Michelle Duggar’s Uterus Resigns
Posted November 8th, 2011 at 11:41 pm
*This post was written and put up well before Michelle Duggar’s recent miscarriage. I would never intend to make light of her pain, or of the pain of miscarriage. My heart goes out to the whole family. In light of this turn of events, I feel the post comes off in bad taste and I’ve elected to take it down. But please, go read some other stuff on Babble Voices or on Electric Boogaloo!
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jessica commented on Nov 09 11 at 1:15 amall I can say to Mrs. Duggar is: Really? okay, one more thing, ‘Really, honestly?” oh and lastly, “What is the diameter of your vagina?, do tell
Shanan commented on Nov 09 11 at 9:05 amThis couple may think that having twenty kids is really great but let’s face it, her grandchildren are older than this one will be! Her uterus has been through five c-sections??? Seriously not a good idea to keep going. I guess her health is nothing compared to being the last woman in an educated culture to want 20 children. Does anyone really buy the fact that her kids are all happy with this? Do they not feel that they are one in a crowd, how much ” time” do you get with your parents if you’re , lets say, number 14?? Just not buying it!
Rebecca commented on Nov 09 11 at 10:53 amI really feel sorry for all involved. Especially her poor uterus.
Lisa commented on Nov 09 11 at 12:31 pmIt had to be said! Good for you for saying what we are all really thinking. Thank you…and, more importantly, Michelle’s uterus thanks you!
Sharon Hart commented on Nov 09 11 at 2:00 pmThank you for this blog it is hysterical and you are brilliant. When do these people have time for sex??? How is it possible to keep that many kids in clean clothes? Let alone fed? Why does she always talk in that slow irritating whispery child voice? It’s that pure exhaustion.
Thanks, Stefanie it’s perfection!
kathy commented on Nov 09 11 at 2:56 pmi feel sorry for her vagina! she birth 14 babies!! talk about hotdog in a hallway! LOL
Mira Jacob commented on Nov 09 11 at 2:58 pmTHE JAMES BROWN OF UTERI.
Julie commented on Nov 09 11 at 3:19 pmHer uterus gave it’s notice with the last baby that was born severely premature. They should be ashamed of themselves.
Tiara commented on Nov 09 11 at 3:40 pmThis was funny too… http://www.ivillage.com/michelle-duggar-pregnant-baby-number-what/6-a-400868
Elissa Lerma commented on Nov 09 11 at 3:53 pmI think that what the female body can do is amazing and beautiful and that she can do this 20 times is just…….. who am I kidding!? This lady is uber cray cray.
Larry Jackson commented on Nov 09 11 at 3:57 pmYa know, Michelle, it is a vagina. Not a clown car!
JP commented on Nov 09 11 at 4:00 pmThat creepy husband of hers is probably hoping this next one will kill her. Then he can go find a chick half his age who is likewise brainwashed with religion, and start proving his manliness again, by having twenty more.
Chris Brown commented on Nov 09 11 at 4:51 pmHaving 20 children in this day and age is just purely irresponsible. I hope that you have a huge fortune stashed away for when you and your husband die. Your family alone, will be the end of social security. Personally, I had hoped that you learned the lesson that your uterus was trying to tell you during the last pregnancy that was grossly premature. I hope that your uterus falls out. Better yet, you and your husband should be steralized. You need to learn to keep your damn clothes on, or at least emplore the use of BIRTH CONTROL!!!!!!
Jen commented on Nov 09 11 at 5:06 pmI wonder if she can skip without peeing because I can’t and I’ve only had one kid.
Katherine Guidry commented on Nov 09 11 at 6:14 pmwow I am so glad that I am not the only one that talks to another persons uterus…I have for years been talking to my mom’s…I am number 7 out of 10…she died early and quite frankly her body was tired…we are not made to be able to emotionally support that many people. What will happen is that these kids will raise each other and may not always be happy about it….just sayin
clsb commented on Nov 09 11 at 6:31 pmWhile I certainly am not a fan of having lots and lots of kids (I stopped at 2, boy and girl) and am totally happy with that situation. But hey, it’s her body, and her life. While it is certainly something that belongs in the Guiness Book of World Records, I don’t think any of us should be worrying about her uterus, or anything else that is her business. Personally, I thought the article was a bit stupid. I am come on, if we have to resort to personifying a uterus or vagina, that’s pretty pathetic.
Dawn Babcock Papple commented on Nov 09 11 at 6:32 pmObviously her ute is in perfect shape…
Dawn Babcock Papple commented on Nov 09 11 at 6:34 pmAnd also, to insult her vagina is annoying too. Vaginas are physiologically designed to give birth then shrink back. The peri area gets stretched out once, then it’s good to go. I’m sure her vag is just fine.
carrie commented on Nov 09 11 at 6:34 pm20 is a crazy amount i admit but they can afford it so who cares. its her baby and they take care all their children better then most ppl with only a single child. Leave her alone. no one here including the state is paying for it, the happy parents are. congrats to the expectant mother!
anna commented on Nov 09 11 at 6:42 pmthis is HILARIOUS! but can we just PLEASE let this woman have whatever amount of children she wants in PEACE?? I do admit that I’m surprised at how she’s so willing to have another baby after her last high-risk pregnancy, but shouldn’t you be a bit more concerned about some crack-head woman having a kid??
Shabana commented on Nov 09 11 at 6:42 pmReading everyone’s comments and looking at this: http://www.ivillage.com/michelle-duggar-pregnant-baby-number-what/6-a-400868
I thought this was so funny, I laughed so hard I peed my pants.
Cass commented on Nov 09 11 at 6:43 pmLet her worry about her… Before you decide to point the finger at someone else, remember there are 3 pointing back at you… you do things that I am sure she doesn’t agree with at all but she probably wouldn’t sit there and say that you are ridiculous for doing it.
Norine commented on Nov 09 11 at 6:46 pmHey, give her a break! They can support all of them with ease, clothe them, feed them, love them, and they are all happy and well adjusted! They help each other, and they help others! It’s her business what she does with her own body! Would you be so critical if she was one of those crack-ho’s having her 20th abortion?? The courts would disagree with you! They have plenty of love and money to go around. Leave her alone! I envy her. I only have 9 (and one of mine is only slightly older than his niece). I would have had more if my health hadn’t stopped me. This woman is only doing what she believes is God’s plan for their family, and being an American citizen, she has that right. Just as you all have the right to judge her like you were God!
jen roberson commented on Nov 09 11 at 6:52 pmseriously michelle duggar is crazy. I mean 20 kids and shes 45. Thats not safe. Im about due with my 3rd and im almost 30 yrs old. Im done after this baby. I couldnt imagine having 17 more. It is extremely irresponsible.
Agnieszka commented on Nov 09 11 at 7:11 pmWow,
Some say you shouldn’t have children before your 30 because you’re too young. Others say you shouldn’t have them when you’re 45 because you’re too old.
Come on, it’s their choice, as far as I know, the children aren’t neglected, so if they want more, let them have them in peace! The last pregnancy was at risk and she shouldn’t have more babies? Would you say the same to the woman who had a hard pregnancy with her 1st? What’s the difference?
Linda commented on Nov 09 11 at 7:12 pmThanks for the laugh. When I heard the news, I thought OMG-you have to be kidding. 20 kids??? Yes, I understand she has her convictions, but little Josie almost died. Yes, I watch this show like I did the Gosselins because I have no life. I think I would close up the shop when health issues pop up. I’m 48 and the shop wants to close up and it’s making darn sure I know it. Still would love to have another baby, but nature has other plans. Have one healthy almost 11 yr. old healthy boy by the grace of the same God is enough for my poor body. He was almost 10 lbs., 2 weeks past due, and I had every medical intervention during delivery but a crowbar(!) but let’s show some common sense here people. Even women in the Bible had some help(Sarah, Elizabeth, and Mary) to have babies and I hope this one is healthy and it!!!!
Becky commented on Nov 09 11 at 7:12 pmLeave Michele alone and God Bless you and your wonderful children. If she wants 25 children ..so be it. It is her body snd she looks wonderful :)
Brit commented on Nov 09 11 at 7:14 pmI love how so many people are trying to defend her. This makes me laugh. No, it doesn’t matter what a person does with their own body and their own life..as long as it does not EFFECT those around them. She is screwing the world up even more. We have an overpopulation problem as it is. China did the right thing in the way they do population control. The world is in a horrible state right now, BECAUSE of overpopulation. She is just helping that. She is being horribly selfish.She is too old to be having anymore kids, and obviously her uterus has had enough. This poor child that she is pregnant with now, may very well be born with a lot of birth defects, or not be born at all. If not this baby then another one. She can use the whole “This is God’s plan” excuse all she wants, but sooner or later she is going to have to pay for her stupidity.
danielle commented on Nov 09 11 at 7:19 pmpersonally i think someone should take her to court preferably cps, and make her get her tubes tied, she isnt raising them kids, the kids are raising the kids, and im pretty sure her tv show, is what pays all of the bills….and that new house they got, she needs her coochie lips sewn together, and he needs his balls chopped off, the population is already to high, aint like we need to add to it. she is stupid and selfish, to even consider getting pregnant agian, her kids deserve a better life. she aint got time for all of them in a day thats for damn sure
patty g commented on Nov 09 11 at 8:10 pmThis article is rude, and so are all of you! This woman TREASURES life in a day and age when people are killing babies left and right!! How DARE you speak to her that way!
