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Having Babies Makes One Woman – Woman of the Year

Posted by danielle625 on February 14th, 2011 at 6:01 pm

michdug 294x300 Having Babies Makes One Woman   Woman of the YearIn the world of conservative politics, and the Conservative Political Action Committee, having more children than my grandmothers cocker spaniel qualifies you to be considered the Conservative woman of the year. But as someone who works in the pregnancy and childbirth community so frequently, I would wonder how many women of color, with the same amount of children would have won the same award?

The luncheon this weekend which honored Mother Duggar was aimed at, and only open to female college students, making you wonder what kind of message they were attempting to send to the young women bright enough to step out of the kitchen, and further their education on their own?

You would assume with such strong conservative women coming up in the spotlight, especially those like Sarah Palin with real strong accomplishments would be prime candidates for the same title Michelle Duggar won this year.

Of course not that having children, and a reality television show doesn’t qualify you for such an award.  Motherhood is a huge accomplishment, but did CPAC choose Michelle with some kind of political anti-abortion kind of platform?

Kim Conte from The Stir put it perfectly:

Some people scratched their heads in confusion over the fact that a reality TV star would be recognized as the conservative movement’s top female leader over more obvious candidates like Minnesota Rep. Michele Bachmann or South Dakota Rep. Kristi Noem.

Kim also points out some amazing con’s of the pick, which I wholeheartedly agree with, not only as a mother, but also as an advocate for women.

We are choosing to honor a woman for having too many children that requires her older children essentially to care for the younger children, although the teens, and twenty something oldest kids have no problem with their assigned chores, I mean, siblings.

Woman of the year for me?  Certainly not a Duggar!

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Having 19 Babies Makes One Woman – Woman of the Year | Being Pregnant | Conservative Government commented on Feb 14 11 at 6:34 pm

Simply repulsive. Yet, somehow not surprising for this bunch.

Gretchen Powers commented on Feb 14 11 at 9:05 pm

So…did she raise and pay for all these children on her own — no matter WHAT color — without Government or other assistance? If so, bravo! But I question the sanity of someone with that many children. I mean most any female can have babies….but its a feat if they are cared for properly by the mother…and father.

Sandy commented on Feb 15 11 at 9:33 am

I think a lot of this comes down to values. By selecting Michelle Duggar as Conservative Woman of the Year, the CPAC was likely indicating that it approved of many of the same values of Mrs. Duggar, which could be a number of different things. To me, one of the biggest ideologies that is espoused by Michelle and her family is the attempt to align what they say and do with their religious beliefs. This definitely explains their choice to continue having children (albeit a LOT), despite societal commentary. Too many children? Who are we to make that call? The Duggars are also a highly visible and easily recognizable family (their own doing, perhaps). Maybe that’s why Michelle was chosen over matriarchs of another family of similar size (I don’t think color has anything to do with it). The most difficult part of this article, Danielle, is that it’s polarizing and passes a lot of judgement. To me, it seems to presuppose that women should value higher education and getting “out of the kitchen” over staying at home and raising a family. Women wrestle with this question (and the guilt that often comes along with it) all the time–many times on this very blog. So Michelle’s older children care for her younger children. What about parents who hire nannies to care for their children? Are they better or worse parents? And who are we to make that sort of judgement anyway? Again, ultimately this comes down to values, but I think we can all agree on a few basic principles here: parenting is tough, regardless of the size of one’s family, and none of us have a perfect formula for getting it “right”; women have the power to influence in tremendous ways–both in and out of the home. Maybe Michele Bachmann or Kristi Noem will be chosen next year.

Sarah commented on Feb 15 11 at 10:59 am

so having 19 kids, the last one that was so premature that it was scary scary, and may have health problems for life, and wanting to do it again, makes her woman of the year? SICK..that totally sends the wrong message.. not to mention who is really raising these kids? we all know it is the older siblings.. I respect her choice to have that many kids, though she says she leaves it up to god.. but honestly this family does not respect other peoples choice to use birth control and decide for themselves what size family they would like to have.. her husband used to be a politician, pushing to make all forms of birth control illegal… I say if you want respect for having a huge family then respect those of us who are happy with 1,2,or 3 kids and do not want more.

Different strokes for different folks but now it is effecting her children’s health and I do not think that is ok

Meghan commented on Feb 18 11 at 12:35 pm

IF she cared for her children it would be one thing, but she doesn’t. She pops it out and assigns it to one of it’s older siblings. That’s not being a mother, that’s being a walking uterus.

Mallory commented on Feb 24 11 at 9:33 am

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