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Maura Kelly of Marie Claire: 5 Reasons She Shouldn’t Be Fired

Posted by lulu and moxleys mom on October 27th, 2010 at 5:50 pm
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Should Maura Kelly be fired for her comments about obese people?

Everyone is abuzz about an article Marie Claire blogger Maura Kelly posted stating that she is “grossed out” at the thought of watching an obese couple making out on television, specifically the couple featured in the show Mike & Molly. Kelly, who many think should be fired, goes further, admitting: “So anyway, yes, I think I’d be grossed out if I had to watch two characters with rolls and rolls of fat kissing each other … because I’d be grossed out if I had to watch them doing anything. To be brutally honest, even in real life, I find it aesthetically displeasing to watch a very, very fat person simply walk across a room — just like I’d find it distressing if I saw a very drunk person stumbling across a bar or a heroine addict slumping in a chair.”

Are these comments insensitive and hurtful? Sure. But should she be fired? In my opinion, no. Here’s why:

1. Maura Kelly’s comments have started a conversation about fat discrimination — and isn’t discussion about touchy topics a good thing? By Kelly writing what many others think but don’t say, a dialogue can now take place to help eliminate myths and prejudices against overweight people.

2. Bloggers and the media make disparaging comments about underweight people all of the time. (Rachel Zoe, Nicole Richie and Lindsay Lohan when they were all at their lowest weights, for example.) I don’t recall the outrage over that. Why the double standard?

3. Read in its entirety, the post is slightly less offensive than just the excerpts making the rounds. Plus, she was being honest. That’s how she feels and she even recognizes in the post her views can be viewed as being an “insensitive jerk.” Seems these days people can’t be honest about their feelings if their feelings are not politically correct. Kind of reminds me of the Juan Williams situation — I also didn’t think he should have been fired by NPR for his candid comments.

4. We’ve all made mistakes that hurt the feelings of others. Let’s show some compassion not only for those she hurt but for Kelly herself, who surely is humiliated right now.

5. Maura Kelly has apologized. And to me, it seems sincere.  Let her learn from this to be more sensitive, but don’t take her job away. When your child does something wrong, don’t you extend forgiveness and hope others will too? Kelly says in part: I would really like to apologize for the insensitive things I’ve said in this post. Believe it or not, I never wanted anyone to feel bullied or ashamed after reading this, and I sorely regret that it upset people so much. A lot of what I said was unnecessary. It wasn’t productive, either. Read her apology in full at the end of her post here.

Please know I’m not defending Kelly’s remarks, and I certainly don’t think it was a good example for teenage girls who might read Marie Claire’s web site. But I don’t think she should be fired either.  What do you think?

 Maura Kelly of Marie Claire: 5 Reasons She Shouldnt Be Fired

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She should be fired purely because she’s a horrible writer. Reading her article I can actually see her twirling her bleach-blonde hair and hear her snapping her gum. I’m sure when she composed this article in her head she said “like” every other word.

Laura commented on Oct 27 10 at 8:28 pm

#1. No, they have started a conversation about how fat people are overly sensitive about their weight, NOT about how they are discriminated against.
#2 Two wrong NEVER make a right.
#3 Honest would have been to open the article with “I have an eating disorder myself. And that disorder distorts my image of myself and others.” THAT would have been honest.
#4 Mistakes are when you are in the moment. Not when you have days to proof-read your article and several editors who read it.
#5 Sincere? A woman who WRITES for a living. A woman whose CAREER is evoking an emotional responds from a reader. And you think it’s sincere? Naive much?

Cindy A commented on Oct 27 10 at 8:30 pm

She needs to be fired because she threw out an incredibly offensive and volatile opinion to a readership that is more than 80% women, of which 50% are under 35. While the US is busy trying to reduce the focus on unrealistic body image and help young girls avoid the eating disorders, Ms. Kelly played right into their hands. Is Ms. McCarthy overweight, yes. Is she obese, absolutely. No one needed to point that out. But when Ms. Kelly says she’s disgusted by that person’s existence, young impressionable readers begin to think that they are damaged if they are not matchstick thin. It’s a damaging message and Ms. Kelly needs to go.

Barbara commented on Oct 27 10 at 9:12 pm

I think Maura Kelly should be fired if indeed she was the one who referred to a “heroine addict” in her original post. That would mean Kelly finds a person addicted to female heroes distressing. The drug is actually spelled “heroin”. So who totally messed up that one? Kelly, the Marie Claire editor, or the Babble blogger who wrote this post suggesting Kelly not be fired? Would you still support her if she said similar things about people with down syndrome? I think the comments by readers Laura and Cindy A are RIGHT on the money!