This family is SELF SUPPORTIVE! ALL of the children pitch in, they are all respectful, good children … are YOUR kids that way???
At least they aren’t government dependent. At least their children are LOVED and CARED FOR and aren’t sitting in some foster home somewhere waiting for a decent life.
SHUT UP! If you’re so great, why don’t you go get your OWN reality tv show….
OH WAIT! It’s because there’s nothing extraordinary about you.
Go figure!
Jan Hargraves commented on Nov 09 11 at 8:11 pmMr. and Mrs. Duggar are responsible loving parents. They have planned their family, love their children unconditionally, and parent better than most in this day and age. They are both with their children as they homeschool. By the way they own everything pay cash for eveything and live debt free. Not a bad thing to teach those children. How many Americans can say that of their own family.
Erica commented on Nov 09 11 at 8:12 pmI personally think that she should be applauded! How many of you could have 19 kids, 2 grand babies, and a new baby on the way and take care of them all without having to rely on the government! Im going to say probably none of you! Those children are blessings!!! Have any of you stopped to think that God has blessed her in a way that nobody else could understand! Stop being nosey and passing judgement on something that you don’t understand!!!!
Alexis commented on Nov 09 11 at 8:23 pmI love the Duggers and think it is none of our business! I mean I would never have 20, but I know I could never afford it! they live debt free, do not live off of the government, are productive members of society and live their religion, not just preachers but actually practice it! Who are we to judge? I agree, I think she is 45 and it is time to stop, especially after the scare with the last child, but I certainly do not ridicule her for her choices when she isn’t bothering anyone. Her children are all VERY well behaved and they take care of their family and obligations better then some people who have NO kids or just one. Is it for me, NO, but they are happy! So leave them alone!
Pat commented on Nov 09 11 at 8:27 pmEverything else aside, the population growth on this planet means it most likely won’t withstand the strain we put on it and eventually we will all be gone. To willfully choose to cause that to happen sooner shown nothing but greed and selfishness. I think these people are disgraceful and, yes it is their life and they can do whatever the hell they like, but this is my life and I have the right to be pissed off about this and to say so. Thanks Stefanie. ;-p
Lauren commented on Nov 09 11 at 8:33 pmGod forbid I have 20 kids, but do we really get to call ourselves pro-choice if we tear her down for making her own reproductive choices?
brandy stephens commented on Nov 09 11 at 8:44 pmi just dont think her body can hamdle as much as she thinks it can i do believe they are good people but how much worth it is if these kids lose their mom in childbirth
Liz commented on Nov 09 11 at 8:49 pm“the world works in mysterious ways” is all I can say right now. I’ve been trying for two years to have a child, but someone 15 years older than me is having her 20 th?!? What the..?! My philosophy is that anyone who wishes for a child should have one. I wish her a healthy and safe pregnancy, and that baby will be loved. Everyone is entitled to an opinion, I get it, but in the end, their children are educated, taken care of, and loved by eachother. Good luck to them…
jbinpa commented on Nov 09 11 at 9:50 pmShe can do what she wants but why does the Today show have to feature the announcement – with all 19 kids plus 2 grandchildren in tow…at 7am eastern time. Oh, the Duggar’s have an annoucement…I figured it out the night before. Every move the hoard makes is on TV, thanks to TLC. Now, a trip to Scotland and Ireland? They even dragged the entire brood to Kleinfeld’s so Michelle could by a “modest” renewal gown (98% of Kleinfeld’s stock is strapless). The dress had to be literally built to fit Jim Bob’s idea of modest. So, an entire episode of Say Yes to the Dress had to be the Duggar’s go to NYC to shop. Good luck w/number 20 – I hope both Michelle and this child come through this with no complications. Leaving 19-20 kids motherless is not good. Having a 20th child with severe problems due to prematurity is not good. Who home schooled these kids when she spent 3 months with Josie?
Dawn Dyer commented on Nov 09 11 at 9:51 pmTo each their own. My concern is, what happens if this next one kills her? What about the feelings of the other nineteen kids?? What about their well being?? The “adults” in the situation just aren’t thinking clearly :(
Elena commented on Nov 09 11 at 9:57 pmI just don’t get why folks are so concerned about her lady parts! The rest of her works pretty well too. I saw the episode where she went water skiing and she’s been working on her elliptical! Heck, most of the women complaining about her stretchy vagina or worn out uterus are sitting on their butts, looking at computer screens while their 1.2 kids run around in poopy diapers eating french fries out of an old McDonald’s bag.
Michelle’s reproductive system works very well. She ovulates and conceives with ease and the majority of her pregnancies including labor and delivery have gone splendidly
Plus she reduced her chances of some cancers including the big and scary ovarian cancer. So right on MD’s reproductive system!! You go Girl!!
Dawn Babcock Papple commented on Nov 09 11 at 10:01 pmAny one of us could be killed during any of our pregnancies. If her pregnancies are healthy, why would you presume the next would kill her? Is that how we should live our lives? Worrying about if something will kill us?
kelly commented on Nov 09 11 at 10:02 pmIt not that they are irresponsible parents, my heart is with the child who has to endure and fight for life when they are so so so premature. Why put another child at risk?? Yes God willing I do hope this child is healthy and does not have to be on oxygen for the first 6 months or whatever of life. And all the health scares that we all saw on their show. That is my concern. YES i can have an opinion too, like everyone else !!!!!
Lesia commented on Nov 09 11 at 10:08 pmI think that we still live in America and to each his own. Can you not see how well God has blessed them? They sustain themselves and do quite well at it as well as instill morals and values in their children to become model citizens with compassion. Unlike all the inmature judgemental comments that are posted here. No twenty babies aren’t for everyone that’s why others don’t have them. But as for this family let them be, they are self sustaining, loving, kind, and do a good job at paying attention to one another as well as supporting and encouraging a way to live a full life. Leave them be it’s a free country still founded upon God even though people keep trying to kick Him out of His creation. He is the one whoo told us to be fruitful and multiply obviously for a good reason.
Jules commented on Nov 09 11 at 10:38 pmOK, fun is fun, but on the flip side, disrespect is just rude.
It’s their life, obviously no one is coercing her into having another child. All the children seem to be well cared for, have good morals and most of all they seem to be a loving family. There are more important things in this world to worry about other than poking your nose into other people’s personal business
I wish them good luck and a healthy pregnancy and a healthy new addition
KT commented on Nov 09 11 at 10:55 pmWow! REading through these comments has been almost more entertaining than the JOKE letter from Michelle Dugger’s uterus. That’s what this article was for entertainment. And correct me if I’m wrong, but isn’t that why we all know who the hell the Duggars are in the first place? Their ridiculously huge family? It’s sad to see all of you hating on one another over this. She’s put herself in the limelight, and should expect to have snarky and funny things written about her on the internet. And all of you who are singing her praises and judging everyone else for enjoying a giggle or 2 need to remember that you are doing exactly what you are attacking the other commenters about, judging. If you really didn’t like the “letter” you should’ve just closed the page.
Claudia commented on Nov 09 11 at 11:58 pmMichelle Dugger has had pre-eclampsia several times. This is a very dangerous condition and still, today, many women die from it. She’s been lucky so far…
She has 19 children who need her. What kind of mother takes a chance like this?
Seems like a selfish decision to me: she’s addicted to having babies and will do it come hell or high water.
Tracey commented on Nov 10 11 at 1:24 amDawn Babbcock, Madam, do go back to school and learn about obstetrics before spouting off. It is a fact that Michelle’s pregnancy is high risk and high risk for a multitude of reasons:
She is 45 yrs. old, age alone sets her at risk for hypertension, gestational diabetes, preeclampsia, early birth, low birth weight, placental abruption, and placental insufficiency. Older women are especially at risk for placental abruptions, which can lead to hemorrhage and still-birth. These risks are significant and worth noting, not pushing aside like they don’t exist. Add to these her multiple c-sections that put her at great risk for what I am sure is an incredibly thin uterus already and prone to rupture along the previous incisions.
- She also has osteoporosis from having so many kids which depleted her body of its’ vital calcium. 45 and already advanced stage of osteoporosis. Sounds like consequences to me.
And what the heck do you know about vaginal elasticity anyway? Why do you think thousands of women go through painful “realigning” surgeries every day due to the damaging effects of child bearing? The tissues do not “bounce back” to where they once were. What a ridiculous statement.Personally, I think it is sad that she is doing this yet again…can only imagine how scared her kids are of actually losing her this time along with potentially losing a sibling. I can’t believe she would risk having another child be born early and watch it struggle to survive. For shame and it is sad that what she is doing has become spectator sport. Michelle, think about the kids you have now and not making them grow up without a mother — I hope that is not the case and that she goes into menopause before the next one.
Cindy commented on Nov 10 11 at 2:03 amWhat I would like to know is when does she find the time or energy for sex?
