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Vaccinate Your Kids
I am generally not one to bring up hot-button issues. This isn’t because I don’t have an opinion — I have tons of them. It’s because I hate to be inflammatory. But today I feel like I have to write what has been swimming around in my head.
People need to vaccinate their kids. I am part of an unheard subset of the population, because I am pro-vaccine. And I feel like not enough moms from my camp are represented in the debate.
I just can’t understand how the generation of current parents have such a strong opposition to vaccines.
It started with the fears that the MMR vaccine was somehow linked to autism. These allegations have been proven to be completely and utterly false. But the fear and resistance remain, and for some it’s beyond reason. For many parents, people who in every other way are rational and educated, there is no scientific study that will convince them of the safety of vaccinations. In certain pockets around the country, vaccination rates are waning and breakouts of diseases long absent from memory are occurring.
I think one of the things keeping my generation from vaccinating is that none of us have seen real outbreaks of the diseases these vaccines are designed to protect our kids against (and that most of us were protected against ourselves). We don’t understand what life was like when children were at constant risk of getting polio, measles, mumps, or pertussis. And we take it for granted.
There is also the fact that the process of inoculating our children is kind of violent. We are expected to hold our poor babies down while they are given shots, sometimes four or five of them, while they cry out for us. It’s heartbreaking.
But here’s the thing. There are parts of our population, like young babies, the elderly, and the seriously ill, that depend on those around them to be vaccinated. Did you know its actually more safe to just live in a highly vaccinated area than to be vaccinated in a relatively unvaccinated community? This is because no vaccine is 100 percent effective, and if you’re more likely to be exposed, you’re more likely to get sick. (Source)
Just ask Megan Campbell, whose infant son contracted measles from an unvaccinated boy in a doctor’s waiting room. Luckily the baby survived, but only after enduring terrible rashes, fevers peaking at 106, a loss of six pounds (one third of his body weight), and weeks in the hospital. This was because one parent made the choice to not vaccinate her son.
What do you think it will take for people to take the risks involved in not vaccinating our children more seriously? If you don’t vaccinate your children, what would it take for you to change your mind?
Sources:
Ruining It for the Rest of Us
Paul Offit on the Anti-Vaccine Movement
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56 Comments
Brianne commented on Dec 07 11 at 6:59 amAgreed. Such a timely post for me.we just had our six month shots yesterday and have been dealing with slight fever and sleeplessness. Miserable but much more manageable than the thought of her contacting one o of those diseases she is vaccinated against.thank you for writing this.
Jbj commented on Dec 07 11 at 7:00 amFinally- a pro vaccine article. Kudos! Herd mentality ends up killing children. After all, if autism is what you fear- isn’t a dead child even scarier?
O commented on Dec 07 11 at 8:17 amMore of this please!
The anti-intellectual anti-science streak among this cohort is chilling. And killing kids. Literally.
Mercury? debunked. get over it.
I’m tired of walking into a doctor’s office and being afraid your self-centered decisions are putting my kid at risk.
Azalea commented on Dec 07 11 at 8:45 amVaccinations aren’t a magical force field that instantly kills any virus or germ that comes into contact with a vaccinated person. You can still carry any spreadable disease without succumbing to it. I’m not anti vaccination nor pro, just some people seem to think that they are magic, which they are not. Just something to consider…
Rose commented on Dec 07 11 at 9:13 amThank you for this article! I don’t like holding my kid down while he’s stuck with needles, but I sure don’t want my child to have pertussis or mumps. As for what will it take before people take vaccines seriously, unfortunately, as people who don’t vaccinate are only thinking of their own child, only once their kid contracts a disease like polio will they think, “maybe I should’ve taken my chances with the shot”.
Diera commented on Dec 07 11 at 9:42 am“You can still carry any spreadable disease without succumbing to it.” So where exactly is this coming from? Two different people on the other vaccination thread this week said this, and here’s a third instance. Is there some kind of widespread belief that people who are vaccinated are only protected from the disease themselves, and that they become secret carriers of disease to others because only the symptoms are suppressed, or they can carry it without catching it, or whatever?
