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Should Circumcision Be Illegal? Circumcision Ban is on the Ballot in San Francisco

Posted by digitalmom on May 19th, 2011 at 8:00 am
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Circumcision. Is it your decision or your son's, when he's 18?

Is it your decision to circumcise your son? A group in San Francisco thinks NO. So much so that they have secured 7,700 signatures from city residents to get a measure on the November ballot banning circumcision, taking away the family’s choice on the matter.

If the vote passes, circumcision among males under the age of 18 would be prohibited.

Failing to adhere to the law would result in a misdemeanor offense punishable by a fine of up to $1,000 or up to one year in jail. There would be no religious exemptions. Banning would almost certainly bring legal action, claiming violations of the first amendment, allowing people to exercise their religious beliefs.

The topic of circumcision is a hot one amongst the mommy community, both for and against.

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Is it your right to choose to circumcise your child?

Some see the practice as a form of unnecessary genital mutilation. Read: Why My Son Isn’t Circumcised.

Others see it as a necessary procedure to prevent disease. Read: Circumcision Could Cut the Risk of Cervical Cancer.

70% of American men are circumcised, compared to the worldwide average of 30%.

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[...] although I do admit that is the best name ever. I don’t think we should make circumcision illegal. If you chose to circumcise your son, I’m sure you did it for your own personal reasons and I [...]

Why I Didn’t Circumcise My Sons | Salt & Nectar commented on Sep 08 11 at 8:37 am

I think it’s worth pointing out that while 70% of American men are circumcised, only ~35-40% of American boys are currently being circumcised, so while it was the norm for our parents, it won’t be for our children.

Leah commented on May 19 11 at 9:16 am

I think it should be our choice. For some of us it is important and we should have that option. And for some of us it isn’t and we should have the choice.

Beth commented on May 19 11 at 9:50 am

I actually have my son circumcised, but I can see why they wouldn’t make religious exemptions. If you really think about it would we be okay if another religion said they had to cut the tip of their daughters labia off? I guess since it’s such an old tradition we are used to it.
With all that said, I would probably get my next son (if there is one) circumcised. I think that’s bad, but it’s the truth.

Theresa commented on May 19 11 at 9:52 am

Circumcision is a permanent altering of a male’s sexual organs. If a grown man chooses to have it done then that is one thing – since it can be done with full pain relief and the foreskin is already retractable at that point, but it is a risky and painful procedure to subject a newborn to. More baby boys die from circumcision related complications each year than from SIDS. That’s not even counting the many complications of circumcision that won’t show up until adulthood when a man becomes sexually active… Adult men can give fully informed consent for the procedure but a baby cannot and unfortunately most US parents have so little knowledge of normal penile function that they aren’t able to give truly informed consent! Most American men don’t know what they are missing :(

I understand those who consider circumcision part of their religious beliefs are concerned, but wouldn’t it be so much more meaningful if an adult chose this practice themselves as a confirmation of their faith rather than it being forced upon them as an infant or child? And the vast majority of circumcisions in the US are not being performed for religious reasons at all…

Em commented on May 19 11 at 9:54 am

This is ridiculous. This is, and should always be, a choice. Why is this law even being considered? Soon everything we do will be illegal. Just because a certain group doesn’t agree with something, they feel the need to take things to extremes. Calm down people. You have the right to your opinion and your choices, but so does everyone else!

Stephanie commented on May 19 11 at 9:55 am

Circumcision should be illegal in the USA. No one does that anymore except america. No one is circumcised here in Europe and we are much more healthy! It is violation of basic human rights.

Peter commented on May 19 11 at 10:07 am

Another freedom of choice being taken away due to anti-groups. Why waste tax payers money to put it in the ballot? Really no point on voting on it since the anti-group will try to battle in court to have anything that the PEOPLE OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA voted “NO” to. Please! put my tax money towards good use…….

m&m commented on May 19 11 at 10:10 am

I don’t think parents, or anyone else, should be able to decide that another person should have surgery to remove part of their normal and healthy body. Circumcision shouldn’t be an option. My son is almost seven years old, he is not circumcised, we live in the midwestern United States, and he is perfectly fine! The foreskin is not scary or dirty or diseased, and it’s certainly not a birth defect. It’s just a normal part of the penis. That’s all. Come on people, it’s 2011! It’s the 21st century. You’d think that by now everyone could stand the fact that the foreskin is part of the penis.

