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Oh, The Places You’ll Nurse (Day Seven)
Hey, my boobs have seen a lot of action in a lot of interesting places this week, how about yours?
I have to tell you, I feel as though I’ve reached a certain level of boob dexterity that I did not know existed to a flat-chested girl like myself. Black Belt Nurser! Do you think that’s a real thing? If not, can I be one anyway? Your boobs don’t wear belts, is the problem, but does that matter?
Together, Huck and I have nursed sans cover: in the mother’s lounge at church, at a Borders Cafe, at The Metropolitan Museum of Art, at a hair appointment, on the C train, on the B train, at Riverside Park (twice), during play group, at Girls’ Night (is it really Girls’ Night if I bring my baby? Deep thoughts), on a Central Park park bench at dusk, in a cab, in a Starbucks on the Lower East Side, on a stoop on Prince Street in SoHo, while shopping at Anthropologie, in Sacrament Meeting in the Chapel at church, and, most awkwardly of all, in my living room front of my brother-in-law. Hooray! (Am I never home? Or does my kid just eat a lot?)
At this point, nursing in public without a covering is not a big deal to me. I don’t even give it a second thought. Hungry? Have a boob! Fussy? BOOB. Tired? BOOB. Wham-bam-THANK-YOU-MA’AM. And the good news is, I’ve had enough practice discreetly latching Huck on and off this week that I could probably nurse in front of the Pope without blushing. Don’t quote me on that, though.
I have to say, the best part of this experiment has been the support and solidarity from other nursing mamas on the Internet. At the beginning of the week, I challenged my blog readers to send me photos of themselves nursing for this post. And boy, did they! It actually moved me to tears! Their photos (and more) after the jump.
Get ready for a whole lot of amazing women feeding their babies!
(I lost the source for this one, and it is killing me! Is this you?)

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Would you look at all these rockstar mamas? Does my heart good, is what!
Public nursing has taught me to respect myself, my body, and my baby enough to do what is right for us regardless of what I fear others may be thinking. Period. That was my goal through this experiment all along. And you know what? What is right for us may not be what is right for someone else. Ain’t life grand?
You may be asking yourself, what now? Should Natalie write a book? Should she go on Oprah to share her experiences? Perhaps she should attempt nursing on Mars? Or on some other zero-gravity environment? Will she be going back to the boob cape now that her week of public breastfeeding is over?
Well. Let’s just say, that Bebe Au Lait cover will make a great superhero cape for Huck someday. Until then, it’s nice to have some extra room in my diaper bag.
FREE YOUR BOOBS, FREE YOUR BABIES! Say it with me now!
(Please feel free to link to your nursing photos in the comments!)
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Lucky commented on Apr 26 11 at 12:22 amCongrats! I’ve always been too lazy to cover up, plus it makes my MIL crazy, which is always a bonus for me!
Emily commented on Apr 26 11 at 12:38 amThis is so beautiful. Such a sweet, natural, absolutely amazing thing. We nursing mamas are so lucky.
