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I’m a Fashion Inept Momma
I know most people go gaga for baby clothes. Little things are super cute! How can you not smile at a mini pair of Chuck Taylors or tiny cheerleader outfits for your favorite team
?
But for as much as I like these things I don’t get into them.
Part of me is very happy I don’t have a baby girl. Not becuase I don’t like girls, I mean I AM a girl, but becuase I’m not sure how I would deal with the clothes. Everyone I know that has a girl seems obsessed with clothing decisions. The cute dresses. The hairbands. The tights.. oh how I do LOVE little girl tights! But honestly, I really could care less about all those things.
I’ve never been much into fashion. I dress VERY casually and actually feel uncomfortable in dresses. My favorite items are functional and easy. If I could wear jeans, a T and a pair of birks everyday for the rest of my life, I’d be happy.
That’s probably why my absolute favorite baby outfit is a simple white onsie accented by a pair of cute white socks…

That’s it.
That’s all.
Am I the only fashion inept momma out there? What’s your favorite baby outfit?
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18 Comments
Alysa (InspiredRD) commented on May 04 11 at 11:07 amI am totally with you! I actually started having anxiety the minute I found out I was having a girl. I can’t even fix my own hair, how am I supposed to fix my little girl’s hair??? I am happy to report that while she dresses pretty casual most of the time, I do enjoy dressing her up sometimes. I guess that part just came out of my naturally even though I didn’t think it would be there :)
P.S. He is sooooo cute!!
Lauren commented on May 04 11 at 11:56 amAs the daughter of a fashion-inept mother, I have a few words of advice:
1. don’t ever try to do your daughter’s hair, other than very simply
2. don’t let your daughter do her own hair until she’s old enough not to get it so tangled in a brush that the brush has to be cut out (true story)
3. this might mean keeping her hair quite short
4. if it’s been a while between hair cuts and the hair is getting unruly, just go with it. do NOT, repeat NOT, try to cut her bangs on your own. please. (this rule is based on a tragically true story)I imagine in boy-land things are a little simpler, but I’m of the opinion that cute babies don’t need cutesy clothes. They’ve got enough of that going on already.
tara commented on May 04 11 at 1:55 pmthere aren’t any cute boy clothes unless you can spend a ton of money, so my favorite outfit for my baby is a solid onesie and babylegs leggings in the blue and green stripes. and i like how his hair is free and crazy looking. also, when we are home i like him in just a diaper, cause i feel like al little boy should always be just naked. haha.
mattie commented on May 04 11 at 1:56 pmi like simple too…like, why should i be worrying about what accessories to put on my two-year-old boy when it will just get ruined anyway. tried a tie for easter sunday and it was trashed in less than two hours.
i’m pregnant with a girl and i’m freaking out. all the clothing options are so overwhelming, so i have bought exactly three things. i don’t even want to think about it. she’ll probably be hanging out in white onesies for the first little while as well, but at least she’ll look like a baby and not a teeny bopper trapped in a newborn’s body! i wouldn’t say i’m fashion inept per se, but i definitely don’t care enough to spend all my money on clothes that will be ruined and grown out of very quickly.
Abby commented on May 04 11 at 2:01 pmI think there is NOTHING cuter than a baby in a cloth diaper. That is it. But with girl number 2 on the way let me tell you…..the clothes can be overwhelmming!
sarah commented on May 04 11 at 2:49 pmI have twin girls and I will be honest I am ONE OF THOSE that buys them all the “cute” clothes… it’s bad and one of the reasons I work! LOL :) I LOVE the photo of the Bean above… too cute!
Jessica commented on May 04 11 at 2:54 pmWell, for starters, boys get the short end of the stick when it comes to fashion. It is SO hard to find “NICE” outfits ( ie: church worthy) without spending an arm and a leg. That being said….
Onesies ROCK!! That is pretty much what Man Cub wore his first summer. He had this inane sense of timing. The minute I got him dressed up for church/pictures/ u-name it, he would ERUPT! Onsies are a heck of alot simpler to change, wash and pack. Babies are naturally cute. Who needs a flashy outfit?
Melissa commented on May 04 11 at 2:59 pmLOL. I don’t blame you … dress your babies however you want with no guilt at all. I doesn’t reflect on your ability to mother either way!
I’m one of those ga-ga for baby clothes mamas and I dress Maya in headbands because at four months, she’s practically bald and otherwise gets mistaken for a boy!! So I love it and have fun carefully picking out her outfits and dolling her up for daycare … which people tease me for, but it makes me happy to do it. I might not always feel this way!! But I hope it doesn’t reflect poorly on me that I DO doll her up, either, ya know?
