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Milwaukee’s Ad Campaign Obviously Judging Co-Sleeping Parents
MILWAUKEE, Wisconsin—This week a storm of controversy erupted over a co-sleeping campaign by the City of Milwaukee’s Health Department’s use of ads depicting infants on their stomachs sleeping next to a butcher knife. According to the Department’s website, the awareness campaign is intended to reduce the number of infant death due to Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS), and Sudden Unexplained Death in infancy (SUDI) which in Milwaukee accounts for 20% of infant deaths, most of which are caused from unsafe sleep environments.
The campaign took a negative turn, however, after parents nationwide expressed their shock over the ads. In a post on Café Mom’s The Stir, Christie Haskell, a co-sleeping advocate, alluded that everyone is smart enough to recognize how wrong it is to let a baby sleep on their stomach while surrounded by fluffy bedding is obviously wrong.
News of Haskell’s assertions will likely be a great relief to the American Academy of Pediatrics Task Force which will now be able to stop distributing educational literature warning that, “bed-sharing, as done in the US and other Western countries, is more dangerous than the infant sleeping on a separate sleep surface.” The Task Force can also stop their point-blank recommendations that infants should not share a bed with adults, “both well-known safety hazards regardless of where babies sleep.”
Obviously ignorant of this new development, Milwaukee Mayor Tom Barrett appeared on a Wisconsin AM Morning show claiming that there are zip codes in the city with a huge racial disparity and an infant mortality rate that’s higher than some third world nations. Milwaukee City Council figures show that of the 203 pre-one-year-old babies who died in 2007 and 2008, 25 per cent were unintended sleep related deaths, of which 10 suffocated while co-sleeping.
These facts show blatant disregard for the opinions of mom bloggers, 52% of which have a college degree and an average median income of $84,000, $14,000 higher than that of all moms nationwide. The Mayor would do well then to listen to the experts on this matter.
Haskell, a self-proclaimed pagan hippie who doesn’t live in any of the above, predominantly low-income zip codes or even Milwaukee, says health officials would be better off telling parents how to safely co-sleep, rather than demonize parents who do it as a deliberate choice with plenty of safety precautions. Haskell went on to point out that, “when you actually remove dangerous “co-sleeping” situations like a drunk guy on a couch, and compare to safe cribs, co-sleeping comes out with lower death rates.” These statistics come from a 2005 fact sheet published by chiropractor, Dr. Linda Folden Palme.
For many mom bloggers and parenting experts, the City of Milwaukee is clueless to the sensitivities of its residents, and furthermore, Mayor Barrett’s misguided goal to drop the city-wide infant mortality rate by 10% over the next six years is an obvious attack directed at co-sleeping parents everywhere. Were it not for these vigilant, educated individuals bringing this issue to the nation’s attention, who knows how many Milwaukee infants would’ve missed out on the joy that come from sleeping in bed between mom and dad.
Despite the negative publicity, Mayor Barrett seems un-phased about the campaign which he announced the morning after a seven week-old baby died from co-sleeping with the mother, becoming the ninth such death of this year.
The Journal Sentinel Online quoted the Mayor as saying, “If the ads make some people uncomfortable, I guarantee it’s a lot less uncomfortable than having another baby die from co-sleeping,” something the Mayor referred to as “preventable.”
Such callous disdain will not win the Mayor any friends among mom bloggers anytime in the next six years.
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10 Comments
Stacia commented on Nov 28 11 at 3:32 pmSnarky. Wow, I don’t think I’ve ever seen an author attack another.
Stacia commented on Nov 28 11 at 3:33 pm*with such passive aggressiveness. But eh, your opinion is also YOURS. Doesn’t matter to me/the world/Ms. Haskell in the long run…and my opinion doesn’t have to matter to you either. ;)
Clark Kent's Lunchbox commented on Nov 29 11 at 10:07 am@Stacia, Snarky? Maybe. But whether a parent is a proponent of co-sleeping or not, that’s their business. Personally, I don’t have a strong opinion either way.