Shelagh commented on Dec 07 11 at 9:48 amThank you! My daughter just had her 4 month shots yesterday. After reading comments on other articles like this, I was starting to feel like I was the only parent left vaccinating their kid. Now, logically, i know that’s not true, you’re right, it’s just that the pro-vaccination parents aren’t as vocal.
The alternative to wide-spread vaccinations is not something I want to see. My doctor was saying that she still sees relatively young patients suffering the after-effects of diseases like polio. Those diseases could still make a come-back and I want to do everything I can to protect my child, and other children, from that!
MadelinePetersen commented on Dec 07 11 at 10:39 am@azalea, I think it’s possible for a vaccinate person to possibly carry germs, say on their hands if they have come in contact. But I really do not believe if a vaccinated person who comes in a close proximity with someone with the measles, that they would somehow become a secret carrier of the disease. If you have a source on that info, I would love to see it!
Natalie commented on Dec 07 11 at 11:11 amThank you Madelin! And @ azalea, “Vaccinations aren’t a magical force field that instantly kills any virus or germ that comes into contact with a vaccinated person.” No. The exact opposite is true. Take pertusis for example. An UNVACCINATED adult can be exposed, become an asymptomatic carrier, and spread the disease. A vaccinated adult will not spread the disease. Vaccines work against the bugs they target. Of course there are always going to be circulating diseases that there are no vaccines for that our kids are at risk of getting. But vaccines work. Educate yourself before making such inane statements.
Diera commented on Dec 07 11 at 11:16 am@MadelinePetersen: No, I’m not saying this (people who are vaccinated become “carriers”) is true! I’m saying I’ve seen three different people in vaccination threads here this week who think it’s true, so I’m wondering where people are getting this idea. I absolutely do not think it’s true. With most diseases, some of the people who get it are asymptomatic and may be able to pass the disease on without symptoms, but multiple people seem to think this is really common when people are vaccinated, and I have no idea why.
Diera commented on Dec 07 11 at 11:19 am@MadelinePetersen: Oh, sorry, you were talking to @azalea, not me. But I echo your question.
MadelinePetersen commented on Dec 07 11 at 11:26 am@Diera, No worries! Thanks for commenting.
@Natalie, Excellent point! Thanks for that clarification.
Kathryn commented on Dec 07 11 at 11:39 amIt is time that the vast majority of parents that DO vaccinate began speaking out as loudly as the small percentage of parents who do no. If we as a country really valued vaccination, we would require all medically-able children attending public schools to be vaccinated, no matter their philosophical beliefs or religion.
Kristyn commented on Dec 07 11 at 11:51 amI’m pretty sure that not that long ago, historically speaking, the life-saving effects of widespread vaccinations would have been considered magical — though I don’t think there’s anyone out there naive enough to believe that vaccinations are some “magical force-field”. I think we’re so lucky to live in a day and age where we can MINIMIZE the risk of contracting some of these scary diseases. I have a hard time believing that our generation, which seems so obsessed with hand-sanitizer and lysol, is the same generation shying away from vaccinations.
MadelinePetersen commented on Dec 07 11 at 11:58 am@Krsityn, it doesn’t make any sense does it? I just don’t get it. And the weird thing is that the most vocal among the group are the uber-educated. How does someone with an advanced degree ignore science. It boggles my mind! And you are right we are so lucky to have vaccines at all.
Rachael commented on Dec 07 11 at 12:32 pmGreat article and much needed!! Thank you!
janell commented on Dec 07 11 at 12:42 pmI have a cousin who does not vaccinate her son because ‘shots will hurt him’. As in, the needle stick will hurt – that’s it, the one and only reason. The fact that this reasoning is “allowed”? CRAZY to me. Wonder how many just don’t have access to good information… or want ‘non-vaxing’ in their siggy on some message board simply because that’s what their peers do? What I’d like to see is some required education by a medical professional if you don’t want to vaccinate – an informed declination.
I vaccinate (albeit on a delayed schedule per our pediatrician) because I know that the diseases we are protecting H against are far more painful and harmful (and more deadly!) than a needle stick. Is it fun to hold your kid down while they cry out for you? Of course not, but parenting is full of hard, no-fun things that we HAVE to do for our kids.