Jaybone commented on Oct 27 10 at 9:37 pm

I am overweight, and it is disgusting! There is nothing sexy about being unhealthy. We should all strive to have toned healthy bodies and try and teach the young girls/women in our lives to strive for healthy living. If we all tiptoe around this issue then we make it acceptable to be overweight or obese. When I talk to friends who are also overweight they always say “oh, you’re fine, who cares anyway? pass the chocolates” When really they (and I) should say “I know you aren’t happy about the way your body is, let’s go for a walk or something”. Good on her for calling a spade a spade.

Btw, I am writing this after going for an hour long walk with my one year old daughter. Yay me!

Alicia commented on Oct 27 10 at 9:43 pm

This writer demonstrated extremely poor judgment. Her editor did also. The article was in very poor taste and unfortunately reflects badly on the magazine.

Imagine if she had written this about handicapped people or “little people”.

I see nothing of value in her opinion or point of view. I like writing that uplifts and celebrates the human spirit and condition.

Should she be fired? I don’t know. Was she asked to simply write an opinion piece? If she was, it certainly met the criteria. Her opinion (in my opinion) is childish and lacks depth, but she is entitled to it.

If I were in charge of the firing I would probably let her go and let her mature for a while.

Mary commented on Oct 27 10 at 9:46 pm

The apology isn’t sincere. Ms. Kelley claims that she never intended hurt or offense. Please, then, enlighten me as to how she expected obese people would feel upon learning that she is revolted by the mere sight of watching them walk. Ms. Kelley (and her editor) put that out there because they believe what they said, and they thought they could get away with it. They were wrong.

Furthermore, Cindy is quite right. If this is what is regarded as “starting a conversation” in the popular discourse, then perhaps Jerry Springer should be president.

Clay commented on Oct 27 10 at 9:46 pm

Furthermore, the fact that Ms. Kelly was “being honest” about how fat people revolt her, are a drain on the health care system, and should come to her for instructions on how to be a socially acceptable people does not excuse the fact that her arrogance and hatefulness is inexcusable. Ms. Kelly might deserve a second chance some day, everyone does. But I don’t think she (or you, frankly) understand the gravity (no pun intended) of this situation.

Clay commented on Oct 27 10 at 9:59 pm

Clay, I agree that the apology was not sincere. It was a pretty obvious attempt to garner some sympathy by offering up her own body and weight issues. As far as her “just being honest” (see reason #3)…people used to “just be honest” about their hatreds and judgments of minorities too. Those judgments were never based on the intrinsic worth of people just as Kelly’s comments are not. They are simply shallow.

Mary commented on Oct 27 10 at 10:06 pm

Actually, I think she should resign and save whatever is left of her dignity, her intergrity and self-respect!!

Terry, Jr. commented on Oct 27 10 at 10:09 pm

I can’t believe you think this is her being honest and expressing an opinion.

When I get a job as a journalist I’m going to write in my first article about how much I hate black people and how disgusting they are to me. What’s the difference right? Aren’t I just being honest?

Fat people are fucking PEOPLE. Let me just go around talking on blast about how I hate what you already dislike about yourself.

Gabriela Machuca commented on Oct 27 10 at 11:04 pm

She shouldn’t have to be fired, but she should have to explain why it disgusts her to see 80% of the American public walk across the room, but it doesn’t disgust her to see us read her blog or subscribe to her ‘zine.

Stormy Lewis commented on Oct 27 10 at 11:22 pm

I think the poor girl has some serious self-esteem issues and it was her way of making herself feel better about some of her own issues in her life. I also think it was an article that wasn’t necessary. I mean, she’s suggesting that fat people stand up at their computers to lose weight? That’s insane. And that maybe they’re not trying hard enough to lose weight. She has no idea what it’s like for fat people to lose weight. She has no idea what it’s like for a person to have to lose 5 pounds. She took the topic too far. I also think that remark about comparing an obese person walking across the room to a drunk or a heroin(e) (nice editors over there at Marie Claire) addict was a ridiculous comparison. If I saw a heroin addict during a binge, it would freak me out to no end. An obese person walking — that wouldn’t make me scared or freaked out. She’s got some underlying issues in her personal life that didn’t need to come out in her article. However you are right–this article did spark some serious controversy all over the internet and that is good. But Marie Claire is going to lose a lot of subscribers over this. I’m glad I wasn’t a subscriber in the first place.

Stephanie Elliot commented on Oct 28 10 at 12:08 am

Why does no one complain about underweight people being made fun of? Because they hold the power over everyone else. They are held up to be the ideal image of what woman should be.