Grace commented on Nov 10 11 at 9:00 amI give them a lot of credit. I thought having 3 children was hard to do, but I would love to hear from a medical doctor 20 kids is extreme. I know that after a certain amount of children there is a huge risk of bleeding. What does the medical community think health wise. Let’s hear from an ob/gyn.
Mary commented on Nov 10 11 at 9:13 amThank you Stephanie, your letter is hysterical, and meant to be just what it is…. HUMOR. Some posts say it is none of our business…… really?? Are you kidding me??? It becomes OUR business when one or rather (20+) decide to put themselves in front of A TV CAMERA. If she wanted to be left alone she wouldn’t be on TV! Knock yourself out if you want 20 kids. Don’t be surprised if some good HUMOR is taken from the subject matter. Frankly, it is a little strange to us “average, boring” Americans. That is why it makes news, is on the cover of magazines and ON THE TV. Get a sense of humor peeps!
Peachiekeen commented on Nov 10 11 at 9:40 amThink of the deal they are probably getting on their medical insurance. Their family plan will have 22 people on it. A bargain for them; a nightmare for their insurer.
What’s creepy is the way their kids are like clones. Not a bit of individuality displayed by any of them. Nineteen kids and not one seeking even a different haircut – never mind a different view of the world.
nosoupforyou commented on Nov 10 11 at 10:29 amAnyone who thinks Michelle raises these children (while homeschooling all of them) are sadly mistaken. Each child at about age 8, is assigned a younger child to parent. They have no childhood of their own. In addition, all of them are “home churched” so they never get to leave the cult compound. I do not sit at home eating french fries. I have a graduate degree and work in a professional field. I have two sons, ages 21 and 14. I have been married for almost 24 years. I had pre-eclampsia with my youngest.
Olivia commented on Nov 10 11 at 12:05 pmPattyG, how is it treasuring life when her last one was so premature? Clearly her uterus is not holding up any more. Time to stop before a baby or she actually dies. She doesn’t treasure life, she collects them like beanie babies.
magnoliama commented on Nov 10 11 at 12:41 pmI’m not a fan of the Duggars, but choice goes both ways and most of the comments here are vile. If in a free country, I can choose to have a small family, then the Duggars also get to choose to have 20 children. I wish her a healthy, uneventful pregnancy.
Gianni commented on Nov 10 11 at 12:51 pmI am the 2nd of 8 children — no where near as many as the Duggar’s, but still quite a large family by today’s standards. And as a casual viewer of the program (as in, I have absorbed bits and pieces of information about their life through pop culture, but like most of us have never met this woman and therefore realize that I am totally NOT qualified to make judgements about her life … but here I go anyway because, why not) I think it seems like this is a loving, happy family. Yes, some of their ideas and practices are strange to me, but their children appear to be honestly happy. Being an older sibling helping with the care of younger siblings is not always a huge burden, particularly when the parents are both present, loving and supportive. These kids don’t know any different, and it doesn’t seem that they are suffering for it. I understand there are issues with overpopulation, but honestly large families are way more effecient than 10 individual families with 2 kids each. Also, being pro-choice, I think it’s awesome that this woman gets to make decisions about her own uterus! I wouldn’t want everyone judging me for the choices I make about my own body, and I think it goes both ways. Some of the comments here just seem mean spirited.
Annie commented on Nov 10 11 at 12:51 pmMaybe if more families raised their children in a Christian home the USA would not be in such sad shape. Duggar family ‘you rock’. You should be proud to stand up for Christian beliefs and raise children that are so willing to help not only with their own family but also to help others. If 20 or more children make you happy then God Bless You All. That is your business. You are doing a great job; thank you for sharing it on TV. I will pray that you have an easy pregnancy and a healthy child.
grammargeek commented on Nov 10 11 at 1:53 pmI am currently in the hospital for preeclamsia. I’ve been here for over a month, and have at least twenty-six more days before they induce me at thirty-seven weeks. I am thirty-six and this is my first child.
And it will be the only one I have “naturally.”
My husband and I feel it is irresponsible to the child we will have to have another. Why risk leaving her without a mother? Why risk the life of a potential child?
If I can make this decision, with only one child who I’ve waited years to have, it should be easy for someone who already has nineteen to prioritize their lives.
2isenuf commented on Nov 10 11 at 3:38 pmMaybe mother nature, (or God or whoever controls the world) feels that this family needs to keep having their polite well behaved, kind hearted children, who are and will become valuable contributors to society to balance out all the a#$ holes who are having children that shouldn’t be. It is politically incorrect to call a women on welfare on the carpet because she continues to have kids so her monthly check increases yet the Duggers are in the wrong? Something tells me we won’t see an E True Hollywood Story about Dugger children going off the deep end, selling drugs or becoming 16 and Pregnant.
ChiLaura commented on Nov 10 11 at 5:11 pmElena and 2isenuf, I love you.
And what’s with all this over-population stuff? Aren’t you all aware that overpopulation happens in underdeveloped countries, while many developed, industrialized countries are experiencing underpopulation and negative birth rates? The Duggar kids are going to be paying y’alls Medicare. You should be thanking her. You who are so concerned about overpopulation can just go right ahead and breed yourselves out of existence. Your choice! Her choice.
Amanda commented on Nov 10 11 at 8:57 pmI say good for them!! Does is affect you? No! They completely support their family with no assistance from the government. How dare anyone judge them! God bless them!
SweetDee commented on Nov 10 11 at 10:50 pmWow. I’m surprised by all the Duggar defenders here. Everyone saying how happy and well adjusted the kids are. Are we even watching the same show? Every kid over the age of ten seems sad until the camera is pointed directly at them, at which point thet smile robotically. They seem terribly uneducated to me, based on seeing Michelle homeschooling them on one recent episode. A very elementary curriculum for the 13 y.o. daughter. Michelle especially uses poor grammar. Not to mention how isolated they seem. Plus, let’s face it, the parents do nothing. Michelle dotes on whomever is the youngest while the teenage daughters do all the rest of the work around the house and for the younger kids. Jim Bob does nothing at all.
And yes, we all can make judgmentas of the Duggars. Because they CHOSE to sacrifice their family’s dignity and privacy for the TLC gravy train. I’m sorry, but that is a double-edged sword and I’m sure they can handle the criticism.
Sarah commented on Nov 11 11 at 4:16 amI am an M.D. and if she were my patient I would be extremely nervous for her health and the health of the baby. I would also want to help her find some method of contraception that would be acceptable and in accordance with their faith.
I have seen the Duggars on TV and they seem like a lovely family. Some people are not suited to have any children at all, but the Duggars seem to me to be exceptional parents.
Let’s stop trashing the Duggars, and just wish her a healthy and safe pregnancy.
Lauren commented on Nov 11 11 at 12:21 pmI don’t know how people think this family is self supportive. They have a TV SHOW!!! That means America pays for them. If they were self supportive we wouldn’t even know who they were. Hello?!?!
And as far as her health, whatever but they should consider they health of the fetus. As her last baby was born at 25 weeks due to preeclampsia. They are selfish. Seriously selfish.
Sam commented on Nov 11 11 at 1:10 pmYou people seem to forget…. God is the one deciding whether or not she has more kids, according to them…. THEY obviously skipped the part in the bible when we find out the greatest gift HE gave us (next to children and life) ……. FREE WILL aka CHOICE not to mention the man that invented birth control. It’s her choice and obviously “HER GOD” gives less of a care about her body and life than she does.
Sweetpea commented on Nov 11 11 at 1:28 pmAt this point, they must just fall out. Seriously.
Sanriobaby =^.^= commented on Nov 11 11 at 2:00 pm*DEAD* Thanks for such a funny article!
erin@mommyonthespot commented on Nov 11 11 at 3:41 pmYour letters are the best! (The Charlie Sheen ones were hil-arious)! I hope The Uterus cc’d The Vagina.
Meg commented on Nov 11 11 at 7:13 pmYour “letter” demonstrates complete intolerance, hate, and rudeness. If I were you, I would blush and cringe to think I had written such terrible, unkind things about anyone, and especially Michelle Duggar who has not harmed you in any way.
I’ve never met Michelle, but I respect her. She is doing far more to impact the world for good than your sad drivel. She is a kind, patient, sweet lady. She demonstrates good manners and love. She is a great example to all of us of what true womanhood looks like. She is a mother of many, and I can’t think of any greater achievement.
You can write your little pieces. You can get your laughs and your acclaim at someone else’s expense. But in doing so, you have lowered yourself in front of the world, and anyone worth impressing is not impressed.
Denise commented on Nov 12 11 at 1:50 amI think its interesting that just a century or so ago women had many children (my grandmother was one of 12) and no one seemed to worry about their uterus’ back then. In fact, they lost more babies back then because they didnt have the medical advances we have, so chances are (like in the case of my grandmother’s mother, who had I believe 2 or 3 miscarriages/infant deaths) these families would have had more children than the ones that actually survived. So since all (save 1) of the Duggar’s children have survived (probably with thanks to modern medicine) she is now ostracized because they survived. (I don’t see people getting angry when a family tries on multiple occasions to have a child and have had multiple miscarriages . . . but if they were all viable pregnancies, then the woman is selfish for having so many children? How absurd!) Today we have been brainwashed by society to think that having any more than 3 or 4 children means that somehow you are selfish, obsessed with being pregnant, or negligent. This is not a “normal” view of children or birth – we have perverted it to the point that having children is only a burden that shold be limited to one or two for the sake of society. People think its their job to police how many children other families choose to have. Since when is it any one else’s job to dictate when a woman has had too many children?
