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Woah Time, Slow Down A Little

Posted by holly whitney on October 30th, 2011 at 9:37 pm
2011 10 30 13 14 41 319 Woah Time, Slow Down A Little

Contemplating the passage of time, perhaps?

Remember how I said a couple of weeks ago that I felt like we were starting to find our new “normal”?

I lied.

I don’t know what it is but it feels like I’m just treading water these days. The hours are flying by. Days are running together and are here and gone before I know it.

How has it been eight weeks already?

Shouldn’t I have it more together at this point?

What does that even mean?

My to-do list is not getting done. There are things on that list that have been there for weeks. My inbox needs attention. There are things that I need to take care of before I return to work next month.

I have good intentions of taking care of all of it.

Really I do.

Instead I sleep just a little longer in the morning to make up for the lack of it throughout the night. I snuggle with the baby for a few extra minutes and tell myself I’ll get the other stuff done later.

Next thing I know later has come and gone.

And suddenly it’s tomorrow.

 

 Woah Time, Slow Down A Little

2 Comments

I gave up on ‘together’ after the first 2 weeks. It was just to have a fed and clean baby at the end of the day and then we’d see where tomorrow would take us.

Koreen commented on Oct 30 11 at 9:59 pm

thank you for posting this. i just had my first “i don’t know how i’m gonna make it through this” night and this morning feel like a failure. i think you are right about taking it day by day and shifting your expectations from what you think you should be doing vs. what can actually be done.

maggie commented on Oct 31 11 at 1:08 pm

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