Renee K commented on May 19 11 at 10:11 am

I’m generally in favor of government minding its own business, so usually I would be against just about any proposed bans. But, one thing I DO believe is the government’s job is to protect us from others. One person’s rights end whee another’s begins. In this case, to protect parental right to choose, the government would have to fail to protect the child’s rights.

As far as I know, there is no other body part that parents are allowed to choose to remove, unless it is already diseased. It seems kinda funny that doctors ask us parents to make a choice on this matter. Nobody asked me to sign any form about whether or not I wanted my son’s arm removed.

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About religion, a friend of mine who is a rabbi said that it should be illegal and jews should do it anyway. Something to ponder.

LL commented on May 19 11 at 10:13 am

My son is circumcised, but my husband isn’t. I struggled with the descicion during my pregnancy, and was convinced that it was more sanitary, even though my husband has had no problems without being circumcised. I’m not sure if I would do it again, if I have another son.

BW commented on May 19 11 at 10:35 am

Circumcision is an outdated cultural habit that needs to go away. Parents still have their sons circumcised because they don’t want them to be different or weird, but the tide is turning, especially in more progressive parts of the country. I’ve known many adult men who wished they had not been circumcised, and uncircumcised men who were extremely grateful that they hadn’t been. Even as someone who grew up thinking circumcision was “normal,” that was enough to convince me I was wrong.

Imogen commented on May 19 11 at 10:42 am

Female circumcision in the U.S. was only recently banned. There are many cultures whose beliefs dictate that they circumcise their daughters and they take their children abroad for the procedure and then bring them back to the U.S. So why would this be any different from when the U.S. banned circumcision of females in the 1970′s? Most of the world’s humans get to keep all the parts of their genitalia. Shame, shame. I would be awfully upset to find out later in life that someone stole the most sensitive portion of my genitalia.

formage commented on May 19 11 at 11:10 am

`First and foremost, circumcision is a human rights violation. No one should decide what healthy, functional organs to remove without that person’s consent, especially sexual organs. Circumcision involves ripping the foreskin from the glans (it’s fused at birth, very similar to how a nail is fused to a finger. We can use that for comparison: it’s equivalent to shoving a knife under your fingernail, all the way to the cuticle, to separate them) When using a plastibelll, the most common tool for circumcisions, the surgeon then cuts a dorsal slit to allow the bell to be placed under the foreskin.A string is then tied around the foreskin and it falls off a few days later, similar to when you dock a dog’s tail…pretty sad that is what we are comparing little baby boys most sensitive parts. Circumcision is an extremely painful procedure, especially for infants. An infant cannot be put under for the surgery because it is too dangerous. Most doctors do not use any type of numbing cream and the EMLA cream that is used has been proven not to work and they themselves issued a warning that it was not to be used for circumcisions. When a baby is circumcised a lot of parents will say their baby “went to sleep” this is actually a state of shock that the infants brain goes into because they cannot handle the excruciating pain. When grown men are circumcised, general anesthesia is used and for recovery, they get a heavy narcotic. That’s just how painful it is, infants get no pain relief. Circumcision is a surgery and just like any procedure it hold major risks; including death. It is estimated that 100-200 neonatal deaths occur in the US a year from circumcision. That is more than neonatal SIDS deaths, but SIDS is such a big deal in America and everyone tries to protect their babies from it. There are also numerous other risks that may not show until the boy has hit puberty. Many times a doctor will take too much of the skin off and the teen will get painful erections as the skin tries to stretch to accommodate a growing penis. No medical society in the world recommends this procedure and for good reason, too. It is a purely cosmetic surgery. Would I risk my infant’s life for a cosmetic surgery? No way!