Marie commented on Dec 07 11 at 1:27 pmYay for vaccines! Please get your flu shot too. I know it seems futile since you might get sick anyway with some other type of flu virus, but it does save the lives of babies and the elderly who can’t get a shot, and it keeps me out of the hospital since I can’t get the vaccine due to an allergy. All I can do to stay healthy is ask those around me to get their shots, and that’s all of you!
Natalie commented on Dec 07 11 at 2:22 pmMy son is currently not vaccinated but he will be starting vaccines when he is two. So I guess we do vaccinate, just a different schedule then most babies are on. But I feel like there really isn’t that many people that are anti-vaccine that speak out about it that much. I know that there are a lot of stories and things you can read online about anti-vaccines but you can probably find just as many pro-vaccine stories. I just don’t personally know anyone who doesn’t vaccinate. I don’t even like saying that my son isn’t vaccinated right now because I know that most people are going to look at me like I’m a crazy person. I really don’t feel strongly one way or the other on the situation. I like hearing both sides. It’s just such a controversial thing, I just do what I do and respect everyone else’s choices!
waterbrghtasDskyy commented on Dec 07 11 at 2:29 pmthe only thing that sceeves me out is what is IN vaccines… formaldahyde, chicken/bovine serum, monkey liver, MSG, and mercury to name a few of the creepies that are found in our tots vaccines… I personally get what is required for Aerie to go to school, but other than that I believe “less is more”. (( you can look up vaccine ingredients on CDC website if you don’t already know)) i’m am niether pro (or) anti vaccine and more pro-education.
Anna commented on Dec 07 11 at 2:36 pmI am not anti vaccine, just delaying. I would be more inclined to vaccinate my son if we could give him 1 vaccine at a time. I am very concerned about pertussis, and adults can get just that 1 vaccine, but not children?? As a child I had measles, mumps, and chicken pox 3 times, I would like to spare him all those illnesses.
Teri commented on Dec 07 11 at 2:40 pmMy daughter is 4 months old. She is not currently vaccinated. When she is around 2 or 3 we will start to vaccinate her. I do believe that vaccinations help and I want her protected. I just do not want to pump all of these chemicals and drugs into her when she is at such a sensitive age.
Stefanie commented on Dec 07 11 at 3:01 pmI have friends on both side of the fence on vaccinations. My family and I all recieved the flu shot this year. One of my friends skips just about every vaccination when it is possible and or allowed including the flu shot. She is the type who always tells me how great germs are. There was a time not that long ago in the history of humans that vaccines did not exist and lets just say the human life expectancy wasn’t 75 years or better. Africans brought over as slaves taught the early European settlers how to “vaccinate.” The United States may have not exisited if it were not for the discovery of “vaccinating.” Early Americans almost lost to the British when the Brithish reintroduced small box during pre revolutionary war times. Africans taught the early Americans to take infection (pus) from the pox, cut open an unaffected person and wipe the infection into the wound. This built up the immune system against small pox. It was very affective esp. for its time but not perfect. Be thankful for modern medicine.
Katherine commented on Dec 07 11 at 3:17 pmMy spouse and I are both chemists (not saying that to brag, only that we both work in research and are moderately well read in various forms of scientific literature) and are totally planning to vaccinate once the little one comes in to this world. I am also a total earth mama planning a home birth. So yes, you can want an unmedicated home birth and still vaccinate your kids, they are not exclusive from one another as so many in the anti-vaccination camp would have you believe. I think that the vast majority of people vaccinate their kids because IT MAKES SENSE and is LOGICAL but don’t get all vocal about it BECAUSE THAT’S WHAT YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO DO (sorry about the caps, I just wanted to yell there). You don’t brag about washing your hands after going to the bathroom, why brag about vaccinating your kids? It is only the people going against the scientifically proven norm that have to yell and scream about their choices
Tara commented on Dec 07 11 at 3:19 pmI agree that it seems so many are anti-vaccine based somewhat on their own lack of disease – and not just chicken pox, but major disease like polio, etc. (because of the vaccines they received as children). I am somewhat weary of certain vaccines (namely, gardasil- i had a roomate in college who i.mmediately after the vaccine went into an autoimmune deficiancy that she still has 6 years later, and also chronic pain and other life-altering side effects), but for the most part, pro vaccinating. Most of all, I think parents should absolutely be most informed about vaccines, what they actually prevent, what their ingredients are, and what the right times are to give them, including how they may react to other vaccines given at the same time. And I’m still a little bit of a crunch (natural birth, home birth next baby, and cloth diapering, etc)
Emily commented on Dec 07 11 at 4:15 pmFunny I should read this post today. At a mom/baby “support” playgroup I belong to I mentioned that my son was not feeling himself today as he had his 6 month vaccines yesterday. The moms launched into a discussion of vaccines and as it turns out none of them vaccinate their children (one is a pediatric nitse who admits to seeing the bad effects of pertissis in young children, and another is vaccinating on a delayed schedule, which is better than never!). Another mother said, and I quote, “I vaccinated my first daughter as reccomended. Then I became more educated and my second daughter received no vaccinations.” Needless to say I really felt like she was calling me stupid for choosing to protect my child.