How bout everyone worry about their own children and quit picking apart every other family because they don’t do things the way you do.
Denise commented on Nov 12 11 at 2:02 amI also love the population comments . . . would you prefer a govt cap on how many children we have so we can be more communist like China? Or how bout you go tell Muslims in the middle east to stop having so many kids cause they are going to strain the planet? (see how well that goes for you) The majority of americans are only having one or two children – they arent even having enough kids to replace themselves. I highly doubt the Duggar’s having 20 kids is really going to add much to the population “problem.” Oh and maybe if we just stopped assuming that we are obligated to have the American Dream lifestyle that constantly consumes we could sustain more people on this planet . . . but as it is, its the over consuming americans that are depleting all the resources. The Duggar’s live very frugally – their footprint is probably equal or less than that of a family of 4. But you all can come up with every reason in the book why someone else shouldn’t have more children – have at it.
V_T commented on Nov 12 11 at 5:02 pmThat one family may indeed live very frugally….but my goodness, 20 kids growing up and probably each having large families themselves? This isn’t Biblical times where we needed to popluate the Earth. The world can’t handle that kind of exponential population explosion. And as for people here claiming that they take no govt assistance? I heard somewhere they have declared their home a “church” and are tax exempt. Hm. That huge beautiful piece of home and property that probably give a nice chunk of property tax to their community? Sounds almost like welfare loophole
V. Rose commented on Nov 12 11 at 5:10 pmThis is BRILLIANT. Brilliant, brilliant, F****** BRILLIANT!
Jessica commented on Nov 13 11 at 1:10 pmThe Duggars are not the only family in this day and age having a ton of kids…I have met lot of families with over ten. Your body releases a hormones when you are pregnant that keep you young. An WORLD RECORD…I don’t think so! Susanna Wesley was the last of 24. The World Record if from a couple in China who had 69 natural born kids. So I’m asking if you lived in someplace like China now with a one child family which of your other kids would you give up? Well that like asking Michelle to give up more kids. And she does a better job raising them then some familes with one. Though individual time is importaint Americans are very me centered and those kids are learning it is not all about THEM but other people share the space on the planet too.
Mary commented on Nov 13 11 at 4:36 pmMeg~ Did we read the same “letter”?
Rebecca commented on Nov 14 11 at 10:31 amTo all who say that they can afford it and live debt free…Well we could all live debt free if we whored our families out to the media the way these socially irresponsible people do, now couldn’t we?
Sheila commented on Nov 14 11 at 11:12 amFunny article, but I’d say her uterus is probably in better shape than many just from exercise. I did enjoy your creativity!
DoinMyBest commented on Nov 14 11 at 3:33 pmOk, let’s state the obvious:
1) we can’t “mind our own business” when she’s always on tv/mags pointing out her million kids and saying she wants more.
2) it’s more like “child labor” because she’s not the one keeping all their clothes clean, she’s delegating the chores/child rearing to her older kids (they all get assigned a kid)
3) have they never seen the scientists and their over-populating the earth campaigns?
They’re selfish to their children, and this earth, not to mention someone pointed out they alone will drain social security. Thx 4 this article. It’s all true.
Retha commented on Nov 15 11 at 11:20 amSome people here say the Duggar kids look happy. According to others who know the home schooling and child training materials they use, people from that system force their children to look happy, at the cost of punishing them when they do not. : http://nolongerquivering.com/2011/11/10/but-they-look-so-happy/
I find Sweetdee’s comment interesting: “Every kid over the age of ten seems sad until the camera is pointed directly at them, at which point thet smile robotically. ”
As for the comments that they are educated: Most people from ATI (their world view) don’t educate daughters to be capable of leaving the home unmarried if they so wish, or to get a job outside the home.
I don’t care how stretched her uterus is. I ask wether her children are allowed choices. Choices about who to marry, where to live, or even to express their bad mood.
leener commented on Nov 15 11 at 10:38 pmPeople need to lighten up. This family decided to put themselves in the spotlight with their unwieldy brood. Jokes about the woman’s overworked uterus aren’t really out of the realm of possibility.
I laughed out loud about the “hot dog down a hallway” comment! Yes the vag can be pretty snappy, but after 20, I bet Mr. Duggar could crawl in and inseminate her by hand.
MOMof4 commented on Nov 16 11 at 8:09 pmFunny how we criticize women who purposely hurt their unborn babies with alcohol and drugs but people will defend a woman who is taking a huge risk not only with her life but her baby’s health both mentally and physically. It is highly probable that this child have issues…Who pays for the months in hospital for baby and mom? Who pays for all of the specialists? Who pays for the medications and surgeries and possibly a lifetime of special care and supports for this child, and any additional children she may decide to have? In my opinion, this is no worse then the people who abuse all other social systems. Pretty sure her last pregnancy and baby were a big sign!…a HUGE-A$$ stop sign!!!!! Poor child/children. Too bad she has the ability to reproduce!
SuzanneL commented on Nov 18 11 at 10:08 amThe envy of the author is drippingly obvious. Let’s put this in perspective here. What kind of letter would she write a woman with 20 abortions? (There are such women out there).
Dear Mommy,
We miss you and your sweet kisses.
Love,
Jason, John, Joanna, James, Jane,
Jenna & Jenny (twins), Jordon, Jade, Jacob,
June, July, Justice, Jonathan, Jill,
Johnson, Jack & Jackie (twins), Jinger, Jeb
Jeanne Holbrook commented on Nov 18 11 at 11:04 amThe author of this ‘story’ is icky to criticize a woman for having (and feeding without being on welfare) as many children as she conceives. There is nothing funny about Ms. Taylor’s cruel remarks. Sounds like she is taking classes at the Bill Maher School of despicableness. What a sorry woman.
Desiree' commented on Nov 18 11 at 3:02 pmDo you really think they are not getting some type of assistance. They have used medicaid!!!!
nic commented on Nov 18 11 at 4:26 pmSo many jealous women here, they have 1 or 2 spoiled brat kids and Michelle Duggar has 19 well behaved and happy kids.
Steve commented on Nov 18 11 at 4:30 pmSomeone needs to tell this lady it’s a vagina not a clown car!
cathy commented on Nov 18 11 at 7:18 pmI’ve seen PEZ dispensers spit out less than she does. They’re in it for the fame and $$. What a shame. Those poor children having to raise their siblings because Mom’s always knocked up. She didn’t learn her lesson with the last one either.
Joyce O'Malley commented on Nov 18 11 at 9:23 pmHey back off! I’m on my 22nd pregmancy and we own a farm in the Ozarks and raise pigs and chizkens and pa just said that he want’s another set of triplets to round off the numper to 25!!!! Squeze me while I play my banjo!! :) Hey cud sombudy tell us where the food stamp office iz?
Joyce O'Malley commented on Nov 18 11 at 9:28 pmHey God – should Michelle have more kidz? Please let us know. Maybe you cud send Jesus back and he cud tell us, OK?
Rachel Simmons commented on Nov 18 11 at 11:11 pmI have no problem with people having as many kids as they can take care of, but they should take care of them, not all the other kids. Kids should be able to be kids and not babysitters for 12 younger siblings .
Mary commented on Nov 19 11 at 12:38 amIt is nobody’s business if Michelle and JimBob want to have 100 kids. It is up to the lord. If her ovaries and uterus were so tired, they wouldn’t have released an egg and she would not have gotten pregnant. I admire the job they are doing raising their children as well as teaching the importance of keeping the Lord in their lives. Leave this amazing lady alone and mind your own business!! At least they are doing this on their own without help from anyone. I wish I could have had more.
Tana Mitchell commented on Nov 19 11 at 6:29 amUp to the “lord”? Yeah, lord of the manor. We are endowed by our creator with the inalienable right to make choices utilizing our own free will – AND to hold our knees together. These parents are making their living off exploiting their children – just like that Kate Plus 8 train wreck. I agree, let this incredibly stupid heffer keep popping out puppies – then take them away from her. There is NO way she (or even an actual SMART person) has the necessary time to give each child to allow them to florish and become successful, productive members of our society. So we WILL pay for the acitons of these cretins at some point. Lucky us.
Common Sense commented on Nov 19 11 at 8:34 amThey close puppy mills where I live.
Common Sense commented on Nov 19 11 at 8:47 amPeople need to go back and look at how they lived in a 2 bedroom house until The Learning Channel came along. Look at a parenting style where they defended dressing the kids alike – at least now they have some individuality. They may say they raise a good family, but who would keep a young man in the same bedroom as toddlers? Remember the early days when Josh wanted to go to college to be a lawyer? For all the people who think they are good parents do you see the kids doing anything outside of what the parents want? No college, no goals. The older girls take care of the family and the older boys do all the outside work. Watch the episode when the family went to Dollywood. Knowing they would meet Dolly Parton and yet they had never heard any of her music and did not know who she was. Now they give the kids handouts so they know who they are and where they will be going. Watch the interviews do you notice it is the smaller children, older girls, Jim Bob and Michelle who talk on camera. The teenagers are mostly left out as they have poor communication skills.