I urge you to watch these videos and then really think a little bit of numbing cream (if even used) could take away all of that pain.

http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=0c1_1286228381

http://www.veoh.com/watch/e176471PJGJ6FGQ

So after even all of that, let’s just forget the fact that it’s so painful and barbaric. We will focus on the adult life. Run your fingertip down the back of your hand. Now run it down the palm of your hand. Clear difference. Notice how even after you stopped touching the palm of your hand you could still feel the line you drew with your fingertip. Your palm has Meissner’s corpsucles (touch-sensitive nerves) that the back of your hand does not. The male foreskin has 20-70,000 of these. When those nerves are removed you automatically lose approximately 3/4 of the sensation that is supposed to be felt. Also, the foreskin covers and protects the glans. When the glans is exposed for a period of time it basically calluses over. Just like you lose feeling on the side of a toe when it calluses, you lose feeling and sensitivity in the glans. That is why the US is one of the biggest and only users of Viagra. They also have the highest circumcision rate in adult males. ( Only 32% of new babies are now being circumcised) Erectile dysfunction is rampant among circumcised men, and very rarely is an uncircumcised male diagnosed with erectile dysfunction.

Most people circumcise because they believe it’s cleaner, when in fact, it’s much cleaner to be intact because there is no open wound sitting in a nasty diaper, putting that child at risk for MRSA on the fresh cut. The smegma that is produced underneath a male foreskin is minimal compared to what is found on/in a woman’s genitals and yet, that is not an issue. (Smegma actually protects the glans so it shouldn’t be considered a “problem”)

Here are just a few statistics:

Out of 100 Circumcised boys:

75 will not readily breastfeed post-op
55 will have adverse reactions from the surgery
35 will have post-op hemorrhaging to one degree or another
31 will develop meatal ulcers
10 will need to have the circumcision surgery repeated to fix prior surgical problems/error
8 will suffer infection at the surgical site
3 will develop post-operative phimosis
2 will have a more serious complication (seizure, heart attack, stroke, loss of penis, death)
1 will require additional immediate surgery and sutures to stop hemorrhage
1 will develop fibrosis
1 will develop phimosis
1 will be treated with antibiotics for a UTI (urinary tract infection)
1 will be treated with antibiotics for surgical site infection
100 will lose a very sensitive sexual organ

Of those who do receive pain medication for the surgery (about 4% of those boys undergoing circumcision in the U.S.) some will have adverse reactions to the pain medication injected

Out of 100 Intact boys:

2 will be treated with antibiotics for a UTI (fewer if the foreskin is never forcibly retracted- which is what usually causes complications during childhood)

1 will be told to get cut later in life for one reason or another (fewer if the foreskin is never forcibly retracted)

Circumcision is a human rights issue. Noone has any right to remove a healthy part of an infant’s body.

Christianna commented on May 19 11 at 11:22 am

Although I do think that it is the right of the parent to choose. The reason that we decided not to is that my husband thought that our son could make that decision for himself when he was older.

But I do believe the government needs to get their little fingers out of so many aspects of peoples lives. They are like a hovering parent who will not let their adult children make decisions for themselves. Seriously, inform people and then back off.

Beth commented on May 19 11 at 12:09 pm

The government’s job is to protect citizens. Baby boys are citizens too. Let them decide if they want their own penis’s altered. His body, his choice. Why does our country protect baby girls but not baby boys?

Lindsay commented on May 19 11 at 12:40 pm

I’d like to add my perspective as someone of Jewish descent. I’m fully in favor of freedom of religion, but your religious freedom does not give you the right to amputate or otherwise modify any perfectly normal and healthy part of SOMEONE ELSE’S BODY.

The child’s body is not property of his/her parents or their culture or religion.

If a religion called for the tattooing or branding of an infant or child, that wouldn’t make ok. If a religion called for any other part of the human body, for example an earlobe (you don’t really need that, right?…), to be cut off of a baby or child, that wouldn’t make it ok. And of course when religion calls for any cutting of the female genitals – no matter how minor – that doesn’t make it ok.

So why then is the penis different than every other body part in this regard? What gives parents the right to cut part of it off and deprive the child of the right to choose for the rest of his life?