Becca commented on Apr 26 11 at 12:45 amFirst off, I want to say that I’m a big fan of yours! I love your sense of humor, your down-to-earth-ness, your creativity, your love of life, your refreshing perspectives. Second off, I wanna say that this makes me miss breastfeeding SOOO badly! My little guy was born very prematurely, weighing 2.5 lbs at birth & was in the NICU, fed through a feeding tube his first couple of months of life. His first time eating, he got 1 cc, which is the equivalent of 1/5th of a teaspoon – imagine how tiny of an amount that is! Oh, the memories, we would just celebrate every time the doctors allowed him to have 1 cc more! By the end of his first week, he was up to 3 cc’s (3/5ths of a teaspoon) and slowly got more and more until he was up to 45 cc’s (1.5 oz) by the time he was able to be discharged – (still 1.5 oz at one feeding for a 2-month old is still not a lot!). I faithfully pumped that entire time he was in the hospital using the pump they had in his room & froze all the extra milk. When he was able to come home, I had 2 GIANT freezer bags full of boob milk, i thought would last til he was 2! Anyway, breastfeeding wasn’t without it’s trials…even at 4.5 lbs, the mouth on that little munchkin was TINY & it was a lot of work for him to open it big enough to fit around his mama’s boobies. But, we were learning. Sadly, my pump at home was garbage & my baby was still eating such tiny amounts (plus he had to have high calorie formula bottles 4 times per day because he couldn’t get up to 5 lbs.), so I started losing my milk supply until I was dried up. When I finally realized this was happening, I desperately pumped/breastfed around the clock for 3 days until my nipples bled and I still had no food for the little guy. After several days of bawling, I relented and made the decision to switch to only bottles. Sadly, my freezer supply didn’t last as long as I had hoped, so at 7 months old, he is now entirely bottle fed. Happy to report, however, that he is now 13.5 pounds & growing everyday! I know we still have a special bond (much thanks to kangaroo time everyday for his first 3 months of life and the breastfeeding time that we did get), but seeing your updates about your adventures with breastfeeding make me miss it sooo much! You & Huck enjoy an extra special boobie dinner & bonding session for me and my little guy, ok?
j commented on Apr 26 11 at 1:38 amThanks Natalie! I’m found here: gregandjessolsen.blogspot.com. Jessica
O commented on Apr 26 11 at 2:30 amDiscreetly.
tara commented on Apr 26 11 at 3:33 amlove how this all went down! Mine’s the milk-drunk BYU redhead… Love him! Picturemywords.blogspot.com
Laura commented on Apr 26 11 at 9:15 amThat’s flux! poemsandnovels.blogspot.com
em commented on Apr 26 11 at 10:01 amPlease share how you did it on the train! That’s my biggest worry right now with my 4 month old–what could I do if I were on the subway with her and she had a big meltdown and needed to eat?
Carina commented on Apr 26 11 at 10:17 amI LOVE the tandem pictures! Way to go mamas!
EM–you just have to think: people see way, way, way, way, way more awful things on the subway than a mama feeding her baby. You can do it!
Nichole commented on Apr 26 11 at 10:23 amI had to pump exclusively with my first. Attempting actual feeding at the breast is what I most look forward to with my next baby. And I will definitely have to try your experiment. Go you for having the guts to rouse such a call to arms. . . er, boobs!
Anna C commented on Apr 26 11 at 11:51 amhahaha love it! the strangest place i’ve nursed was probably while shopping at a gap outlet… not in the dressing room, in the store. other contenders: eating a cinnamon roll at ikea, in a mall hallway, several times on a plane/in an airport… but some of those times i used a cover. on a plane, i found it was most comfortable and least dramatic to wear a big soft scarf that could be over the boob. it also made tucking the boob back in–the most challenging part of public nursing–much easier. have you ever been at home and you forgot to put your boob back in your bra/shirt? cause i did, several times.
Rhonda commented on Apr 26 11 at 2:04 pmReading these posts make me long for another baby even more (if that is possible)…I love the nursing pictures and I hope that soon (let’s say about 10 months from now?) that I can be posting these pictures.
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bethany actually commented on Apr 26 11 at 2:27 pmI love this! I’ve been an uncovered breastfeeder since my first daughter was tiny. She looooooved to nurse and if I had sat down and covered up every time she wanted to nurse I would have the first year of her life swaddled in blankets and sitting still. ;-) My second daughter isn’t quite as voracious a nurser, but I have an older kid to keep up with so we often nurse on the go. And it’s a good thing I never bothered to cover up with my older daughter because my younger one has hated being covered up while nursing since birth.
Maggie May commented on Apr 26 11 at 3:54 pmThe pic you lost the source of IS me :) Maggie May from http://www.poemsandnovels.blogspot.com
Awesome post!!! I love being included with all these nursing mommas.
