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How an Emetophobe Handles Morning Sickness
Another fact about me that I didn’t include in my introductory post is that I have a pretty severe case of emetophobia. For those who don’t speak Latin or some other language with cryptic pre and suffixes, that’s a fancy way of saying that I have a fear of vomiting. Now, I know what you’re thinking, no one likes to vomit, and I know that. But this is something much more significant.
Since I was about 12, I have had a paralyzing fear of throwing up. I missed a huge portion of 7th grade because I couldn’t leave my house for fear of getting sick. At several points in my life I have basically subsisted on rice and gatorade because I convinced myself that it would be the safest thing to prevent food poisoning or stomach upset. I have washed my hands until they were raw, used Clorox wipes on pretty much anything that could have contracted a germ.
And when I do get a stomach ache or feel nauseous, the world might as well be ending.
My palms sweat, I hyperventilate, I’ve gotten dangerously close to passing out just from the intensity of the fear. My greatest fear in life isn’t heights or spiders or anything like that, it’s throwing up.
So you can imagine that morning sickness has been bit of a challenge to say the very least. It started on a Monday morning out of the blue during my 6th week. Up until that point besides tired, I had felt pretty good. I was hoping I was going to be one of those lucky ones who never feels sick. Uh, no. I had to lay down at least 3 times that morning while trying to get ready that morning and I didn’t eat anything until around noon. It was absolutely awful. And it was only just the start.
Since that day it has been a daily struggle with the nausea. I have learned that, though it goes against absolutely everything that I believe, eating is the key. The later I wait to eat, the worse the nausea gets. If I sleep in on the weekends, I feel more nauseous because I missed the key eating window. If I let myself get hungry, it’s already too late. I haven’t yet figured out how to manage the evening nausea because it does not respond to food, nor reason, nor panic.
Yesterday was the first day where I wasn’t sure I could handle it. I have a prescription for Zofran and I have been using it liberally, but yesterday the Zofran didn’t touch the nausea. I had to leave for work at 7:30 and at 7 I was still in bed, deep breathing and willing myself to not throw up. I made it to work but the whole morning it was a struggle. And even when the nausea started to let up a little bit in the afternoon, the fear that it would come back had all but thrown me back into the cycle of nausea.
When I talked to my obgyn about it last week she told me that the morning sickness might let up as soon as the 10th week when the placenta is fully formed, but it seems like that hasn’t been the case with anyone else I’ve talked to. And the more people I talk to, the more tell me that theirs didn’t let up until the middle of the second trimester, or, even more panic inducing, the day they delivered.
I have read as many articles as I can stand, I’ve got my Zofran and a huge stash of starches and sour candies in my purse at all times, but I feel like somehow I must be missing the great morning sickness cure.
So I’m turning to the masses- what was your go to morning sickness cure? And at what point did this awful stage finally pass?
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leah commented on Oct 04 11 at 11:31 pmJust to give you hope – my morning sickness was completely totally gone magically at 10 weeks – so it does happen!
Jennifer commented on Oct 04 11 at 11:48 pmI actually began following you on Twitter last year after stumbling across one of your posts about this issue — I totally have it too and I miss so much of life due to this insane terror. In fact, I put off getting pregnant forever (until it was sort of now-or-never at 38) MAINLY for fear of morning sickness! As it turned out I was very lucky to rarely become nauseous throughout and still have not thrown up since 1976. (Great, now I’ve jinxed it.) I guess I just want you to know that I’m pulling for you and can really relate to your agony… my wonderful 3 year old was so worth taking the leap! – @toyportraits
Allison Zapata commented on Oct 04 11 at 11:58 pmI had to take phenergan at night. It helped me not be so sick in the morning. Other than that, zantac and never having an empty stomach. I’m sorry! That’s so rough!! It does get better. xo
Jennifer commented on Oct 05 11 at 12:12 amDiet Squirt and Saltines. Oh. And ginger snaps. I finally felt better around week 14. Good luck!
heather... commented on Oct 05 11 at 12:14 amJust remember, people like Casey and me are super rare – you are NOT going to have HG, you’re going to get through, you are sooooooo close.