I know infant male genital cutting (“circumcision”) is widely accepted in our culture, but that in and of itself doesn’t make it ok, so I urge folks to really think critically about this!

Josh commented on May 19 11 at 12:43 pm

One more thing to consider: Just about everyone would consider it wrong if the parents were to have their 18 year old son (who wasn’t circumcised) forcibly held down and circumcised against his will. Everyone would say that as an adult it’s his decision.

But when you circumcise a baby, you’re also taking that choice away from the adult he will become. For every day of my adult life, I have been, and will continue to be, denied the right to choose for myself as a result of what was done to me as an infant.

Of course what happened to me can’t be undone, but as a society we CAN decide that this won’t happen to anyone else. That it’s not acceptable to take away someone’s right to choose about THEIR OWN genitals.

Josh commented on May 19 11 at 12:46 pm

Circumcision is less painful, less traumatic, and safer if performed on an adult, with the consent of the owner of the penis.

It’s less painful because a baby’s foreskin has to be ripped from the head of the penis like a fingernail, because babies are more sensitive to pain than adults, and because an adult can be anesthetized and given strong pain medication, which could kill a baby. It’s less traumatic because an adult understands what’s going on and why, and especially because the adult consented to the procedure. It’s safer because it takes very little blood loss for a newborn to bleed to death, and bleeding is one of the primary risks of a circumcision.

There is simply no reason to perform this cosmetic, non-therapeutic surgery on someone who cannot consent to it.

Macha commented on May 19 11 at 1:17 pm

I support this ban 100%.
It is not about removing parental rights, it is about protecting personal rights. The rights of men to make their own choices about their genitals.
There are MANY decisions we must make for our children. That is part of our responsibility as parents. However, this should NOT be one of them. Routine Infant Circumcision is a medically unnecessary COSMETIC surgery on an individual who is unable to consent. That makes it completely unethical and not a valid parental choice.
(And I am talking only about routine circ, barring an actual medical need) There is NO reason that this type of procedure cannot be delayed until the age of consent of the individual owning the genitals.
Up until 1997 in this country, female circ was legal. Now it is not. What is the difference? Why are our daughters protected by law, but not our sons? There should be no difference. Equal rights, equal protection. It has to start somewhere.

Jenn_M commented on May 19 11 at 1:36 pm

Male circumcision is not analgous to female genital mutilation. Female “circumcision” is performed specifically to mutilate the genitals (usually including the amputation of the clitoris) so that the woman’s libido and enjoyment of intercourse will be reduced or eliminated entirely. The male would have to have his penis amputated for the comparison to be accurate.

Lee commented on May 19 11 at 1:56 pm

Jenn m, please do some more research on female circumcision before you go around talking about it. The most commonly practiced form of FGM is the removal of the clitoral hood, the female foreskin, and it is an even smaller amount of skin than what is taken off baby boys… But even that is illegal in the US. Even a minor ritual pin prick of a girls genitals is illegal. The countries that practice FGM, either religiously or culturally, claim the same benefits as those who practice male circumcision, so shouldn’t we be allowed to remove the labia and clitoral hood from baby girls? It won’t damage them any more than a baby boy is damaged. Actually female circumcision of the labia and clitoral hood would be less damaging than male circumcision because it only removes some skin whereas male circumcision makes the glans, a piece designed to be an internal organ of sorts, into an external part.

So basically what I’m saying is that female circumcision isn’t always the extreme you think it is and since ALL forms of female circumcision, even the less harmful types, are illegal than it is extremely hypocritical and ignorant to say that girls should be protected but boys shouldn’t.

Lacy commented on May 19 11 at 3:28 pm

I’m sorry, I didn’t realize the name of the poster was below the post, my comment is directed at Lee.

Lacy commented on May 19 11 at 3:30 pm

There are health benefits to circumcision. It is dishonest to deny that.

Amanda commented on May 19 11 at 3:40 pm

There are no health benefits that can’t be gained in other ways.

Cleanliness? Stupid. The foreskin is fused to the glans until they are generally old enough to know how to clean themselves. Until then you clean penis like you would a finger. Wipe clean and NEVER retract.

