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Sandra Bullock Putting Divorce On Hold? Will She Forgive Jesse James?
Could Sandra Bullock actually take Jesse James back? Think about it: You have built a life with someone and adopt a new child with plans for the future. Everything is laid out in your head perfectly. Then news breaks that your husband cheated with a porn star and is possibly a Nazi and everything shatters. but rebuilding can be hard and you loved your life, your step kids, your husband. You just want things to return to the way they were. Would it be so hard to forgive? People have worked through things like this before. As they say, love is blind and it makes you stupid.
A source tells National Enquirer ( so take it for what you will, but keep in mind their scored card of getting things right has been pretty good lately) that Sandra saw the Nightline Interview and believed that Jesse feels true, genuine hurt and that he is really working on his problems.
A source reveals, “For now, she’s stalling on the divorce. I think she has forgiven Jesse and she is missing the life they built together, particularly now that she has Louis.”
“Sandra must be tired of carrying the burden of what happened and probably realizes that she could free herself by forgiving Jesse. I think holding on to the pain by not forgiving him was getting to be too much of a strain on her…”
This makes sense and could be labeled either Denial, Bargaining or Acceptance in the Kubler Ross cycle of grief.
“She’s wrestled with the idea that family life is never going to be as good if they aren’t together,” the source continues. “Sandra was incredibly upset that the plans she and Jesse made to raise Louis were turned upside down. The truth is she can’t stop thinking about a future when all of them could be one big happy family again.”
If Sandra and Jesse get back together, I would be disappointed, but I’d be lying if I said I didn’t understand. What about you? How would you feel if these two got back together? Is it a bad idea or do you think they can work through things?
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Leila commented on Jun 18 10 at 1:03 pmEven if she accepts him back, the relationship will never be the same. There will be mistrust, resentment, as opposed to the complete trust and admiration she felt for him before the betrayal. The life she thought they had was a lie. She should move on without him, maybe accept him as a friend.
TERI commented on Jun 18 10 at 1:53 pmONLY SHE CAN DECIDE THAT AND IT IS NOBODYS ELSES BUSINESS.. IT IS FOR HER AND JESSIE TO DECIDE..
BB commented on Jun 18 10 at 2:34 pmIt is a very bad idea for her to consider taking him back. Once a cheater, always a cheater… He never loved her… He only loved her money and her fame…
anonymous commented on Jun 18 10 at 3:21 pmI think this is between the two of them, and our opinion has no bearing on what they decide.
Grace commented on Jun 18 10 at 6:31 pmIf he is truly sorry, and truly works to get past the issues that made him cheat, she should forgive him. None of us are perfect, and granted, infidelity is the ultimate betrayal, but if they truly love each other and are committed to getting past the hurt, then I say go for it. My guess is he would never mess up again, he has too much to lose. Besides, Sandra loves those kids and he obviously is a great father. They can make it work! I wish them both nothing but the best!
Chris commented on Jun 21 10 at 10:04 amThe brain thinks one way and the heart doesn’t follow suit. The siutation is so sad. As a woman i could understand wanting the person back, missing the person before the scandal, but now you are faced with the person whom he really is. I’m torn and i’m not her. if they get back together, i wish her all the luck in the world and hope that for mental sake, he doesn’t do it again. If they don’t get back, i understand that totally too. Hard to trust someone again, no matter what the scenario. This was really bad, there was too much at one time that came out-but at least it all came out. I don’t know. It’s her choice, her life and her business. But i wish her all the happiness in the world no matter what.
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