FatBigotrySucks commented on Oct 28 10 at 12:24 am

fired. p.e.r.i.o.d.
or just quit because of lackluster in the writing department altogether.
I am sure she can not back track out of this.

aubtobobtolob commented on Oct 28 10 at 12:33 am

she needs to be fired or quit. You don’t like obese people. I suggest you move to a different country and find a different job.

grace commented on Oct 28 10 at 2:00 am

I agree that this attack on people who are overweight is horrible. This woman is a writer who should be accountable along with the editor of this magazine for causing more pain to a person overweight. An apology isn’t enough! She is only sorry that she has made waves for her job and would even write again if no one called her out. Whatever happened to respect for your fellowman? We all live in this world and when we lose respect for others our world becomes toxic. Just place an apple with rotten spots in it inside a basket of good apples and watch how long it takes to spoil the whole basket of apples.

Marsha commented on Oct 28 10 at 2:36 am

well, maybe the editor should be fired too. no wonder why america is such a poor representation of the world.. we should be humiliated, for schmucks like these..

amy commented on Oct 28 10 at 3:28 am

Not Fired, go on the view and apologize.

Gin commented on Oct 28 10 at 5:20 am

This so hurtful, What about the young girls that is sick now and have died because of comments like this she should be ashamed of her self.Young girls will not eat because of comments like this I feel sorry for the lady that wrote this.

Letty commented on Oct 28 10 at 5:26 am

Not fired, she should apologize for this because this could cause some young girl
to hurt her self. she could just starve her self because she thinks she is fat people need to be very careful when it comes to this subject this is very serious no joke.

Gin commented on Oct 28 10 at 5:36 am

FIRED! Are you kidding, just how ignorant is Maura Kelly any way? Obviously, she is just jealous that she is not getting the positive publicity that the actors of Mike and Molly are getting from viewers. Lets just put it this way, I personally would not read, nor would I purchase anything Maura Kelly wrote, or purchase from websites she works for. Maybe she needs a to wake up and realize that God made each and everyone of us different from one another. Hopefully when he made her, he broke the mold.

Lynn Collins commented on Oct 28 10 at 7:57 am

She should be fired. She is prejudice not only against over weight people but apparently she included individuals that have addictions such as alcohol and drugs in her blog. What’s next people of color, race or different religious preferences from hers.

Bonster commented on Oct 28 10 at 7:59 am

OK, Ok, what she said was insensitive but , , , having been the victim of fat descrimination so so so many times in my life, her thought echo the way people really react to the obese american. Mostly fat people are invisible, they walk by you and never even notice you. Or they are introduced to you, meet you the next time, don’t even remember you or if they do they cannot remember your name. This show puts it in your face, the fat person that this, not to be ignored. All persons with disabilities, whatever get ignored by perfectly kind people otherwise. Now take a moment to recall the last time you saw someone walking with braces on their legs and those round canes, did you stop to smile and ask how their day was going. No, you probably looked the other way, oh so politely. I know how differently you are treated when you are obese, I used to weigh 282 lbs and lost down to 127 lbs. I think her comments were terrible but the outrage at her comments by people that feel on the inside and aren’t willing to voice it is just as bad.

Sandra commented on Oct 28 10 at 8:11 am

If Maura Kelly had shown some sort of reasoning as to why she should homosexuality was a choice and then went on to state why that disgusted her, the would be no question as to whether or not she would be fired. Even if she was “just being honest.” Some people are “grossed out” by homosexual people kissing but just because that is their own issues with themselves does not give them the right to make comments about how other people live (choice or not).

Amorgan commented on Oct 28 10 at 8:26 am

Absolutely she should be fired. Her statements were INCREDIBLY shallow and mean-hearted. Overweight women are treated badly every single day and we are told that we should lose weight even if we are perfectly healthy. We are dismissed by doctors, coworkers, etc. Women who are overweight earn less because they are too embarrassed of their bodies to go to work. That’s ridiculous. I’m overweight and I’m beautiful. My rolls and rolls of fat don’t make me less of a person and or disgusting.

Rie Conley commented on Oct 28 10 at 8:35 am

Anyone who champions Maura Kelly and her offensive blog article about her disgust with “fatties” needs to get a clue. Her writing style is excruciatingly self serving and banal. Her readers are most decidedly as self absorbed as she seems to be. In a past blog she dismisses a “portly” man for blocking her from an attractive guy who was “eying” her. After showing pictures of his dog on his cell phone I am sure this “portly” gentleman was looking for the same thing she was…a chance to meet someone nice and hit it off. Kudos to him for taking the chance to chat with her and her friend, even though Ms. Kelly had already dismissed him in her mind. I hope she enjoyed the Heineken the sexy guy gave her while he was leaving. 5 reasons? Gimmeabreak! I can give you 5 quadrillion reasons why the article should never have been posted, but will leave you with just one.

It was hateful…

Kris Sanders commented on Oct 28 10 at 9:42 am

Without a doubt she should be fired. I believe in free speech but not when it is insensitive. Don’t stand behind FREE SPEECH as a shield to insult and spread hate. That is what has happened here. PLEASE FIRE HER!!!!!