It’s because of children like ours that are vaccinated that so many of these unvaccinated children are healthy – we essentially create a cushion around them. We are lucky to have many of these vaccines available to us. So many less fortunate people in other countries do not have such a luxury.
vicki commented on Dec 07 11 at 4:42 pmYES. Just yes.
Heather commented on Dec 07 11 at 5:03 pmI love you, Madeline. The end. :-D
Side note: Terrified that I will give my kids pertussis, because I can’t be vaccinated due to allergies. Thank you to all of you who DO get the immunizations since I can’t!
http://shouldbethebeginning.com commented on Dec 07 11 at 5:28 pmYES! preach it, sister. this is a HUGE issue, and i think one that doesn’t fall into the, “to each his own” category, because choosing to not vaccinate your kids has major communal health implications. i hate seeing my baby get shots, it’s like getting my heart dropped in a wood-chipper, but i would never consider NOT doing it, it’s just too important. good on you, madeline!
Kerissa commented on Dec 07 11 at 6:10 pmI am one of those ones that don’t vaccinate my children. You may call me selfish, but maybe hold off on calling the 1,000 mother’s that have lost their babies to SIDS, all who received the pertussis vaccine within 7 days of their death, selfish for not vaccinating their other children. Vaccines alone are not the only cause to the decline in our health, but play a role. 90 % of all these diseases were already in a heavy and steady decline before the vaccines were actually introduced to the masses.We are trading diseases – Cancer, heart disease, neurological disorders, auto-immune disorders to skin disorders, allergies, ear infections, digestive issues and so on – all things connected to ingredients in vaccines and the other chemicals we are subject to on a daily basis. 1 in 6 kids have a neurological disorder ranging from learning disorders to Autism. And no Mercury has not been debunked. In fact 6 studies over the last few months show otherwise. And it isn’t just the mercury that is in the vaccines, but maybe look at all the other medicines that have mercury in them. They all stack on top of each other. And the scientists and doctors that are speaking out against vaccination aren’t ignoring facts, the are paying closer attention to what the data is saying. If you want the truth about vaccines, go to a source that doesn’t make anything from them. Call me stupid but I am not comfortable injecting formaldehyde, aluminum phosphates and sulfates, mercury, MSG, chick kidney cells, human serum, monkey brains and many other chemicals into my children’s bloodstream directly. And the other amazing thing, is my kids don’t get sick. Maybe a runny nose for a day in the winter and that is it. What it all comes down to is our health, what we are and aren’t putting into our bodies. And it is more than just “eating right and exercising” We have amazing access to what the body can do on it’s own given the proper nutrition and that is what is being ignored. I have been studying this topic for 4 years now, and I have yet to find any data showing me that vaccines are safe and completely do the job they say they do. It would be better if they were used the way they were created to be used – to be given only when someone HAD the disease. And remember – the creator of the live polio vaccine is the first to tell you it is the reason there is still polio cases. Atypical measles is only found in people who received the measles vaccine and is more dangerous. And those who receive the small pox vaccine and live virus swine flu vaccine are contagious for 21 days – defeats the purpose a little bit doesn’t it? But again, I am one of those that uses herbs and essential oils, natural methods to taking care of my family, we don’t get sick and enjoy our good health, where the majority of those that are vaccinated don’t. But that doesn’t mean anything to anyone I guess.
jill commented on Dec 07 11 at 6:25 pmThank you so much for posting this! I couldn’t agree more!