Maggie May commented on Apr 26 11 at 3:57 pmI forgot to include my baby, Ever Elizabeth. She wants credit for busting a nursing move in public, too ;)
elizabeth commented on Apr 26 11 at 4:46 pmmy nursing days are behind me, and it makes me cry if i think too long about it. it was so touching to see all these photos—good for everyone. my trick for public nursing sans cover was to look out and around–most people never even noticed. sigh. i miss it.
Rebecca commented on Apr 26 11 at 4:51 pmThis is so beautiful. Thanks for sharing.
noneyabiz commented on Apr 26 11 at 6:16 pmYou people got some serious issues! Just because you can do something doesn’t mean you should do it. In sacrament meeting? Really? Would you do that if the prophet or Jesus himself were sitting on the stand or better yet, right next to you? When there are others around its just the polite thing to do. Remember that there are preteen and teenage boys that get off on seeing the slightest peek of a boob. They get bombarded with enough smut. The last thing they need is some prideful “Girl-Power” women out there flashing their boobs just to make point. Are there some public places where it doesn’t matter much? Sure. Are there other places where some discretion should be used (like Sacrament meeting)? Absolutely.
SouthernMan commented on Apr 26 11 at 10:08 pmNat, been following you this week, and I have to say, I love a courageous nursing woman. More power to you, not that you need any more. My wife nursed 7 children, My 3 grown daughters and daughters-in-law have nursed 9 little ones so far. So I might not be that creepy older gentleman after all, to comment on a baby/nursing blog. Today I have to say, you have taken over as my favorite mommy author. I love your spirit and voice. Keep it up, I will be watching.
leigh commented on Apr 26 11 at 10:50 pmi am so honored to be included in this rockin’ group of mamas :)
thank you so much for the support, validation, and encouragement, natalie!
Stephanie Precourt commented on Apr 27 11 at 10:28 amLove all of these. I have quite a few on my blog but this is a good more recent one. http://www.adventuresinbabywearing.com/2011/01/breastfeeding-toddler.html
Steph
LK commented on Apr 27 11 at 11:56 amYeah, I suspect that Jesus wouldn’t have cared much if he were sitting next to a nursing mother. Nursing a baby isn’t “smut” and maybe if teenage boys were exposed to nursing mothers more and people didn’t make such a big deal about it, they wouldn’t get worked up about it either. It’s you who has serious issues, Noneyabiz. Keep it up Natalie! You’re awesome.
tara commented on Apr 27 11 at 12:16 pmUh, yeah, I’d totally nurse next to Christ or the Prophet. And I think they would be totally fine/proud of me for nourishing my child in it’s natural form. And any teenage boys or anyone else who thinks nursing is “smut” is ridiculous- and I’d know their parents never talked to them about anything including sexuality/motherhood/what the body is made for. If you think seeing a baby nurse is a sexual thing, then you got issues dude… This isn’t some feminist “girl power” movement here, this is nursing for crying out loud! Nursing is mentioned/revered in the bible several times (google it, if you haven’t read it, brah). We aren’t walking around with our boobs hanging out, we are discreetly feeding our children. And anyways, you’re just anonymous, so whatevs. wow that was long.
tara commented on Apr 27 11 at 12:24 pmoh yeah, and since anonymous whoever wants to use church against nursing moms, here’s a painting for you (i assume the artist actually painted from real life experience, and didn’t make up any of his subjects). there is a nursing mama in the left middle of the painting- out in the open! with men walking around!!! she ain’t in no covered wagon, and nobody seems to be throwing a hissy fit.
http://content.lib.utah.edu/cdm4/item_viewer.php?CISOROOT=%2FUtah_Artists&CISOPTR=710&DMSCALE=100&DMWIDTH=800&DMHEIGHT=600&DMMODE=viewer&DMFULL=0&DMX=400&DMY=788&DMTEXT=&DMTHUMB=1&REC=6&DMROTATE=0&x=378&y=351
6512 and growing commented on Apr 27 11 at 5:01 pmYay for nursing babies. Everyone is so beautiful and well fed.