Marc Lee commented on Oct 28 10 at 9:46 am

Her initial blog was all about aesthetics; the health stuff was thrown in as concern trolling. Is she revolted to see people smoking? Can hardly watch someone with high blood pressure walk across the room? NO. It’s all aesthetics. Yes, obesity is a health issue, but the show MIKE AND MOLLY isn’t glamorizing it (as underweight models do glamorize anorexia), it simply shows people with that issue living their lives. Next up, an article by a pretty girl gagging over all the uglies she has to see walking across the room…

Matthew Rettenmund commented on Oct 28 10 at 9:55 am

LULU You are loony crazy and what is actually Wrong with our great USA today. your moral compass is WAYYYYYYYYY OFFFFF!!!! you are in bed w likes of lack of moral maura kelly. You all lack the sense of education,understanding, charactor, and consideration of others. SHAME on YOU, maura,her supporters, and the Marie Claire to not filtering this idotic individual and then not TERMINATING her immediately. At miniimum have her and your mag PUBLICLY and personally apologize on the today show. God help you all. Speaking as a cancer survivor who unfortunately gained weight to meds your attitude and lack of understanding and common courtesy and education is what is the contributing CAUSE of prejudice.the ugly and RAGE and in america. Shame on YOU. I will gladly cancel ALL my many daughters subscriptions to your magazine and will no longer be a supporter of this horrible company who endorses and allows their writers to express their IGNORANT OPINIONS on a fashion mag. There are MUCH bigger things to write and discuss such as support for our military in IRaq and overseas in the middle east like my brother and brother in law in USMC over there.
Pray fully concerned mom and proud to be american

lyrissa commented on Oct 28 10 at 9:55 am

interesting post. we are debating this very subject on the BBC World Service radio today. Keen to have a chat with you about this. Please pop me an email with a contact number if you’d like to discuss further. thank you

krupa commented on Oct 28 10 at 9:59 am

I don’t think she’s sorry she made hurtful comments. I think she’s sorry she got called on it, scared about losing her job, scared about becoming the bad guy. Because you don’t go from the calloused kind of tone you had in the original article to a “real good Joe[sephine] overnight. These kind of attitudes, like all kinds of bigotry, are nurtured for years, and you just don’t shed that baggage overnight.

In any case, Ms. Kelly should consider this: there but by the grace of time, circumstance, and the vagaries of genetics, goeth she. I was a rag-o-bone and a hank-o-hair most of my life, but I medication I must take has caused me considerable weight gain (common side effect) as I approach middle age. I never held weight bias towards anyone, but if I had…well, here I am….

Anyone skinny can become overweight under the right set of circumstances (including you, Ms. Kelly) and “sloth” or “gluttony” are by no means the only – or even the primary reasons that happens.

Rod commented on Oct 28 10 at 10:10 am

Juan Williams expresses an honest opinion, in a self-deprecating and apologetic manner, and NPR fires him. Joy Behar calls a woman a bitch on national tv – fired? no. Ms. California expresses an honest opinion regarding gay marriage, and her title is taken from her. Maura Kelly calls overweight people “disgusting” and likens them to drug addicts – fired? not likely. Do you see the parallels here?? The media will support what it WANTS to support, and will suppress what it WANTS to suppress. Freedom of speech is skewed on a constant and daily basis.
I am overweight. Ms. Kelly’s article disgusts me on many levels. However, it is her editor who should be fired, and not her. She was asked to express an opinion in writing a blog. She is obviously a vacuous, brainless twit, with no tact whatsoever. So, in that, she is as guilty as 80% of the populace in this country. However, she has an opinion, and she is entitled to it. It is up to her editor to tweak that opinion so that it does not intentionally offend the public, and most importantly, the readers of Marie Claire. If I were that editor’s boss, his or her head would be on a platter on my desk for alienating a LOT of Marie Claire’s readers.
That being said, obesity is an epidemic. For some, it is unstoppable due to emotional, physical and medical issues. For the rest, it is a matter of willpower, and hard work. I have been thin, I have been fat. It has always been my choice, and now that I am older, yes it is harder to lose weight. I don’t worry about that. What I worry about, or am concerned with rather, is that I maintain my ability to see people for who they are, and not for what they look like. I thank God every day that I have the intelligence to do that. I feel badly for Ms. Kelly since she obviously lacks that intelligence. I would not want to be her, moving forward in life. Fat can be lost, but brain power, class and decorum cannot be bought or acquired. too bad for her…