Jen commented on Dec 07 11 at 7:40 pmThank you for this article. I am so tired of parents who are anti-vax coming down on people who don’t subscribe to the current trendy theory that vaccines are bad.
The difference between a 70% vaccination rate and a 90% vaccination rate is an epidemic in which up to 50% of the population gets sick. While it is true that you can carry and spread a disease while vaccinated, if fewer people have the disease to begin with, fewer people are carrying it around. Consequently, fewer people get sick.
Rhogam which is given routinely to pregnant women who are RH Negative in pregnancy is loaded with mercury in the form of thimerisol. There’s no statistically significant proof that these mercury injections are harming women or their babies, but vaccines–even vaccines that are now thimerisol free–are the Big Bad Wolf.
If Mercury were the culprit, we would have seen a huge spike in Autism in the 1970′s when the MMR became a widespread vaccine. And yet, even though vaccination rates are now falling, and even though longitudinal research in Denmark where vaccines are government paid and government tracked demonstrates no correlation between the MMR and autism, it appears that we have not yet seen the top of the spike in Autism diagnosis. Autism is becoming so widely diagnosed that legislation in schools regarding who gets services are becoming stickier and children who truly need services are losing them. They are now saying that 1 in 20 children is on the Spectrum. That means Autism is now falling nicely on the normal curve and people are being diagnosed right out out of a disability status.
It couldn’t be that we are recognizing intellectual diversity that we used to not see, and now giving it a label and a package of therapy services? Or that quirky people who might not interact socially now have more options to socially interact with others (internet) and their offspring are not only quirky but have clinical needs? Somehow people view it as more likely the vaccines that show no statistical correlation to the incidence or longitudinal data.
I agree–people have never seen an epidemic. They have never been quarantined in their homes for weeks, in fear that a loved one will die Unfortunately they are starting to see their children die–in my area its in the form of Pertussis that babies are catching from their parents who haven’t kept up on their boosters.
Maybe I would have an easier time with this issue if people who don’t vaccinate would keep their kids home with every sniffle. I can’t go to the grocery store without hearing someone or their child hacking up a lung. Moms send their kids to school knowing they have strep in fear they will lose their job if they stay home with them. If we can’t reliably practice good hygiene habits with basic illnesses like rhinovirus and strep, what makes us people think they can be responsible about something that could kill my infant or my grandma?
Rebecca commented on Dec 07 11 at 7:55 pmHell yeah, a cookie fixes that little pick. As for the baby snuggles, hugs, and kisses oh and food helps him. I have 3 sons all of whom are up to date on their vaccinations. Are they sick nope never they are healthy little men and I feel safe that they are less likely to get some nasty illness that may kill them or disfigure them in some physical or mental way. Why vaccinate because you are less likely to get sick, miss school, work, and make other people sick. are you sure your studies are accurate? I mean look at the idiot who started all the BS about vaccines causing Autism! Be sure your articles are from reputable sources.
Michelle commented on Dec 07 11 at 8:25 pmPro-vac. All the way. I think the reason why people like me don’t comment on the
“anit-vac” sites or articles is that we just assume that the pseudo-science and made-up “facts” sound as ridiculous to others as they do to us, and I don’t make a habit of arguing with the idiotic.
kate commented on Dec 07 11 at 8:32 pmCompletely agree with you. Especially on the point that people are ignorant to how terrible the diseases are. We do take it for granted.
Katy E commented on Dec 07 11 at 9:20 pmThank GOD for a blogger with some good sense! Thank you, thank you, thank you! Jenny McCarthy has been incredibly detrimental to public health. There’s a documentary called “Vaccine Wars” or something like that and it gets my hackles up every single time I try to watch it all the way through.
Kellan commented on Dec 07 11 at 9:24 pmI’m on the anti-vaccination side…but not because I don’t believe in protecting my children – because I don’t believe the vaccinations used today are as safe as we are told. I’ve personally met a vaccine injured child, have seen all the work and switching around of foods that has to be done for that child’s safety and well-being. All the hurdles, research, and loops to be jumped through are astonishing. SIDS has struck my family twice, which scares me. I REFUSE to allow my kids to have a blanket (not even an afghan) over their faces and be unsupervised – it makes me nervous even *with* supervision! Look on the doctor’s insert next time you get your child updated on his or her shots…SIDS is listed as a possibility.