Laurie Sellick commented on Nov 19 11 at 9:24 amTo all the cynical people out there read what you wrote. Shame on you for using the public for your own points of view .Whether or not this is 2 or 20th makes no right for you to spill your bad taste of words to a family who may have a belief stronger than you would not believe. As the choose there last pregnancy makes it just that, It will be gods will whether or not this baby will be born , Not the words you choose to express. Just be happy for them and give all the prayer and support. And now for the person who commented on the Social Security. They will have to pay into that as well , They have to pay taxes as well. I do not see you supporting this family, The only thing I see is how you watch the program and complain.. Now that to me means one thing Thank You for enjoying the program.. Baby 20 come out and see this world as you were meant to be this Rare Jewel…
Shantel commented on Nov 19 11 at 9:55 amThis is terrible. I didnt even finish reading the entire thing, I was so offended. Seriously? You judge like that? you judge other women like that? You are THAT educated about what is healthy for other people’s children, and another womans body? This is plain old fashioned hate speech. You are MOCKING her. Be proud, your writing clearly delivers a message instead of baby, (I am sure you are SO releived- I mean babies- YUCK!) a message of arrogance and tastelessness.
Van Tillian commented on Nov 19 11 at 1:47 pmIt is both saddening and ironic that the same people who would defend to the death a woman’s right to kill her child would be so vitriolic when a woman has what they consider “too many children.” It seems that freedom of “choice” only extends one direction- the choice of death. The pretense of concern for Mrs. Duggar’s health is only masking a hatred for her, her family, and the God whom they serve. The people of the sort who wrote this article hate anyone and anything which stands as a testimony to the truth of God. The very fact that the Duggars are a happy and loving family is utterly galling to this sort of people. People like the Duggars who follow God’s will are going to be hated regardless, but especially when there are no “dirty secrets” to be found about them. The Duggars simply give secularists an outlet for their hatred of God.
CeCe commented on Nov 19 11 at 2:07 pmThe Duggar family is an inspiration and a symbol of hope in the face of the rest of the cynical world. They’re raising their children to have a spirit of service. That should help take up the slack for all those who have more children just to GET benefits. I applaud her and her husband’s success as parents and wish them well. They already have God’s blessings….. 23 of them including Anna, McKenzie and Matthew.
Keisha commented on Nov 19 11 at 4:09 pmWow! Some of these comments are a little hostile when this article simply makes light of Mrs. Duggar and her many kids. At the end of the day I don’t think anyone is loosing sleep over how many kids she has and/or wants. This family has chosen to be in the public eye so of course they are going to be judged good and bad, right and wrong.
I think she’s crazy to continue reproducing; they’re really spreading themselves thin and toying with odds of having a healthy birth. She should’ve been stopped and enjoyed her future grand children. And growing up this way, no wonder the older children are helping out, they think this is normal. Really she is being a little selfish to continue having kids after a certain point it’s not just about new baby.
yaya commented on Nov 19 11 at 6:32 pmActually I only have a measly amount of 4 kids, but I actually think pregnancy is easier on the ole’ uterus than the monthly, painful and gross curse of menstruation !! I don’t know about all of the children, but maybe Mom is getting out of some monthly pain.
Sandy commented on Nov 19 11 at 6:40 pmI saw a link to this article on the Pentacle Project’s facebook page, and I’ll tell you what I told them…
“As a page who claims to have the intent on standing up for the rights of others, you should be ashamed of posting such a rude, judgmental, and narrow minded article which pokes fun and the rights of another person! All this “article” does is mock another human being… one who isn’t hurting anyone.
The Duggar family doesn’t intentionally get pregnant, in case you were unaware. As part of their religious practice and belief, they leave it up to their belief in God. Do you even know how they got to this point? What transpired, or why they made the decisions they did? After having their first son Michelle went BACK on the birth control pill. Not long after she got pregnant despite being on the pill, and she miscarried the baby. Feeling at fault for the death of their child, they made a commitment to each other and to their deity to leave the decision of children up to their God. They don’t attempt to get pregnant, and they don’t try not to. So whatever happens is just part of natural process as it occurs naturally and without human intervention.
How dare anyone mock such a profound spiritual commitment? How dare anyone mock their choices or beliefs? Rather than standing up for the rights of others, you promote material that makes fun of those very beliefs in a rude and unnecessary manner.”
I’ve read several of the comments on this page, and you know who is really disgusting? You know who really should be ashamed of themselves? The people making these comments. What rude, hateful comments there are here! How disgusting and vulgar! And so many of them are obviously speaking from utter ignorance on the subject as they make comments such as “How is it possible to keep that many kids in clean clothes? Let alone fed?” Gee, I don’t know…maybe we should refer to the thousand times she has answered this question for an answer? “Why does she always talk in that slow irritating whispery child voice?” That’s called being calm, gentle and collected. Maybe this is new to you?
Their children get to do more things than most children. They get more one-on-one time than most children. This family isn’t on welfare, they are self sustaining. they use good business practices, financial planning, thriftiness and common sense to provide for their family. They teach their children good values, and have well behaved and well mannered children. They have close family ties. Seriously? This is what we are AGAINST? No wonder this country is in such bad shape! The author of this article should be so lucky as to be able to boast all of this, so I suppose she only attempts to defile such a positive role model to hide how poorly she handle her own life. Why else would you tear down another human being so baselessly? Utterly disgusting.
hiway280z commented on Nov 19 11 at 7:01 pmWhat I read here is real stupidity and the nasty comments even worse.
It is no bodies business how many children they have. They show love for them all and are not supporting them with tax payer money. The lady looks perfectly healthy as does the whole family. You don’t see them crying or whining about another baby. By the way a uteros can not talk.
I wish them well and wish for them a happy healthy baby.
For those who had such nasty remarks, worry about the parents who kill or mistreat their babies. Some people can be so mean any more. Shame on you.
TED409 commented on Nov 19 11 at 7:06 pmthe doctor told them to quit having kids 1 or 2 kids ago
i figure someday im gonna read that some part of her ruptured and shes either dead or in critical condition
all the while jim bob just keeps on smilin
i watched em when they all built that big house they live in it was unbleievable how those kids were just like worker bees
msmueller commented on Nov 19 11 at 7:40 pmI have to say, while I do not understand the need or desire to continually be having children, or why people like the Duggars are celebrated for the “accomplishment” of having many children and appearing to be financially and emotionally stable, I am pro-choice. I am assuming that Michelle truly does want all of these children so I hope the best for her and that this child (and, let’s be real), any future children are born without any complications for them.
Mandie commented on Nov 19 11 at 9:16 pmMichelle has had 17 pregnancies (prior to this one). She has had 15 healthy pregnancies, 9 before 35 and 6 after. Her second pregnancy with the twins resulted in pre e, and also her 17th (Josie). That’s 14 HEALTHY pregnancies in between! And the pre e with Josie was brought on by her gall bladder, which she has had REMOVED. She looks AMAZING! Her kids are gorgeous and are more worried about the world around them than they are consumed with themselves! The 2 older girls DO work outside of the house, FYI, as emergency medical responders!
Mandie commented on Nov 19 11 at 9:21 pmOh, and also, those with the arrogant comments, those comments say more about who YOU are than who the Duggar’s are ;) I can’t believe that this is on a PARENTING SITE! Send your blog to Planned Parenthood! They don’t like kids there either!
Mandie commented on Nov 19 11 at 9:53 pmThe time the blogger spent on the mockery would have been better spent on her own family. At least what Michelle writes is usefull for parents! Some people have too much wastfull time on their hands!
vicki commented on Nov 19 11 at 10:41 pmThese people have a problem. Michelle is risking her life and the life of a child. she has had at least 4 c-sections. That alone weakens the uterus. And she is 45, has had high blood pressure and pre-eclampsia on at least two pregnancies. Think of the uterus as a balloon; hers has been blown up 18 times and then the air let out. Think how a balloon looks after that many inflations and deflations. That is how her uterus is..weak and “saggy”. If she makes it to 7 months I’ll really be surprised. She is a grandmother for God’s sake…she needs to give it a rest; let the young ones have the babies.
Lisa commented on Nov 19 11 at 11:25 pmOkay, you know, some of the posters on here really need to lighten up! It’s supposed to be humorous. But if you want to get down to the bare facts about the Duggars and their assembly line of children,here goes. To keep giving birth to baby after baby, especially when the last pregnancy almost ended in death, when there are so many wonderful children needing a safe and loving home, is sheer stupidity and selfishness! You want to have a bunch of kids Jim Bob and Michelle? Adopt!! My in-laws did,and raised a phenomenal man who became my husband!
designerlou commented on Nov 20 11 at 12:16 amSo well said! Love it!
I bet she has to pick her post-delivery stomach up off the floor each morning.
For the sake of her uterus, perhaps she should be done having children and donate her eggs.
