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I’ll Take the Left Side, Please

Posted by madelinepetersen on October 31st, 2011 at 6:11 pm

photo 11 300x300 Ill Take the Left Side, PleaseOk, it’s time to admit something. Tate totally prefers the left side. I noticed it months ago, but thought it might pass. He will certainly nurse on the right side, but if he is at all tired or fussy, he will only take the left. And I definitely can’t nurse him on the right before he goes to bed — he won’t have it. The real question is, why do I keep trying? Whenever I do try it, Tate will squirm and fuss and Steve will say, “You know what he wants. Just feed him on the left already.”

I can generally get him to take the right in the night when he’s all sorts of drowsy, or if I have already started the feeding on the left. I continue to try to make sure that he takes the right, even if it’s just for a few minutes, because I really don’t want to get lopsided or have my supply affected. So far, I think I look symmetrical, but am quite sure that my left is producing more than the right. I don’t know what kind of issues might arise later, or what is causing him to have a preference.

Did your baby have a preferred side? Did you notice any effects in your size or supply? Did it ever go away? I would love to hear about it!

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13 Comments

It took about 4 months before my son let up on his loud opinions about his preferred breast. He still, at 11 months, will nurse longer on the left and without as much letting go to be distracted, but he doesn’t fight about it like he did when he was tiny. It affected my supply in the first few months (I could pump about 8 to 10 on the left and 3 or 4 on the right), but I never became lopsided (or if I did, I was too tired to notice LOL). The supply equaled out more when he got over his fussiness about it.

Julie commented on Oct 31 11 at 6:22 pm

Apparently I used to tell my mom one side tasted like chocolate milk and one side was white milk (yes she nursed for quite a while.) I nursed from both but just had a favorite. I have two younger sisters who had didn’t have such strong preferences. Just different people I guess!

Charity commented on Oct 31 11 at 7:43 pm

When my daughter was a month and a half, I had some pretty bad clogged ducts which turned into mastitis on my right side, and it affected my supply pretty badly. By the time that got under control, my daughter had formed a definite preference for my left side. I make sure to offer it to her whenever we nurse, but she doesn’t give it much of a chance. So I usually give up and switch her to the left more quickly than I should. I’m kind of curious to see how much more my left side produces, but I haven’t pumped yet to see.

Shelagh commented on Oct 31 11 at 8:24 pm

My son Joe absolutely prefers the left side. He’ll take the right side, but I’ve noticed that whenever I express milk, I tend to get a lot more from the left over the right. I’ve always wondered if it was because I was left-handed and maybe I was doing something to encourage him to choose one side over the other. So weird!

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Jenny @ Practically Perfect... commented on Oct 31 11 at 9:07 pm

Another lefty here. My 8 month old greatly prefers the left side and even fussed on the right in his first few days of life. It didn’t help matters when I got mastitis on the left and that killed my supply on the left. We’ve kept at it though and Sometimes he will hang with the left and sometimes he protests it. when I pump I usually get about 1/2 of the amt I pump on the right. It works though!

Libby commented on Oct 31 11 at 9:38 pm

Arlo went through this too! Two tricks – one, take him to see a pediatric chiropractor – it made an immediate difference for our little guy. Also, try the football hold to “trick” him into thinking you’re right breast is the left.

And when I wrote about this, others shared with me that your boobs will become two different sizes if it keeps up – yikes! I had no idea that could happen!

MelissaEJordan commented on Oct 31 11 at 9:46 pm

Yup, she has preferred the left from day 1! I do have a flat nipple on the right, which is probably why, so I often wear a nipple shield to her her to feed on the right. My supply is often larger on the left, but depends on time I’d day–and so does my lopsidedness! It isn’t too noticeable though.

Jen commented on Nov 01 11 at 2:38 am

Hmm, was my baby the only one to prefer the RIGHT side? All lefty comments above mine! I didn’t ever notice a supply difference when pumping, and she certainly would take the other side, but she would linger and savor and just. hang out. forever. on the right side.

Hollie commented on Nov 01 11 at 10:27 am

YES! My son loves the right side, the left is always a fight. This has been the case for all 14 weeks of his little life, so now I have a left boob that produces about HALF what the right does (I pump at work, so I know), and is a full cup size smaller than my right. AWESOME. My son will take the left only, like you said, if he’s too conked out to know the difference, but even then he occasionally just wakes up and screams at my left nipple. Babies are so weird. So are boobs, for that matter.

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http://shouldbethebeginning.com commented on Nov 01 11 at 3:07 pm

My son loves the left side, hates the right. However, the right side is the one that produces more. In an average 20 minute pumping session I get 5 oz from the right side and barely 3 from the left (if I’ve nursed him on the left side within 3 hours I’ll get barely an ounce or two from that side, with the right side it matters much less whether I’ve nursed recently).

I think my right side had an overactive let down at first and he developed a preference that has stuck. However, the right side clearly also has more/bigger milk ducts, so it produces/stores more. As a working mom, I’ve found the happy balance by nursing him mostly from the left as he prefers and pumping more from the right. He’s happier this way and I get more milk each pump session.

Heidi commented on Nov 01 11 at 3:20 pm

My son has a preference for the right, which peaked around 5-8 weeks, when he would go days at a time completely refusing to eat on the left at all. He is almost 4 months now and will still go longer on the right, but things have finally evened back out. I did the same thing with him – just kept offering the less preferred side until one day he didn’t fight it so much.

Fran commented on Nov 01 11 at 8:31 pm

My daughter prefers the left side. I got mastitis on the right when she was 6 weeks old, i think it didn’t help… But i usually get her to take both sides, even if i have to alternate a lot during a feeding.

Maude commented on Nov 01 11 at 11:28 pm

My six month old will only nurse on my left side as well. She started refusing my right side at about 4 months. I can occasionally get her to nurse, but only if she’s in the football hold position. I have no idea what happened. I now pump my right side 6-8 times a day to keep from losing my milk on my right side.

Erin M commented on Nov 02 11 at 3:41 pm

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