christine v commented on Oct 28 10 at 10:20 am

This is the issue with ‘content farms’ or journalism by the masses. #1 Somehow giving Ms Kelly credit for sparking an open discussion about ‘fat discrimination’ is like giving a Nazi sympathizer credit for giving awareness to antisemitism. The author’s intention was to “insult” the end result does not change that. #2 Really? do you really believe that being called ‘skinny’ is as disparaging as being called ‘fat.’? here’s a question for you, what would YOU rather be called? #3 Please understand the argument. No one is asking her to be fired for being honest, be want her fired for being hateful #4 Actually in the business world, “we all make mistakes” typically isn’t a legit reason especially when you’ve had time to proof read and editors had time to review #5 “I never wanted anyone to feel bullied” ummm, what exactly DID you want them to feel after writing – to be brutally honest, even in real life, I find it aesthetically displeasing to watch a very, very fat person simply walk across a room.

Steve commented on Oct 28 10 at 10:30 am

The following is a comment I am posting everywhere I find commentary on this issue, especially Marie Claire- and it addresses many issues, not just the obesity cover-up that seems to be needed in the media; The real shame is when someone responds honestly to a question and instead of being asked to expound, they are instead Pounded into submission by a spineless editorial leadership. Ms. Kelly expressed what everyone feels and was brave enough and honest enough to innocently express it. It’s a crying shame indeed that when this happens a woman is not lauded for her frankness but instead is run asunder by the needing to be politically correct and thus giving misogynists even more reason to say the glass ceiling is there for a reason. Do you all know the damage you have done for sparing the feelings of people whose time has long seen past for this kind of tough love help? America is overweight. Plain and simple. It’s a problem in part because it’s not addressed honestly, and an environment and market is made wide open for the deception of consumers desperately seeking solutions. Part of the solution is to be honest about what feelings obesity create in the general public. Speaking from experience, when one is made aware, clearly and without compromise the gravity of ones situation, that is when change begins to happen. No watered down apology or endless health news reports will do what the cold hard truth does. I think Marie Claire should reconsider their position and do their job in GUIDING the communication they are generously providing to their consumers rather than cowering and kowtowing to what they fear by mere presumption will be a backlash they cannot come out on top of. Today could have been a day where Marie Claire was heralded albeit controversially, for providing the truth in publishing, drawing more attention and readers than this scared little position they are taking. I feel sorry for women, having this type of representation. My respect goes out to Maura Kelly, and a slap on the wrist, but with understanding still, since we all have to pay the bills and are in the position where we cannot help but do as we are asked at times. The real shame as I’ve said twice already- is that she doesn’t work for editors with more spine- and that there seems to be a swarm of fellow women eager to take bites out of her like a veritable feeding frenzy instead of rallying to support her, when all of you know you think the same thing- or you would all allow yourselves to get in the shape of those Ms. Kelly justifiably criticized.

Daniel Damian M921 commented on Oct 28 10 at 10:33 am

How unkind Miss Maura Kally’s words were. That’s it–so many people are responding about their own personal situation, they’re heavy or they are thin etc etc but that is not relevant or what is intrinsically wrong with Miss Kelly’s blog post. SHE is what is wrong with it. It’s her sentiment that is disordered. The absence of human compassion is stunning and I believe that is what has attracted this much attention. Pray for her.

Nico O'Neilly commented on Oct 28 10 at 10:42 am

Grace: To be fair, if fat people disgust you, a fashion rag is probably the best place to work.

Stormy commented on Oct 28 10 at 10:52 am

I believer she should be fired. Not solely because her hate filled rant on the over-weight was a disturbed piece of writing, but because she didn’t do her homework. She didn’t even watch the show. How can you comment, with that much venom, on something you’ve never seen? She’s a lazy writer. Also I have no desire to read anything by a woman whose food/body issues seem to be a controlling force in her life. She came across as someone who is in desperate need of psychological help.

Veronica commented on Oct 28 10 at 11:36 am

If we follow the age old rule that blacks can make black jokes, jews can tell jewish jokes, etc… Then Mauara Kelly criticizing others for being unattractive is not an issue.

DMo commented on Oct 28 10 at 11:57 am

Sorry? lol the woman is not sorry she knew what would happen when she made that statement just like all the seemingly normal ppl who just start dropping n-word bombs. I’m not offended by her not liking to see fat ppl kiss that’s okay but to call us disgusting just because of fat is terrible. Contray to popular belief we don’t stink we actually take baths and exercise five days a week but still stuck at 165 or 170 sooo we decide to love ourselves fro who we are and continue to care for our bodies but then when we finally! feel comfortable in our skin you call us disgusting. Here is something you all need to understand just like she can say what she wants people can eat what they want and look however they want and she can also change the damn channel I’m getting angry now because it seems so elitist to think that because you don’t like fat ppl they should be on t.v. I don’t like when a t.v star gets super skinny and i can see their ribs but I don’t complain because it’s their LIFE and THEY have to take control! I know I’m fat and I’m working on it but I also know the average healthy woman in my family is 160 that’s my sister (she is the runner and has always been skinny now no matter how much she runs she stays 155-160LB)so I already know I won’t be 125 or 114 so I’ll have a little extra fat should I be called disgusting for that? She’s rude and that’s that. Fat ppl already know they’re fat we don’t need full of themselves skinny ppl to comment on it because so of you hardly understand the struggle that goes on within so fat ppl don’t even understand it.