Renda commented on May 04 11 at 3:20 pmI have a boy and I have a girl.
The boy was the first and easy for me. Onesies, shorts and a cute shirt, and just whatever. My daughter wore lots of his hand me downs as well as the ubiquitous sweel little dresses with matching panties. She didn’t have hair until she was four. She wouldn’t wear a head band or a hat and since she looked just like her brother at that age, I made sure to write on pics the year/the child so we wouldn’t be terribly confused.
But it is okay that I am fashion inept because she is fashion “ept.” As soon as she could, she told me no and she picked out what she wanted. If we both had opinions, it would be bad. We were shopping for clothes once when she was about four. There was an outfit I adored. I asked her, “If I buy this, will you wear it.” She said a sweet but firm “No.” The saleslady was most aghast (see your previous post about unwanted baby advice) that I wouldn’t buy it and make her wear it. What is the point of that. She is 12 now and still has definite ideas. But she “lets” me pick out what she wears for big family events, her older brother’s high school graduation, Thanksgiving, family pics; and you know what, I am okay with that. She also is not into the hoochie mama clothes, the tight, more revealing shorts/shirts/pants, so I feel no need to step in and advise. For us, it works. YMMV
Joni commented on May 04 11 at 3:21 pmI have four kids. Two boys. Two girls. Yes, I probably do fuss the girls clothes more than the boys (though my oldest daughter is 16 so mostly I just fuss her not wearing too short shorts). My youngest babe is 7 months and she’s mostly in a cloth diaper though I do sew dresses for her and enjoy that I dont feel like she needs to be “dressed” up all the time.
Missy commented on May 04 11 at 4:32 pmI have my 2 girls and I can say with certainty that they are always, and always will be, much better dressed than me! I put much more effort into their clothes than I do mine… I LOVE all of the coordinating and cutesie-ness! It’s getting to be a challenge now that my independent 4-year-old wants to pick out her own clothes and we can have knock-down-drag-out fights about shoes that match or not. I can’t stand letting her go in public wearing some of the things she picks out. Although with the baby, I do LOVE warm weather when I can just have her in a onesie… just for the EASE of diaper changes!!! No pants to wrangle with, or sleepers to shove her legs (which still seem to prefer to scrunch up like in the womb) into… Oh, and the hair!!! I don’t know what I will do when the little one gets older and I will have TWO little heads of hair to style!!! Hubby better learn to ponytail and braid, stat! :-)
Oh, and as a side note… I can’t believe how BIG Evan looks!!!
Mindy commented on May 04 11 at 5:18 pmSimple…classic…LOVE IT! Notice most fashion designers are actually very simply dressed? They know what’s up! They want comfort, too.
BTW he is looking more and more like Ryan every day!
Josie commented on May 04 11 at 5:34 pmI have the best of both worlds, my daughter us 4 and has always been a girly girl probably because she was the first and got every cute baby outfit from everyone. She now picks her clothes out for preschool with matching accessories and dont don’t forget about the shoes LOL my boy in the other he’s all boy and can be rough so I keep his clothing simple. I’ve come to realize boys are a whole different species than girls LOL
Deb commented on May 04 11 at 9:43 pmMy kids are 8 and 10, it’s easy….t shirt underwear.. No shirts in the summer…but as babies they loved just a once, unless we went somewhere.
Kate commented on May 04 11 at 11:52 pmHe has a very gentle, wise look about him. Your son is beautiful (yes, beautiful.. I’m not into gender-specificity…)
Laura Loving Life commented on May 05 11 at 9:24 amEvan looks totally content in his whites. What a handsome boy!
Debby commented on May 05 11 at 1:27 pmI strongly believe kids should dress like kids. My 3 year old girl wears whatever she wants (which often doesn’t match) and usually includes knit pants and a random t-shirt from the second hand shop. Everything I buy for her is washable. There is no sense in dressing little girls up like china dolls. This Easter I watched, with great amusement, as my sister-in-law tried to keep a frilly, non-cotton, overdone, fancy toddler Easter dress clean while her 2 year old ate chocolate cake in it. Why?!
Sabrina commented on May 07 11 at 3:39 pmLauren you have some very good rules to live by.
I’m a mother of two baby girls and I have to tell you I’m always buying them clothing. Its crazy I change their clothing like 2 or 3 times a day and I make my older daughter sit still for a half hour to get her brushed if we have to leave the house. I have OCD when it comes to dressing my little girls.
I think alot of moms are like this with their daughters :)
At least I hope I’m not the only crazy mom out there :)
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