Niki commented on Nov 20 11 at 12:37 amThere are not enough hours in the day for this woman to give each child the individualized time that they need. Not to mention the fact that babies are raising babies. Or exactly what other posters on here have said about the planet being overpopulated enough already and this woman is being ecologically irresponsible. Plus no where in my Bible does it say that birth-control is not allowed. I really do pray for this woman’s safety and only hope that she hasn’t passed this crazy-go-forth-and-multiply gene on to all of her 19 children. Plus what type of mother puts her children on television to be watched and gawked at like they are side-show freaks? They must not provide for their children too well because they shop at the Thrift Stores for most of their clothing… I don’t have anything against a good bargain but outfitting the whole family is somebody else’s leftover clothing because you have 19 kids doesn’t sound like good parents to me- it sounds like Religious Zealots who are on their way to making their own personalized little cult.
Sara commented on Nov 20 11 at 1:56 amThese people are NOT self-supporting; they are supported by gawkers who watch them on TV like the freak show they are. They will probably be dead before their children are grown, but it really won’t matter since the children are raising each other. If she wants to achieve some sort of goal she ought to run a marathon. At least she’d have to keep her pants on for that.
ididitonpurpose commented on Nov 20 11 at 2:12 amFor all of you supporters of the Duggards, saying that it is their business and not anyone else’s, THINK AGAIN. When all of their children have multiple children, and the children’s children have multiple children, this couple will have personally added a burden to our natural resources (ie. water, etc.). This does effect everyone and therefore is everyones business regardless of whether THEY can afford their large family, because we CANNOT afford them. They will need an entire school just for their family alone. Their television show should be CANCELLED. We should not give selfish, stupid people the spotlight, making them think what they are doing is okay. GO AWAY DUGGARDS.
EG commented on Nov 20 11 at 2:28 amI think this blog is hysterical. And some posters need to lighten up. Yes, Michele Duggar can do whatever she wants, but that doesn’t mean we can’t poke fun at it. Nor does it mean that we can’t criticize it. I’m sure she has thick skin.
Personally, I think having that many children is a tad irresponsible, especially when you have these conservatives preaching “self-sufficiency” but they gladly accepted volunteer labor from like-minded people in order to expand their house, with appliances (and other furnishings for the house) paid for by TLC. Let’s remember that this is *television* and -like all reality shows- some of it is staged. Yes, these are real people, but the the “self-sufficiency” is a bit staged, just like TLC’s other reality shows like Extreme Couponing and Long Island Medium. It’s all edited, staged, and deceiving.
Pamela Hulst commented on Nov 20 11 at 2:40 amOk I get the fact that their from the Quiverfull Religion. But 20 kids…. totally ridiculous. She should have quit @ 18 when they got their T.V. show…… but oh now more money to have more children. She’s not raising the children, nor are their CREEPY Father…. it’s the other children who are raising their siblings, not the parents. They admit that they assign children to the older ones to watch over.The children do the cooking & cleaning. They look for bargains @ Thrift Stores. She seems too Stepford wiveish & medicated to handle ALL these children. The last child was born pre-maturely & was in the hospital for months while the older children took care of one another as she cared for number 19. They get a T.V. show & their are people in America that are wondering if they can feed @ least the average 4 to 6 family size. Unbelievable in this day & age that Reality T.V. can make a star out of sheer stupidity!!!!! Once again we remind ourselves what’s went wrong with our ideals in this country. Obviously it makes GREAT REALITY T.V. Or better yet, the demise of our intelligence.
Cat Cazares commented on Nov 20 11 at 3:16 amThe WORLD needs to QUIT watching their TV show and let’s see how FAST they FALL FLAT on their asses. So many people are bitching about Michelle having kid after kid but it’s the folks who continue to watch (soon to be 20 and counting) that keep supporting this family. I’ve never watched the show and have no desire to even see the stupidity of it.
Kim commented on Nov 20 11 at 6:57 amThis was by far, the FUNNIEST thing I have read in ages!! Thanks for the laugh!
NM commented on Nov 20 11 at 11:40 amI just wanted to state, that everyone here that has left horrible, bigoted, downright hurtful comments about Michelle Duggar, YOU WILL be held accountable before God for your actions on this site! Think about what you’ve said, and how it affects that person. This is a horrible display of human bigotry! And this article is being reported for human indecency and hate speech!
EG commented on Nov 20 11 at 1:19 pm^^ Michele? is that you?
NM commented on Nov 20 11 at 1:50 pm@EG-No it’s not Michelle Duggar-its just a fan of the Duggars. I highly doubt that Michelle even knows that this article is here, since they don’t go on the internet. I just think its horrible what people are saying about this woman, that’s all. I mean no harm towards anyone comments, as everyone is entitled to their opinion, but some of these comments are just downright mean.
NM commented on Nov 20 11 at 3:58 pm@ididitonpurpose:WHO are the Duggards??????? If you’re going to post a comment, at least get the family’s name spelled correctly. There is not the Duggards!
NM commented on Nov 20 11 at 4:00 pm@Vicki-Michelle has only had TWO c-sections, NOT 4!
Mandie commented on Nov 21 11 at 1:50 amTo everyone who keeps insisting that Michelle just pops the babies out and the older girls raise them… have you ever even seen the outakes of the show where she will have a few of the little ones, 1 or 2 of them on her lap, even while she’s pregnant and how patient she is with them even when they are just being kids, making noise and being distracting? SHE has them, and SHE is an incredible mom for having the patience she does. I think what happens when a person has a lot of kids is that they begin to realize they are not the controller of everything, you learn to let go and to allow everyone to become interdependent. She seems, more than most, to have learned to let go and let God. I will guess she has, in the past, prayed for patience, because when you pray for patience God will provide an outlet to practice and display your patience. I’d say she does a great job at it! I think people are jealous of her, really, and rather than admit it, just slander her and put her down to make themselves feel better about the lack of who they are. I can ADMIT that 8lm not quite as great of a mom as Michelle, and in doing so i’ve freed up my ego and look up to her! I pride myself on being a “gentle christian mother”, but I was not raised that way, and in watching Michelle with her kids I am encouraged!
Jenn commented on Nov 22 11 at 8:55 amWhat i think is sad is that the girls in the family have NO hope for a future other then being a mom. If you go on their website all their goals say they want to be “moms” when they grow up..They have no aspirations to go to college or university, they have no life outside of their piece of land. And whoever said they work as Emergency Medical technicians or whatever…No they don’t, they are Volunteer Firefighters…BIG DIFFERENCE. Also, i think it is sad that the children have to wear secondhand shoes, formed to someone elses foot, meanwhile dad gets to splurge on golf carts and whatever other toy he wants. Second hand clothes, sure, but children’s feet need proper support as they grow, surely they could make sacrifices somewhere for the children to at least have a new pair of shoes each year. And also i think it is disgusting how the girl are tough to “submit” to their husbands (Eg: Anna and Josh) and the whole “courtship” BS. I do not feel you can truly know a person by only going on a few “chaperoned” dates (Chaperoned by a child, no less)..Time and being alone with someone will only reveal their true colors..Although, even if one was in an abusive relationship, i can almost guarantee they would not divorce and would brush it under the rug. And everyone saying you have no right to judge, actually yes i do, when you put your family on TV and into my livingroom, then you waive your right to privacy…BTW Check out this picture of John David with guns, looks to me like he has been exposed to some popular media, this pose looks pretty “gangster” to me…Not to mention he looks like he is ready to snap…And wtf they give a gun to the exchange student:s
http://slashgossip.com/2011/01/04/dont-mess-with-john-david-duggar-an-his-indonesian-friend/Remember, reality TV is VERY deceiving and as far from “reality” as you can get..It is all about the ratings.
NM commented on Nov 22 11 at 11:17 am@Jenn-I don’t think all of your information is accurate. Jill is attending college and studying to become a nurse, and very notable career! She’s also studying Spanish. The older boys and some of the older girls are volunteer firefighters/emts. That is a career, and one that saves lives just like a nurse does. I think you need to rexamine what you just wrote about this family, because your information is off!
smart aleck commented on Nov 24 11 at 2:37 pmI LOVE this. I think the uterus should just stage a walk out.
And the image of Michelle’s uterus friending Jen Aniston’s….HYSTERICAL!
As for the comment that they are not harming anyone with their huge family? Ummm, yeah they are–they are expanding the world’s population and putting an additional stress on the world’s resources. How an additional tax past the fifth child/fifth childbirth? If you really want those extra kids, you won’t mind. And five childbirths is enough time to figure out how that whole process works.
Also, I have always wondered just who is paying for all of those childbirths. Do you really think Jim Bob is paying for insurance for 20 people (the oldest one is married and gone, so that leaves 18 kids and Jim and Michelle)?
If you put your personal life on TV, you are opening yourself up to judgments.
I mean, Jon and Kate have 8 kids, but that was two childbirths. Jim and Michelle have always bragged they don’t have a tv in the bedroom…someone go buy them one tomorrow when they’re on sale!!!
Jessica Holden commented on Nov 24 11 at 7:11 pmTo the people who are complaining about the world being overpopulated, I have a great idea! YOU LEAVE THE PLANET FIRST!!