Anna commented on Oct 28 10 at 12:03 pm

She SO needs to get fired. She obviously has no idea excatly how hard it is to lose weight. She has a funny-looking chin… maybe I get offended when she walks across the room with that? How dare she judge other people. And the apology? Hello? She wrote it clearly to keep her job. That apology does not make it go away what she wrote and meant. What a bad person she is

Vicky commented on Oct 28 10 at 12:07 pm

Yes she is entitled to her own opinion, however who wanted to hear it? She is representing a company and is representing THEIR opinion. She instilled her own views in(unless of course this is also how Marie Claire feels).
Her apology wasn’t sincere though and she pulled the “anorexic card” so we all have to accept that. Clearly she should go and rehabilitate again considering her current views.

Laura commented on Oct 28 10 at 12:15 pm

Let us see a photo of Maura so we can judge her looks. I am now boycotting the season finale of Project Runway because Marie Claire is a sponser. The only people our society accepts being bullied are fat people, everyone else we stand up and support. Well, I am gonna support them…

me commented on Oct 28 10 at 1:45 pm

I hate to agree with you but I do but at the same time I have no interest in reading anything she has to say again…not that I did before this though.

Robin commented on Oct 28 10 at 2:36 pm

the backlash is insane. she’s right – being fat is disgusting and unhealthy – i’ve lost 50 pounds and feel so much better energy-wise and feel better about myself. let her be.

lodim commented on Oct 28 10 at 3:09 pm

I don’t think she should be fired either. I’m a little sick of all this “love yourself no matter your size” crap. Sure, love yourself. Love yourself enough to TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. I’m sick of health costs going up and up because of people who think it’s ok to embrace the fat side of life and live unhealthy lifestyles.

AnonymousME commented on Oct 28 10 at 4:19 pm

Regarding number 1, there’s a certain privilege to being thin even when you approach being too thin. No such privilege is associated with being overweight so let’s not try to associate this with articles about people who are thin, okay? It’s not even remotely the same.

Put any other group of people in her article and this would be totally unacceptable whether it got people talking about it or not. Yet, there seems to be some sort of weird acceptance online when it comes to shaming people who are overweight.

I’m sorry but she should be fired. Actually, no. I’m not sorry. I’m so tired of seeing this kind of thing.

LJ commented on Oct 28 10 at 4:19 pm

She should be fired. She is a hater, and only apologized because of the uproar. NOBODY should treat any group of people the way she did. Her words were demeaning and hurtful. She is a poor excuse for a human being. I personally strive everyday to make people happy, and if I can’t say anything nice, I won’t say anything. I am shocked at this woman – please get her and her opinions out of the public eye or better yet, why don’t you let us all watch her and tear her apart like she did one group of people who have done nothing to her. I hope she is haunted by her lack of compassion for a long, long time. I have been a subscriber of Marie Claire since it’s beginning. Today i am cancelling my subscription. There’s a place for you lady, hope you like the heat!

Ina Munagorri commented on Oct 28 10 at 5:22 pm

I agree with you. I think that her post was extremely offensive but I also feel that amount of attention and hate directed towards Maura herself is absolutely ridiculous. The blog is an opinion based forum of that of it’s writers. It may be her own personal opinion but because it’s a national magazine, it also reflects the magazine’s image. Maura is receiving majority of the abuse after this post because she was the author. What people don’t realize is that she didn’t just hit submit after she was done writing it. Not only was the story pitched before it was even written but her web editors would have had to read and approve the article as well. I definitely think she was in the wrong with her post, but every person who is ridiculing her and calling her names is bringing themselves down to her level. Mean is mean. It doesn’t matter who is mean first. People are saying she should be fired. I think it would be absolutely ridiculous for her to lose her job over a piece that Marie Claire approved before it was even published. That’s the point of having an editor. If anything, the controversy is just bringing more web traffic to her blog.