Infections? Stupid. Antibiotics, diet changes, even homeopathic remedies are more effective. And really… Girls are MUCH more prone to infections, yet we treat them with medicine, not amputation of the labia.

STDs? Stupid. The studies were incredibly flawed and anyone who actually reads the studies can tell you that. Also if there is any benefit it is a very small *possible* reduction in the chance of infection, condoms are more effective and if you don’t teach your son to wear condoms then I promise you, circumcision won’t be enough. Condoms prevent STDs, amputation doesn’t.

Cancer? Stupid. The chances of cancer are so small it doesn’t make sense to circ all baby boys, just in case. Women are much more likely to develope cancer of the vulva, lets circumcise all baby girls, just in case. Breast cancer in men is much more common than penile cancer, lets remove the breast tissue of all baby boys to prevent male breast cancer. See how stupid that sounds?

Religion? Babies can’t choose religion and speaking as the wife of a Jewish man, it’s just not a good enough reason. Adults are free to make religious choices for themselves, forcing thier religious beliefs on others? Not a right. Also, there are religions that practice female circumcision. You can’t pick and choose whose religious beliefs we respect.

Looks or “he’ll be teased”? Incredibly stupid. I like men with nice butts, should I get my son butt implants? My husband likes big breasts, should we get our daughter (4yo) breast implants? Circumcision is losing favor so it’s more likely that circumcised kids will be teased, rather than intact kids.

What other reasons are there? There is not one good reason, not one, to circumcise. To deny that is just ignorance. Plain and simple.

Lacy commented on May 19 11 at 5:02 pm

It is absolutely false that circumcision is less painful as an adult. I do not care one way or another if you choose to circumcise your baby or not. However, there are some instances where a circumcision is absolutely necessary, such as with both of my sons. They both have a congenital genitourinary condition similar to hypospadius. Why should we wait until they’re 18 to repair this when we can do it under general anesthesia when they’re 6 months old and will never remember or suffer embarrassment or problems with potty training? The issue is not as cut and dry as so many of the over-zealous intactivists make it out to be. A “no exemption” out and out ban would be very detrimental to other little boys like mine.

Katy E commented on May 19 11 at 5:44 pm

I’m not sure whether you’ve read the wording of the bill then. The bill calls for actual medical neccessity, you know,
after other treatments have failed. It’s rare that there is a medical condition that requires amputation of the foreskin, rather than just a repair, but for those rare cases…. It would be accepted.

Lacy commented on May 19 11 at 5:50 pm

The bill to ban the nonconsensual, forced cutting of minors in San Francisco is a major milestone in the fight for human rights. The freedom to keep all of the body parts with which one is born is a basic civil right with no exceptions.

The foreskin has been an important part of mammalian and human anatomy for over 100 million years of evolution. Research by Morris Sorrells, MD indicates that circumcision removes the most sensitive parts of the penis.

Only the owner of the penis has the right to decide if part of it should be amputated. Parents do not have the right to amputate any of their child’s body parts. 70% of men in the world are intact and they are doing just fine.

Also, circumcision will not protect men from acquiring HIV. Half a million circumcised American men have already died from AIDS. In the United States, about 75% of the adult male population is circumcised, and adult HIV prevalence is 0.6%. In countries where males are left intact, HIV rates are significantly lower, such as China (0.1%), India (0.3%), Sweden (0.1%), Germany (0.1%), Mexico (0.3%), and Japan (0.1%).

Keep Boys Whole commented on May 19 11 at 8:26 pm

Although my husband and I have decided against circumcision if our baby is a boy (something I’m not certain if all of my family, who have always circumcized, is aware of yet!), I believe it should be the informed choice of the parents, not a legal issue. Circumcision still has a number of vocal supporters in the medical community (albiet, there are now a number of vocal opponents in the medical community, as well). As long as the medical community remains as divided about the importance of this procedure or the importance of not having it done at all, I see no reason for lawmakers to intervene.

Jennifer commented on Oct 21 11 at 5:19 pm

Circumcision is child molesting. It should prosecuted.

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