As far as Duggar goes, I think she is a little nuts, but it’s none of my business. If she can pay for them and give them equal love, then she should have as many as she likes.
Yeah Right commented on Nov 26 11 at 7:25 pmInstead of worry about packing underwear and socks for a trip, Jim Bob should pack some condoms. Now their doing a tug of war in Scotland. Jim Bob says, “we’re going to pull for the underdog”. Hey Jim Bob, why don’t YOU just pull out.
Chris B commented on Nov 28 11 at 7:03 pmFor everybody that wants to ” defend her choice” and say its nobody welfare business…ok, that could be true…if they weren’t on a tv show and the cover of every friggin magazine in the check out line….if this was their own personal conviction, and they just lived their lives without putting ask their business out their for the world…then ok…..but it was they who decided to open this up to the public, therefore to the publics opinion….if this was really just about” them”, the world would have no clue who the Duggars were, much less how many children they have. Just saying….
Sylveey commented on Nov 30 11 at 3:09 amBe encouraged Stefanie, you know what they say, opinions are like … everybody’s got one. As for those who lack a sense of humor, get over yourselves. All this holier than thou rhetoric being bandied about when in a Witches Cupboard is found lies and contemptuous behavior. Some people are Duggar junkies and have nothing more to do than “find” someone or something to be bitter about, while casting their own reflection off on others. I read, not long ago that a certain individual made comments because of being in an “ill mood.” Drama queens are infamous for liberal fibbing and gratuitous insults. They also never take responsibility for their temper tantrums which exposes their utter lack of maturity. That diaper has gone over to the dark side.
Cindy B commented on Dec 01 11 at 2:04 pmThe more babies she has, the longer their reality show stays on. Job security!!!!!!!!
Really commented on Dec 01 11 at 8:06 pmThis was fabulous! People write about Octo-mom being insane because she’s a single woman with 10 children and no job. The folks who question Michelle Duggar’s sanity are correct… is she addicted to having babies? Does she need this for her identity? Has she ever not been pregnant for longer than a couple of years? But, because she is married and a church goer, some how it’s all sane?
Really?
forreal commented on Dec 01 11 at 10:41 pmThis woman has a mental health issue. To those who say as long as she isn’t costing us money. What about the 19 un-functioning members of society she is raising (oh my bad she’s only raising some of them her daughters are raising the rest). What about her grown children who are forced to live at home because they haven’t had marriages arraigned for them and have no ability to work in the real world because their education consists of bible versus and how to change diapers while raising their siblings because mom and dad are too busy going at it like rabbits. Will this finally be the one that kills this crazy woman? We can only hope.
Mary commented on Dec 01 11 at 10:54 pmHow can you call them self-supporting when public funds pay for her deliveries and the ghastly expensive care Josie needed/needs??
I fully expect to hear it on the news the day their pastor gets up in church and says there’s no money for the church’s new roof, cause the Duggars need another all-expense paid trip somewhere, for them and their cameramen……..
Torchsnuffer commented on Dec 02 11 at 6:46 pmYou used the word ‘uteri’, then in the very next sentence used ‘uteruses’
inconsistent much?
Angie commented on Dec 02 11 at 7:53 pm“Sorry, Michelle, I think Jinger with a J is cheating.” LOL! Very entertaining reading :)
Mary in PA commented on Dec 04 11 at 3:42 pmWell, after this reading “letter” about her uterus retiring, I really laughed at how funny it was written. Not being up on the latest in “People”, I was unaware of this couple and their family. I read about 50 comments of readers and no one had made this comment. Irregardless of my personal feelings, this couple is actually very selfish, each in their own way. He just won’t stop and is willing to have the mother of this herd die of a ruptured uterus giving birth! She thinks she is capable of raising this amount of children when she is playing-roulette with Down’s Syndrome odds.
As a RN, a knowledgeable and intelligent mother of two children ( that went into premature ovarian failure/menopause at 32 yrs.) but not by choice, I can say that the word SELFISH sums it up! Certainly, older siblings will help out as they are growing up in the family but eventually they move out and get a life of their own (unless brainwashed to remain on the compound). The siblings learn to get along, and I’m sure that many “at home” learning activities are done and practiced which helps keep finances in check (ie:sewing clothes and then passing them down, cooking in large quantities is cheaper and certainly buying in bulk is, too! , wood working for furniture, numerous bunkbeds and desks, remaking numerous beds for the couple to then break again, etc.) But there does come a time when certain children will suffer and go unnoticed (just watch “The Sound of Music” and there were less than 1/3 of this tribe) which is a shame. There will be mounting psych bills, dental bills, medical bills for the future of the preemie baby (as well as eye doctor visits because of all the oxygen therapy it had, it may eventually need severe corrective lenses or show show signs of blindness) as well as the inevitable next child having some type of chomosomal abnormality given the age of the mother. I can’t stress enough though, that they will have more than just one delivery doctor in the delivery room. The odds of her rupturing that uterus is about 1:1 with her hemorrhaging to death if preparation is not set up prior to labor happening. I wouldn’t be surprised if they didn’t do a c-section about a month early on this one just so not to risk this happening! But if she dies during childbirth, his selfishness might be too much to bear, I mean it’s obvious he can’t stand being away/outside of her for long, how would he survive without her? If he decided not to, that would be the ultimate selfishness, and would leave the children alone to deal with themselves…which is pretty much what they have been doing and will continue to do until they each reach the age of 18 and leave the nest, ranch, farm, compound or wherever they live.
Barbara commented on Dec 07 11 at 7:37 amI feel sorry for the other children. As soon as one is born it is the responsibility of the older ones to take care of it. There seems like there is no closeness with any of the children from the parents The children do the cleaning, cooking, washing, etc. so that is why the Duggers have time for sex. But what about the last one? Josie. She is 2 years old, not walking, not talking and has signs of retardation.
So many problems with her. Shouldn’t that be a sign to quit? All the other children do not have a normal childhood and probably could not function in society with home schooling, strict rules, protected all the time. Too protected.
But with the money from the shows, I guess they can live alone comfortably the rest of their lives. And it’s starting with the oldest that got married.
nolapearl commented on Dec 07 11 at 11:34 amIf they love kids so much, why don’t they just adopt some at this point? I think they have put a burden on their own kids (who never asked to raise younger siblings). Having a big family is great, but for heaven’s sake, adopt some kids who have no family.
jerry knoles commented on Dec 08 11 at 11:29 amVAGINA: It’s NOT a clown car.
Andrea Valverde commented on Dec 08 11 at 6:31 pmI think anyone who is on here talking crap or standing in judgement of the fact this woman just suffered a miscarriage needs to take a step back and look at what kind of person they are to be doing that. These people are self sufficient and support and love all their kids! She is doing with her body and UTERUS what God designed it to do, and if her kids were unhappy the ones who turned 18 would have left not stayed at home and continued to want to raise their family their the same way. They have something a lot of families today don’t… love and support for each other. Try getting off your high horse, stop mocking and standing in judgment as if you are better than them and be a decent human being and try being supportive. Golden rule: You can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all, isn’t that what we teach our kids… so try leading by example and stop harassing these people because they have done nothing to you… have they? They sure as heck don’t take any government assistance from our tax dollars… so what is it exactly that is causing everyone to turn on them and attack them? Just the fact you don’t like the way they live, or agree with their lifestyle? May as well have made your article about hating gays, abortion, or any other lifestyle choice people tend to not life in large groups. Unless it effects you, MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS, ONLY GOD HAS THE RIGHT TO JUDGE!!!
Verna W. commented on Dec 08 11 at 10:54 pmHummm, I see that just below your “ADD A COMMENT” Button it says “Note: Babble is a supportive, diverse community. We encourage a range of opinions,
but any unduly hostile comments will be removed.”. Well then maybe Ms.Stefanie Wilder Taylor, you should remove this entire blog post. Even though it is a post and not a comment it is not supportive of the Duggars or anyone else. By posting such rude, hateful things it has encouraged a lynch mob type of reaction from some very rude and mean people. Is this really how you want your readers to view you? As a wretched witch who could possible have issues of her own, that cause you to be so insecure that you feel the need to lash out on someone that you don’t even know? ………………..I don’t care if it is their 1st child or their 45th child, It is their child just the same. all children that are lost are missed and it hurts just the same no matter how many you have!
………………. Think before you hit a “post or submit button” Thank you!
sue commented on Dec 09 11 at 10:08 amI myself am glad someone came out and said something, even as silly as it sounds. 20 kid’s is just totally wrong. I have no clue what she’s thinking but it’s definatly the wrong way to think. Does she not realize she’s only hurting her own body, like really is she trying to kill herself so that these 20 kids can live without a mother. Clearly she’s way past the having baby stage safely. Also she can care for them with baby bonus omg just imagine how much she would be getting for them kids. Also being on tv i bet she gets tons of money just from that. Poor kid’s… i don’t seehow she can spend quality time with every one of them. the olders seem to know that they need to take care of them youngers which is not fair as they have a life of there own. What a selfish lady she can be.