As someone who has worked for a national women’s magazine I just wanted to point out that Maura isn’t the only person that is at fault with the article. There is a whole staff behind it. I thought the article was poorly researched, written ( who doesn’t even watch a show before they write about it?) and completely insensitive, but we also have to look at the demographic and target audience of the forum. She is human and humans make mistakes. People in journalism make these mistakes all the time and their reputations suffer for it. She won’t be looked at in the industry as a credible writer for a long, long time. The problem I have with everything though is the hypocrisy that has come out because of her post. I think she should be professionally punished but with all the criticism and remarks made about her personally is ridiculous. Making remarks about physical appearance whether it’s about being too thin or too fat is wrong. So all of the readers who are in the uproar over her “hatred for obesity” and are in turn remarking on her physical appearance and eating disorder by calling her names is absurd. The magazine may get a slap on the wrist with a few dropped subscriptions and readership loss but everyone is pointing the blame to the author when it is Marie Claire’s fault as a whole. This kind of thing is what gives women magazines such a bad rep.

MD commented on Oct 28 10 at 6:08 pm

Honesty is one thing. But unsubstantiated bashing is another, and that is what Maura Kelly did in her post. Blogs may be about voicing opinions, but she’s representing Marie Claire magazine and when she writes, she writes FOR Marie Claire magazine. I don’t think Marie Claire should have someone in their staff that is so emotionally incompetent not to know when a post like hers is inappropriate. It is a risk for the magazine, it’ll deteriorate the image of it, and I’m going as far as to say that if Marie Claire magazine doesn’t fire her, I will make sure not to ever by the magazine again (I used to be subscribed, but ever since I moved, I buy it every other month). I will voice MY opinion everywhere just as Maura did in her post and see if that spreads until no one buys the magazine and Marie Claire is forced to fire her. Now, is that inappropriate? Well, that’s exactly what Maura did. And as far as her apology being honest — it isn’t. How could you regret every single word of what you said? I mean, she didn’t just say “I don’t like obese people”, she went on and on and on! That’s not honesty, that is “holy smokes, I’m going to be fired if I don’t apologize”.

YouAreAsBad AsSheIs commented on Oct 28 10 at 6:19 pm

I completely agree with you. Can you imagine the anguish this girl is going through right now? NO, she shouldn’t have written those things. NO, the post wasn’t – as she admitted – well thought-out. I am willing to bet she had an hour left before deadline, had to write something in a hurry, was trying to be funny and provocative, and the result was, as we know, not at all what she intended.

I understand why people are calling for her head. Many are justifiably hurt, and they have every reason to be – especially if they don’t read the post in full, and all they see are those lines, taken out of context to up the incendiary factor.

However. She is a human. This is wrecking her life right now. She’s paid dearly for this mistake already. Adding insult to injury by taking away her job/income may feel good in the moment, but will only make the haters (who I suspect will calm down after the sting has worn off) feel like s*t in the long run.

Taking away her job? Please. Guaranteed she’s been bawling her eyes out for the past few days straight. Go ahead – say you’re glad – but are you really?

Anonymous commented on Oct 28 10 at 6:40 pm

Fire her.

It would be one thing if this woman had the intelligence and insight to start constructive dialogue about the “Mike & Molly” program and how it pertains to the obesity problem in the U.S., but she did not. She took on the tone of someone feeling entitled to shame and berate others, and a lot of content in her past blogs are a testament to her being just that. This woman should be spouting off on a little corner of Blogspot, not speaking from the platform of a national magazine aimed at young women.

She is simply part of the shame cycle that continually drives people apart in this country. There’s been a huge backlash for a reason, and that reason is people who are tired of people like her spewing hateful words without consequence. So many destructive attitudes are supported these days, and people are growing sick of it. People are shamed about everything from weight to the amount of money they make, from sexual orientation to what clothes they wear. We’re seeing Mel Gibson being supported over and over again even after repeatedly spewing vicious remarks.

People are sick of folks like Ms. Kelly suffering no consequences for behavior like that, while such a large population has to deal with the cruelty and hate that is fed and nurtured by ‘writers’ like her.

I hope Marie Claire makes an example out of her, but I don’t know if they will. Right now, shallow judgments and cruel criticism seems to be running free and not many people are paying much attention to how truly destructive it actually is.

Laurie Ann commented on Oct 28 10 at 6:46 pm

She should be fired. And this “article” offers no legit reason why not. If she attacked any other group of people she would be gone! Marie Claire will never get a dime from me for the hatred they are supporting by keeping this Kelly person on. I’m not overweight but what she said was really disgusting, like she has any right to talk. She’s no beauty either.

G commented on Oct 28 10 at 8:09 pm

I have a question for this who ever she is Maura Kelly is she disussed by anerexic people also? that would be the oposite of the obise she thiks is discusting she does need to be let go other people were fired for less offensive comments then she had. If she is so duscusswde she need to go live in the woods alone with the animals not ina diverse society.

Marilena commented on Oct 28 10 at 10:29 pm

I have a question for this whoever she is Maura Kelly is she discussed by anorexic people also? That would be the opposite of the obese she thinks is discussing she does need to be let go other people were fired for less offensive comments then she had. If she is so discussed she needs to go live in the woods alone with the animals not in a diverse society.