There’s an article I’d like to share with everyone, and y’all can feel free to pick it apart, but before I provide the link, here a few highlights:
Mercury in the form of thimerosal is listed as an ingredient.
Brain damage that leads to autism and other disorders CAN be caused by vaccines – they autopsied some infants and found damage in the brain (I believe it was the brain stems, specifically).
Human serum = aborted fetal (baby) cells.
Vaccine-related deaths are often classified as something else, as you’ll see is the case with many of the infants the article speaks of.http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3170075/
I’m not uneducated, selfish, or pushing my ideas/opinions/beliefs on y’all. Just offering this as a different aspect of the discussion. It’s up to you what you do with it, just as it’s up to me to choose not to give my daughter (and, unless they do a drastic revamping of the vaccines to make them truly safe, my future children) something I honestly believe has a greater potential to harm her than the disease/illness it minimizes her chances of getting.
On an interesting note: check out who paid for the research to be done.
Enjoy, fellow commentors.
RJMNB commented on Dec 07 11 at 10:41 pmSome people might consider me borderline crunchy (although if they knew me better, they would also realize I love cheap beer, Facebook and I faithfully recycle my pop cans just for the money!) I use cloth diapers. I breastfeed. I make my babies food. I have a garden in my backyard. I do these things because I think they are best for my family. And never did I ever consider not vaccinating my baby!
In my pre-babe life, I was a kindergarten teacher, and in my pre-kindergarten teaching days, I worked for FSCD (Family Service for Children with Disabilities) and I have been to many oh many OH MANY a conference regarding children with autism. And guess what, folks? The man who did the study linking vaccines to autism admitted that he MADE THAT UP. That’s right, MADE THAT UP. So now we are all supposed to freak out because some man DIDN’T prove that vaccines cause autism? Right.
In my last year teaching, we had a chicken pox outbreak in our school. Of the 52 kids I taught, almost a quarter of them had never been vaccinated. What?! Why?! Since I was all fatted up and pregnant, surrounded by wee ones contagious with the pox, my principal kept sending me home JUST IN CASE something happened and it harmed my baby. Were the odds of me contracting chicken pox as an adult who has already had it slim? You bet. But could it happen? Yep. And wouldn’t I feel like a douche for not doing EVERYTHING I could to prevent it.Good for you for posting this blog.
Sara commented on Dec 08 11 at 10:42 amI vaccinated my son, but I had to do a lot of research and thinking about it before I did and I still worried about it afterwards. I think a lot of the fear of vaccines comes from not only the chemicals and nasty things that are in the vaccines, but also the lack of trust in the government and the data. Even if you go by the science, one may wonder if the studies are long-ranging, broad enough, or are the results skewed? Most medical studies are funded by companies that have a financial interest in the results. For me, I also worry about all the new information coming out that changes how we do things (the “back to sleep” campaign, etc). What will learn about the effect of vaccines later? And you can’t discount the aversion to sticking your tiny babe with up to 6 shots in one visit. Causing your child pain is very difficult, especially when you don’t ever see the diseases you’re supposed to be protecting them against. It seems like a very unlikely, far-off scenario vs. your infant screaming in pain here and now. I understand both sides.
chelsey commented on Dec 09 11 at 1:12 amKerissa and Kellan, thanks for being so strong and for being the only ones to put an anti-vaccine voice on this thread. It’s people like you that remind me of why I made my choice not to vaccinate my son, and build my confidence in my decision. and like you, i have seen all the other 6 months old who have been vaccinated be CONSTANTLY sick with something or another, and my son had one runny nose for 2 days….
Kristen commented on Dec 09 11 at 4:24 pmThank you for posting this article. As a pediatric nurse and a mother I could not agree more. I’ve taken care of children who have nearly lost their lives because of an illness that could have been prevented by a vaccination. I’ve seen the look in a mother’s eyes when the doctors told her that her child was sick with something that could have been prevented. I couldn’t live with that guilt. I want not only what’s best for my children – but for those around them as well.