Believe my pep talk? OK good.
Krista commented on Oct 05 11 at 12:43 amI am one of the unlucky ones that finally got relief from morning sickness when my daughter was born, but one thing I found, besides staying on top of taking your Zofran, is keep yourself hydrated! At work during the week, I did a good job drinking a lot of water, juice, and sucking on popsicles, but on the weekend at home I would forget. Then on Monday I would suffer, and have to work hard to get my fluids back to where they should be.
Also, crackers and sour candy never helped me. Before every meal or snack think of the one thing you would really like right now. Then eat that….calories are calories, don’t worry about being super healthy until you start feeling better. It is better for you to maintain your weight, than to be shedding pounds because you don’t feel good.
One last thing. Ask for help! I had a really hard time cooking for myself. I couldn’t stand over food smelling it while it cooked and then eat it! I ended up eating at my parents or a friend’s home most days, or my husband would cook.
Hopefully you will start to feel better soon. If you haven’t thrown up at all you are doing pretty good! I have a friend that would get acupuncture twice a week, and she said that really helped too…I would say anything is worth trying if it can make the nausea go away for a little bit.
Sandra commented on Oct 05 11 at 6:50 amI didn’t have any “morning” sickness as such. I had about 4-5 weeks (between 7 and 12 weeks I think) of feeling nauseous in the afternoon/evening. But not every day.
Amanda commented on Oct 05 11 at 7:36 amI completely agree with eating whatever you can handle and screw all of the pregnancy rules (to an extent of course) but for me it was keeping crackers next to my bed and the moment I opened my eyes in the morning before I even rolled over to turn off the alarm I would eat about 3 crackers. That was enough to keep the nausea very minimal so I could get ready for the day/work and then I could eat my breakfast.My situation though was a little different in that I would vomit the same time everyday, no matter what I did. At exactly 9 am every day I would get sick. But then I felt soooo much better afterwards. I absolutely hate vomiting as well, but not to the level you do. But even so there were days that I would try to fight it and would end up giving in because I knew that I would feel better afterwards! I hope that this ends quickly for you! Best of luck!
Meghan commented on Oct 05 11 at 9:15 amtart green apples. They were crunchy, they were juicy and they seemed to help me with my nausea during both of my pregnancies. One of those great tips passed on by a pregnant doc.
JoJo commented on Oct 05 11 at 10:14 amI lived on salt and vinegar potato chips and lemonade. The sweet and sour combo helped immensely with the all-day nausea. Luckily I never actually threw up during the first tri but I came close a couple times. Best to eat before you get out of bed and rise slowly. Moving too fast can trigger it.
I have puke fear too, but not to the same extent. Until April of this year, I hadn’t thrown up since 1993 and also avoid certain foods (while eating out etc) to try to minimize my chances of getting food poisoning. But when I got a stomach bug this spring, there was no avoiding it and honestly…I think the fear of it was worse than the actual throwing up.
Kelly commented on Oct 05 11 at 10:55 amUnfortunately, I have no words of wisdom, but I had to leave a comment because I am having the EXACT same experience right now. Reading this post almost made me sob because it made me feel I might not be the only person to go through this. I broke my 22 year no-puke streak 2 years ago with a bout of food poisoning (oh, pad Thai, I miss you so, but NEVER. AGAIN.), but now I’m 6 weeks pregnant & struggling every day. The anxiety is almost as bad as the nausea. Thank you for writing about this.
alimartell commented on Oct 05 11 at 11:45 amThis emetophobe will tell you that even though the nausea sucks so damn hard, we have so much more control than most people…since vomiting is brain-triggered and not actually stomach-triggered.
Bring on the tums and the crackers. Never let your stomach get empty.
and just remember…I didn’t barf once and I was pregnant three times.