SP commented on Dec 09 11 at 12:33 pmWow. This really tops my list of the most insensitive things ever written. Mrs. Duggar just lost a child. Seriously, please look deeper inside yourself. I don’t believe any human being on this blog (both author and commenters) are truly as insensitive and callous as their off-hand comments.
Laura commented on Dec 09 11 at 12:57 pmI am about as far from right wing as you can get, and have serious issues with just about every aspect of the Duggars’ lives, but this article and many of the comments below it are just disgusting and mean-spirited. As a general rule of thumb, start with “it’s rude to make comments about other people’s bodies” and go from there. You are not going to change any minds with this kind of thing and will just give right-wingers more ammunition for their narrative of persecution.
Laura commented on Dec 09 11 at 1:01 pmI now see that this is actually in response to her having a miscarriage. You should be utterly, utterly ashamed of yourselves, not only for the pain you have caused her if she reads this but the pain you have caused many, many other parents who have lost children. I have no words for how much you disgust me.
Catherine Connors commented on Dec 09 11 at 3:31 pmLaura,
This post was absolutely not written in response to Michelle Duggar having a miscarriage – it was written over a month ago. We feel terribly for her, as does Stefanie, who actually offered to remove the post. We told her that she didn’t have to do that, seeing as the post – again, written weeks ago – was meant to be a humorous statement of her view on the phenomenon of women having extreme numbers of children (and in this case specifically, a public figure whose celebrity is based on having extreme numbers of children), and remains worthy as a topic of community discussion.
Catherine Connors,
Director of Community
Colleen commented on Dec 10 11 at 12:06 amDear Catherine Connors,
You should be ashamed of yourself for keeping this up here. It looks poorly on your site and on yourself. Especially for being a site FOR mothers- to have a write post something so mean and hateful against a mother- your specific audience. You need to learn some character and better judgment. I will no longer be a part of your following. Every child is a miracle, your authors have NO place to judge or mock that. Shame on you.
Laura commented on Dec 10 11 at 12:42 amIn that case my disgust shifts slightly towards the fact that you have opted to keep this and the hateful comments about her various bodily parts up here. And on a site that elsewhere purports to support women coming to terms with how their bodies have changed with pregnancy. Knowing she has just lost her pregnancy. Knowing that women all over the internet who have lost pregnancies are getting triggered by this. Knowing that so many of them are blaming themselves for being too old, too whatever.
Read what your own site says: Note: Babble is a supportive, diverse community. We encourage a range of opinions,
but any unduly hostile comments will be removed.
Laura commented on Dec 10 11 at 12:42 amAnd obviously to publish it at all in the first place.
Laura commented on Dec 10 11 at 1:10 amPlus, honestly, it looks pretty silly that you didn’t pause to consider the possibility of your words coming true. You seriously didn’t think it was at all likely there might be a problem with this pregnancy? You just thought it was a good laugh to say things like “I simply don’t think I can do this again.” Well, duh.
And I notice you got in a jab at Jennifer Aniston too, and, by extension, a nice proportion of childless women struggling with infertility who may be feeling a little sensitive. Really amusing. Really classy work there. Well done.
And this is not a discussion of “the phenomenon” at all. There are plenty of other discussions about that online, where it is perfectly possible to respectfully, even very directly and bluntly (this can still remain within the bounds of respectful) disagree with the Duggars’ choices. This article uses inflammatory, insulting language and images (“Seriously, have you seen me lately? Take a close look at your next ultrasound. I’m not smiling. If the damn picture wasn’t in shades of gray you’d see that I’ve completely lost my girlish pink hue. I look like a shrunken apple head. I’m old, Michelle, way past uterus retirement age.”) I’m reading one right now where the tone has never crossed the several lines that this one has – yet every single person on it disagrees strongly with just about everything we know the Duggars to have ever done.
Kelli Acton commented on Dec 10 11 at 2:04 amI cannot believe that Babble would allow this kind of post! What is wrong with you, Ms Taylor? Do you have nothing better to blog about then another womans uterus? Not only are you sick but so is this web site for allowing you and your co workers to blog such horrible things and leave them up after this woman lost her baby! I read the TOS. You violate several of the rules. I will certainly be spreading the word about a boycott for this web site!
Casey commented on Dec 10 11 at 9:59 amUsually im a person that leaves her opinions to herself, but i just wanted to say that i believe the Duggar family is a great example of what a family should be. They are the only Godly family on tv and should not be judged the way all you guys are doing so. Unlike, Disney Channel shows, and other stupid reality tv shows, this one actually displays a real family. Who is to say that it is all up to the Duggars how many kids they have. I believe God has control over life (and even on birth control God can give someone a child). And the fact that some said it was not responsable to have this many children, If God can provide for one child, then God can provide for 20. God is all powerful and He knows what our bodies can make (since He made them). The Duggar family show is one of the only wholesome shows on tv that i would ever let my children watch (besides like “bubble guppys for somthing). It’s the only show that actually shares good morals and talks about God. I believe it takes great faith and trust in God to have a child, to know that somehow (even if each child cant have a plasma 32inch flat screen in their rooms, a smart phone, and a car of their own) God will provide for the family. with that said, i believe the Duggars have great faith and the rest of the world should model their families after the Duggars. In Bible times, women had 20 kids all the time. Now, im not saying that every family should have 20 kids, but since the Duggars are Christian and follow Jesus Christ, i believe it is awesome they have so many kids because they are sharing Christ with all those kids, who in turn with share with others. So, instead of bashing them and saying they are having to many kids, we should pray for them.
Samantha commented on Dec 10 11 at 11:18 amHilarious article! All you naysayers need to take a pill. This was written before the miscarriage. Seriously though, Michelle needs to give it a break. She’s risking the babies. One almost die and one did. I don’t think at THIS point we can call these miscarriages (accidents), can we?
Are these accidents? Isn’t she going against nature and purposefully procreating as frequently as lower forms of life, like rabbits? Take ANY family out of this abnormal 21st century reality-for-profit show businees, and put them in a regular life and no one could pull this off. The Mother would be busy doing what nature intended – mothering! Taking care of existing children! She would be too busy doing that to think up ways to get pregnant!
Samantha commented on Dec 10 11 at 11:28 amAnd btw, for all the church women on here offended by the uterus remarks, or faux outrage for Jennifer Aniston,….a big razzie for you. I don’t buy it. I don’t have children like Jen either, because my uterus and ovaries revolted and they had to take out the parts. It was either that or die. (I choose life, thank you). But I’m not all offended by the article. It’s funny, and true. In a couple months it will STILL be true because Michelle is a trooper, she’s in this to win the most exhausted uterus award. She’ll be pregnant again, soon enough. The finish line is menopause.
Meredith commented on Dec 10 11 at 1:31 pmThis post is in such poor taste that I am near tears. Here are words that counter the tone of this post and echo how I feel: http://www.millionsofmiles.com/2011/12/raising-human-beings-and-life-lessons.html
In the meantime, I am finished with Babble. I love, love, love some of your bloggers and have been a huge fan, but Ms. Conner’s response is so insensitive that I can’t let myself support it.
Meredith commented on Dec 10 11 at 1:57 pmBabble has to decide if it is a site that supports making fun of others (AKA: bullying) or not. Based on some of Babble’s bloggers and their posts (especially one of Ms. Conner’s recent posts), I assumed that bullying wasn’t supported by Babble. I see that I was wrong.
Dorothy commented on Dec 10 11 at 3:15 pmOkay, so this article was written before Michelle Duggar’s miscarriage. Then, would it have been nice if, out of respect and simple common decency, that this article had not been published!
Meredith commented on Dec 10 11 at 3:56 pmThank you, Stefanie! I think you made an excellent decision and I respect you for being able to admit how the post comes across after the miscarriage. Good on you. I’ve been a fan of yours for YEARS (since I bought your first book) and I love your humor. Very relieved that you removed this post. Thank you.
Laura commented on Dec 10 11 at 6:05 pmSeriously? You’re actually removing my posts? Not one, which I thought was perhaps just a computer glitch, but two?
Sara @ YourThrivingFamily commented on Dec 10 11 at 8:58 pmI am really glad you took this down AND that it was written before hand. I found this link on the Huff Post and was appalled! I am SO glad I clicked over to find it was not in response to the miscarriage
Catherine Connors commented on Dec 11 11 at 9:32 amLaura, Meredith and others,
As I noted above, this post was not a response to miscarriage, it was a response to the phenomenon of extreme pregnancy (again, a phenomenon that the Duggars have made their celebrity on; they not only make public, but profit from the attention to their reproductive and childrearing choices, so public discussion of these choices is not, we believe, inappropriate.) And as I also noted above, Stefanie offered to take it down, and we told her that she needn’t feel obligated to do so. We support our writers’ freedom around their own content, so it was entirely up to Stefanie.
Stefanie did however, in the end, decide to remove the post, and we support that choice.
And so far as I know, no comments have been removed – as you can see, there are plenty of dissenting and even antagonistic opinions in this thread. It may be that any comments are stuck in the moderation folder. That said, we support our writers removing any comments that they believe are hostile or off-topic, so if Stefanie made that call on any comments, please understand that she is entitled to do so.
Catherine,
Director of Community










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