What does bother me is so many people on a national front offense to a sincere initiative by the Mayor, who is trying to prevent infant deaths due to co-sleeping and unsafe environments. Given the statistics, it’s obviously a problem, but I think we as parent bloggers tend to look at issues such as this through our own personal perspective. To us it seems like common sense to not place babies in fluffy beds and all that, but to families in these parts of Milwaukee they often don’t know any better. Are those ads shocking? Yes, but if they bring awareness to the issue and ultimately save lives, then that’s better than offending the sensibilities of co-sleeping advocates.
And am I attacking another author? No. At no point did I attack anyone’s character. Am I attacking that author’s point of view? Yes. And there’s nothing wrong with that. Yet even though I may disagree with Christie Haskell, my respect for her as a military wife knows no end.
Allison Zapata commented on Nov 29 11 at 10:38 amI think it’s a great campaign. If anything it reminds parents who do co-sleep to be more careful. I co-slept with mine until 4 months and I am not offended by this at all. People need to put their ego’s and their “I know best” attitudes aside, especially if it saves even one child’s life.
IT’S FOR THE CHILDREN DAMMIT ;)
Great piece!
Chris VanDijk commented on Nov 29 11 at 10:42 amThanks for this piece. The ad campaign is the worst kind of propaganda equating co-sleeping with violent premeditated murder. You’re right that rather than a campaign that shows an ignorant bias against co-sleeping, encouraging parental education on how to co-sleep would not only save lives, but change minds as well. It seems the mayor is just another politician trying to divide people rather than educate and unite behind a common desire – the safety of children and the well being of the entire family. Co-sleeping, when done correctly, is of great benefit to the child, reduces stress on parents and actually leads to a smooth transition when moving the child to a crib and to sleep training that does not involve letting the child cry it out.
Again, thanks for bringing this to our attention.
Mary R. Gilliam commented on Nov 29 11 at 1:45 pmYou can’t start a fire without a spark. If nothing else, these ads are getting enough attention from both sides of the argument to present their cases and debate. It may not be a clean debate or discussion, and emotional viewpoints may factor opinions more than they ought, but at least the discussion is being had. As a parent, I co-sleep with my children and am very aware of the need to keep our bed as safe as possible for them. I’m not offended by these ads; in fact, they make me think about more ways to keep the safety of my children while sleeping in my bed. Some people need that shocking “aha” moment from ads like these; those that don’t need simply go on about their lives. I commend the Mayor for making a step, even if it wasn’t the best laid step.
Clark Kent's Lunchbox commented on Nov 29 11 at 5:50 pm@Allison, well put! I’m glad you said that.
@Chris – Education is definitely the key to improving this and many other situations. Just seems like no one wants to go that route anymore.
@Mary, that’s a great way of putting this all into perspective. One thing I find ironic about all this is that the mayor was just as shocked by these ads when they were first proposed to him, but he decided to go with it for that same “aha” inducing reason. It definitely got attention. I just hope it prevents infant deaths.
Stacia commented on Dec 07 11 at 8:05 pmI get your point now, I just read it wrong. :p
ScoutsHonor/Heather Murphy-Raines commented on Jan 17 12 at 10:59 pmHeh dripping with sarcasm and I love it! And yes, I am a mom blogger with a college degree that chose to co-sleep….and even did freelance at CafeMom’s The Stir for a while and was a prior military wife. :) The best part? You and Christie have strong opinions which will bring a spotlight on the issue. That said, Milwaukee’s statistics are shocking. I wonder if they have anything to do with alcohol consumption and co-sleeping. That seems to be a problem with places with cold, dark, depressing winter.
Jess commented on Feb 06 12 at 2:12 pmVery late to the party, but I noticed a large number of the deaths come seem to come from low-income areas…maybe the parents can’t afford a crib? Perhaps a program needs to be in place to “rent” a crib from a source like WIC or the local DSHS office. I know the local WIC office here will “rent” breast pumps to mothers who are working or attending school (the rental price is a valid ID so they know who exactly has the equipment).
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