Kristin W commented on Oct 05 11 at 1:33 pmWow….I thought I was the only one with this paralyzing fear! My husband thinks it’s “funny” that I’m so freaked out about vomiting…he’s the type that’s like, “Oh, go ahead, throw up…you’ll FEEL BETTER.” Um, yeah, doubt it. I have not thrown up in about…10 years (OK, OK, I know exactly when it was, it was May of 2001). And that was from drinking (I have a weak stomach). I have four children and only vomited once, and that was because I drank some milk that had soured…ugh. I never had morning sickness, so I’m one of the lucky ones. HOWEVER, I have medical issues (and meds) that give me nausea every single day of my life, for hours at a time, in the a.m. and p.m. I can barely talk or even sit up it gets so bad. What a nightmare.
Jess commented on Oct 05 11 at 3:28 pmPeppermint tea? I’ve heard it helps. Good luck!!!
Mariah commented on Oct 05 11 at 10:30 pmI too have severe emetophobia–like you, it’s kept me from doing and eating certain things–for a while, I’d figure out where the closest bathroom was to wherever I has to spend time in public. And I had to take Zofran through my delivery (around the middle of my 2nd trimester, I was able to only take it before bed. During labor, however, I demanded they give it to me IV when I began feeling even the littlest hint of nausea). Sea Bands kind of helped; getting up at 4 a.m. to cry and eat (and then going back to bed) kind of helped; ginger tea kind of helped; Pringles kind of helped. But, I also threw up. At work. It was awful. And while I won’t say it eliminated my emetophobia, it seems to be a tad less severe. I don’t really have any good advice, just empathy. Hang in there. (And now if I could get over my phobia of other people throwing up. After all, I have an almost 3-year-old. Turns out kids puke.)
Tabitha commented on Oct 06 11 at 5:10 amAs a fellow emetophobe who suffered from debilitating morning sickness, I feel your pain. I was virtually chained to my bed from week 7-16.
I tried the ginger flavored things & found they did nothing except make me loathe the smell of ginger.
What got me through were eating saltines all day long, vitamin B6 & “Preggy Pops” or “Preggy Drops”. I found the preggy drops slightly more effective than the pops. Both were sold at maternity stores & Babies ‘ R Us.
Kelly Dyer commented on Oct 06 11 at 11:30 amSoft peppermints. The big pillow ones that are like dinner mints. I gobbled those down during all three pregnancies. Other than that, I just never let myself get an empty stomach. I had snacks stashed EVERYWHERE. My husband loved it. (I told him to stay out of my stash.)
The most embarrassing? Bread and butter. Up to half a loaf. I’ll go hang my head in shame now.
brittney commented on Oct 06 11 at 10:44 pmtry crystalized ginger! its about four dollars a pound at any health food store, and it works wonders. Not just for morning sickness but its also a great way to boost your immune system so you dont get sick! i lived off of it my first trimester. Just keep some by your bed, in your fridge and in your purse. You can also look up on google how to make it yourself! good luck!!!
zaianne commented on Oct 06 11 at 10:49 pmMy morning sickness pretty much went away when I started my 2nd trimester, so hopefully it’ll be the same for you.
Anyways, my “tip” is ginger. It was the only thing that helped me. Ginger thins, ginger snaps, ginger tea, ginger ale. Anything that had ginger in it helped.
Kate commented on Oct 07 11 at 7:16 pmGinger helps me too. And carbs… especially salty ones. I’m 20 weeks and still get 1-3 bad days a week- not crippling nausea, but unpleasant queasiness with a yucky taste in my mouth.
Laura commented on Apr 01 12 at 8:36 pmI might be too late to join the discussion but I suffer from Emetophobia and was hopping to read some success stories. My biggest fear is the weight loss and the inability to eat what I know I must eat! I am now at the beginning of week 9 and everything I look at makes me sick. It is getting hard to deal with work, life, and everything else when you are trying so hard just to feel good.
I had been doing pretty well managing and was pretty happy but then pregnancy came along. Recently I had begun zoloft at a very low dose as I had just started my own company and the stress was getting to me. When I realized I was pregnant I stopped immediately.
I guess, I would like to know how others dealt with the eating and “all-day” sickness and if after a certain point hunger outweighed the sickness.
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