Ashley C. commented on Dec 09 11 at 4:28 pmVaccines are a tough one for me. My daughter, who is my first baby, has gotten all the vaccines so far (she’s 14 months). After every vaccination, she was a little clingy, pretty sleepy, but for the most part, there were no real side effects. When she went in for her 12 month check up though, she got her MMR, her varicella (chickenpox) and her Hep B. Almost exactly a week later, she was sicker than a dog. Luckily, her fever never rose above 103, but for 3 or 4 days, I did nothing but rock her and watch movies. She was so miserable. No matter what the doctors kept telling me, I know that it was a side effect from the vaccines. My only concern with vaccines is that doctors try to give them too many at once. I wish they would spread them out so that those poor little bodies aren’t exposed to so much so fast. Other than that, I think vaccines are a good thing that protect against illness.
Kayla commented on Dec 09 11 at 6:44 pmI am vehemently pro-vaccination. The anti movement drives me INSANE. I know a girl who lost her 6 week old baby to pertussis because he was too young to receive the vaccine. He got it from a child whose mother opted to not vaccinate. Argh.
Yes, there are dangers with vaccines. But those dangers are FAR less than the positive effects. We’re too young to remember thousands of children dying every year from polio, measles, etc. but it used to be a serious problem. Now it’s not. And that’s because of vaccines.
Nicole commented on Dec 09 11 at 7:27 pmI mostly read your style blog, but I clicked on this link with joy to see that you had written it.
I always knew I liked you ;) Fight the good fight.
Abbie commented on Dec 10 11 at 9:34 pmGlad to hear this article. I’m in the vaccinate camp, but with some stipulations. I’m a fan of the Dr. Sears family, and I highly recommend The Vaccine Book. He is a proponent of full vaccinations, but spacing them out. Instead of shots for 4-5 things at 2 months and again at 4 months, etc., he recommends splitting 2 months shots up between the 2 month appointment and an added 3 month appointment, ditto for the following shots. His reasoning is this: many shots include amounts of aluminum as it makes the vaccines work better. However, aluminum has been shown to cause brain damage when given in large doses to very young infants whose systems don’t get rid of it quickly. And aluminum isn’t great for adults better. So by spacing out the shots a bit, the amount of aluminum at one time is spread out, so that babies are better able to get it out of their systems. Here’s Dr. Sears’ article for those interested: http://www.askdrsears.com/topics/vaccines/vaccine-faqs
Brittany commented on Dec 12 11 at 9:17 pmDear Kerissa and Kellan and Chelsey,
Since arguing with you would be like arguing with someone who is trying to tell you they sky is purple I will just say this…YOU ARE IDIOTS. Obviously you three are completely uneducated. At least be wise enough to keep your kids away from others.
Meghann commented on Dec 15 11 at 5:33 pmGREAT article. I also read your style blog, and just happened to click on this today. I’ve read so many articles that are anti-vaccine, and some of the mothers say such outrageous things, such as “Doctors don’t know everything” or “You know better than your doctor what to do with your child.” What a bunch of bologna. I’d like to hear you say that next time your child breaks his leg. Are you going to set it yourself? No? That’s weird. Why not? Oh, I guess it’s because you aren’t REALLY an expert in all things pertaining to health and well being, right? I suppose you will want to defer to the people that have spent years and years learning about the human body…right? My husband is an MD, and we often talk about this. We live in a time in history that is so rich with medical information and research, and ALL of it points to vaccines being absolutely vital to the well being of our society at large. I actually feel kind of embarassed for the women that spout off anti-vaccine stuff. They just seem so ignorant. Poor things.
Sara commented on Dec 22 11 at 4:05 pmThank you so much for this article! One thing I’ve really struggled with is that fact that most people my age (early 30s) were vaccinated with very little issue. My sister in law has chosen not to vaccinate her children. There was a measles outbreak at the school they attend and she was very lucky that her kids didn’t get it. My first baby is due in a couple weeks and my husband and I plan on the normal vaccinations, however, I’m very nervous about having my baby around my unvaccinated nieces and nephews until she’s old enough to be fully vaccinated. I think part of the reason this is such a sensitive topic is that parent’s that don’t vaccinate their kids don’t just risk their own children’s health, but those around them that are too young to be vaccinated or who have compromised immune systems.