I just wrote a post about nursing my very early preemie son and weaning my almost-4 year old (funny how nursing can go on and on and on…)
http://6512andgrowing.wordpress.com/2011/04/25/a-tale-of-two-nursers/
Kate commented on Apr 27 11 at 10:54 pmI am thrilled to see such powerful images of people choosing to erase hard lines between genders, ages, and mundane&wholesome vs. acceptable&rigid. It’s empowering for humanity!
P.S. A very old church’s take on Mary breastfeeding Jesus:
Becki commented on Apr 28 11 at 7:06 amThese pictures are wonderfully sweet. As a nursing mother, I would like to say thank you. I have no problem nursing wherever I am. Although at times it has been one of the most exhausting and yes, frustrating experiences, it is by far one of the best memories I have with my children.
JK commented on Apr 30 11 at 12:04 pmHey! I have to tell you that I love the way you write, and I wish we were friends in real life, and I’m jealous because with my massive breasts there is no way to discreetly nurse…but I would if I could, I do want to add though I think nursing in sacrament meeting is taking it too far. While I agree it’s not a sexual thing at all, it doesn’t take much to trigger inappropriate thoughts in young men (and old men!) I know ladies here have nursed in sacrament meeting, and I know it made others uncomfortable. Not that what you do between you and your baby should be about how anyone else feels, but maybe just think about the bigger picture. Plus isn’t it fun to sit in the mother’s room and chat it up anyway?
Andrea commented on May 01 11 at 11:19 pmAll the power to you, but I guess it’s not for me. Plus, my baby comes off at every interesting sound she hears nowadays, so it would be a nip show for all to see. A little too much for me, but hey…if you’re comfortable….
Tara commented on May 02 11 at 3:19 pmmakes me miss nursing oh-so-much. enjoy it while it lasts, my baby boy gave me up cold turkey and it really hurt my feelings.
Jordan commented on May 03 11 at 1:07 amLove reading of your adventures in motherhood! I love “suckling” my chubbelina until recently she has taken to grabbing huge handfuls of flesh in her pudgy fist and pinching my boobs till they are literally black and blue!! I am still trying to come up with a method to discourage this….
http://www.thebreakingfeed.com
Stephanie commented on May 04 11 at 8:31 amThank you so much for sharing these beautiful pictures and post! Breast feeding is natural and so important. I wish everyone realized that and would be more supportive of mothers.
Alisha commented on Jul 08 11 at 4:56 pmMY Jesus created breasts, and breastfeeding! Who cares where you are, if your bebe needs to drink, he needs to drink!!! Way to go Nat!
Gloria Sedano-Sarabia commented on Aug 05 11 at 6:55 amI only WISHED I had the guts to do what you do. I am very ashamed of my boobs and will not ever do this in public because of that embarrassment, BUT I am not against public & breastfeeding-coverlessly feeding. I give credit to ANY mother who has the courage to do this.
AnnS commented on Nov 08 11 at 12:51 pmI have nursed my two kids without a cover everywhere! In France, where we traveled in 2007 with my (then) 7 month old DD, I nursed on the Metro, in a cab, in the Louvre (there’s a fun photo of us nursing in front of one of the many Madonna-and-child nursing portraits), in the Tuelleries Garden, ON the Eiffel Tower, below the Eiffel tower, having coffee at a cafe, in grocery stores, walking around the streets. At home I nurse everywhere – in church, shopping, with all of my family members, I even nursed while pitching a prospective client!! If I’m out & about, I find a sling or Ergo carrier is easiest but mainly for the carrying and free hands. I do have a scarf for the ‘side boob’ (in a carrier, the sides of your breasts exposed; I drape a scarf around my neck and down the sides, baby is not covered) but in a museum in France, two Italian ladies poked their heads in around the scarf to coo at the nursing baby! (the french? not so much).
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