouldn’t read into the notification team coming to Claudia Joy’s house.
Nikki commented on Mar 27 11 at 7:35 amI know this from exerience as I lost my husband they search for you and will tell you no matter where you are.
ms.smith commented on Mar 27 11 at 3:50 pmomg this is super sad imma cry so hard tonight when i watch it:( i cant even imagine my husband dieing:(
Valerie commented on Mar 27 11 at 6:33 pmWell, we’ll all know it a short time, however, I’m hoping its Chase but guessing its Jeremy. Jeremy has his fiance…..why introduce a character then kill off the reason she was brought on? She would have no reason to stick around after the funeral………..ahh, unless she gets postedto their base??? OK, its probably Jeremy.
sue farmer commented on Mar 27 11 at 9:11 pmIts jeremy! Cant believe they did to them again!
Juanita Russell commented on Mar 28 11 at 2:42 amActually yes they would give her the flag if it had been Chase. She is the guardian of his children. The children would be considered the next of kin therefore they would give the flag to her.
Juanita Russell commented on Mar 28 11 at 2:50 amAmanda was Jeramey’s first love too. She helped through when was hitting Denise. I had a feeling it was going to Jeramey because Denise and Frank just had a baby girl. The other girl was brought in to throw all of us off. His death is going to have a big impact on the show and there is going to be a lot of things changing.
lori commented on Mar 28 11 at 3:18 pmdoes anyone know why the wrote him out of the show and is her pursuing other things? i really liked him on the show. thanks.
Clueless commented on Mar 28 11 at 7:58 pmTold you a week ago it would be Jeremy. It was obvious y’all.
rhonda commented on Mar 31 11 at 2:20 pmI really like Jeremy and hoped it would have been Chase to be killed off. Pam is a better person away from himJeremy deserves to be happy and so does Denise… I love frank and him being kinda gruff. Tevor is a a-hole to Roxy and I hope she goes back to Finn’s dad. They need to bring Jeremy back and have Denise wake up from a bad dream…
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