Marilena commented on Oct 28 10 at 10:33 pm

Maura Kelly should be fired for incompetence. She’s never seen the show, yet felt free to criticize it anyway. She did no research. She published misinformation. She was utterly tone-deaf to her readership. Her journalistic skills are nil and her writing isn’t much better.

Sara Clark commented on Oct 28 10 at 11:51 pm

What a loser! Didn’t your parents teach you any manners Maura?

Lynn commented on Oct 29 10 at 7:10 am

Great comments. I’ll add a 6th reason. We need to be able to have these discussions as a society and allow people to grow as individuals–even those in the public eye. Let people who err grow and we’ll grow with them.

D commented on Oct 29 10 at 9:26 am

For all those saying she should be fired: you cannot be fired for an opinion, period. Have people been fired for an opinion in the past? Yes, and I think it’s b.s. There is such a thing as free speech and none of you would even be able to comment here if it didn’t exist. The hypocrisy and lack of logic in these comments is stunning. And no, it is not comparable to racism, nor is it a hate crime. Because guess what? None of this is personal. I did a search for the phrase “I hate short people” on google and found lots of articles about a short-person bias. Hell, someone even wrote a well-known song about it. I’m 5’2″ but guess what? I DON’T CARE! And my height is not even something I can change. Weight, to a large degree, is changeable. Oh, and to those of you carrying on about young girls killing themselves? If they were that unstable that an article pushed them over the edge, then I’d say they needed serious help.

kessie commented on Oct 29 10 at 11:46 am

I don’t think she should be fired. I think she needs education and sensitivity training. She needs to spend time with doctors and psychologists talking about things like Polycystic Ovary Syndrome, depression, thyroid disorders, etc. Then she needs to spend a month in a fat suit – every minute except when she bathes. Let her know what it feels like to walk, talk, and dress as a fat person.

Jami commented on Oct 29 10 at 5:03 pm

She shouldn’t be fired yet…she should be required to spend some time with eating disorder professionals and people at Dove’s “Campaign for Real Beauty”…then issue a sincere mea culpa (her current “it’s not my fault – I’m bulimic” one is almost as bad as the article)…I can live with that…

However – the editor(s) that allowed this to be published should be fired…that was an inexcusable journalistic mistake…

David commented on Oct 29 10 at 6:23 pm

The skinny women who are talked about are never talked about in such a blatant and disrespectful way, at least not in a major magazine. And scores of websites eat those images up like they’re icons even though they have not done anything to deserve the attention. Everywhere, it’s more than okay to call someone fat and disgusting, but oh heaven forbid anyone ever says someone else is too skinny. That was a very catty article, and this is a very naive defense of it.

lily commented on Oct 29 10 at 10:05 pm

I think Maura Kelly should be fired because of the harm she did to Marie Claire magazine and to its’ readers. She destroyed any respect I had for the magazine. I know I’ll never buy another issue again. I agree with reasons 1 and 2, but disagree with the rest. I’m sorry, but I don’t feel her apology was sincere. She’s just sorry because she is probably feeling pressure from her bosses to apologise. It’s so sad that there’s alot of people out there in this world that is still so prejudiced against overweight people. Maura Kelly certainly is a wake-up call for people to educate other people about prejudice against people that are not thin.

Tina commented on Oct 30 10 at 12:33 pm

She shouldn’t be fired? Are you her mamma or her landlord? Or both!

Debbie commented on Nov 02 10 at 2:12 am

Two words:
Sensitivity.Training.
Two more:
Grow.Up.
Final two:
You’re.Fired.

Debbie commented on Nov 02 10 at 2:16 am

Two words (my version):
free speech

kessie commented on Nov 02 10 at 5:30 pm

Yes, she should be fired. In MK’s blog post, she asked us to tell her if she was “an insensitive jerk.” Thousands wrote back to say Yes, you are an insensitive jerk.

Maura Kelly absolutely has the right to free speech. I support her right to say anything she wants and blog extensively about her feelings on everything under the sun. However, it’s also appropriate for people who read Marie Claire to say, “I’m not interested in this person’s point of view. Hire someone else. I don’t want to read a bunch of hate-mongering.”

This isn’t a pc backlash. This is a lot of people saying, your attitude is abhorrent. Let me read someone else.

As far as the apology goes: it wasn’t coherent. “Sincere” doesn’t even make it onto the table. What does anorexia have to do with hating fat people? And how can someone who talks about watching fat people “do anything” (including walking across the room) say she never intended to make anyone feel bullied or ashamed? Read her post. She clearly said she is disgusted by seeing fat people DO ANYTHING. Why would anyone want to read this woman’s thoughts on anything again?

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