Being Pregnant
Nesting: Oh! The Insanity!
Hello. My name is Rebekah. I am nearly 19 weeks pregnant and I can’t. stop. nesting.
(“Hi Rebekah!” the other pregnant ladies chorus brightly.)
This nesting thing is new to me because I was in a rental for my first pregnancy. I do remember spending at least one weekend urgently nagging my husband into putting together the nursery furniture right now, but the rest of my house stayed untouched.
Not so this time.
It started innocently enough with plans to fix a broken shower. As soon as we signed the agreement to have our upstairs shower retiled, I began hounding the nice lady at the contracting company about add-ons to the project. How about a new sink faucet to match the new one in the shower? What about a new sink and toilet in the downstairs bathroom, too? I’m actively holding back from asking if they can also repaint the upstairs bathroom while they’re in there. I can probably do that myself, along with recaulking the tub. How hard can recaulking be, right? The stuff to recaulk only cost $15 at the hardware store last weekend. It’s gotta be easy if it’s that cheap.
After we the finish the domino-effect project of our bathroom facelifts, the living room carpet has to go. I’ll have that room recarpeted but the nasty Pepto-pink, dog-stained carpet that has been in our guest room since we moved in? That’s gonna go in the trash to expose the pretty hardwood underneath. I plan to have the crew who does the new living room carpet rip it out and haul it away but my in my hormone-addled state, I keep looking at the edges of the carpet and speculating that I could rip that sucker up myself. Then I could use Orange Clean to shine up the floors like I saw on that blog and get a pretty area rug from Ikea and…
Breathe. Slow down. Do not rip up any carpet.
I may have hit bottom yesterday when I went into Target to pick up laundry detergent and came out with $300 worth of new bedding and curtains. Remember the pink guest room carpet? Well, the walls in there are pink too. I had though about repainting but yesterday I had the brilliant idea to buy a lot of chocolate brown accents to coordinate with the pink and save myself the effort of repainting. But the sheets and valances don’t seem like enough to carry the new accent through so I’m gearing up for trip to the craft store to get stuff to do some wall art. And maybe an Ikea run for a small bookcase. And a reading chair. Ooooo, yeah! A reading chair would be great in there! Maybe also new lamps for the living room and…
Clearly, I have a problem.
People who know me are probably laughing into their sleeves at all of this. I’m not a decorator. In the two years we’ve been in this house, I haven’t even managed to put curtains in the master bedroom or art on the walls in my son’s room. I decided I hated my kitchen table a year ago but it’s still sitting in the kitchen because I’d rather read, or write, or watch reality tv than deal with home decor. This manic, insatiable urge to touch up the scuffed paint on my baseboards and shop for curtain rods is an entirely unknown phenomenon for me. I think it’s scaring my husband. It’s certainly scaring our bank account.
I keep telling myself I’ll get the nesting in check right after the next project. But spring is coming and the garden needs sooooo much work before I’m too big to dig. And I haven’t even started on the baby’s room yet. I should totally look at nursery pictures on Pinterest for inspiration!
Tell me I’m not alone, fellow pregnant ladies! Tell me you’re nesting madly too! Please?
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5 Comments
Rachel @ The Lazy Christian commented on Feb 04 12 at 10:52 amI am right there with you! I barely nested at all with my first pregnancy, but for this one, I’ve already rearranged the kids’ room twice, cleaned out their closet and put in some stacking crates for shelving, gone through all my son’s clothes to pick out the gender-neutral ones I can still use for our upcoming daughter (and given away the remainder to various friends and charitable organizations), registered for the odds and ends we need to buy new or replace from the last baby, and begged my husband to actually switch which room the kids are in because I think the music room is a pinch bigger than my son’s room. He vetoed that. It’s insanity! I haven’t been this productive my whole LIFE. What is it about this little girl that makes me suddenly insane?!
Jen commented on Feb 04 12 at 8:50 pmOMG! You are hilarious! Especially the part about pulling the carpet by yourself…I waited for months for my now-ex-husband to “redo” the mudroom portion of our house. Finally, I couldn’t stand it. At 8 months pregnant, I found the sledgehammer and took out the walls myself. He took it pretty well when he came home from work that day. But I never did find that sledgehammer again!
Shelly commented on Feb 04 12 at 11:40 pmYes, I am in the same position at the moment. Some days I feel like I have so much to do, and other days I feel like it can wait. I have struggled a bit because I live with my partners in laws and the baby will be in our room. Because of lack of space their isn’t much I can do. What I have been doing though is preparing to move out, with the notion it may not even happen, but even so, I get into the zone, and I look into rentals when I can. I do tend to wash her new items and tried to put the car-seat in the car, but then it ends up being pulled out again. I had the port-a-cot set up, but it made me upset having so much clutter in the room and it made me feel better when I packed it up, and now we aren’t so squished in. I definitely get the feeling that I am the only one preparing, and I have certain niggles about how things are done in the house, like where things in the fridge are placed, air flow in the house (the bathroom has no fan, so I tend to open the window and close the door to let steam out and prevent condensation, also the toilet is parallel to our room, the same principal applies to bad smells), the old threadbare carpet also makes me uneasy.
Jen commented on Feb 06 12 at 10:23 amYes!! It’s a well-known fact in my family that I’m not exactly the neatest person in the world. I swear, it’s a tidiness issue – not a dirty issue. Clean clothes just never seem to make it all the way from the hamper to the hanger; a sink full of rinsed dishes (next to an empty dishwasher, ready to be filled) has never bothered me; and I don’t bat an eye at the empty glass or (or five) sitting on the end table for days.
HOWEVER … 21 weeks into my first pregnancy and that has ALL changed. Not only have I gotten rid of 11 bags of old clothes in recent weeks, (okay, so maybe there were some hoarding tendencies at play, too), but I also can no longer stand seeing one solitary spoon in the sink and last night I MAY have gotten up to pee, then stayed up for an extra hour to fold laundry and make sure every last bit of trash from our Super Bowl party was out of our house. Neurotic? Maybe. Nesting? Definitely.
The good thing is that my husband is feeling it, too. He’s legitimately on edge about touching up the chips in our painted baseboards :)
Elle commented on Feb 07 12 at 2:55 pmIt started with disinfecting the bathroom walls. Then I decided that even though they were clean, they still LOOKED kind of dirty. So I definitely painted our bathroom while 9 months pregnant.
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