Naomi commented on Jan 01 12 at 10:45 pmWow @Brittany, what a productive comment. Both Kerissa and Kellan provided evidence that they did research the topic of vaccines and made their choices based on what they discovered. I did the same. I chose to wait until my son was over 2 to vaccinate.
Naomi commented on Jan 01 12 at 10:55 pmP.S. Kellan’s article is from the NIH, about as peer-reviewed and reputable as it gets, folks.
Lex commented on Jan 01 12 at 11:24 pmIf everyone would just vaccinate there children there would not be babies dying because there parents are not vaccinating them!!! There is a reason why they were created & we are strongly urged to do so!!! It isnt just for medical companies to make money…It is so our children our safe & the link between autistic children and vaccines is only because they do a check list at the 18 month check up which just happens to be at the same time they administer the MMR vaccine….The check list is to show if your child is doing certain actions or not…..These vaccines were created to PROTECT children not harm them…..we are all fine & we were all vaccinated…..& when we were vaccinated there was more mercury in the vaccines than there is now……As much as I dont enjoy my baby getting shots I’d rather her be as protected as possible from these diseases that could potentially kill your baby…..the choice is your own but I strongly feel it is for the good of your baby to protect them as much as possible!!! This is my opinion on the subject…..
Carrie Marshall commented on Jan 01 12 at 11:37 pmFirst of all, do your research. Not all parents who have seen vaccines destroy their child can be wrong. I watched it happen. How do you know that an unvaccinated child is the “one” who is spreading the disease? Do you even know what is in the shots you are giving your children? How bout parts of human cells from aborted babies? Or formaldehyde? Oh, what about the parents that have lost their children by death after a vaccination? Why would they have a place to report these incidents if they did not really happen? Also, we live in a drug world here in America…do you really think they are going to slice their own life line by telling you the dangers or ingredients?
Jessica commented on Jan 02 12 at 12:25 amI am completely pro-vaccination. While I was pregnant with baby boy #2, there was a pertussis outbreak in our county. At least one newborn died as a result. I made sure my vaccinations were up to date and told my husband and anyone else who wanted to be near my baby in the first two months to get vaccinated (don’t think they all listened though). Strange as it may sound, I felt relief when my baby was finally old enough to receive his first round of vaccines. It felt good to know he had that bit of protection.
Rebecca commented on Jan 02 12 at 10:34 amComing up on 4 month shots (1/10/12). I don’t want my little Sweet Pea getting any serious illnesses this head clod is more than enough for us.
Lisa commented on Jan 04 12 at 2:09 pmKerissa and Kellan and Chelsey:
Do you realize by not getting your kids vaccinated you are endangering others who do the same and the others out there that can’t get certain vaccines because of medical conditions? The people that can’t get certain vaccines because of medical conditions depend on the “rest of us” to get them.Measles Resurgence Tied To Parents’ Vaccine Fears
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=125570056&ps=rs
Health officials say there are growing pockets of vaccine refusers in communities across the land. The numbers are not great. But these pockets of “intentionally unvaccinated” children give the virus more opportunities to spread when it does arrive.Lancet Retracts Study Tying Vaccine to Autism
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748704022804575041212437364420.html
“With the retraction, the hypothesis that he put forward has been debunked,” said Dr. Poland.And don’t get me started about Jenny McCarthy…
New Report Says: Jenny McCarthy’s Son May Not Have Had Autism After All
http://www.hollywoodlife.com/2010/02/26/jenny-mccarthy-says-her-son-evan-never-had-autism/Make your so called “educated” decisions but you are knowingly endangering others for your selfish decision to not vaccinate. Nothing is ever 100% safe and the benefits far out weigh the risks.
Lisa commented on Jan 08 12 at 12:44 amWhether you are pro-vaccine or not I think this is a really great article that covers both sides & why parents need to be better educated before their baby is born. http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=straight-talk-about-vaccination&offset=2
You are knowingly putting others in danger if you don’t vaccinate…plain and simple.
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